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In his international best-selling book, The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene wrote, your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away,
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to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
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Do you think playing hard to get works best, or do you prefer to be direct?
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It can be difficult to figure out the best way to attract your crush.
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By the end of this video, you'll learn tips backed by scientific research that will teach you how to step up your game and keep them interested.
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Here's how to attract your crush and leave them wanting more.
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To smile or not to smile.
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When you're flirting with your crush, you should smile to come across as approachable and show them that you're interested.
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Or should you?
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Research shows that it might not be that simple.
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Smiling can be perceived as either attractive or unattractive, and this depends on your gender.
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But there's one expression that seems to be universally attractive, regardless of gender, and it's probably not what you think.
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In a 2011 study published in the journal Emotion, women were perceived as most attractive when they were smiling and looked happy.
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For men, the results were the complete opposite.
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Smiling was their least attractive facial expression.
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So if you're a man, the cool and mysterious persona may be more seductive to your crush.
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But there was one facial expression that was perceived as relatively attractive regardless of gender.
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Shame.
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When someone had their head and eyes tilted downwards and narrowed their posture, expressing shame, they were rated as attractive whether they were male or female.
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When you're with your crush, see how they react when you innocently look down or avert your gaze every once in a while.
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just might help attract them to you.
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The right approach.
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Imagine your crush is sitting at an empty table at school.
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Now is your chance to make a move.
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When you go up to your crush to talk to them, should you approach them from the front and sit across from them or sit beside them?
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Turns out, like a lot of other attraction strategies, the answer depends on your crush's gender.
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In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, participants were approached by a researcher who sat either beside them or directly in front of them.
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Results showed that male participants had a more negative reaction when a female researcher approached them from the front.
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On the other hand, females didn't like being approached from the side by a male researcher.
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According to these findings, if you're trying to attract a man, the best way to approach them is to sit beside them rather than across from them.
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But if your crush is a woman, go with the head-on strategy and sit in front of them.
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It's such a subtle move, they won't even know you're doing it.
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Got jokes?
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Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
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More importantly, do you?
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Philosopher William James once said, common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds.
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A sense of humor is just common sense dancing.
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However, researcher Eric Bressler at McMaster University found that men and women define humor differently.
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Knowing this can help you step up your seduction game.
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Bressler found that women defined someone with a good sense of humor as someone who could make them laugh.
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And they preferred men who have a good sense of humor 62% of the time.
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Conversely, men thought someone had a good sense of humor when they appreciated their own humor, AKA laughed at their jokes.
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They preferred women who laughed at their jokes 65% of the time.
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The takeaway, if your crush is a man, you can pique their interest by laughing at their jokes just a little more.
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And if your crush is a woman, you can attract them by making them laugh rather than laughing at their jokes.
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The magic touch.
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Combining physical touch with the other tips we've mentioned will make you even more attractive to your crush.
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Key is to keep it subtle.
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A 2007 study published in the journal Social Influence had male researchers either ask women for their numbers
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or ask them to dance.
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In both cases, they found that if they touched a woman's forearm for just one or two seconds before asking her, she was more likely to say yes.
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Light touches on the arm are an innocent and simple way to attract your crush.
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Of course, this technique depends on your relationship with them, their boundaries, and your cultural norms.
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But if you and your crush are comfortable with it, giving them a soft touch on the arm every once in a while might be the perfect way to arouse their interest.
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Thanks for watching, Psych2Goers.
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We hope you found this video helpful.
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Remember, these tips shouldn't be used to manipulate your crush.
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At the end of the day, the best way to attract someone if you want a genuine relationship with them is to be yourself.
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Will you be trying any of these tips?
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Do you have any of your own attraction tips to offer that have worked for you in the past?
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Share your ideas in the comments below.
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Keep in mind that because scientific research has focused primarily on straight men and women, some of the studies in this video don't reflect everyone's experience.
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If you have a perspective to share that hasn't been mentioned, we'd love to hear from you and start an open and inclusive conversation.
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Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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Thanks for watching and see you in the next one.

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यह B2 स्तर का स्पीकिंग पाठ वीडियो “How To Subtly Attract Your Crush” पर आधारित है। सबसे ज़्यादा दोहराए गए शब्द ये हैं: crush, humor, sense, attract, attractive। इस वीडियो में शैडोइंग के लिए 65 वाक्य और 950 शब्द हैं। बोला गया हिस्सा 4:50 लंबा है। वक्ता तेज़ बोलता है, लगभग 196 शब्द प्रति मिनट, इसलिए जुड़ी हुई और कमज़ोर ध्वनियाँ ज़्यादा मिलेंगी। 83% शब्द अंग्रेज़ी के 3,000 सबसे आम शब्दों में से हैं; बाकी शब्द अभ्यास से पहले देख लेना अच्छा रहेगा।

इस वीडियो की मुख्य शब्दावली

वीडियो के 12 सबसे कठिन शब्द, उच्चारण और अर्थ के साथ:

शब्दउच्चारणअर्थ
researcher संज्ञा/ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/शोधकर्ता, शोधक
seduction संज्ञा/sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/प्रलोभन
participant संज्ञा/pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/भागी, भागिनी
attraction संज्ञा/əˈtɹækʃn̩/आकर्षण
conversely क्रिया विशेषण/kənˈvɝsli/दूसरी ओर
persona संज्ञा/pɝˈsoʊnə/व्यक्तित्व
philosopher संज्ञा/fəˈlɑsəfɚ/दार्शनिक
combine क्रिया/kəmˈbaɪn/मिलाना
boundary संज्ञा/ˈbaʊndɹi/सीमा
satisfaction संज्ञा/sætɪsˈfækʃən/संतुष्टि, संतोष
rat संज्ञा/ɹæt/चूहा, मूश
mysterious विशेषण/mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/रहस्यपूर्ण, गूढ

दोहराने लायक वाक्य

वीडियो के छोटे, पूरे वाक्य जिन्हें आप रोज़ की बातचीत में इस्तेमाल कर सकते हैं:

  • Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
  • More importantly, do you?
  • Will you be trying any of these tips?

इस वीडियो का व्याकरण

वक्ता जिन संरचनाओं का सबसे अधिक प्रयोग करता है, वीडियो के असली शब्दों के साथ:

संरचनावीडियो में
Passive voice be + past participle — ज़ोर इस पर कि क्या होता है, न कि कौन करता हैcan be perceived · were perceived · was perceived
Present perfect have/has + past participle — बीता हुआ काम जिसका असर अभी भी हैwe've mentioned · have worked · has focused
Relative clauses who / which + उपवाक्य — व्यक्ति या वस्तु के बारे में अतिरिक्त जानकारीsomeone who could · men who have · women who laughed

ध्यान देने योग्य उच्चारण

वक्ता 14 बार संक्षिप्त रूपों का प्रयोग करता है, जैसे you're, didn't, don't। इन्हें वैसे ही छोटा बोलें जैसा आप सुनते हैं।

  • “sh” और “zh” की ध्वनियाँ: crush /kɹʌʃ/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
  • लंबे शब्द — बलाघात सही रखें: participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, innocently /ˈɪnəsəntli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/

हिंदी भाषियों के लिए मुश्किल ध्वनियाँ:

  • /v/ और /w/ का फ़र्क़ — /v/ में ऊपर के दाँत निचले होंठ को छूते हैं, /w/ में होंठ गोल होते हैं: perceive /pɚˈsiv/, downwards /ˈdaʊnwɚdz/, seductive /sɪˈdʌktɪv/, takeaway /ˈteɪkəweɪ/, conversely /kənˈvɝsli/
  • /z/ — इसे “ज” (/dʒ/) न बनाएँ: arouse /əˈɹaʊz/, downwards /ˈdaʊnwɚdz/, gaze /ɡeɪz/
  • /æ/ — “ऐ” से ज़्यादा खुला: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/, react /ɹiːˈækt/, rat /ɹæt/

इस वीडियो से अभ्यास कैसे करें

  1. पहले बिना बोले पूरा वीडियो एक बार सुनें और जो शब्द नहीं आते उन्हें लिख लें।
  2. 0.75× गति से शुरू करें, एक-एक वाक्य की शैडोइंग करें, और सहज लगने पर सामान्य गति पर लौटें।
  3. अपनी आवाज़ रिकॉर्ड करें और मूल से तुलना करें, ख़ासकर researcher, seduction, participant जैसे शब्दों पर ध्यान दें।

शैडोइंग तकनीक क्या है?

शैडोइंग (Shadowing) एक विज्ञान-समर्थित भाषा सीखने की तकनीक है जो मूल रूप से पेशेवर दुभाषिया प्रशिक्षण के लिए विकसित की गई थी। विधि सरल लेकिन शक्तिशाली है: आप मूल अंग्रेज़ी ऑडियो सुनते हैं और तुरंत इसे ज़ोर से दोहराते हैं — जैसे वक्ता की छाया 1-2 सेकंड की देरी से। शोध से पता चलता है कि यह उच्चारण सटीकता, स्वर, लय, जुड़ी हुई ध्वनियाँ, सुनने की समझ और बोलने की प्रवाहशीलता में काफ़ी सुधार करता है।

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