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But is it appropriate for someone who...
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No. Yeah.
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No, no, no, no, no. There's very little about what was just said that's appropriate.
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So for this week, I thought I'd do something a little different.
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I have a club called the Love Life Club, and every month I answer questions of my members.
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This one caught my attention as something that would be fun to bring to all of you here.
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It was someone who asked, How do you know the difference between someone who is love bombing you and someone who has real intentions?
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This was my answer.
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And by the way, don't forget to like this video, subscribe to this channel and hit the notification bell so that you get notified the next time we do a video.
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Can we do one final question?
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Please.
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Yeah.
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From someone called Tamila.
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How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine attention?
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I met a man online.
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In brackets, I'm traveling out of country.
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He was pursuing me and is waiting to meet when I'm back in the US.
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We're in different states and he's organizing a day in his city, San Diego, in a month.
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In his text, there's a lot of us talk.
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Talk of living together, how many kids I'd want, asking me for my preferences on houses, calling me wifey, etc. Help.
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How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine intention?
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How long has she been speaking to this man?
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She met him online.
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But how long ago?
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It doesn't say But is it appropriate for someone who know?
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Yeah, no, no, no, no, no There's very little about what was just said that's appropriate
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It's you know it that's has love bombing written all Over it.
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How do you not get swept up?
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Because it's a lovely thing to hear, right?
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You meet someone you find attractive, whatever, and they're saying all the right things, and they're saying all these, like, how do you stop yourself from getting carried away in those kinds of words?
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Here's what you hear in your head.
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You hear, imagine someone just rang your phone, like it was an unknown number, and you picked it up and it was a automated message
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and it said you have been selected from a random pool
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of people to collect two million dollars all you need to
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do to collect your winnings is to speak now with your bank account details so that we can deposit the funds
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that's what you imagine being said because if
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that happened we'd all be like hang up this doesn't make
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any sense why you're giving me two million dollars right now I've never been that lucky in my entire life
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it doesn't add up two million dollars is not that easy to make no
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if someone out of nowhere starts saying wifey this, wifey that, we're going to have this many kids, we're going to live in this house,
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either they are projecting to a scary degree,
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which means that there's something unhealthy about them
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and they believe they're this in love with you and they're mistaken because they don't even know you.
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So that love isn't real and you're dealing with a really unhealthy person, or you're dealing with a scammer.
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What they're scamming you out of, it might be sex, it might be money,
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it might be just all of your energy, and they're not going to give you anything in return.
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They're just going to bring you out to San Diego
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and have a fun with you and then send you back and be like, wifey what?
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I didn't say any of that.
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I don't remember any of that it's
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you know there's some they're trying to get something
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they're trying to get something
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so you you have to start seeing it for what it
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really is it feels nice to be told you just won a million dollars but you can't trust it
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and it's the same with this how can you feel this way about me you do not know me
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you have no idea who I am
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so either take the time to actually get to know who I am and let's start again or
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I'm going to see this for what it is
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which is either a gross projection or a manipulation but someone can only know you over time by asking questions,
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by taking the time to actually get to know you And by the way, be careful of like traveling to see someone who you don't know.
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I mean, in general, are they willing to make an effort to see you?
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Could they meet you halfway?
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You know, like, is there a way for the two of you to meet in a way
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that requires at least some mutual investment?
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Because the, you know, fly to be with me in my backyard is a very easy thing to say to someone.
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And I'm not saying that means they're dangerous or evil, but at the very least, it's like, it's a lot of work for you
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and none for them I think that's such a good point we've made it before
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but um just when somebody asks you to fly to see them it feels like investment
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because you go oh my god they really want to spend all this time with me
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but actually it's no investment
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if the person is thinking well I'm gonna have a nice weekend I'm gonna get sex out of it
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and then they fly home and i never have to think about it again
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or i certainly don't have to think about it further than
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that weekend and until i decide but we think it feels like
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because it feels like investment right it feels like it's something serious
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because you think oh this person wants to spend a weekend with me exactly
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so yeah i think that's really interesting what it is is
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you're depositing a whole lot of money for very little investment on their part.
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Thank you so much for watching.
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Go check it out.
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I can't wait to see what you think and I'll speak to you soon.
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Thank you.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这节 B2 级别的口语课以视频“This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS”为素材。 这段视频共有 88 个句子、1125 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 7:07。 说话人语速自然，每分钟约 158 个词，接近日常对话。 90% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇容易理解。 全部 88 个句子中有 14 个是问句，适合练习疑问语调和简短回答。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中最难的 13 个单词，附发音和释义：
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| automate 动词 | /ˈɔ.təˌmeɪt/ | 自動化 /自动化 |
| notify 动词 | /ˈnoʊtɪfaɪ/ | 通知, 通告 |
| projection 名词 | /pɹəˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/ | 凸出物 |
| bracket 名词 | /ˈbɹækɪt/ | 支架, 托架 |
| manipulation 名词 | /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/ | 操縱 /操纵, 運用 /运用 |
| backyard 名词 | /bækˈjɑːd/ | 後院 /后院 |
| notification 名词 | /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/ | 通知 |
| scam 名词 | /ˈskæm/ | 詭計 /诡计, 騙局 /骗局 |
| sweep 动词 | /swiːp/ | 打掃 /打扫, 掃 /扫 |
| organize 动词 | /ˈɔɹɡənaɪz/ | 組織 /组织 |
| subscribe 动词 | /səbˈskɹaɪb/ | 簽署 /签署 |
| halfway 副词 | /ˌhæfˈweɪ/ | 半路, 半途 |
| preference 名词 | /ˈpɹɛf(ə)ɹ(ə)ns/ | 優選 /优选, 選擇 /选择 |
视频中出现的短语动词
| 单词 | 释义 |
|---|---|
| hang up 动词 | 掛 /挂 |
值得反复跟读的句子
视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：
- Can we do one final question?
- How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine attention?
- In brackets, I'm traveling out of country.
- How do you not get swept up?
- Could they meet you halfway?
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的 | was just said · have been selected · being said |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | have been selected · I've never been · we've made |
| 定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物 | someone who asked · someone who know · someone who you |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 44 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 they're, I'm, don't。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, projection /pɹəˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, manipulation /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, intentions /ɪnˈtɛnʃənz/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, manipulation /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
中文母语者容易读错的音：
- 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, automate /ˈɔ.təˌmeɪt/, bracket /ˈbɹækɪt/, backyard /bækˈjɑːd/, sweep /swiːp/
- /æ/ — 嘴张大，不要读成 /e/: bracket /ˈbɹækɪt/, backyard /bækˈjɑːd/, scam /ˈskæm/, halfway /ˌhæfˈweɪ/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
- 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 automate, notify, projection 这类单词。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。