ฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษด้วยเทคนิค Shadowing จากวิดีโอ: LIFE GUIDE : How to Make a Friend

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Hey guys, I have a special guest here that wants to say hi to you guys.
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Her name is Kat the human.
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Look, I'm gonna say hi.
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The first tip I want to give you guys
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when it comes to making new friends is having a common interest with someone.
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There's so many people in this world and I'm pretty sure you guys walk past hundreds of people all the time.
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How do you know that you have something in common with them?
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How do you know if that person is going to be your friend?
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You don't.
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That's kind of the whole point of life is not knowing what's going to happen
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and not knowing who you're going to meet.
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But I think if you open yourself up to it
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and you are showing people that you have a certain interest that you like, there's going to be certain people who are very like-minded like yourself that's going to pick up on it.
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Don't underestimate the power of having a sense of common interest because it really does bring people together.
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It doesn't necessarily mean you have to have everything in common.
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If they're speaking to you, if they're making a comment like, oh my gosh, I love that song, oh my gosh, I love your shirt, tell them where you got it, I love your jeans too, where did you get that?
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Bam!
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Already right there, you have common interest with that person, so what do you do from there?
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You engage, and that's the next step.
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You're not going to be able to make friends if you're not the one actively engaging with them too.
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Ask them questions.
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I mean, if you're actively engaging with them, they're going to engage back with you and that's when you can really make that connection.
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And that's step number three.
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Connect with that person.
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You can add them on Instagram or Facebook and that's
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when you will know if this is someone that really wants you in their life or vice versa.
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Give them an email.
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I mean you don't really need to exchange numbers right away.
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It can just be as simple as, hey you have Instagram, can I follow you, is that cool?
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I think it's polite to show that you're asking to follow them.
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Friendship is not just one thing.
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There's different levels of friendship.
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But how do you know if this person is more than an acquaintance?
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Is when you're constantly texting them or you're chatting with them online, you're video chatting with them, you're sending them links and messages.
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If you're honestly dialoguing all the time, that's when you know that, hey, you know what?
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This person might be a cool friend.
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That's when you can go to step number four, which is exploring.
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Go out with them.
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Go try a new restaurant, go watch a new movie with them.
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That's why it's called exploring.
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It's because you're doing something new and fun with them.
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And I also feel like, you know, when you explore something with a friend, it's memories that you're creating together.
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And the final step is sharing.
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Share secrets, share an intimate moment.
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After you share something with that person, that's when you can really establish trust.
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Like, I trust you now because I shared something really important to me, and I shared it with you, you respected it, and now I can trust you.
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And once you establish trust, it's like the best feeling ever.
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Friendship is not simple.
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There's a lot of hard work, a lot of time and commitment.
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It's like a part-time job.
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You have to put your hours and you have to commit to it or else it's not really a friendship.
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It's a two-way thing.
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I'm not saying every day you need to do something with them, but I think send them a text message or an email saying, you know, I'm thinking about you, because sometimes life gets in the way.
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And when it comes to life, things will change.
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You will change.
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You're gonna constantly evolve.
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You might think, I would never do this one thing, but then you do it, and you change.
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Or I never believe in this one thing, but then you believe it.
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And that's what happens, people change.
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And when people change, friendships can change, unless you change with them.
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And so just put that in the back of your head when there's gonna be a time where you're questioning your friendship.
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And don't blame it on yourself because that's part of life.
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You're changing, things will change.
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And you can't get mad at that
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because you have to kind of just go with it and accept it and move on.
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You know, enjoy the fun moments you had together.
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Don't dwell on the past.
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And also, don't beat yourself up if you don't have five million friends.
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That's not the point.
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It's about quality, not quantity.
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I'd rather have one amazing best friend than a hundred fake friends.
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And that one friend you have, Hold on to that person, love them and respect them.
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And if it's time to let go because things change, just let it go and just keep moving forward.
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So best of luck to you guys.
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I love you so much.
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Good luck and I will see you in my next video.
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And remember, even though we are friends online and we may not have ever met each other, I do think about you guys.
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I pray for you guys.
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I send positive thoughts out to you because I truly believe there is goodness in every single soul.
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Deep down, if you keep digging, there's light inside there.
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And we have to remember that everyone carries light within them.
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We just have to seek it and find it.
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and inspire them to shine even brighter.
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That was cheesy too.
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Bye guys.
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I love you.
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Bye!
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You wanna go?
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Go on.
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Oh yes, show your butthole in my face.
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That's lovely.
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Bye!
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Okay, so I have hair all over.
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See, that's the downside of having a cat.
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I have like a million cat hairs on me.
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And I have it in my mouth.
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Cat lovers, you can understand.
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with Buddy and crossed roads with a Christine.
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And she told us about her children.
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Yeah, she told us about her dreams.

คำศัพท์และข้อสังเกตด้านการพูดสำหรับบทเรียนนี้

วิดีโอนี้มี 100 ประโยค และ 1069 คำ สำหรับฝึกพูดตาม ช่วงที่มีเสียงพูดยาว 6:07 ผู้พูดพูดด้วยความเร็วเป็นธรรมชาติ ประมาณ 175 คำต่อนาที ใกล้เคียงกับบทสนทนาในชีวิตประจำวัน 89% ของคำอยู่ใน 3,000 คำที่ใช้บ่อยที่สุดในภาษาอังกฤษ คำศัพท์จึงตามได้ง่าย

คำศัพท์สำคัญในวิดีโอนี้

คำที่พบไม่บ่อย 15 คำจากวิดีโอ พร้อมคำอ่านและความหมาย:

  • friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/ (คำนาม) — มิตรภาพ. The condition of being friends.
  • explore /ɪkˈsploɹ/ (คำกริยา) — สำรวจ. To examine or investigate something systematically.
  • necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ (คำกริยาวิเศษณ์) — ต้อง. Inevitably; of necessity.
  • pray /pɹeɪ/ (คำกริยา) — สวด, อธิษฐาน. To direct words, thoughts, or one's attention to a deity or any higher being, for the sake of adoration, thanks, petition for help, etc.
  • connect /kəˈnɛkt/ (คำกริยา) — เชื่อม, ต่อ. To join (to another object): to attach, or to be intended to attach or capable of attaching, to another object.
  • dialogue /ˈdaɪəˌlɑɡ/ (คำนาม) — การสนทนา, บทพูด. A conversation or other form of discourse between two or more individuals.
  • lover /ˈlʌvɚ/ (คำนาม) — คู่รัก, คนรัก. One who loves and cares for another person in a romantic way; a sweetheart, love, soulmate, boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse.
  • dig /dɪɡ/ (คำกริยา) — ขุด. To move hard-packed earth out of the way, especially downward to make a hole with a shovel. Or to drill, or the like, through rocks, roads, or the like. More…
  • shine /ʃaɪn/ (คำกริยา) — ส่อง, ฉาย. To emit or reflect light so as to glow.
  • quantity /ˈkwɑn(t)ɪti/ (คำนาม) — ปริมาณ, จำนวน. A fundamental, generic term used when referring to the measurement (count, amount) of a scalar, vector, number of items or to some other way of denominating…
  • intimate /ˈɪn.tɪ.mət/ (คำคุณศัพท์) — สนิท, สนิทสนม. Closely acquainted; familiar.
  • polite /pəˈlaɪt/ (คำคุณศัพท์) — สุภาพ. Well-mannered, civilized.
  • underestimate /ʌndɚˈɛs.tɪ.meɪt/ (คำกริยา) — ดูถูกดูแคลน. To estimate too low; to perceive (someone or something) as having a lower value, quantity, worth, etc., than what he/she/it actually has.
  • dwell /dwɛl/ (คำกริยา) — อาศัยอยู่, อยู่. To live; to reside.
  • acquaintance /ʌˈkweɪn.təns/ (คำนาม) — คนรู้จัก, ผู้คุ้นเคย. A state of being acquainted with a person; originally indicating friendship, intimacy, but now suggesting a slight knowledge less deep than that of friendship…

การออกเสียงที่ควรระวัง

ผู้พูดใช้รูปย่อและรูปลดเสียง 36 ครั้ง เช่น you're, don't, I'm ให้พูดแบบสั้นตามที่ได้ยิน

  • เสียง “sh” และ “zh”: friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, establish /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, shine /ʃaɪn/
  • คำยาว — ลงเสียงหนักให้ถูกพยางค์: necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, underestimate /ʌndɚˈɛs.tɪ.meɪt/

วิธีฝึกกับวิดีโอนี้

  1. ฟังวิดีโอให้จบหนึ่งรอบโดยยังไม่ต้องพูด แล้วจดคำที่ยังไม่รู้จัก
  2. เริ่มที่ความเร็ว 0.75× พูดตามทีละประโยค แล้วกลับไปใช้ความเร็วปกติเมื่อเริ่มคล่อง
  3. อัดเสียงตัวเองแล้วเทียบกับต้นฉบับ โดยสังเกตคำอย่าง friendship, explore, necessarily เป็นพิเศษ

ไวยากรณ์ในวิดีโอนี้

โครงสร้างที่ผู้พูดใช้บ่อยที่สุด พร้อมคำพูดจริงจากวิดีโอ:

โครงสร้างในวิดีโอ
Relative clauses who / which + อนุประโยค — ข้อมูลเพิ่มเติมเกี่ยวกับคนหรือสิ่งของpeople who are · four, which is
ความเป็นไปได้ด้วย “might / may” might/may + กริยา — สิ่งที่เป็นไปได้แต่ไม่แน่นอนmight be · might think · may not have
กริยา + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — กริยาที่ตามด้วยรูป -ingkeep moving · keep digging
Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — สิ่งที่กำลังเกิดขึ้นตอนนี้หรือช่วงนี้is having · is not knowing · are showing

เทคนิค Shadowing คืออะไร?

Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ

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