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But is it appropriate for someone who...

No. Yeah.

No, no, no, no, no. There's very little about what was just said that's appropriate.

So for this week, I thought I'd do something a little different.

I have a club called the Love Life Club, and every month I answer questions of my members.

This one caught my attention as something that would be fun to bring to all of you here.

It was someone who asked, How do you know the difference between someone who is love bombing you and someone who has real intentions?

This was my answer.

And by the way, don't forget to like this video, subscribe to this channel and hit the notification bell so that you get notified the next time we do a video.

Can we do one final question?

Please.

Yeah.

From someone called Tamila.

How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine attention?

I met a man online.

In brackets, I'm traveling out of country.

He was pursuing me and is waiting to meet when I'm back in the US.

We're in different states and he's organizing a day in his city, San Diego, in a month.

In his text, there's a lot of us talk.

Talk of living together, how many kids I'd want, asking me for my preferences on houses, calling me wifey, etc. Help.

How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine intention?

How long has she been speaking to this man?

She met him online.

But how long ago?

It doesn't say But is it appropriate for someone who know?

Yeah, no, no, no, no, no There's very little about what was just said that's appropriate

It's you know it that's has love bombing written all Over it.

How do you not get swept up?

Because it's a lovely thing to hear, right?

You meet someone you find attractive, whatever, and they're saying all the right things, and they're saying all these, like, how do you stop yourself from getting carried away in those kinds of words?

Here's what you hear in your head.

You hear, imagine someone just rang your phone, like it was an unknown number, and you picked it up and it was a automated message

and it said you have been selected from a random pool

of people to collect two million dollars all you need to

do to collect your winnings is to speak now with your bank account details so that we can deposit the funds

that's what you imagine being said because if

that happened we'd all be like hang up this doesn't make

any sense why you're giving me two million dollars right now I've never been that lucky in my entire life

it doesn't add up two million dollars is not that easy to make no

if someone out of nowhere starts saying wifey this, wifey that, we're going to have this many kids, we're going to live in this house,

either they are projecting to a scary degree,

which means that there's something unhealthy about them

and they believe they're this in love with you and they're mistaken because they don't even know you.

So that love isn't real and you're dealing with a really unhealthy person, or you're dealing with a scammer.

What they're scamming you out of, it might be sex, it might be money,

it might be just all of your energy, and they're not going to give you anything in return.

They're just going to bring you out to San Diego

and have a fun with you and then send you back and be like, wifey what?

I didn't say any of that.

I don't remember any of that it's

you know there's some they're trying to get something

they're trying to get something

so you you have to start seeing it for what it

really is it feels nice to be told you just won a million dollars but you can't trust it

and it's the same with this how can you feel this way about me you do not know me

you have no idea who I am

so either take the time to actually get to know who I am and let's start again or

I'm going to see this for what it is

which is either a gross projection or a manipulation but someone can only know you over time by asking questions,

by taking the time to actually get to know you And by the way, be careful of like traveling to see someone who you don't know.

I mean, in general, are they willing to make an effort to see you?

Could they meet you halfway?

You know, like, is there a way for the two of you to meet in a way

that requires at least some mutual investment?

Because the, you know, fly to be with me in my backyard is a very easy thing to say to someone.

And I'm not saying that means they're dangerous or evil, but at the very least, it's like, it's a lot of work for you

and none for them I think that's such a good point we've made it before

but um just when somebody asks you to fly to see them it feels like investment

because you go oh my god they really want to spend all this time with me

but actually it's no investment

if the person is thinking well I'm gonna have a nice weekend I'm gonna get sex out of it

and then they fly home and i never have to think about it again

or i certainly don't have to think about it further than

that weekend and until i decide but we think it feels like

because it feels like investment right it feels like it's something serious

because you think oh this person wants to spend a weekend with me exactly

so yeah i think that's really interesting what it is is

you're depositing a whole lot of money for very little investment on their part.

Thank you so much for watching.

Before you go, if finding love is a priority for you this year, I have something for you that is brand new.

I'm really excited about it.

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how to finally find your person and how to get the commitment that you deserve with them.

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Go check it out.

I can't wait to see what you think and I'll speak to you soon.

Thank you.

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本課的詞彙與口語要點

這節 B2 級別的口語課以影片“This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS”為素材。這段影片共有 88 個句子、1125 個單詞可供跟讀。講話部分時長為 7:07。說話人語速自然，每分鐘約 158 個詞，接近日常對話。 90% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞，詞彙容易理解。全部 88 個句子中有 14 個是問句，適合練習疑問語調和簡短回答。

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中最難的 13 個單詞，附發音和釋義：

單詞	發音	釋義
automate 動詞	/ˈɔ.təˌmeɪt/	自動化 /自動化
notify 動詞	/ˈnoʊtɪfaɪ/	通知, 通告
projection 名詞	/pɹəˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/	凸出物
bracket 名詞	/ˈbɹækɪt/	支架, 托架
manipulation 名詞	/məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/	操縱 /操縱, 運用 /運用
backyard 名詞	/bækˈjɑːd/	後院 /後院
notification 名詞	/ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/	通知
scam 名詞	/ˈskæm/	詭計 /詭計, 騙局 /騙局
sweep 動詞	/swiːp/	打掃 /打掃, 掃 /掃
organize 動詞	/ˈɔɹɡənaɪz/	組織 /組織
subscribe 動詞	/səbˈskɹaɪb/	簽署 /簽署
halfway 副詞	/ˌhæfˈweɪ/	半路, 半途
preference 名詞	/ˈpɹɛf(ə)ɹ(ə)ns/	優選 /優選, 選擇 /選擇

影片中出現的短語動詞

單詞	釋義
hang up 動詞	掛 /掛

值得反覆跟讀的句子

影片中簡短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常對話裡：

Can we do one final question?
How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine attention?
In brackets, I'm traveling out of country.
How do you not get swept up?
Could they meet you halfway?

影片中的語法

說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：

結構	影片中的用法
被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的	was just said · have been selected · being said
現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事	have been selected · I've never been · we've made
定語從句 who / which + 從句 — 補充說明人或事物	someone who asked · someone who know · someone who you

需要注意的發音

說話人用了 44 次縮略和弱讀形式，例如 they're, I'm, don't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。

“sh” 和 “zh” 音: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, projection /pɹəˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, manipulation /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, intentions /ɪnˈtɛnʃənz/
長單詞——注意重音位置: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, manipulation /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/

中文母語者容易讀錯的音：

詞尾子音 — 要讀清楚，後面不要加母音: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, automate /ˈɔ.təˌmeɪt/, bracket /ˈbɹækɪt/, backyard /bækˈjɑːd/, sweep /swiːp/
/æ/ — 嘴張大，不要讀成 /e/: bracket /ˈbɹækɪt/, backyard /bækˈjɑːd/, scam /ˈskæm/, halfway /ˌhæfˈweɪ/

如何用這段影片練習

先完整聽一遍影片，不要開口，記下不認識的單詞。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟讀，熟練之後再回到正常速度。
錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比，特別注意 automate, notify, projection 這類單詞。

什麼是跟讀法？

跟讀法 (Shadowing) 是一種有科學依據的語言學習技巧，最初開發用於專業口譯員的培訓，並由多語言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。這個方法簡單而強大：您在聽英語母語原聲的同時立即大聲重複——就像是一個延遲1-2秒緊跟說話者的影子。與被動聽力或語法練習不同，跟讀法強迫您的大腦和口腔肌肉同時處理並模模擬實的講話模式。研究表明它能顯著提高發音準確性，語調，節奏，連讀，聽力理解和口語流利度——使其成為雅思口語備考和真實英語交流最有效的方法之一。

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