تدريب Shadowing: self love | how to truly love yourself 💓 - تعلم التحدث بالإنجليزية عبر الفيديو
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What is self -love and how do you truly love yourself?
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Self -love is literally the foundation of self -confidence, self -esteem, and living a happy and fulfilled life.
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Self -love is being able to fully accept and love yourself for the human that you are.
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So loving everything about yourself, even your flaws, even the parts that you're insecure about.
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It's recognizing your true worth, that you are ultimately so worthy simply for existing.
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You don't have to do anything.
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You don't have to be anything or try to change yourself.
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You are perfect and whole and worthy as you are, like perfect in the imperfections.
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It's the same way that you look at a puppy or a baby and you automatically love it.
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It's like so worthy and beautiful.
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They didn't have to do anything or change anything about themselves.
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Just the fact that they exist, like they are already so worthy and so lovable.
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So you are exactly that lovable.
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So today, let's talk about how to truly love yourself because only with true self -love can you do anything in life.
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Without self -love, you're not going to get very far.
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You're going to hold yourself back, lack of self -confidence and self -belief.
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So only when you truly love yourself, can you go forth and be confident doing whatever you want with your life, taking it wherever you want.
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The first most important thing to transform is your self -talk.
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Self -talk is the way that we talk to ourselves in our mind.
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Most of the time, we are our own worst critic, and we're very mean to ourselves.
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That voice could come from our insecurity.
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It could come from a voice of our parents or our peers.
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But the first step to your self -love journey is recognizing your self -talk,
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recognizing the negative things that you say to yourself, and changing that.
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Changing your thoughts, changing how you talk to yourself, which then changes how you feel about yourself.
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The truth is we're all living in our own minds.
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For example, let's say someone is objectively pretty and people tell them they're pretty.
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But if that person in their mind doesn't believe that, if they feel insecure and they think that they look ugly or terrible,
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then that is their truth.
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It doesn't matter what people on the outside say to them
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because they don't believe it they believe the thoughts and the self -talk going on in their head.
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This is why having positive self -talk is so important,
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and it is the first step to healing this relationship you have with yourself and to start truly loving yourself,
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even if it feels fake or awkward at first.
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Because only with repetition, with those thoughts, will you start to truly believe them.
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This is why positive affirmations are so popular and so powerful,
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because literally saying these positive affirmations to ourselves makes us start to believe that they're true.
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Your brain is really funny how it will believe what you feed it.
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That's why you have to ingrain with repetition all of these positive thoughts.
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And you're going to get through the awkward parts
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and eventually it's going to truly feel true and it's going to boost your confidence.
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That's where the magic starts.
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Number two is shadow work.
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So this is where you go deep as if you're an archaeologist.
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You uncover the origins of your beliefs, the origins of, let's say, your insecurity or why you say mean things about yourself.
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Like, why do you believe these things?
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Where did they first come from?
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Because a baby is not born hating themselves.
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A baby is not born being mean to themselves.
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A baby is just pure and literally a blank slate.
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And it is really society or your parents or environment that kind of started to form these beliefs about yourself.
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So to do shadow work, you go deep into those origins of those beliefs.
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You try to uncover your fears and why you have certain fears.
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You start to face the dark, ugly, shadowy parts of yourself.
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that you want to avoid or ignore or hide away.
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Shadow work is really shining a light on all of those dark things and being like, okay, why am I so messed up in this area?
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Why am I so insecure?
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And with that awareness, shift your thinking.
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Start to release all of those old beliefs.
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Start to release all those old stories that are not serving you.
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Shadow work is truly grueling work, and it's probably going to involve a lot of tears
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and a lot of discomfort because you're making yourself look at the parts
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that you tend to avoid or tend to ignore exist.
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So it's not something that you do once and you're done.
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It's literally a lifelong journey where you just uncover layer by layer, maybe through a journaling session or a meditation session,
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but you start to understand yourself on a deeper level, like why you are the way you are.
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And then with your adult mind, you can understand why the child version of me formed this belief to protect yourself.
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And you start to tell yourself as an adult, now I don't need that belief anymore.
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I don't need to have that same perspective.
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I can choose a more positive perspective and I can start to let go of that past.
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Number three is learning to genuinely practice forgiveness and compassion to yourself and to others.
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I believe that true love includes compassion and forgiveness.
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If you love someone, then you are able to forgive them.
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And that is one of the hardest things for a lot of people to do.
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A lot of people like to hold grudges and not be able to forgive people.
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But at the end of the day, you are only able to love yourself the way you truly love others and vice versa.
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You can only love someone to an extent that you love yourself.
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So practicing forgiveness and compassion both ways, like to yourself and to others,
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will help you develop that ability and that strength to love unconditionally.
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Self -forgiveness is being able to forgive yourself for your mistakes, for your flaws, for your failures, and being able to love yourself.
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It is being gentle with yourself.
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And that's what self -love is all about.
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But the other part is also learning to do this with other people.
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So learning to forgive other people, people who have hurt you in your life,
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and try to find in your heart to find some compassion for them, because each person is a human being.
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Humans make mistakes.
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Humans are flawed all the time.
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When you have compassion, you can start to learn to forgive people.
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That is also a lifelong healing journey, but if you're able to make progress in that area, then you're able to love yourself so much more.
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Honestly, you're going to have so much more inner peace once you learn to forgive others.
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You don't want to hold that burden in your heart for the rest of your life.
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It is actually hurting you.
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Not being able to forgive someone is like drinking poison and hurting yourself and expecting them to be hurt, expecting them to feel pain.
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But the truth is they are detached from this.
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Whether they feel guilty or not, that's on them.
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But what you're doing to yourself is you're hurting yourself the longer you refuse to forgive them, the longer you hold onto that grudge.
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Why would you stay suffering
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when you can just simply have it in your heart to let it go and finally feel at peace?
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Number four is to step into your new identity, the identity of this person who loves themselves fully and unconditionally.
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So ask yourself, how do I love people in my life?
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Like how do I show love?
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How do I treat these people?
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Or even if you have pets, right?
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How do I treat my pets who I love unconditionally?
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Give that kind of love to yourself.
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So what would you do differently if you truly loved yourself?
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How would you go about your day?
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How would you go about your week?
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How would you treat yourself throughout the week?
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How would you talk to yourself in your mind?
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What would you do for yourself?
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Make a list, envision what this version of yourself looks like, the version that truly loves yourself.
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And then start living as that person.
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Start envisioning and imagining that you are that person right now, and literally treat yourself.
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What do you want to do today because you love yourself so much?
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How would you carry yourself?
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How would you walk in a room?
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What would you wear?
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All of these things are part of this new identity that you have to step into because you are that person.
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Alright, the next step is to integrate this new identity.
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Start to recognize the self -love habits, practices, and routines that this identity, this person does and start to integrate that into your life.
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So start building those ideal self -care routines, self -love routines.
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Ask like, what activities make me feel good?
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What activities make me feel loved?
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What are the habits that someone who fully loves themself would do, right?
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If someone fully loves themselves, they would eat healthier.
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They would exercise.
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They would invest in themselves, right?
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Other self -love habits could be journaling, repeating positive affirmations, meditating, doing yoga, having full -on self -care routines every evening,
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doing the most with your skincare.
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Whatever it is for you that makes you feel good and that makes you feel loved, start to integrate that into your daily lifestyle.
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Literally write down, what are you going to do every single day?
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What are you going to do in the week?
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And start to build that into your routine.
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By the way, a lot of these exercises and prompts on self -love are in our Artist of Life Workbook.
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So if you haven't checked it out, I'll leave the link here and down below.
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The Artist of Life Workbook is our guided journal to help you create your most successful and intentional year.
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There's a whole section on self -love, refreshing your mindset, designing your ideal routine from your daily morning, evening routines, and also your weekly routines.
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And then it keeps you accountable throughout the year with monthly goals and habit tracking, gratitude journaling.
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It just has so much jam -packed in this one workbook that it will change your life because it has changed mine.
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So I'm fully confident in our workbook.
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Definitely check it out.
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I'll leave the link down below.
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The final tip I have for your self -love journey is to focus on progress, not perfection.
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You're going to be on this journey for probably the rest of your life.
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It's a lifelong journey where our self -love just continues to deepen and deepen.
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And sometimes you just got to take baby steps.
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As long as you have a little bit of progress, that is already a win.
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And remember that the growth is not always linear.
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Sometimes you'll feel really good about yourself.
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You'll be like, yeah, I love myself, whatever.
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And then you might backtrack.
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You have your ups and downs and that's totally okay
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because it's all part of the journey what matters is that you know what the goal is.
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You know the goal is to have that unconditional, powerful love for yourself where you are literally invincible.
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Nothing can touch you.
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Celebrate your progress along the way.
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Maybe this year you love yourself so much more than you did last year.
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Celebrate all those little wins.
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Celebrate your confidence building little by little and you'll definitely get to where you wanna be.
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All right, now let me know down below from one to 10, how far along do you feel like in your self -love journey?
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1 being the worst, you hate yourself, you're in the dumps, and then 10 being you're gloriously loving yourself and shining super bright.
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Let me know where you are from 1 to 10.
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I feel like I've been at an 8 .5.
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I've been very feeling good about myself.
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There's always room to grow, of course, so I'll put myself there.
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But comment down below where you feel like you are in that range from 1 to 10.
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Alright, that's it for today.
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Sending you so much love.
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And don't forget to check out our new
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Artist of Life workbook to help you plan your 2024.
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Yes, the new year is coming very soon.
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I'm planning a lot of new year content for planning our new year as well, so get ready for that.
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And I'll see you in the next one.
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Thank you.
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Bye.
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المفردات وملاحظات التحدث لهذا الدرس
أكثر الكلمات تكرارًا في الفيديو: self, truly, journey. يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 158 جملة و2368 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 12:54. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة، نحو 184 كلمة في الدقيقة، لذا ستسمع كثيرًا من وصل الكلمات واختزال الأصوات. 88% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، فالمفردات سهلة المتابعة. 26 من أصل 158 جملة هي أسئلة، لذلك يناسب التدرب على نبرة السؤال والإجابات القصيرة.
أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو
15 كلمة من الفيديو تستحق التعلّم، مع النطق والمعنى:
| الكلمة | النطق | المعنى |
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| routine اسم | /ɹuˈtin/ | رُوتِين |
| forgive فعل | /fɚˈɡɪv/ | سَامَحَ, غَفَرَ |
| belief اسم | /bɪˈliːf/ | اِعْتِقَاد |
| compassion اسم | /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ | رَحْمَة, شَفَقَة |
| shadow اسم | /ˈʃædəʊ̯/ | ظِلّ, خَيَال |
| habit اسم | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | عَادَة |
| forgiveness اسم | /fɚˈɡɪvnəs/ | مَغْفِرَة, غُفْرَان |
| heal فعل | /ˈhiːl/ | شَفَى |
| ignore فعل | /ɪɡˈnɔː/ | تَجَاهَلَ, طَنَّش |
| pet اسم | /pɛt/ | حَيَوَان مَنْزَلِيّ, حَيَوَان أَلِيف |
| ideal صفة | /aɪˈdi(ə)l/ | مِثَالِيّ |
| ugly صفة | /ˈʌɡli/ | قَبِيح, بَشِع |
| layer اسم | /ˈleɪ̯ɚ/ | طَبَقَة |
| connect فعل | /kəˈnɛkt/ | رَبَطَ |
| shine فعل | /ʃaɪn/ | لَمَعَ, وَمَضَ |
الأفعال المركبة التي ستسمعها
| الكلمة | النطق | المعنى |
|---|---|---|
| fill out فعل | /fɪl ˈaʊt/ | مَلَأَ |
جمل تستحق التكرار
جمل قصيرة وكاملة من الفيديو يمكنك استخدامها في الحديث اليومي:
- Why am I so insecure?
- How do I treat these people?
- How would you go about your day?
- How would you go about your week?
- How would you treat yourself throughout the week?
القواعد في هذا الفيديو
أكثر التراكيب التي يستخدمها المتحدث، مع العبارات نفسها من الفيديو:
| التركيب | في الفيديو |
|---|---|
| الجمل الشرطية if + جملة، will/would + فعل — شرط ونتيجته | If someone fully loves themselves, they would eat · if you haven't checked it out, I'll leave |
| المضارع التام have/has + اسم المفعول — حدث ماضٍ ما زال له أثر الآن | has helped · have hurt · haven't checked |
| المبني للمجهول be + اسم المفعول — التركيز على ما يحدث لا على من يفعله | is trained · is not born · are flawed |
| جمل الوصل who / which + جملة — معلومة إضافية عن شخص أو شيء | people who have · person who loves · someone who fully |
نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه
يستخدم المتحدث 58 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل you're, gonna, don't. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.
- أصوات “th”: worthy /ˈwɝ.ði/, therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/, themself /ðɛmˈsɛlf/
- أصوات “sh” و“zh”: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, shadow /ˈʃædəʊ̯/, shine /ʃaɪn/, perfection /pɚˈfɛk.ʃən/, meditation /mɛdɪˈteɪʃn̩/
- الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, affordable /əˈfɔɹ.də.bəl/, accessible /əkˈsɛs.ɪ.bəl/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/
أصوات يجدها متحدثو العربية صعبة:
- /p/ — ليس /b/: انطقه مع نفخة هواء: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/, pet /pɛt/, helpful /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/, peer /pɪɹ/
- /v/ — ليس /f/: مع اهتزاز الأوتار الصوتية: forgive /fɚˈɡɪv/, forgiveness /fɚˈɡɪvnəs/, invest /ɪnˈvɛst/, involve /ɪnˈvɑlv/, wherever /(h)wɛɹˈɛvɚ/
- تتابع الصوامت — لا تضف حركة بينها: therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/, connect /kəˈnɛkt/, flaw /flɔ/, extent /ɪkˈstɛnt/, helpful /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/
كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو
- استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
- ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
- سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل routine, forgive, belief.
ما هي تقنية التظليل الصوتي؟
التظليل الصوتي (Shadowing) تقنية تعلم لغة مدعومة علمياً، طُورت أصلاً لتدريب المترجمين الفوريين المحترفين. الطريقة بسيطة لكنها قوية: تستمع لصوت إنجليزي أصلي وتكرره فوراً بصوت عالٍ — كظل يتبع المتحدث بتأخير 1-2 ثانية. تُظهر الأبحاث تحسناً كبيراً في دقة النطق والتنغيم والإيقاع وربط الأصوات والاستماع والطلاقة.