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In his international best-selling book, The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene wrote, your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away,
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to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
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Do you think playing hard to get works best, or do you prefer to be direct?
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It can be difficult to figure out the best way to attract your crush.
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By the end of this video, you'll learn tips backed by scientific research that will teach you how to step up your game and keep them interested.
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Here's how to attract your crush and leave them wanting more.
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To smile or not to smile.
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When you're flirting with your crush, you should smile to come across as approachable and show them that you're interested.
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Or should you?
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Research shows that it might not be that simple.
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Smiling can be perceived as either attractive or unattractive, and this depends on your gender.
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But there's one expression that seems to be universally attractive, regardless of gender, and it's probably not what you think.
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In a 2011 study published in the journal Emotion, women were perceived as most attractive when they were smiling and looked happy.
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For men, the results were the complete opposite.
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Smiling was their least attractive facial expression.
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So if you're a man, the cool and mysterious persona may be more seductive to your crush.
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But there was one facial expression that was perceived as relatively attractive regardless of gender.
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Shame.
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When someone had their head and eyes tilted downwards and narrowed their posture, expressing shame, they were rated as attractive whether they were male or female.
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When you're with your crush, see how they react when you innocently look down or avert your gaze every once in a while.
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just might help attract them to you.
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The right approach.
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Imagine your crush is sitting at an empty table at school.
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Now is your chance to make a move.
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When you go up to your crush to talk to them, should you approach them from the front and sit across from them or sit beside them?
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Turns out, like a lot of other attraction strategies, the answer depends on your crush's gender.
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In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, participants were approached by a researcher who sat either beside them or directly in front of them.
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Results showed that male participants had a more negative reaction when a female researcher approached them from the front.
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On the other hand, females didn't like being approached from the side by a male researcher.
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According to these findings, if you're trying to attract a man, the best way to approach them is to sit beside them rather than across from them.
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But if your crush is a woman, go with the head-on strategy and sit in front of them.
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It's such a subtle move, they won't even know you're doing it.
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Got jokes?
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Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
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More importantly, do you?
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Philosopher William James once said, common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds.
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A sense of humor is just common sense dancing.
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However, researcher Eric Bressler at McMaster University found that men and women define humor differently.
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Knowing this can help you step up your seduction game.
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Bressler found that women defined someone with a good sense of humor as someone who could make them laugh.
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And they preferred men who have a good sense of humor 62% of the time.
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Conversely, men thought someone had a good sense of humor when they appreciated their own humor, AKA laughed at their jokes.
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They preferred women who laughed at their jokes 65% of the time.
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The takeaway, if your crush is a man, you can pique their interest by laughing at their jokes just a little more.
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And if your crush is a woman, you can attract them by making them laugh rather than laughing at their jokes.
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The magic touch.
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Combining physical touch with the other tips we've mentioned will make you even more attractive to your crush.
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Key is to keep it subtle.
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A 2007 study published in the journal Social Influence had male researchers either ask women for their numbers
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or ask them to dance.
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In both cases, they found that if they touched a woman's forearm for just one or two seconds before asking her, she was more likely to say yes.
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Light touches on the arm are an innocent and simple way to attract your crush.
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Of course, this technique depends on your relationship with them, their boundaries, and your cultural norms.
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But if you and your crush are comfortable with it, giving them a soft touch on the arm every once in a while might be the perfect way to arouse their interest.
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Thanks for watching, Psych2Goers.
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We hope you found this video helpful.
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Remember, these tips shouldn't be used to manipulate your crush.
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At the end of the day, the best way to attract someone if you want a genuine relationship with them is to be yourself.
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Will you be trying any of these tips?
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Do you have any of your own attraction tips to offer that have worked for you in the past?
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Share your ideas in the comments below.
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Keep in mind that because scientific research has focused primarily on straight men and women, some of the studies in this video don't reflect everyone's experience.
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If you have a perspective to share that hasn't been mentioned, we'd love to hear from you and start an open and inclusive conversation.
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Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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Thanks for watching and see you in the next one.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 B2 수준 말하기 레슨은 영상 “How To Subtly Attract Your Crush”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: crush, humor, sense, attract, attractive. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 65개와 단어 950개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 4:50입니다. 화자는 분당 약 196단어로 빠르게 말하므로 연음과 약하게 발음되는 소리가 많습니다. 단어의 83%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| crush 동사 | /kɹʌʃ/ | 누르다 |
| humour 명사 | /ˈhjuːmɚ/ | 유머, 해학 |
| researcher 명사 | /ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/ | 연구원, 연구자 |
| seduction 명사 | /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/ | 유혹 |
| perceive 동사 | /pɚˈsiv/ | 감지하다, 지각하다 |
| depend 동사 | /dɪˈpɛnd/ | 의존하다, ...에 달려 있다 |
| participant 명사 | /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/ | 참가자 |
| arouse 동사 | /əˈɹaʊz/ | 자극하다 |
| forearm 명사 | /ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/ | 팔뚝, 아래팔 |
| seductive 형용사 | /sɪˈdʌktɪv/ | 매혹적인, 유혹적인 |
| manipulate 동사 | /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/ | 조종하다 |
| philosopher 명사 | /fəˈlɑsəfɚ/ | 철학자 |
| norm 명사 | /nɔːm/ | 규범 |
| combine 동사 | /kəmˈbaɪn/ | 조합하다, 결합하다 |
| satisfaction 명사 | /sætɪsˈfækʃən/ | 만족 |
따라 말해 볼 만한 문장
영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:
- Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
- More importantly, do you?
- Will you be trying any of these tips?
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | can be perceived · were perceived · was perceived |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | we've mentioned · have worked · has focused |
| 관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보 | someone who could · men who have · women who laughed |
주의할 발음
화자는 you're, didn't, don't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 14번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: crush /kɹʌʃ/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, innocently /ˈɪnəsəntli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, forearm /ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/, flirt /flɚt/, philosopher /fəˈlɑsəfɚ/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: perceive /pɚˈsiv/, seductive /sɪˈdʌktɪv/, conversely /kənˈvɝsli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, inclusive /ɪnˈkluːsɪv/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: arouse /əˈɹaʊz/, downwards /ˈdaʊnwɚdz/, gaze /ɡeɪz/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, crush, humour, researcher 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
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