Prática de Shadowing: This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS - Aprenda a falar inglês com vídeo
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But is it appropriate for someone who...
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No. Yeah.
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No, no, no, no, no. There's very little about what was just said that's appropriate.
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So for this week, I thought I'd do something a little different.
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I have a club called the Love Life Club, and every month I answer questions of my members.
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This one caught my attention as something that would be fun to bring to all of you here.
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It was someone who asked, How do you know the difference between someone who is love bombing you and someone who has real intentions?
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This was my answer.
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And by the way, don't forget to like this video, subscribe to this channel and hit the notification bell so that you get notified the next time we do a video.
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Can we do one final question?
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Please.
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Yeah.
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From someone called Tamila.
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How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine attention?
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I met a man online.
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In brackets, I'm traveling out of country.
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He was pursuing me and is waiting to meet when I'm back in the US.
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We're in different states and he's organizing a day in his city, San Diego, in a month.
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In his text, there's a lot of us talk.
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Talk of living together, how many kids I'd want, asking me for my preferences on houses, calling me wifey, etc. Help.
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How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine intention?
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How long has she been speaking to this man?
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She met him online.
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But how long ago?
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It doesn't say But is it appropriate for someone who know?
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Yeah, no, no, no, no, no There's very little about what was just said that's appropriate
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It's you know it that's has love bombing written all Over it.
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How do you not get swept up?
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Because it's a lovely thing to hear, right?
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You meet someone you find attractive, whatever, and they're saying all the right things, and they're saying all these, like, how do you stop yourself from getting carried away in those kinds of words?
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Here's what you hear in your head.
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You hear, imagine someone just rang your phone, like it was an unknown number, and you picked it up and it was a automated message
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and it said you have been selected from a random pool
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of people to collect two million dollars all you need to
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do to collect your winnings is to speak now with your bank account details so that we can deposit the funds
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that's what you imagine being said because if
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that happened we'd all be like hang up this doesn't make
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any sense why you're giving me two million dollars right now I've never been that lucky in my entire life
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it doesn't add up two million dollars is not that easy to make no
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if someone out of nowhere starts saying wifey this, wifey that, we're going to have this many kids, we're going to live in this house,
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either they are projecting to a scary degree,
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which means that there's something unhealthy about them
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and they believe they're this in love with you and they're mistaken because they don't even know you.
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So that love isn't real and you're dealing with a really unhealthy person, or you're dealing with a scammer.
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What they're scamming you out of, it might be sex, it might be money,
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it might be just all of your energy, and they're not going to give you anything in return.
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They're just going to bring you out to San Diego
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and have a fun with you and then send you back and be like, wifey what?
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I didn't say any of that.
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I don't remember any of that it's
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you know there's some they're trying to get something
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they're trying to get something
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so you you have to start seeing it for what it
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really is it feels nice to be told you just won a million dollars but you can't trust it
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and it's the same with this how can you feel this way about me you do not know me
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you have no idea who I am
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so either take the time to actually get to know who I am and let's start again or
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I'm going to see this for what it is
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which is either a gross projection or a manipulation but someone can only know you over time by asking questions,
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by taking the time to actually get to know you And by the way, be careful of like traveling to see someone who you don't know.
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I mean, in general, are they willing to make an effort to see you?
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Could they meet you halfway?
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You know, like, is there a way for the two of you to meet in a way
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that requires at least some mutual investment?
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Because the, you know, fly to be with me in my backyard is a very easy thing to say to someone.
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And I'm not saying that means they're dangerous or evil, but at the very least, it's like, it's a lot of work for you
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and none for them I think that's such a good point we've made it before
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but um just when somebody asks you to fly to see them it feels like investment
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because you go oh my god they really want to spend all this time with me
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but actually it's no investment
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if the person is thinking well I'm gonna have a nice weekend I'm gonna get sex out of it
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and then they fly home and i never have to think about it again
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or i certainly don't have to think about it further than
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that weekend and until i decide but we think it feels like
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because it feels like investment right it feels like it's something serious
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because you think oh this person wants to spend a weekend with me exactly
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so yeah i think that's really interesting what it is is
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you're depositing a whole lot of money for very little investment on their part.
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Thank you so much for watching.
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Before you go, if finding love is a priority for you this year, I have something for you that is brand new.
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I'm really excited about it.
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Thousands of people have now been through this training and it's available for you to watch right now at datingwithresults.com.
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Go check it out.
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I can't wait to see what you think and I'll speak to you soon.
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Thank you.
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição
Esta aula de conversação de nível B2 usa o vídeo “This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS”. Este vídeo tem 88 frases e 1125 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 7:07. O falante fala em ritmo natural, cerca de 158 palavras por minuto, próximo de uma conversa do dia a dia. 90% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês, por isso o vocabulário é fácil de acompanhar. 14 das 88 frases são perguntas, por isso é um bom treino para a entonação de perguntas e respostas curtas.
Vocabulário principal deste vídeo
As 15 palavras mais avançadas do vídeo, com pronúncia e significado:
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| differentiate verbo | /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/ | diferenciar, distinguir |
| unhealthy adjetivo | /ʌnˈhɛl.θi/ | insalubre |
| automate verbo | /ˈɔ.təˌmeɪt/ | automatizar |
| notify verbo | /ˈnoʊtɪfaɪ/ | notificar, informar |
| projection substantivo | /pɹəˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/ | projeção |
| bracket substantivo | /ˈbɹækɪt/ | cantoneira, cachorro |
| manipulation substantivo | /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/ | manipulação |
| backyard substantivo | /bækˈjɑːd/ | quintal |
| notification substantivo | /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/ | notificação |
| scam substantivo | /ˈskæm/ | golpe, calote |
| sweep verbo | /swiːp/ | varrer, escovar |
| organize verbo | /ˈɔɹɡənaɪz/ | organizar |
| subscribe verbo | /səbˈskɹaɪb/ | assinar |
| halfway advérbio | /ˌhæfˈweɪ/ | na metade |
| preference substantivo | /ˈpɹɛf(ə)ɹ(ə)ns/ | preferência |
Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir
| Palavra | Significado |
|---|---|
| hang up verbo | pendurar |
Frases que vale a pena repetir
Frases curtas e completas do vídeo que você pode usar na conversa do dia a dia:
- Can we do one final question?
- How do I differentiate between love bombing and genuine attention?
- In brackets, I'm traveling out of country.
- How do you not get swept up?
- Could they meet you halfway?
Gramática neste vídeo
As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:
| Estrutura | No vídeo |
|---|---|
| Voz passiva be + particípio passado — o foco está no que acontece, não em quem faz | was just said · have been selected · being said |
| Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agora | have been selected · I've never been · we've made |
| Orações relativas who / which + oração — informação extra sobre uma pessoa ou coisa | someone who asked · someone who know · someone who you |
Pronúncia para ficar de olho
O falante usa 44 contrações e formas reduzidas, como they're, I'm, don't. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.
- Os sons de “sh” e “zh”: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, projection /pɹəˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, manipulation /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, intentions /ɪnˈtɛnʃənz/
- Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, manipulation /məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
Sons difíceis para falantes de português:
- Consoante final — sem acrescentar um “i” depois: differentiate /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪt/, automate /ˈɔ.təˌmeɪt/, bracket /ˈbɹækɪt/, backyard /bækˈjɑːd/, sweep /swiːp/
- /h/ — um sopro suave, diferente do “r”: unhealthy /ʌnˈhɛl.θi/, halfway /ˌhæfˈweɪ/
- s + consoante no início — sem um “i” antes: scam /ˈskæm/, sweep /swiːp/
Como praticar com este vídeo
- Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
- Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
- Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como differentiate, unhealthy, automate.
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.