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In his international best-selling book, The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene wrote, your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away,
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to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
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Do you think playing hard to get works best, or do you prefer to be direct?
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It can be difficult to figure out the best way to attract your crush.
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By the end of this video, you'll learn tips backed by scientific research that will teach you how to step up your game and keep them interested.
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Here's how to attract your crush and leave them wanting more.
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To smile or not to smile.
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When you're flirting with your crush, you should smile to come across as approachable and show them that you're interested.
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Or should you?
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Research shows that it might not be that simple.
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Smiling can be perceived as either attractive or unattractive, and this depends on your gender.
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But there's one expression that seems to be universally attractive, regardless of gender, and it's probably not what you think.
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In a 2011 study published in the journal Emotion, women were perceived as most attractive when they were smiling and looked happy.
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For men, the results were the complete opposite.
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Smiling was their least attractive facial expression.
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So if you're a man, the cool and mysterious persona may be more seductive to your crush.
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But there was one facial expression that was perceived as relatively attractive regardless of gender.
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Shame.
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When someone had their head and eyes tilted downwards and narrowed their posture, expressing shame, they were rated as attractive whether they were male or female.
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When you're with your crush, see how they react when you innocently look down or avert your gaze every once in a while.
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just might help attract them to you.
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The right approach.
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Imagine your crush is sitting at an empty table at school.
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Now is your chance to make a move.
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When you go up to your crush to talk to them, should you approach them from the front and sit across from them or sit beside them?
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Turns out, like a lot of other attraction strategies, the answer depends on your crush's gender.
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In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, participants were approached by a researcher who sat either beside them or directly in front of them.
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Results showed that male participants had a more negative reaction when a female researcher approached them from the front.
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On the other hand, females didn't like being approached from the side by a male researcher.
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According to these findings, if you're trying to attract a man, the best way to approach them is to sit beside them rather than across from them.
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But if your crush is a woman, go with the head-on strategy and sit in front of them.
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It's such a subtle move, they won't even know you're doing it.
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Got jokes?
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Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
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More importantly, do you?
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Philosopher William James once said, common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds.
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A sense of humor is just common sense dancing.
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However, researcher Eric Bressler at McMaster University found that men and women define humor differently.
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Knowing this can help you step up your seduction game.
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Bressler found that women defined someone with a good sense of humor as someone who could make them laugh.
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And they preferred men who have a good sense of humor 62% of the time.
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Conversely, men thought someone had a good sense of humor when they appreciated their own humor, AKA laughed at their jokes.
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They preferred women who laughed at their jokes 65% of the time.
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The takeaway, if your crush is a man, you can pique their interest by laughing at their jokes just a little more.
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And if your crush is a woman, you can attract them by making them laugh rather than laughing at their jokes.
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The magic touch.
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Combining physical touch with the other tips we've mentioned will make you even more attractive to your crush.
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Key is to keep it subtle.
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A 2007 study published in the journal Social Influence had male researchers either ask women for their numbers
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or ask them to dance.
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In both cases, they found that if they touched a woman's forearm for just one or two seconds before asking her, she was more likely to say yes.
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Light touches on the arm are an innocent and simple way to attract your crush.
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Of course, this technique depends on your relationship with them, their boundaries, and your cultural norms.
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But if you and your crush are comfortable with it, giving them a soft touch on the arm every once in a while might be the perfect way to arouse their interest.
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Thanks for watching, Psych2Goers.
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We hope you found this video helpful.
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Remember, these tips shouldn't be used to manipulate your crush.
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At the end of the day, the best way to attract someone if you want a genuine relationship with them is to be yourself.
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Will you be trying any of these tips?
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Do you have any of your own attraction tips to offer that have worked for you in the past?
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Share your ideas in the comments below.
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Keep in mind that because scientific research has focused primarily on straight men and women, some of the studies in this video don't reflect everyone's experience.
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If you have a perspective to share that hasn't been mentioned, we'd love to hear from you and start an open and inclusive conversation.
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Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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Thanks for watching and see you in the next one.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这节 B2 级别的口语课以视频“How To Subtly Attract Your Crush”为素材。 视频中反复出现的词有：crush, humor, sense, attract, attractive。 这段视频共有 65 个句子、950 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 4:50。 说话人语速较快，每分钟约 196 个词，会出现较多连读和弱读。 83% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，其余的词建议在练习前先学一下。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中最难的 15 个单词，附发音和释义：
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
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| crush 动词 | /kɹʌʃ/ | 挤压, 挤 |
| humour 名词 | /ˈhjuːmɚ/ | 幽默, 諧謔 /谐谑 |
| researcher 名词 | /ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/ | 研究員 /研究员, 研究者 |
| seduction 名词 | /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/ | 誘惑 /诱惑 |
| perceive 动词 | /pɚˈsiv/ | 察覺 /察觉, 感知 |
| depend 动词 | /dɪˈpɛnd/ | 信任, 信賴 /信赖 |
| participant 名词 | /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/ | 參加者 /参加者, 參與者 /参与者 |
| subtle 形容词 | /ˈsʌtəl/ | 微妙 |
| facial 形容词 | /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/ | 面, 顏面的 /颜面的 |
| attraction 名词 | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | 吸引力 |
| approachable 形容词 | /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/ | 容易接近的 |
| forearm 名词 | /ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/ | 前臂, 下臂 |
| seductive 形容词 | /sɪˈdʌktɪv/ | 诱人的, 誘人的 /诱人的 |
| conversely 副词 | /kənˈvɝsli/ | 倒, 轉而 /转而 |
| persona 名词 | /pɝˈsoʊnə/ | 人物 |
视频中出现的短语动词
| 单词 | 释义 |
|---|---|
| figure out 动词 | 弄清楚 |
| turn out 动词 | 原來 /原来 |
值得反复跟读的句子
视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：
- Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
- More importantly, do you?
- Will you be trying any of these tips?
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
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| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的 | can be perceived · were perceived · was perceived |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | we've mentioned · have worked · has focused |
| 定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物 | someone who could · men who have · women who laughed |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 14 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 you're, didn't, don't。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: crush /kɹʌʃ/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, innocently /ˈɪnəsəntli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/
中文母语者容易读错的音：
- /v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: perceive /pɚˈsiv/, seductive /sɪˈdʌktɪv/, conversely /kənˈvɝsli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, inclusive /ɪnˈkluːsɪv/
- 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: crush /kɹʌʃ/, perceive /pɚˈsiv/, beside /bɪˈsaɪd/, depend /dɪˈpɛnd/, participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/
- /r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
- 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 crush, humour, researcher 这类单词。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。