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In his international best-selling book, The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene wrote, your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away,
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to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
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Do you think playing hard to get works best, or do you prefer to be direct?
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It can be difficult to figure out the best way to attract your crush.
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By the end of this video, you'll learn tips backed by scientific research that will teach you how to step up your game and keep them interested.
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Here's how to attract your crush and leave them wanting more.
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To smile or not to smile.
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When you're flirting with your crush, you should smile to come across as approachable and show them that you're interested.
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Or should you?
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Research shows that it might not be that simple.
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Smiling can be perceived as either attractive or unattractive, and this depends on your gender.
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But there's one expression that seems to be universally attractive, regardless of gender, and it's probably not what you think.
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In a 2011 study published in the journal Emotion, women were perceived as most attractive when they were smiling and looked happy.
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For men, the results were the complete opposite.
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Smiling was their least attractive facial expression.
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So if you're a man, the cool and mysterious persona may be more seductive to your crush.
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But there was one facial expression that was perceived as relatively attractive regardless of gender.
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Shame.
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When someone had their head and eyes tilted downwards and narrowed their posture, expressing shame, they were rated as attractive whether they were male or female.
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When you're with your crush, see how they react when you innocently look down or avert your gaze every once in a while.
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just might help attract them to you.
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The right approach.
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Imagine your crush is sitting at an empty table at school.
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Now is your chance to make a move.
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When you go up to your crush to talk to them, should you approach them from the front and sit across from them or sit beside them?
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Turns out, like a lot of other attraction strategies, the answer depends on your crush's gender.
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In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, participants were approached by a researcher who sat either beside them or directly in front of them.
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Results showed that male participants had a more negative reaction when a female researcher approached them from the front.
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On the other hand, females didn't like being approached from the side by a male researcher.
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According to these findings, if you're trying to attract a man, the best way to approach them is to sit beside them rather than across from them.
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But if your crush is a woman, go with the head-on strategy and sit in front of them.
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It's such a subtle move, they won't even know you're doing it.
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Got jokes?
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Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
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More importantly, do you?
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Philosopher William James once said, common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds.
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A sense of humor is just common sense dancing.
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However, researcher Eric Bressler at McMaster University found that men and women define humor differently.
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Knowing this can help you step up your seduction game.
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Bressler found that women defined someone with a good sense of humor as someone who could make them laugh.
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And they preferred men who have a good sense of humor 62% of the time.
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Conversely, men thought someone had a good sense of humor when they appreciated their own humor, AKA laughed at their jokes.
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They preferred women who laughed at their jokes 65% of the time.
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The takeaway, if your crush is a man, you can pique their interest by laughing at their jokes just a little more.
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And if your crush is a woman, you can attract them by making them laugh rather than laughing at their jokes.
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The magic touch.
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Combining physical touch with the other tips we've mentioned will make you even more attractive to your crush.
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Key is to keep it subtle.
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A 2007 study published in the journal Social Influence had male researchers either ask women for their numbers
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or ask them to dance.
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In both cases, they found that if they touched a woman's forearm for just one or two seconds before asking her, she was more likely to say yes.
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Light touches on the arm are an innocent and simple way to attract your crush.
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Of course, this technique depends on your relationship with them, their boundaries, and your cultural norms.
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But if you and your crush are comfortable with it, giving them a soft touch on the arm every once in a while might be the perfect way to arouse their interest.
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Thanks for watching, Psych2Goers.
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We hope you found this video helpful.
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Remember, these tips shouldn't be used to manipulate your crush.
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At the end of the day, the best way to attract someone if you want a genuine relationship with them is to be yourself.
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Will you be trying any of these tips?
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Do you have any of your own attraction tips to offer that have worked for you in the past?
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Share your ideas in the comments below.
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Keep in mind that because scientific research has focused primarily on straight men and women, some of the studies in this video don't reflect everyone's experience.
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If you have a perspective to share that hasn't been mentioned, we'd love to hear from you and start an open and inclusive conversation.
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Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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Thanks for watching and see you in the next one.

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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה

שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “How To Subtly Attract Your Crush”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: crush, humor, sense, attract, attractive. בסרטון הזה יש 65 משפטים ו-950 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 4:50. הדובר מדבר מהר, כ-196 מילים בדקה, אז צפו לצלילים מחוברים ומקוצרים. 83% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.

אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה

14 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:

מילההגייהמשמעות
crush פועל/kɹʌʃ/מחץ
humour שם עצם/ˈhjuːmɚ/הוּמוֹר
depend פועל/dɪˈpɛnd/היה תלוי
participant שם עצם/pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/מִשׁתַתֵף
attraction שם עצם/əˈtɹækʃn̩/מְשִׁיכָה, אטרקציה
downwards תואר הפועל/ˈdaʊnwɚdz/מַטָּה, לְמַטָּה
forearm שם עצם/ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/אַמָּה
takeaway שם עצם/ˈteɪkəweɪ/טֵיְיק אֶוֶוי, אֲרוּחַת קַח וָלֵךְ
gaze פועל/ɡeɪz/שָׁזַף עַיִן, הִבִּיט
philosopher שם עצם/fəˈlɑsəfɚ/פִילוֹסוֹף, הוֹגֵה דֵּעוֹת
combine פועל/kəmˈbaɪn/ערבב, שילב
boundary שם עצם/ˈbaʊndɹi/גְּבוּל
rat שם עצם/ɹæt/חֻלְדָּה, עַכְבְּרוֹשׁ
mysterious שם תואר/mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/מִסְתּוֹרִי

Phrasal verbs שתשמעו

מילהמשמעות
figure out פועלהֵבִין, מצא תשובה

משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם

משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:

  • Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
  • More importantly, do you?
  • Will you be trying any of these tips?

דקדוק בסרטון הזה

המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:

מבנהבסרטון
סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולהcan be perceived · were perceived · was perceived
הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיוwe've mentioned · have worked · has focused
משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דברsomeone who could · men who have · women who laughed

הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה

הדובר משתמש ב-14 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו you're, didn't, don't. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.

  • הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: crush /kɹʌʃ/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
  • מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, innocently /ˈɪnəsəntli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/

צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:

  • /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: downwards /ˈdaʊnwɚdz/, takeaway /ˈteɪkəweɪ/
  • /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/, react /ɹiːˈækt/, rat /ɹæt/
  • /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: crush /kɹʌʃ/, researcher /ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/, participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/

איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה

  1. הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
  2. התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
  3. הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו crush, humour, depend.

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