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hello my dears so i had the interesting topic brought up to me about the difference between

slow love versus fast love let's look up the definition of slow love

according to ai overview slow love is a romantic orientation

that involves taking a gradual approach to relationships rather than rushing

into commitment a overview's definition of fast love is a term

that describes a culture of superficial expressions of affection

and fleeting emotional connections it can also refer to the idea of falling in love quickly which is sometimes called hemophilia.

I didn't know that.

Known as emotional promiscuity.

This is a term for people who tend to fall in love quickly and often.

People with hemophilia may feel an all -encompassing passion for romantic interest in a short amount of time.

Huh.

I'm gonna start off with saying

that there's nothing wrong with wanting to experience a fast love there's nothing wrong with wanting to be understood

but there are the side effects of being understood too quickly it shows a level of curiosity

that wow this person really wants to get to know me on such a deep level and curiosity is important.

There is a difference between cramming for the exam versus fully understanding the subject.

I'm going to use an example.

There is a person that can get to know you within weeks.

They ask all of the right questions.

They start to really understand who you are, but who they are studying is the person that you are at

that exact moment versus the person

that has gotten to know you over a span of years

and this person has witnessed seeing you change instead of the

first example of where they asked all the right questions and they found out who exactly you are

it's

so much easier for them to kind of put you in

this box of what they studied you to be versus is

the second example of where they witness the box keep growing the first example

that person may feel like whoa you're changing it up a little too much what happened to the person

that i used to know you to be

but the second example is able to understand you to such a fundamental level of throughout all the changes

that i have witnessed you go through these are the points

that have stayed the same

and i know this is you to your core to be

honest rushing love is actually very simple all you have to

do is just lean into the crush of this person

or lean into the few things that you do like about them

and just exploit it and keep using that as a carrying vessel for the rest of the relationship.

It's very easy to do.

The common denominator between slow love and fast love is that there is the chemistry.

I'm not going to take away from the fast love that there isn't a connection there.

There definitely is.

It's just what you do with the connection is extremely important.

I'd say with maturing, you start to understand how to stop being as indulgent with

love the same way how you would with sugar we love

sugar it's delicious it's a nice treat love is like a nice sweet treat

but we want to be able to learn how to pace ourselves

because when you take

so much of it all at once for an extended amount

of time you're gonna feel sick we want to avoid feeling sick from our loves

so with slow love we are practicing patience.

Continue on your life as you would because you still want to put time

and effort into the goals that you have outside of the relationship.

I'd say that's what I notice a lot with the fast loves that I've experienced as well as observed.

A fast love usually puts the rest of our life on hold, while the slow loves, they take such small chunks of time out of our days

and we can still eat the rest of what's on our

plate like they are the sweet treat at the end of the day but we still

fulfilled the main course which were our responsibilities and our ambitions

and i'd say that's a well -balanced meal we would love

to have well -balanced meals as our well -balanced loves

but with the fast loves it gave us no room left in our bodies to have that love for other things

that actually correlates to one of the main reasons as to why i'm scared to fall in love again

love is consuming it's not to say

that i don't want to give this time and energy the problem is

that i do from the first time

that i fell in love i didn't know any part of

how to keep a well -balanced meal i only knew how to keep indulging in what felt great

and a couple heartbreaks later

there's someone here

i was just young and that was to keep leading into this love

and forget everything else but to live a little too presently we love living presently

but you know when you're eating a cake it's like oh this feels great

but you're not thinking about how it's gonna make you feel bad later you're just completely indulging into the present

and just wanting more of this until your satisfaction isn't actually

satisfying it's sickening with a slow love sure it's not going to be it's not going to be overwhelmingly magical

but i'd say it's the small bits of magic

that continues to prove to me it is sustainable

and it will be there through my thick and thin

because it already has versus the fast loves it's like who are you and a lot of the answers to this problem.

I wouldn't even call it a problem.

It's just this rite of passage in life is learning how to be more patient.

We all have different styles of being patient too.

It's truly just further understanding yourself and what your well -balanced meal looks like.

At least definitely with the times that I've experienced fast love, I was running away from something.

Whether I knew it or not.

I was running away from something.

One of my fast loves, I was running away from what my purpose was in life.

I didn't know what I wanted to be when I grew up

and the fact that I had already been at the age of grown up

and I wasn't in the career that I wanted to be in yet, it was agonizing to admit I was lost.

So then I fell into a really fast love.

There goes the well -balanced meal.

I avoided the vegetables and I just went straight for the sugar.

I didn't want to confront that I hadn't had eaten any vegetables.

So yes, the slow loves that I have been experiencing as of late,

I am just truly ever so in love with the fact that you exist.

I didn't know

that slow love existed until i found my best friends i think my abandonment issues really really subsided

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when i found love within these people they have been there through the thick and thin

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i believe that my soul is tied to them

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and it truly took time in order for

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that tie to be created with a knot so strong over time and weather

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and erosion the knot will still be there versus with the fast loves a knot is still tied

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but it can become so undone

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so quickly with extreme ease it is upsetting it's very upsetting

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that oh my gosh i thought

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that i tied such a beautiful bow with this person

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and you probably did but the bow is made of silk

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and although it had the most beautiful presentation is slipped right from underneath itself versus the shipping rope

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that I have with my slow loves.

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I have no fear and only trust for the slow loves that I have accumulated.

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In terms of how to get slow love, I would say it is paying attention to the other aspects of your life

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and that is how you can start practicing a slower love you want to divide

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and experience life in moderation especially the good

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and the bad parts it's the balance it's it's the well balanced meal i have to go now

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but i hope you enjoyed this video and i love you

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so much my romantics i wish you to find all the pairs of your socks

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and all the quarters in your pockets thank you so much romantics i have to go now bye guys

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and a couple heartbreaks later i started to understand and a lot of the answers to please let me know guys

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本課的詞彙與口語要點

這節 B2 級別的口語課以影片“why we should fall in love slowly..”為素材。影片中反覆出現的詞有：fast, slow, balanced, versus, meal。這段影片共有 120 個句子、1482 個單詞可供跟讀。講話部分時長為 10:05。說話人語速平穩，每分鐘約 147 個詞，很適合跟讀。 83% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞，其餘的詞建議在練習前先學一下。

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中最難的 15 個單詞，附發音和釋義：

單詞	發音	釋義
knot 名詞	/nɑt/	結 /結, 繩結 /繩結
haemophilia 名詞	/ˌhiːməˈfɪliə	血友病
heartbreak 名詞	/ˈhɑɹt.bɹeɪk/	破心
indulge 動詞	/ɪnˈdʌld͡ʒ/	屈服
vegetable 名詞	/ˈvɛd͡ʒ.tə.bəl/	蔬菜, 青菜
curiosity 名詞	/ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/	好奇, 好奇心
lean 動詞	/ˈliːn/	傾斜 /傾斜
accumulate 動詞	/əˈkjuːmjʊˌleɪt/	積累 /積累
denominator 名詞	/dɪˈnɒmɪneɪtə(ɹ)/	分母
encompass 動詞	/ɪnˈkʌmpəs/	包圍
moderation 名詞	/ˌmɑdəˈɹeɪʃən/	適度 /適度
subside 動詞	/sʌbˈsaɪd/	平息, 減退
superficial 形容詞	/ˌsupɚˈfɪʃəl/	表面的
undo 動詞	/ʌnˈduː/	復原 /復原, 重做
sock 名詞	/sɑk/	襪子 /襪子

影片中出現的短語動詞

單詞	發音	釋義
grow up 動詞		長大 /長大
find out 動詞		找出, 查明
go through 動詞		通過 /通過
look up 動詞	/ˌlʊk ˈʌp/	仰, 上看

影片中的語法

說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：

結構	影片中的用法
現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事	has gotten · has witnessed · have witnessed
被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的	is sometimes called · be understood · being understood
定語從句 who / which + 從句 — 補充說明人或事物	people who tend · course which were

需要注意的發音

說話人用了 29 次縮略和弱讀形式，例如 didn't, you're, I'd。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。

“sh” 和 “zh” 音: moderation /ˌmɑdəˈɹeɪʃən/, superficial /ˌsupɚˈfɪʃəl/, erosion /ɪˈɹəʊʒən/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/
長單詞——注意重音位置: haemophilia /ˌhiːməˈfɪliə, curiosity /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/, abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, accumulate /əˈkjuːmjʊˌleɪt/, agonizing /ˈæɡ.ə.naɪ.zɪŋ/

中文母語者容易讀錯的音：

/v/ — 不要讀成 /w/，上齒輕觸下唇: vegetable /ˈvɛd͡ʒ.tə.bəl/, overwhelmingly /ˌəʊ.vəˈwɛl.mɪŋ.lɪ/, observe /əbˈzɜːv/, overview /ˈoʊ.vɚˌvjuː/, divide /dɪˈvaɪd/
詞尾子音 — 要讀清楚，後面不要加母音: knot /nɑt/, heartbreak /ˈhɑɹt.bɹeɪk/, indulge /ɪnˈdʌld͡ʒ/, abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, accumulate /əˈkjuːmjʊˌleɪt/
/r/ 和 /l/ 的區別: presently /ˈpɹɛzəntli/, correlate /ˈkɔɹəleɪt/, gradual /ˈɡɹæd͡ʒuəl/

如何用這段影片練習

先完整聽一遍影片，不要開口，記下不認識的單詞。
用正常速度逐句跟讀，每句重複到你的節奏與說話人一致為止。
錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比，特別注意 knot, haemophilia, heartbreak 這類單詞。

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