Shadowing Practice: 10 oddly specific things to NEVER share with anyone - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Here's 10 oddly specific things you should keep to yourself as I do my makeup.
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And just to clarify, these are things you shouldn't share like with your friends
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or like a romantic interest you just met, okay?
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Some secrets, obviously, if it's the vibe, tell people, do what you want.
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But you can't say I didn't tell you so.
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And these are going to be like really oddly specific
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because I literally have been through
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so much in my life where I've made some of these mistakes before and I really wish I didn't.
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Number one, don't tell people what phone carrier you have.
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I know that's really oddly specific, but don't tell just like the random person because there's something called one-time pin fraud.
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AI is literally getting to the point where it's scary nowadays and people could literally use your photo, make a fake ID of you,
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go into your carrier, get four lines, screw up your credit, or not even just that.
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They can just say that your phone went missing and then boom.
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All of a sudden, you're locked out of all of your accounts, your Instagram, your bank, because basically they send a one-time PIN to your phone number,
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which just got swapped to another phone.
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It essentially locks you out of your phone to where you can't even use your number anymore
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because it's literally swapped to another phone.
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So of course, all of those forgot password texts are going to your number.
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And again, this video is going to be oddly specific, but it can save your life.
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If you're on social media at all, even if you're not an influencer or anything, you need to be on your P's and your Q's when it comes to two-step verification and all of that,
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especially as AI advances.
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This is just my prediction, whatever, but I feel like there's going to be a lot more cases where AI actually messes up the court system.
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This stuff is so new that people's lives are being ruined from identity fraud, and it's all because they trusted someone they thought they knew.
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A friend shouldn't know your phone carrier.
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If someone you don't really trust is asking you, oh, what phone carrier do you go to?
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Don't tell them.
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And this might be controversial, but in reality, it's not.
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It's 100% okay if you lie in situations that can put you in danger.
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That's not me telling you to be like a compulsive liar or whatever.
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That's literally just me telling you like, girl, stay on your P's and your Q's, okay?
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Nobody needs to know that information.
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This next one might seem like common sense, but common sense really isn't that common nowadays don't tell people anything that can be used in a password.
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Your mother's maiden name, your first dog's name, you know, anything that's usually used as a second password guesser, like don't tell people that.
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Like why would a boyfriend need to know your mother's maiden name for real?
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You know what I mean?
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And this isn't me like trying to cast out on the people you love
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because obviously like you love them for a reason.
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They're in your life for a reason.
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I would hope they would never do something like
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that to you where they would like use your personal information and try to sabotage you, but you never really know someone, okay?
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And so because of that, you need to take precautions.
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Also for those wondering the foundation and concealer combo, I'm not done putting on the concealer by the way.
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I look dead, but I use the Bobbi Brown foundation.
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This is the Skin Longwear Weightless Foundation and then the Hourglass Concealer.
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Both of them have a price tag, but they're worth it.
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I might be sharing things you should never tell anyone, but I'm certainly not a gatekeeper.
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You're welcome, bestie.
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The third thing you should gatekeep is a little bit controversial.
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I don't know if the girlies are gonna agree with me, but I'm gonna say it anyways.
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Your relationship problems.
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Your relationship problems.
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Okay, I'm gonna say it very, very clear.
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If you're in a toxic situation, you know you need to get out of it.
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You already know that.
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But are you ready for it?
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And this is something I had to ask myself
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because I was always a girl who would go to my friends crying about my boy troubles and this, that, and the third just to end up back with the same guy
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because I knew I wasn't ready to let it go.
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Brow combo is the Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Freeze Gel and then the Brow Definer.
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I'm gonna look crazy for a second as I do this cream blush
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because I always do blush and contour and then concealer.
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That's a tip if you use a lot of cream concealers or cream bronzers.
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Before you put on concealer so that way your concealer doesn't crease, do your liquid contour and blush first.
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Okay, back to what we were saying.
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Your friends They friends want to help you okay they're not
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trying to give you advice to be mean they're trying to help you unless they're a bad friend
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but most friends are going to get mad when they hear some toxic
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that you're going through because they see your value okay they see your value
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but if you keep going to them with the same problems over
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and over and over again they're going to start to distance themselves.
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And this is why I say you need to know when you're actually ready.
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And here's my thing.
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I know when I'm in a situation I have no business being in, but I'm still going to be in it.
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And I'm still going back.
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And you cannot convince me otherwise.
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I'm sorry.
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That's just how I am.
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And I won't tell anybody about it because I know I'm chaotic sometimes.
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All right.
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I can admit it.
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I'm a little chaotic when it comes to my love life, but it's my love life for a reason because I love them.
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Sorry, I'm getting a little bit dramatic, but I see both sides of it because I've been on both ends.
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I've had a friend come to me over and over and over again.
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He did this to me and then not leave.
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Like, girl, it's giving you don't love yourself.
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It's giving you don't value yourself.
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And it's giving you're wasting my time too.
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And I would get so mad when I saw my friends, you know, disrespect themselves by going back to a situation
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that they had no business being in until I did the same exact thing.
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And then I didn't tell anybody about it because in my own mind, I was trying to fix them.
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I was trying to do this.
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I was trying to do that in the third.
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And I didn't want to hear anyone's opinion on it, quite frankly.
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And that's okay.
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Okay.
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If you're in that moment where you're like, I'm self-sabotaging right now, or I'm doing something for the plot, you do that.
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I've been there, but I'm gonna be over here.
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Okay.
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And if you come to me with it and then don't take my advice, I'm distancing myself from you.
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I don't want chaos in my life and I don't want to go out of my way, stay up on the phone with you for hours on end,
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have you tell me about all of your relationship problems just to have you go back.
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That's stupid, that's dumb.
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And another part of it, if you're actually in a good relationship, sometimes people will try to sabotage it.
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And I hate to say that.
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I don't think all the time, okay?
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Sometimes there are some snakes around you though
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and you gotta be careful who you share relationship advice to
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because there's the girls who are always just like just dump
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him just dump him sometimes he's a good man okay the man is good he just did something dumb
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and i'm not talking about cheating i'm talking about you know
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like he pissed you off you know what i mean
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because we don't tolerate cheaters around here okay that's just one thing i gotta make clear
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but if he genuinely made a mistake
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and made up for it like you're gonna have girls being like oh i would have dumped him for
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that i would have okay okay really stand on that then
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and those girls who are judgmental always get hit with their karma too that's just something
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that i've experienced you know what i mean everyone goes through their toxic relationship era
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and sometimes you just gotta let your friend be in that
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but stay at a distance and that's why you need to accept people as they are
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and place them where they belong if you're getting pissed off at a friend
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because you're like girl why didn't you just leave him why
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don't you just do this sometimes they're not ready to face
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that within themselves and that's not a you issue you as a friend need to distance yourself
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if it's causing you mental distress
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but like i don't think you should not be friends with
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someone based on their relationship problems i just feel like you're involving yourself too much in
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that situation so yeah just don't share it
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if you're gonna make some stupid decisions just keep it to yourself
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and then spill the tea later that's what i do
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because you live and you learn all nighter setting spray and then we're doing the one size beauty powder
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one size beauty blush trio in the shade cheek clapper i already used the blush
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so i'm going to going to use this blush.
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This is also the highlight I use, but I'm going to do highlight later.
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Don't let girls know who your ex is.
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Don't let girls you just met know who your ex is.
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That's going to become their ex.
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Okay.
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Cause he's going to, he's going to go to them and it's going to be a he he ha ha.
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No, if it's your close friend, of course, of course, bestie, like we're going to make fun of him.
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We're going to say he's a clown because obviously I didn't go for looks, but like, seriously, don't let these girls know.
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Okay.
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They don't need to know who you've been with.
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And that's the next one.
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What number five don't kiss and tell that one's obvious, but don't post when you're out of place.
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Okay, if you're out of place and you're posting on your Instagram story, that's literally you just being like, Hey, come find me.
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Come stalk me.
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Literally don't do that don't do
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that there's no reason people need to be knowing exactly where you are leave wait two hours
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and then post it or shoo wait until the next day to post it
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because then you're content prepping you know what i mean this it's the age of the influencers okay
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so you can content prep you went out to dinner two nights ago
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and all of a sudden you're at home in your bed
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and you're like let me let me pretend i'm going to dinner it'll definitely confuse your roster
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but but in a good way.
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I mean, that's what I do on my Instagram.
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That means you should go follow it.
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Okay.
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If you're watching this far, you obviously vibe with me.
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You obviously like me.
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Go check out the Instagram.
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We're almost at 10k, but subscribe if you want to.
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Okay.
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Am I good enough?
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Please, please like me.
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Am I good enough?
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Shut up.
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Sorry.
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I'm weird sometimes.
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I love a good trauma dump, but girl, nobody needs to know about your mom's divorces.
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Nobody needs to know.
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Nobody needs to know.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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Here's the thing.
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If the vibe is trauma dumping, then we're in a trauma dump okay we're gonna bond over
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our trauma it's fine to bond over trauma it's not
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that deep but when it is that deep and
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when it's a stranger and
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when you're in a professional setting why are you talking to me about your mom's divorce
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and don't get me wrong i order myself a yappuccino every single morning i know i yap
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and sometimes it's trauma okay sometimes it's trauma
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and that's just how it is
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but i think you should keep certain traumas to yourself
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if you do it do it in a joking way okay don't be weird
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and make the conversation dull like do it in a funny way if you're gonna trauma dump Don't make it serious.
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Don't make me say, oh, I'm sorry.
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Like, why am I saying sorry?
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I didn't hurt you.
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That's the next one.
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What?
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Number seven?
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I don't know what number we're on.
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If you're meeting someone new, don't tell them about your past.
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This is the NYX, I don't know, eyeliner.
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I put it in my waterline.
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Don't tell the man you just met about your past.
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Okay.
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And I think this goes for anyone, but this is for the girlies.
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Obviously, I'm doing a makeup tutorial.
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I feel like it's mostly the girls here.
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If you're a man, it's cool too.
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Okay.
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I'm not going to make you feel weird for being here
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but if you just met a man okay you don't need to be talking about how your ex hurt you
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because he's gonna do the same thing
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if anything say your ex was great okay don't talk about
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the parts where he was bad until you're actually like involved with the man you know what i mean
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because first date you're saying oh he did this to me he did
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that to me that's just him taking down notes he's like oh okay
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so she tolerates this she tolerates cheating she tolerates lighting she's
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like he's taking notes being like damn he did her like
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that i'm gonna do her worse i'm gonna do her worse
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he is going to do you worse wake up wake up he's gonna do you way worse
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and you're gonna be crying
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and you're gonna be like why did he do this to me
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because you literally said this is how my ex hurt me
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you gave him a tutorial babe like can we please be honest right now i don't care
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if you lie to the man okay i don't care
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if you say my ex did this this this
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and this for me i don't care what you got to do just don't tell him you cheated on you
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and dogged you out don't tell him
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that shit at this point in this dating economy
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that can be inferred okay
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but you can still say oh he opened every door of
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mine he bought me flowers he did highlight all the good positive things he did even
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if he didn't do it okay you're manifesting him doing it
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because obviously in men's mind men are competitive okay
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if you approach a date like okay this is just how
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i've been treated you know obviously i'm gonna wait i'm not
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gonna rush to open the door i'm gonna wait for him to open in the door.
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I'm going to wait for him to take the lead.
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It's going to set off the stage for you to be treated better because from the beginning, he should be treating you like a queen.
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He should be courting you.
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I think some of y'all need a little bit more respect for the love bombing phase.
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And I'm not saying that in a funny way.
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I'm saying that in a legitimate way.
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Like feel the honeymoon phase.
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Shit.
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Why are we talking about trauma on our first date?
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Why are we talking about how your ex did you dirty on your first date?
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Of course, the man is going to be scared.
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I'm not saying live a lie.
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I'm not telling you fabricate your entire existence and say you grew up in a perfect two pant household and you were, you know, rich.
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No, I'm not saying that.
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I'm just saying don't share things right off the, like, you know what I mean?
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The trauma comes out later.
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It's like, can we have peace in the first two months of meeting each other?
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Next, don't share mistakes you're actively working on, you know, regrets you have that are just unnecessary.
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Some people will never understand, all right, and it's okay that you've made mistakes in the past.
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Like, I feel like so many people would be like, oh, I would never, I would never do that.
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No, yes, you would, and you've done some things that you regret in your past.
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If you're actively working on becoming a better person, like, don't get me wrong, this doesn't apply to, like, people who've done horrible, terrible things and are sitting on death row.
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I'm just talking about like maybe you led someone on
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or you didn't communicate yourself effectively
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or you screamed at someone like you know what I mean things like
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that there's going to be times where you're obviously in the wrong ask yourself
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if this person has the awareness in order to understand your change
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and if they don't you just like don't really mention it
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because at the end of the day like nobody needs to know your deepest darkest mistakes
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or ways that you fumbled or things like that.
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Back to lighthearted things.
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Don't give someone your drink.
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Are you stupid?
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If even a friend, like even a female, like yes, most females, you can trust them with your drink because like we're women.
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There should be no reason you're drinking out of someone's bottle.
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There should be no reason that you're letting someone you don't know prepare your drink unless it's the bartender.
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All right.
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Unless it's the person literally working there and he hands you it.
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Not to like weirdly steer the conversation super deep, but like things happen fast.
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And especially with your girls like watch out for them even watch out for girls
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that are strangers like if you see something weird like get someone involved
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because you never know
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if you're saving their life next don't show people your vision board I just made a vision board
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and I was hesitant I showed like my close friends
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because I don't know about y'all but like I'm really delulu
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when it comes to my achievements and the things I want to do
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and so I can't be just showing like the regular average person my vision board
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because they're gonna be like oh you want to be on the red carpet one day
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shut up like okay god forbid you have dreams god forbid you have things you want to achieve in life
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so yeah don't share people your vision board keep it to
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yourself like i don't really believe in like someone evil eyeing
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me really affecting me like yes people look at me
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and are jealous or things like that i'm fine with
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that hoes can be mad you know like every hoe has the ability to be mad i'd be mad too
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if i were y'all however i don't need to show y'all my dreams
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because then it just makes me feel like y'all are involved in a process you shouldn't be involved in.
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This is for my Delulu brain.
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You know, my dreams are for me.
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It's not for anyone else.
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It's not to prove to people this, that, and the third.
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It's literally just to make me feel good about myself and to have a vision for my future.
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And so if you're making a vision board this year, yeah, just don't really show anyone.
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Why do they need to know?
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They don't need to know.
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This lip liner is so cool because it just like peels off or lip stain, whatever.
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I use it as a liner.
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I just rub out whatever I feel like doesn't look right
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and then i put a gloss on top of it this is the maybelline gloss the last oddly specific thing
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that you shouldn't tell people about is
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if you've done any crime i know that's like really obvious
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but i feel like people get online nowadays and went like i used to shoplift i used to do like
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digital footprint is a thing put your brain cells together
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and realize that like not everyone is going to be on board with
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that again like don't discuss your past mistakes or things like that
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don't just come on the internet
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and be like yeah these are the crimes i did this
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is a tutorial on how to do crime like go log off touch some grass okay
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but my makeup wait my makeup my makeup my makeup okay i'll tag all the products i use below
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because i'm not a gatekeeper there are things i don't tell y'all
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but i'm not a gatekeeper there's also just like little ones
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like don't tell people what car you drive don't tell people
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your driver's license number don't tell people your social like obvious ones don't be dumb
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but these were just some oddly specific ones and kind of of just like a little rant for you guys.
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If you're new here, my name is Natalie.
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This is where I share ways I'm getting my shit together so that you can get your shit together.
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If you like more of that, be sure to hit that subscribe button.
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Check out my Instagram.
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All my links are down below and be sure to comment and let me know what you agree with, what you disagree with.
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And that being said, I love you guys so much and I'll see you guys next week.
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Yes, I'm looking at the viewfinder for like most of this video.
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That's because I'm doing my makeup.
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Yeah.
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