Luyện nói tiếng Anh bằng Shadowing qua video: LIFE GUIDE : How to Make a Friend

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Hey guys, I have a special guest here that wants to say hi to you guys.
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Her name is Kat the human.
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Look, I'm gonna say hi.
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The first tip I want to give you guys
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when it comes to making new friends is having a common interest with someone.
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There's so many people in this world and I'm pretty sure you guys walk past hundreds of people all the time.
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How do you know that you have something in common with them?
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How do you know if that person is going to be your friend?
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You don't.
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That's kind of the whole point of life is not knowing what's going to happen
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and not knowing who you're going to meet.
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But I think if you open yourself up to it
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and you are showing people that you have a certain interest that you like, there's going to be certain people who are very like-minded like yourself that's going to pick up on it.
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Don't underestimate the power of having a sense of common interest because it really does bring people together.
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It doesn't necessarily mean you have to have everything in common.
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If they're speaking to you, if they're making a comment like, oh my gosh, I love that song, oh my gosh, I love your shirt, tell them where you got it, I love your jeans too, where did you get that?
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Bam!
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Already right there, you have common interest with that person, so what do you do from there?
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You engage, and that's the next step.
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You're not going to be able to make friends if you're not the one actively engaging with them too.
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Ask them questions.
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I mean, if you're actively engaging with them, they're going to engage back with you and that's when you can really make that connection.
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And that's step number three.
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Connect with that person.
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You can add them on Instagram or Facebook and that's
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when you will know if this is someone that really wants you in their life or vice versa.
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Give them an email.
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I mean you don't really need to exchange numbers right away.
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It can just be as simple as, hey you have Instagram, can I follow you, is that cool?
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I think it's polite to show that you're asking to follow them.
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Friendship is not just one thing.
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There's different levels of friendship.
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But how do you know if this person is more than an acquaintance?
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Is when you're constantly texting them or you're chatting with them online, you're video chatting with them, you're sending them links and messages.
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If you're honestly dialoguing all the time, that's when you know that, hey, you know what?
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This person might be a cool friend.
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That's when you can go to step number four, which is exploring.
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Go out with them.
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Go try a new restaurant, go watch a new movie with them.
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That's why it's called exploring.
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It's because you're doing something new and fun with them.
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And I also feel like, you know, when you explore something with a friend, it's memories that you're creating together.
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And the final step is sharing.
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Share secrets, share an intimate moment.
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After you share something with that person, that's when you can really establish trust.
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Like, I trust you now because I shared something really important to me, and I shared it with you, you respected it, and now I can trust you.
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And once you establish trust, it's like the best feeling ever.
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Friendship is not simple.
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There's a lot of hard work, a lot of time and commitment.
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It's like a part-time job.
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You have to put your hours and you have to commit to it or else it's not really a friendship.
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It's a two-way thing.
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I'm not saying every day you need to do something with them, but I think send them a text message or an email saying, you know, I'm thinking about you, because sometimes life gets in the way.
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And when it comes to life, things will change.
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You will change.
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You're gonna constantly evolve.
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You might think, I would never do this one thing, but then you do it, and you change.
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Or I never believe in this one thing, but then you believe it.
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And that's what happens, people change.
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And when people change, friendships can change, unless you change with them.
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And so just put that in the back of your head when there's gonna be a time where you're questioning your friendship.
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And don't blame it on yourself because that's part of life.
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You're changing, things will change.
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And you can't get mad at that
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because you have to kind of just go with it and accept it and move on.
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You know, enjoy the fun moments you had together.
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Don't dwell on the past.
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And also, don't beat yourself up if you don't have five million friends.
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That's not the point.
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It's about quality, not quantity.
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I'd rather have one amazing best friend than a hundred fake friends.
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And that one friend you have, Hold on to that person, love them and respect them.
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And if it's time to let go because things change, just let it go and just keep moving forward.
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So best of luck to you guys.
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I love you so much.
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Good luck and I will see you in my next video.
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And remember, even though we are friends online and we may not have ever met each other, I do think about you guys.
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I pray for you guys.
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I send positive thoughts out to you because I truly believe there is goodness in every single soul.
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Deep down, if you keep digging, there's light inside there.
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And we have to remember that everyone carries light within them.
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We just have to seek it and find it.
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and inspire them to shine even brighter.
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That was cheesy too.
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Bye guys.
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I love you.
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Bye!
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You wanna go?
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Go on.
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Oh yes, show your butthole in my face.
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That's lovely.
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Bye!
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Okay, so I have hair all over.
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See, that's the downside of having a cat.
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I have like a million cat hairs on me.
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And I have it in my mouth.
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Cat lovers, you can understand.
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with Buddy and crossed roads with a Christine.
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And she told us about her children.
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Yeah, she told us about her dreams.

Từ vựng và ghi chú luyện nói cho bài học này

Video này có 100 câu và 1069 từ để luyện shadowing. Phần lời nói dài 6:07. Người nói nói với tốc độ tự nhiên, khoảng 175 từ mỗi phút, gần với hội thoại hằng ngày. 89% số từ nằm trong 3.000 từ tiếng Anh thông dụng nhất, nên từ vựng dễ theo.

Từ vựng quan trọng trong video

14 từ ít gặp trong video, kèm phiên âm và nghĩa:

  • friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/ (danh từ) — tình bạn. The condition of being friends.
  • explore /ɪkˈsploɹ/ (động từ) — thám hiểm. To examine or investigate something systematically.
  • pray /pɹeɪ/ (động từ) — cầu nguyện, cầu. To direct words, thoughts, or one's attention to a deity or any higher being, for the sake of adoration, thanks, petition for help, etc.
  • connect /kəˈnɛkt/ (động từ) — nối. To join (to another object): to attach, or to be intended to attach or capable of attaching, to another object.
  • dialogue /ˈdaɪəˌlɑɡ/ (danh từ) — (cuộc) đối thoại, sự hội thoại. A conversation or other form of discourse between two or more individuals.
  • lover /ˈlʌvɚ/ (danh từ) — người yêu. One who loves and cares for another person in a romantic way; a sweetheart, love, soulmate, boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse.
  • dig /dɪɡ/ (động từ) — đào, bới. To move hard-packed earth out of the way, especially downward to make a hole with a shovel. Or to drill, or the like, through rocks, roads, or the like. More…
  • shine /ʃaɪn/ (động từ) — toả sáng, chiếu sáng. To emit or reflect light so as to glow.
  • goodness /ˈɡʊdnəs/ (danh từ) — lòng tốt. The state or characteristic of being good.
  • quantity /ˈkwɑn(t)ɪti/ (danh từ) — lượng, số lượng. A fundamental, generic term used when referring to the measurement (count, amount) of a scalar, vector, number of items or to some other way of denominating…
  • polite /pəˈlaɪt/ (tính từ) — lịch sự, lễ phép. Well-mannered, civilized.
  • cheesy /ˈt͡ʃiːzi/ (tính từ) — sến. Of or relating to cheese.
  • dwell /dwɛl/ (động từ) — ở. To live; to reside.
  • acquaintance /ʌˈkweɪn.təns/ (danh từ) — người quen. A state of being acquainted with a person; originally indicating friendship, intimacy, but now suggesting a slight knowledge less deep than that of friendship…

Cụm động từ bạn sẽ nghe

  • get in (động từ) — lên, xuống. To get into or inside something, literally or figuratively.
  • go on /ˈɡoʊˌɒn/ (động từ) — tiếp tục. To continue in extent.

Phát âm cần chú ý

Người nói dùng 36 dạng rút gọn, ví dụ you're, don't, I'm. Hãy nói theo dạng ngắn đúng như bạn nghe.

  • Âm “sh” và “zh”: friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, establish /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, shine /ʃaɪn/
  • Từ dài — đặt trọng âm cho đúng: necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, underestimate /ʌndɚˈɛs.tɪ.meɪt/

Cách luyện với video này

  1. Nghe hết video một lần, chưa cần nói, và ghi lại những từ bạn chưa biết.
  2. Bắt đầu ở tốc độ 0,75×, nói đuổi từng câu, rồi quay lại tốc độ bình thường khi đã quen.
  3. Ghi âm giọng mình rồi so với bản gốc, chú ý các từ như friendship, explore, pray.

Ngữ pháp trong video

Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:

Cấu trúcTrong video
Mệnh đề quan hệ who / which + mệnh đề — thêm thông tin về người hoặc vậtpeople who are · four, which is
Khả năng với “might / may” might/may + động từ — điều có thể xảy ra nhưng không chắcmight be · might think · may not have
Động từ + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — những động từ theo sau là dạng -ingkeep moving · keep digging
Thì hiện tại tiếp diễn am/is/are + -ing — việc đang diễn ra lúc nói hoặc quanh thời điểm nàyis having · is not knowing · are showing

Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?

Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.

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