Shadowing Practice: Loving God will change your life - Learn English Speaking with Video

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I'm full term pregnant.
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My baby can come any day right now.
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So I'm very excited.
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I'm gonna let it all happen naturally and wait for my baby's time. So...
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yeah everything's really good on that front.
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I wanted to make this video
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because over the weekend I had met one of my male subscribers
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and we had a very interesting conversation because he came up to me, he said he loves my videos and he did say, he's like Liz I don't want to offend you but I want to ask you something and he said
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I come from an abusive childhood.
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Because of my childhood, that made me really resent God and resent religion.
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And he said, "When I hear you talk about God in your videos, I get a little envious because why do you still believe in God?
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I don't understand how you can still have faith."
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people that feel the same way as I do.
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So that's why I'm making this video.
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So if you see this, this is for you.
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The first thing that changed my relationship with God is I stopped seeing God through the eyes of fear.
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And I started seeing God through the eyes of love.
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My dad taught me to fear God and he used that as a tactic to scare me and to keep me controlled.
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He was always reinforcing that whatever I do I will go to hell and constantly only talking about hell.
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I never felt free because of that.
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I felt like I was in a prison.
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And one day I just started to decide to start loving God.
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And genuinely thinking of God as my best friend, instead of someone that wants to send me to hell for eternity.
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So then I started viewing God as if He just loves me.
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What if hell is a state of mind?
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What if heaven is a state of mind?
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You know, when God says like in religion, for example, you have to pray or come to me and you'll go to heaven.
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Right now I know that if I pray and if I ask God for things, I will get it and my life will feel like heaven.
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My life will feel magical.
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So my state of mind, I am living in heaven and in paradise already.
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Way with different people that indulge in addictions.
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I think imagine you have your vessel, right?
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This is your body.
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And this is your house for your soul to live in.
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And imagine you're indulging in all these different things and you're putting all these substances inside of your body constantly.
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this will not be a nice place for your soul to be in
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so your soul will not want to be in your body
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and what happens then is you can attract a lot of different entities that can
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be around you because your soul is not comfortable and you're not treating your body with respect
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or love you should treat your body as if someone that you love
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so you should be really like do i want to put this inside of me
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or am i trying to run something you know
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Addictions are so
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interesting to me because I've been around a lot of people
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that have a lot of addictions and I've always tried to help them but
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never really worked because I feel like an addiction you have to break yourself.
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No one can really help them.
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when you see the people
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indulge in that it's so sad to see people you love completely wither away
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because of the addiction if you view what god is saying like don't do this
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or whatever i think if you view that with love And like, oh, you know, God cares about me.
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and that's why I shouldn't do these things, not because I'm gonna go to hell.
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Then you already create such a more beautiful life for yourself
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and you start viewing God as someone that wants the best for you, that is looking out for you.
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Also think that knowing that God loves you, God is always there with you, gives you a stronger sense of self -worth.
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And I really struggled growing up a lot with my self -worth.
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I literally had none, confidence, none, nothing.
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I actually had to go to therapy to really work on my confidence, work on my self -worth and work on settling boundaries with people
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because I always felt like I always feel bad for people
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and because of that I was people pleasing too much and believe me if you are an empath
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and you have too much empathy for people, people will play with you.
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They just think you're stupid.
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Truly.
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In my life, I've seen it.
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People could literally pull me around their finger like this.
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I would believe anyone.
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I was super naive.
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So I was always put into situations in life where I was shown
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that I couldn't trust too many people or I was getting betrayed
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because I really believed that I needed to learn that Not everyone has good intentions.
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I can't allow everyone around me.
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And at the same time, I also needed to learn to have more boundaries with people
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that I shouldn't want to go and help someone or save someone.
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You know, I saw this quote and it said, um, someone that is always trying to save someone is someone that.
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would have wanted someone to save them.
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And that really applies for me.
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I think that I love taking care of people
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because I wish someone had taken care of me and that like somehow heals me in a way.
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But when it's to an extent that I neglect myself or I neglect my own needs, I always see my life going downhill because of it.
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and it's not a good thing what i'm doing not to
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I believe also that as souls we have free will, So if you don't ask God for help with any situation that you're dealing with,
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or you don't ask God to come and figure this out for you
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or keep people that are not meant to be with you out of your life, then I don't think God can interfere.
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because you have your free will.
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We constantly blame God when something bad happens, but we should blame ourselves.
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or we try to blame the devil, but I think a lot of us are the devil ourselves.
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So, It's about taking accountability in your life and looking at, okay, if I do this right now, and if I allow this person into my life,
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or if I go and I do this job that I hate so much, then...
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Why am I complaining to God?
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Because did you ask God for help?
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Did you ask him like, Hey, can you help me get another job?
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Can you please help me have the strength to not let this person back into my life?
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Can you please give people into my life that are for my highest good?
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Have you asked that?
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Have you reached out to God?
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If you haven't, then how do you expect God to help you?
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Constantly live in fear.
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You keep attracting things to fear.
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If you live in love, you attract more things to love.
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You live in abundance.
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A lot of people are so scared of everything.
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They're scared of attracting more money because they think that that is evil because some religions tell you it's evil.
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They're all control tactics.
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All control tactics.
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So you won't live a good life and they're not from God.
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God does not want you to suffer.
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God does not want you to come to earth, have a bad life and then die and suffer more.
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Like that's not the point of life.
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That's not the point of this earth.
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Faith makes anything possible.
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I really believe the energy that you pour into something.
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And when you really, really believe like this is going to help me.
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Or if I do this prayer, if I say this prayer, this is really going to help me, that is going to happen.
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Because faith is such a strong attractor.
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It's something that really, really puts those things into your life.
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Like I believe when I'm praying and I ask God, Hey God, like, thank you so much for everything you've done.
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I put so much gratitude from my heart into my prayer first.
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And then I say, can you please help me with this?
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Like before when I used to have no money, I literally used to ask to pay a fine and then the specific amount.
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And I swear in miraculous ways that money would come to me.
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It's really because I had faith.
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I really believed that God was going to help me.
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I really believe that God wants the best for me, that I'm being protected.
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I go through life believing these things and my life looks like that.
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Now, if you don't have real faith, but then you claim to have faith, for example, you pray, but what did you even pray?
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you go on your prayer mat and you just pray
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because you just need to pray to get over it and to say that you prayed.
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Pray because you want to talk to God
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Pray because you want to talk to your best friend out of love and check in on them.
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And ask for things that you need help with because God wants to help you.
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And when you have faith that way, when you put out that prayer, it's gonna work no matter what, it will happen.
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I really believe that whatever you believe in, even if you don't believe in God, if you believe in the universe, whatever, if you think that the universe is going to give me this and that,
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it's going to happen because you're putting so much of your energy and faith into that.
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so much energy towards that.
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and that keeps attracting into our life because we believe those things we believe
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that we're cursed or or the devil is on to me
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and this and that and then you will find so much more reason to confirm that belief
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Start believing that the world is working for you, not against you.
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The same way that God is working for you, he's not working against you.
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You know, it's oftentimes when we lose something, we start being really angry and we say like, oh God, why did you make me lose that?
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Why did you do this?
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And I just view it as, wow.
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God really wanted to protect me because he loves me
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and he showed me who this person is out of love and now I am protected.
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Thank you God.
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Opportunity and I don't get that opportunity.
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I'd say okay then it wasn't for me and whatever is for me I will attract.
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Whatever isn't will never be mine.
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You know, there's so much peace in that.
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There's so much peace in knowing that whatever happens in life, it's meant to happen this way.
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And what is for you will never leave you ever, ever, ever.
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You guys are all crying about this job left me, this ex left me, this opportunity slipped me by.
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But it wasn't for you.
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And if it was, it would be with you right now.
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No one can ever take your blessings ever.
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Whatever God has meant for you in this lifetime, you will receive.
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I promise you that.
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but you have to be open to receive it and not because something has left your life.
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Now you close your hearts completely up and you sit there and you think like, I don't want anything anymore because I didn't get what I planned for myself.
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But have you ever thought that maybe God had a bigger plan for you
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and what you actually had was settling and that God has something
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so big for you that you cannot even see for yourself?
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Like, oh, my God, guys, if I had gotten the things that I had planned for myself, I would live a life like this.
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But God's plan for me is like this.
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So constantly when right now, like I have roadblocks or I don't get what I want, or it doesn't happen in the way that I expected it.
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I really trust that God has a bigger plan and I give All my faith to God.
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And I'm like, okay, you show me that because clearly like I'm being redirected.
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It's never a rejection.
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I can never be rejected from anything that was meant for me in the first place.
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anything forced is not from God.
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So God is flow.
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Look at nature.
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Nature flows.
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It changes seasons.
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It goes very easy.
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All these things.
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That's how God is.
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When you have to force a relationship to work, when you have to force that job to appreciate you, for you to feel good there, it's not from God.
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You're forcing it.
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It's not supposed to be like that.
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Life is not meant to be constant struggles and this is hard and that is hard.
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That's not how it's meant to be.
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That's how we're brought up to believe that it's meant to be.
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But the people that actually know how life is supposed to be, they don't believe in that and they don't act that way.
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They want you to believe that so you struggle your whole life, but I want you to stop believing that
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and I want you to start believing life is meant to
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flow your life you you're meant to attract a lot of abundance.
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You're meant to have an easygoing stable life and you're meant to be supported by God.
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You're meant to be loved.
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You have to force people to love you.
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If you have to force that job to appreciate you, then why don't you look at it and say, hey, Why am I forcing this?
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If it was meant for me, it would have been there.
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Like I am such a person where if someone does me wrong, if I lose a friend, if I lose a relationship,
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I'm like so okay with that because I don't believe that I am set up to fail in life.
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I don't believe that life is working against me.
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So I'm very happy with any outcome that I have.
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So when I think like, okay, this person didn't appreciate me enough or whatever,
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you're free to leave because you're a holding on to someone that couldn't appreciate me.
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You have to appreciate yourself.
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First, you have to have love for yourself within.
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And then when someone cannot show you the same amount of love you have for yourself, you don't even want them in your life.
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You will not even want to beg for them or anything.
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You just say, okay, you're free to go there and be like, oh, you're gonna have to love me.
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Oh, you're gonna have to be like this.
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They're never going to do that.
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And the more desperate you are for it, the more it will run.
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So just have accepted say, okay, whatever.
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If this was for me, it was going to flow.
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It was going to not be easy, but it's also not supposed to be hard.
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So hard that you're going to beg for it.
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Don't block yourself off because something bad happened.
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Just because that one that you think is bad happened doesn't mean
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that you should resent all the other things that want to come in
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because imagine right now you close yourself off because
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that one thing happened but here you have like 10 other opportunities 10 other people
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that want to come into your life want to give you love
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Don't reject those other things just because that one thing you didn't get.
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You don't understand God's plan and then just surrender.
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Stop fighting life.
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Stop forcing life.
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Stop constantly like giving so much, putting so much energy into things that don't feed you back.
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The more you pour into empty things, the more you pour into empty people, the more they will drain you and the less energy you will have to attract different things.
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You need to be whole by yourself.
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You need to have your energy around yourself in order to attract more beautiful things into your life.
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I saw this quote from Nietzsche and it said: "To live is to suffer,
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and to survive is to find meaning in the suffering." So whatever happens to you, you look at it and you look at what is the meaning of this?
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What is God teaching me here?
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Like even with me, the two serious relationships I had, they both ended the same way.
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It was a repeating cycle.
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Why?
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Because I have always went into relationships because of survival.
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Never because I felt safe enough to go into it like just because of love, because I've never felt stable enough by myself.
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I always thought, oh, I need someone next to me so I can survive or so I can have a plan B.
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mode.
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But I'm not looking at all the abundance that I have by myself, all of the things that God has blessed me with.
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I don't need to survive anymore.
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I can live now.
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And I should give myself the grace to live.
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I'm not my childhood self anymore.
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I'm a grown woman now.
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I've established myself.
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I've done things for myself.
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So I need to recognize that.
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And I need to understand that if I still go into relationships with a survival mindset, I'll keep attracting the same situations.
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And I think that is what God is showing me.
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Also like when you have a purpose in life and you need to do that purpose
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nothing else you will try will work.
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So no job that you will try like regular job, all these things, they won't hire you.
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Because if you have a true talent
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that you're meant to share with the world
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or you have something inside of you that you need to share with the world, God will not give you peace in anything else but that purpose.
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God will not give you peace in any relationship if that is not meant for you.
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You will try to work on it.
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You will try to do this.
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You will try to do counseling.
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Nothing will work.
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It will only get worse and worse because you're not meant to be there.
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You learn that lesson is the minute you will get your blessings.
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You know how many people I know that.
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were constantly like, "Oh, I was holding on to this relationship, I was holding on to this person so much" and then all of a sudden they were like, even after years, they were like,
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"I finally let it go" a week later, they meet literally like their dream person and they were literally like, "a week later I just met them" yeah,
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of course, because right now your energy was not occupied with someone else when you're constantly involving yourself with your toxic ex, with your toxic friendships, whatever,
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your energy is occupied with them No one else is going to approach you.
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But then when you finally release yourself, you call your power back.
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You cut those courts with those people.
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You become whole again by yourself.
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And now you're attracting more people because you are attractive.
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Your energy is around you.
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That's how you are attractive.
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To understand is that God is abundant.
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So this world is abundant.
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This world is filled with everything we need and more.
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To deny yourself of abundance is to deny the existence of God.
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Truly, you're not meant to suffer.
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God never said that, you know, he never said to people to suffer like those are the people in power that want you to accomplish nothing.
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They want you to stay poor and in a poor mindset so that they can have all the money and you can't.
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And a lot of people don't speak about this because they don't want to awaken the masses.
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But it's sad to see.
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It's so sad to see, you know, God is abundant.
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So don't be afraid to ask for anything.
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God is not on a budget.
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You are.
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Okay.
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If you want to ask, like, I want to be a millionaire.
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Yeah.
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Ask that.
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What is wrong with that?
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You know?
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You can do so much good with that money.
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You can, you can give to people, you can even help your family.
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You can help more people.
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You can do all of that.
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but don't be afraid to ask ask god for anything you need especially children that
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don't come from financially stable parents or they don't come from parents
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that supported them you will see god will support you a lot God is your parent.
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Ask.
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Ask as if you would ask a parent.
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Don't be ashamed.
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The other thing is you wouldn't be going through it if you couldn't handle it.
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Something is happening in your life right now that is so tough and you think like I can't handle this.
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This is too much
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No, it's not it's not stop telling yourself
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that look i know it's not nice
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and life is not meant to be easy and just butterflies
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and whatever because you would never learn anything from that okay we learn through our hardships
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we learn through our success but i have learned way more to my hardships than i've learned from my success So,
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look at that situation and say wow okay so God thought I was strong enough to handle this and I can.
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Like right now what happened with my pregnancy and having all of a sudden to figure everything out on my own again.
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I went from this life and then my life got turned upside down and then now I'm pregnant as well,
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which is my biggest blessing i'm so grateful thank you god to be pregnant to be able to have a child
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I'm so grateful for my child.
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The thing was like I went from having all of what I've planned, my family and everything, to all of a sudden now I have a child on the way and where do I live?
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What am I going to do?
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I literally had to put all my faith in God and I just felt protected and I just felt like,
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anything I do will come in the highest way and at the best timing.
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And it did like I got a house, I got a car, I got the nursery set up.
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I bought everything for the child.
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Like I literally set up everything.
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And then right now only I'm like, finally you know it's so beautiful
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because it's in divine timing it's in the perfect time
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because right now full term my baby is about to be here
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and i figured everything out right before that
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so i'm really really proud of myself and i know that with the help of god like
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my life just keeps improving and improving
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and even you know money -wise like i make all my money by myself and
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I was like a little bit scared I thought like oh my god what am I gonna do now what
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if my career is now ruined because I posted this online and all these things
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But then I started getting so much more opportunities.
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I started getting new brand deals.
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And I was like, wow, like God is really looking out for me.
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I don't believe that things happen because they want to destroy you.
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And sometimes they do destroy you to put you back into the person that you're meant to be.
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Because right now, honestly, I'm even more confident in myself because I'm literally like I can handle anything.
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Literally, like whatever life throws at me, I keep coming back stronger.
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And I just feel so proud of myself.
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a strong woman i'm really a strong woman
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and my mom is even like my mom is the strongest woman i know honestly
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and then she's even like liz i'm so proud of you like You're not sitting there crying, you're doing whatever you need to do, and you're like bossing up every single time.
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I just keep coming back and God is showing me how strong I am because Sometimes I doubt myself, I think like, "Oh, I can't handle this." But every single time I come out on top.
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And I think you should believe that for yourself as well.
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Look at all the situations that have happened in your life.
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Didn't you come out on top every single time?
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Aren't you still here?
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Aren't you still breathing?
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Exactly.
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So literally celebrate yourself and be like, you know what, this I will handle again.
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And after that you'll be more confident, you'll be wiser, you'll understand things more on a deeper perspective you'll mature a lot.
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You know?
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God is not working against you.
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God is working for you.
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God is not done with you.
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Every single day, still breathe.
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Every single day, still wake up.
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There's another chance at life.
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No matter how hard you've fallen into rock bottom, you can still get up again and try again.
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This time, try with God.
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Try with support or try with the universe.
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I don't care.
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Whatever you believe in, believe in something.
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Have faith in something and then believe that it will work out for you.
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through something really, really terrible.
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They've always come out on top always.
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And don't think that when people hurt you, you know, I see a lot of people that, like, Oh, karma doesn't exist.
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Oh, I don't believe that they will get the karma.
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Believe me.
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I feel bad for the people that have hurt me because I feel like they're losing everything.
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and i feel bad it's almost like i don't want them to get their karma
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because it's sad to see like this you love this person you know
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and then right now you see them completely crumble even
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if you don't believe in karma it's not true it does come back to you
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because i know people that have not believed in karma and they're still their life is shit
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Really so do things from your heart don't hurt people and
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just go and literally believe in yourself believe
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that god is there right there with you anyways guys i
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hope this encouraged someone i hope this was some help
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and yeah i will see you in the next video bye bye

Context & Background

In this enlightening video, the speaker, Liz, shares her personal journey of transformation through faith. She vividly recounts a recent interaction with a subscriber who expressed feelings of resentment towards God stemming from an abusive childhood. This encounter motivated Liz to discuss the profound impact that viewing God through love rather than fear has made in her life. Her narrative is not just a reflection of her spirituality; it also serves as a foundation for understanding how our perspectives can influence our emotional well-being and interactions with others.

Top 5 Phrases for Daily Communication

  • "I stopped seeing God through the eyes of fear." - A useful phrase to express a shift in perspective.
  • "What if heaven is a state of mind?" - Encourages philosophical discussions about beliefs.
  • "You should treat your body as if someone that you love." - A compassionate reminder to care for oneself.
  • "Imagine your vessel, right? This is your body." - A creative analogy that enhances understanding of self-respect.
  • "Addictions are so interesting to me." - Expresses curiosity and invites deeper conversations about personal struggles.

Step-by-step Shadowing Guide

To improve your English speaking practice through shadowing, follow this effective guide using Liz’s video:

  1. Listen Actively: Play the video and listen to Liz as she articulates her thoughts. Pay close attention to her tone and intonation.
  2. Segment the Transcript: Break the transcript into manageable sections. Focus on one phrase or sentence at a time. This makes it easier to repeat and retain.
  3. Repeat Out Loud: Use shadow speak by mimicking Liz's pronunciation and rhythm. Aim to replicate her expressions to improve your English pronunciation.
  4. Record Yourself: After you practice, record your voice. Compare your pronunciation and delivery to Liz’s. This provides insight into areas that may need improvement.
  5. Engage in Discussion: Use the phrases learned to initiate conversations with others. This practice not only enhances your speaking skills but also builds confidence in expressing your thoughts.

By systematically applying these techniques, English learners can effectively engage with the content, deepen their understanding, and significantly improve their communication skills through shadowspeaks practice.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Conditional sentences if + clause, will/would + verb — a condition and its resultif it was, it would be
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowI've been · I've always tried · I've seen
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itwas always put · is sponsored · are not meant

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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