쉐도잉 연습: LIFE GUIDE : How to Make a Friend - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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Hey guys, I have a special guest here that wants to say hi to you guys.
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Her name is Kat the human.
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Look, I'm gonna say hi.
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The first tip I want to give you guys
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when it comes to making new friends is having a common interest with someone.
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There's so many people in this world and I'm pretty sure you guys walk past hundreds of people all the time.
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How do you know that you have something in common with them?
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How do you know if that person is going to be your friend?
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You don't.
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That's kind of the whole point of life is not knowing what's going to happen
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and not knowing who you're going to meet.
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But I think if you open yourself up to it
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and you are showing people that you have a certain interest that you like, there's going to be certain people who are very like-minded like yourself that's going to pick up on it.
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Don't underestimate the power of having a sense of common interest because it really does bring people together.
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It doesn't necessarily mean you have to have everything in common.
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If they're speaking to you, if they're making a comment like, oh my gosh, I love that song, oh my gosh, I love your shirt, tell them where you got it, I love your jeans too, where did you get that?
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Bam!
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Already right there, you have common interest with that person, so what do you do from there?
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You engage, and that's the next step.
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You're not going to be able to make friends if you're not the one actively engaging with them too.
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Ask them questions.
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I mean, if you're actively engaging with them, they're going to engage back with you and that's when you can really make that connection.
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And that's step number three.
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Connect with that person.
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You can add them on Instagram or Facebook and that's
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when you will know if this is someone that really wants you in their life or vice versa.
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Give them an email.
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I mean you don't really need to exchange numbers right away.
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It can just be as simple as, hey you have Instagram, can I follow you, is that cool?
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I think it's polite to show that you're asking to follow them.
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Friendship is not just one thing.
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There's different levels of friendship.
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But how do you know if this person is more than an acquaintance?
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Is when you're constantly texting them or you're chatting with them online, you're video chatting with them, you're sending them links and messages.
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If you're honestly dialoguing all the time, that's when you know that, hey, you know what?
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This person might be a cool friend.
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That's when you can go to step number four, which is exploring.
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Go out with them.
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Go try a new restaurant, go watch a new movie with them.
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That's why it's called exploring.
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It's because you're doing something new and fun with them.
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And I also feel like, you know, when you explore something with a friend, it's memories that you're creating together.
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And the final step is sharing.
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Share secrets, share an intimate moment.
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After you share something with that person, that's when you can really establish trust.
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Like, I trust you now because I shared something really important to me, and I shared it with you, you respected it, and now I can trust you.
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And once you establish trust, it's like the best feeling ever.
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Friendship is not simple.
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There's a lot of hard work, a lot of time and commitment.
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It's like a part-time job.
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You have to put your hours and you have to commit to it or else it's not really a friendship.
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It's a two-way thing.
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I'm not saying every day you need to do something with them, but I think send them a text message or an email saying, you know, I'm thinking about you, because sometimes life gets in the way.
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And when it comes to life, things will change.
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You will change.
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You're gonna constantly evolve.
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You might think, I would never do this one thing, but then you do it, and you change.
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Or I never believe in this one thing, but then you believe it.
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And that's what happens, people change.
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And when people change, friendships can change, unless you change with them.
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And so just put that in the back of your head when there's gonna be a time where you're questioning your friendship.
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And don't blame it on yourself because that's part of life.
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You're changing, things will change.
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And you can't get mad at that
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because you have to kind of just go with it and accept it and move on.
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You know, enjoy the fun moments you had together.
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Don't dwell on the past.
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And also, don't beat yourself up if you don't have five million friends.
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That's not the point.
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It's about quality, not quantity.
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I'd rather have one amazing best friend than a hundred fake friends.
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And that one friend you have, Hold on to that person, love them and respect them.
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And if it's time to let go because things change, just let it go and just keep moving forward.
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So best of luck to you guys.
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I love you so much.
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Good luck and I will see you in my next video.
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And remember, even though we are friends online and we may not have ever met each other, I do think about you guys.
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I pray for you guys.
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I send positive thoughts out to you because I truly believe there is goodness in every single soul.
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Deep down, if you keep digging, there's light inside there.
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And we have to remember that everyone carries light within them.
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We just have to seek it and find it.
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and inspire them to shine even brighter.
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That was cheesy too.
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Bye guys.
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I love you.
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Bye!
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You wanna go?
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Go on.
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Oh yes, show your butthole in my face.
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That's lovely.
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Bye!
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Okay, so I have hair all over.
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See, that's the downside of having a cat.
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I have like a million cat hairs on me.
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And I have it in my mouth.
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Cat lovers, you can understand.
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with Buddy and crossed roads with a Christine.
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And she told us about her children.
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Yeah, she told us about her dreams.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 100개와 단어 1069개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 6:07입니다. 화자는 분당 약 175단어로, 일상 대화에 가까운 자연스러운 속도로 말합니다. 단어의 89%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속해 어휘가 쉬운 편입니다.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에 나오는 덜 흔한 단어 14개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
- friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/ (명사) — 우정, 우의. The condition of being friends.
- explore /ɪkˈsploɹ/ (동사) — 탐험하다. To examine or investigate something systematically.
- pray /pɹeɪ/ (동사) — 빌다, 기도하다. To direct words, thoughts, or one's attention to a deity or any higher being, for the sake of adoration, thanks, petition for help, etc.
- connect /kəˈnɛkt/ (동사) — 잇다, 연결하다. To join (to another object): to attach, or to be intended to attach or capable of attaching, to another object.
- dialogue /ˈdaɪəˌlɑɡ/ (명사) — 대화, 회화. A conversation or other form of discourse between two or more individuals.
- lover /ˈlʌvɚ/ (명사) — 연인, 련인. One who loves and cares for another person in a romantic way; a sweetheart, love, soulmate, boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse.
- dig /dɪɡ/ (동사) — 파다. To move hard-packed earth out of the way, especially downward to make a hole with a shovel. Or to drill, or the like, through rocks, roads, or the like. More…
- shine /ʃaɪn/ (동사) — 비추다, 비치다. To emit or reflect light so as to glow.
- quantity /ˈkwɑn(t)ɪti/ (명사) — 양, 량. A fundamental, generic term used when referring to the measurement (count, amount) of a scalar, vector, number of items or to some other way of denominating…
- intimate /ˈɪn.tɪ.mət/ (형용사) — 친(親)하다, 친밀(親密)하다. Closely acquainted; familiar.
- polite /pəˈlaɪt/ (형용사) — 공손하다. Well-mannered, civilized.
- underestimate /ʌndɚˈɛs.tɪ.meɪt/ (동사) — 과소평가하다. To estimate too low; to perceive (someone or something) as having a lower value, quantity, worth, etc., than what he/she/it actually has.
- dwell /dwɛl/ (동사) — 살다, 거주하다. To live; to reside.
- acquaintance /ʌˈkweɪn.təns/ (명사) — 아는 사람, 지인. A state of being acquainted with a person; originally indicating friendship, intimacy, but now suggesting a slight knowledge less deep than that of friendship…
주의할 발음
화자는 you're, don't, I'm 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 36번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, establish /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, shine /ʃaɪn/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, underestimate /ʌndɚˈɛs.tɪ.meɪt/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, friendship, explore, pray 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보 | people who are · four, which is |
| “might / may” 가능성 might/may + 동사 — 가능하지만 확실하지 않은 일 | might be · might think · may not have |
| 동사 + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — 뒤에 -ing형이 오는 동사 | keep moving · keep digging |
| 현재진행 am/is/are + -ing — 지금 또는 요즘 일어나고 있는 일 | is having · is not knowing · are showing |
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