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hello my dears so i had the interesting topic brought up to me about the difference between
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slow love versus fast love let's look up the definition of slow love
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according to ai overview slow love is a romantic orientation
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that involves taking a gradual approach to relationships rather than rushing
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into commitment a overview's definition of fast love is a term
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that describes a culture of superficial expressions of affection
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and fleeting emotional connections it can also refer to the idea of falling in love quickly which is sometimes called hemophilia.
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I didn't know that.
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Known as emotional promiscuity.
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This is a term for people who tend to fall in love quickly and often.
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People with hemophilia may feel an all -encompassing passion for romantic interest in a short amount of time.
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Huh.
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I'm gonna start off with saying
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that there's nothing wrong with wanting to experience a fast love there's nothing wrong with wanting to be understood
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but there are the side effects of being understood too quickly it shows a level of curiosity
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that wow this person really wants to get to know me on such a deep level and curiosity is important.
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There is a difference between cramming for the exam versus fully understanding the subject.
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I'm going to use an example.
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There is a person that can get to know you within weeks.
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They ask all of the right questions.
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They start to really understand who you are, but who they are studying is the person that you are at
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that exact moment versus the person
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that has gotten to know you over a span of years
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and this person has witnessed seeing you change instead of the
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first example of where they asked all the right questions and they found out who exactly you are
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it's
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so much easier for them to kind of put you in
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this box of what they studied you to be versus is
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the second example of where they witness the box keep growing the first example
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that person may feel like whoa you're changing it up a little too much what happened to the person
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that i used to know you to be
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but the second example is able to understand you to such a fundamental level of throughout all the changes
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that i have witnessed you go through these are the points
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that have stayed the same
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and i know this is you to your core to be
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honest rushing love is actually very simple all you have to
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do is just lean into the crush of this person
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or lean into the few things that you do like about them
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and just exploit it and keep using that as a carrying vessel for the rest of the relationship.
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It's very easy to do.
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The common denominator between slow love and fast love is that there is the chemistry.
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I'm not going to take away from the fast love that there isn't a connection there.
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There definitely is.
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It's just what you do with the connection is extremely important.
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I'd say with maturing, you start to understand how to stop being as indulgent with
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love the same way how you would with sugar we love
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sugar it's delicious it's a nice treat love is like a nice sweet treat
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but we want to be able to learn how to pace ourselves
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because when you take
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so much of it all at once for an extended amount
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of time you're gonna feel sick we want to avoid feeling sick from our loves
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so with slow love we are practicing patience.
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Continue on your life as you would because you still want to put time
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and effort into the goals that you have outside of the relationship.
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I'd say that's what I notice a lot with the fast loves that I've experienced as well as observed.
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A fast love usually puts the rest of our life on hold, while the slow loves, they take such small chunks of time out of our days
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and we can still eat the rest of what's on our
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plate like they are the sweet treat at the end of the day but we still
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fulfilled the main course which were our responsibilities and our ambitions
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and i'd say that's a well -balanced meal we would love
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to have well -balanced meals as our well -balanced loves
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but with the fast loves it gave us no room left in our bodies to have that love for other things
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that actually correlates to one of the main reasons as to why i'm scared to fall in love again
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love is consuming it's not to say
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that i don't want to give this time and energy the problem is
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that i do from the first time
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that i fell in love i didn't know any part of
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how to keep a well -balanced meal i only knew how to keep indulging in what felt great
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and a couple heartbreaks later
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there's someone here
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i was just young and that was to keep leading into this love
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and forget everything else but to live a little too presently we love living presently
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but you know when you're eating a cake it's like oh this feels great
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but you're not thinking about how it's gonna make you feel bad later you're just completely indulging into the present
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and just wanting more of this until your satisfaction isn't actually
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satisfying it's sickening with a slow love sure it's not going to be it's not going to be overwhelmingly magical
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but i'd say it's the small bits of magic
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that continues to prove to me it is sustainable
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and it will be there through my thick and thin
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because it already has versus the fast loves it's like who are you and a lot of the answers to this problem.
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I wouldn't even call it a problem.
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It's just this rite of passage in life is learning how to be more patient.
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We all have different styles of being patient too.
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It's truly just further understanding yourself and what your well -balanced meal looks like.
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At least definitely with the times that I've experienced fast love, I was running away from something.
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Whether I knew it or not.
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I was running away from something.
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One of my fast loves, I was running away from what my purpose was in life.
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I didn't know what I wanted to be when I grew up
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and the fact that I had already been at the age of grown up
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and I wasn't in the career that I wanted to be in yet, it was agonizing to admit I was lost.
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So then I fell into a really fast love.
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There goes the well -balanced meal.
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I avoided the vegetables and I just went straight for the sugar.
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I didn't want to confront that I hadn't had eaten any vegetables.
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So yes, the slow loves that I have been experiencing as of late,
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I am just truly ever so in love with the fact that you exist.
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I didn't know
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that slow love existed until i found my best friends i think my abandonment issues really really subsided
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when i found love within these people they have been there through the thick and thin
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i believe that my soul is tied to them
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and it truly took time in order for
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that tie to be created with a knot so strong over time and weather
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and erosion the knot will still be there versus with the fast loves a knot is still tied
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but it can become so undone
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so quickly with extreme ease it is upsetting it's very upsetting
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that oh my gosh i thought
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that i tied such a beautiful bow with this person
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and you probably did but the bow is made of silk
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and although it had the most beautiful presentation is slipped right from underneath itself versus the shipping rope
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that I have with my slow loves.
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I have no fear and only trust for the slow loves that I have accumulated.
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In terms of how to get slow love, I would say it is paying attention to the other aspects of your life
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and that is how you can start practicing a slower love you want to divide
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and experience life in moderation especially the good
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and the bad parts it's the balance it's it's the well balanced meal i have to go now
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but i hope you enjoyed this video and i love you
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so much my romantics i wish you to find all the pairs of your socks
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and all the quarters in your pockets thank you so much romantics i have to go now bye guys
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and a couple heartbreaks later i started to understand and a lot of the answers to please let me know guys
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Vocabolario e note di pronuncia per questa lezione
Questa lezione di conversazione di livello B2 si basa sul video “why we should fall in love slowly..”. Le parole che ritornano più spesso: fast, slow, balanced, versus, meal. Questo video contiene 120 frasi e 1482 parole da ripetere con lo shadowing. Il parlato dura 10:05. Chi parla mantiene un ritmo costante di circa 147 parole al minuto, comodo per lo shadowing. Il 83% delle parole rientra nelle 3.000 più comuni dell’inglese; conviene studiare le altre prima di iniziare.
Vocaboli chiave di questo video
Le 15 parole più avanzate del video, con pronuncia e significato:
| Parola | Pronuncia | Significato |
|---|---|---|
| knot sostantivo | /nɑt/ | nodo |
| haemophilia sostantivo | /ˌhiːməˈfɪliə | emofilia |
| heartbreak sostantivo | /ˈhɑɹt.bɹeɪk/ | crepacuore |
| vegetable sostantivo | /ˈvɛd͡ʒ.tə.bəl/ | verdura |
| curiosity sostantivo | /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/ | curiosità |
| lean verbo | /ˈliːn/ | pendere |
| abandonment sostantivo | /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/ | abbandono, rinuncia |
| accumulate verbo | /əˈkjuːmjʊˌleɪt/ | accumularsi |
| correlate verbo | /ˈkɔɹəleɪt/ | correlare |
| denominator sostantivo | /dɪˈnɒmɪneɪtə(ɹ)/ | denominatore |
| encompass verbo | /ɪnˈkʌmpəs/ | circondare |
| moderation sostantivo | /ˌmɑdəˈɹeɪʃən/ | moderazione |
| subside verbo | /sʌbˈsaɪd/ | sprofondare, abbassare |
| superficial aggettivo | /ˌsupɚˈfɪʃəl/ | superficiale |
| undo verbo | /ʌnˈduː/ | annullare, disfare |
I phrasal verb che sentirai
| Parola | Significato |
|---|---|
| grow up verbo | crescere |
| find out verbo | scoprire |
| go through verbo | attraversare |
La grammatica di questo video
Le strutture che chi parla usa di più, con le parole esatte del video:
| Struttura | Nel video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + participio passato — un’azione passata che conta ancora adesso | has gotten · has witnessed · have witnessed |
| Forma passiva be + participio passato — conta ciò che accade, non chi lo fa | is sometimes called · be understood · being understood |
| Frasi relative who / which + frase — un’informazione in più su una persona o una cosa | quickly which is · people who tend · course which were |
Pronuncia a cui fare attenzione
Chi parla usa 29 contrazioni e forme ridotte, come didn't, you're, I'd. Pronunciale nella forma breve, così come le senti.
- I suoni “sh” e “zh”: moderation /ˌmɑdəˈɹeɪʃən/, superficial /ˌsupɚˈfɪʃəl/, erosion /ɪˈɹəʊʒən/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/
- Parole lunghe — attenzione all’accento: haemophilia /ˌhiːməˈfɪliə, curiosity /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/, abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, accumulate /əˈkjuːmjʊˌleɪt/, agonizing /ˈæɡ.ə.naɪ.zɪŋ/
I suoni difficili per chi parla italiano:
- /h/ — va soffiata, non è muta: haemophilia /ˌhiːməˈfɪliə, heartbreak /ˈhɑɹt.bɹeɪk/
- Consonante finale — senza aggiungere una vocale dopo: knot /nɑt/, heartbreak /ˈhɑɹt.bɹeɪk/, indulge /ɪnˈdʌld͡ʒ/, abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, accumulate /əˈkjuːmjʊˌleɪt/
- /æ/ — più aperta della “e”: abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, agonizing /ˈæɡ.ə.naɪ.zɪŋ/, gradual /ˈɡɹæd͡ʒuəl/, ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/, satisfy /ˈsætɪsfaɪ/
Come esercitarsi con questo video
- Ascolta tutto il video una volta senza parlare e annota le parole che non conosci.
- Fai shadowing frase per frase a velocità normale, ripetendo ognuna finché il tuo ritmo coincide con quello di chi parla.
- Registrati e confronta con l’originale, facendo attenzione a parole come knot, haemophilia, heartbreak.
Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?
Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.