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In his international best-selling book, The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene wrote, your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away,
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to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
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Do you think playing hard to get works best, or do you prefer to be direct?
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It can be difficult to figure out the best way to attract your crush.
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By the end of this video, you'll learn tips backed by scientific research that will teach you how to step up your game and keep them interested.
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Here's how to attract your crush and leave them wanting more.
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To smile or not to smile.
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When you're flirting with your crush, you should smile to come across as approachable and show them that you're interested.
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Or should you?
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Research shows that it might not be that simple.
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Smiling can be perceived as either attractive or unattractive, and this depends on your gender.
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But there's one expression that seems to be universally attractive, regardless of gender, and it's probably not what you think.
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In a 2011 study published in the journal Emotion, women were perceived as most attractive when they were smiling and looked happy.
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For men, the results were the complete opposite.
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Smiling was their least attractive facial expression.
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So if you're a man, the cool and mysterious persona may be more seductive to your crush.
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But there was one facial expression that was perceived as relatively attractive regardless of gender.
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Shame.
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When someone had their head and eyes tilted downwards and narrowed their posture, expressing shame, they were rated as attractive whether they were male or female.
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When you're with your crush, see how they react when you innocently look down or avert your gaze every once in a while.
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just might help attract them to you.
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The right approach.
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Imagine your crush is sitting at an empty table at school.
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Now is your chance to make a move.
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When you go up to your crush to talk to them, should you approach them from the front and sit across from them or sit beside them?
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Turns out, like a lot of other attraction strategies, the answer depends on your crush's gender.
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In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, participants were approached by a researcher who sat either beside them or directly in front of them.
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Results showed that male participants had a more negative reaction when a female researcher approached them from the front.
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On the other hand, females didn't like being approached from the side by a male researcher.
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According to these findings, if you're trying to attract a man, the best way to approach them is to sit beside them rather than across from them.
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But if your crush is a woman, go with the head-on strategy and sit in front of them.
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It's such a subtle move, they won't even know you're doing it.
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Got jokes?
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Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
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More importantly, do you?
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Philosopher William James once said, common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds.
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A sense of humor is just common sense dancing.
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However, researcher Eric Bressler at McMaster University found that men and women define humor differently.
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Knowing this can help you step up your seduction game.
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Bressler found that women defined someone with a good sense of humor as someone who could make them laugh.
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And they preferred men who have a good sense of humor 62% of the time.
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Conversely, men thought someone had a good sense of humor when they appreciated their own humor, AKA laughed at their jokes.
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They preferred women who laughed at their jokes 65% of the time.
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The takeaway, if your crush is a man, you can pique their interest by laughing at their jokes just a little more.
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And if your crush is a woman, you can attract them by making them laugh rather than laughing at their jokes.
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The magic touch.
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Combining physical touch with the other tips we've mentioned will make you even more attractive to your crush.
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Key is to keep it subtle.
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A 2007 study published in the journal Social Influence had male researchers either ask women for their numbers
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or ask them to dance.
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In both cases, they found that if they touched a woman's forearm for just one or two seconds before asking her, she was more likely to say yes.
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Light touches on the arm are an innocent and simple way to attract your crush.
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Of course, this technique depends on your relationship with them, their boundaries, and your cultural norms.
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But if you and your crush are comfortable with it, giving them a soft touch on the arm every once in a while might be the perfect way to arouse their interest.
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Thanks for watching, Psych2Goers.
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We hope you found this video helpful.
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Remember, these tips shouldn't be used to manipulate your crush.
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At the end of the day, the best way to attract someone if you want a genuine relationship with them is to be yourself.
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Will you be trying any of these tips?
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Do you have any of your own attraction tips to offer that have worked for you in the past?
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Share your ideas in the comments below.
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Keep in mind that because scientific research has focused primarily on straight men and women, some of the studies in this video don't reflect everyone's experience.
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If you have a perspective to share that hasn't been mentioned, we'd love to hear from you and start an open and inclusive conversation.
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Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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Thanks for watching and see you in the next one.
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このレッスンの語彙とスピーキングのポイント
このB2レベルのスピーキングレッスンは、動画「How To Subtly Attract Your Crush」を教材にしています。 繰り返し出てくる語は次のとおりです：crush, humor, sense, attract, attractive。 この動画には、シャドーイング用の文が65文、単語が950語あります。 音声の長さは4:50です。 話す速さは速く、1分あたり約196語です。音のつながりや弱く発音される音が多くなります。 単語の83%は英語の頻出3,000語に含まれます。残りは練習の前に確認しておきましょう。
この動画の重要語彙
動画の中で特に難しい単語15語を、発音と意味つきで紹介します。
| 単語 | 発音 | 意味 |
|---|---|---|
| crush 動詞 | /kɹʌʃ/ | 砕く |
| humour 名詞 | /ˈhjuːmɚ/ | ユーモア, 諧謔 |
| researcher 名詞 | /ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/ | 研究員, 研究者 |
| seduction 名詞 | /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/ | 誘惑 |
| perceive 動詞 | /pɚˈsiv/ | 知覚する, 認める |
| depend 動詞 | /dɪˈpɛnd/ | 依存する |
| participant 名詞 | /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/ | 参加者, 関与者 |
| arouse 動詞 | /əˈɹaʊz/ | 興奮する |
| forearm 名詞 | /ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/ | 前腕, 前膊 |
| seductive 形容詞 | /sɪˈdʌktɪv/ | 悩ましい, あだっぽい |
| philosopher 名詞 | /fəˈlɑsəfɚ/ | 哲学者 |
| norm 名詞 | /nɔːm/ | 規, 規範 |
| combine 動詞 | /kəmˈbaɪn/ | 合わせる, 結び付ける |
| boundary 名詞 | /ˈbaʊndɹi/ | 境界, 境 |
| satisfaction 名詞 | /sætɪsˈfækʃən/ | 満足 |
繰り返し練習したい文
動画に出てくる短く完結した文です。日常会話でそのまま使えます。
- Does your crush have a good sense of humor?
- More importantly, do you?
- Will you be trying any of these tips?
この動画の文法
話し手がよく使っている文型を、動画の実際の表現とともに紹介します。
| 文型 | 動画での表現 |
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| 受動態 be + 過去分詞 — 誰がするかより、何が起きるかに焦点を当てる | can be perceived · were perceived · was perceived |
| 現在完了形 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去の出来事が今も関係している | we've mentioned · have worked · has focused |
| 関係詞節 who / which + 節 — 人や物について情報を加える | someone who could · men who have · women who laughed |
注意したい発音
話し手はyou're, didn't, don'tなど、短縮形や弱形を14回使っています。聞こえたとおりの短い形で発音しましょう。
- 「sh」と「zh」の音: crush /kɹʌʃ/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
- 長い単語（アクセントの位置に注意）: participant /pɑːɹˈtɪsəpənt/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, innocently /ˈɪnəsəntli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/
日本語話者が苦手な音：
- /r/ と /l/ の区別 — /l/ は舌先を歯茎につけ、/r/ はどこにもつけない: approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/
- /v/ — /b/ にならないように、上の歯を下唇に当てる: perceive /pɚˈsiv/, seductive /sɪˈdʌktɪv/, conversely /kənˈvɝsli/, universally /ˌjunɪˈvɝsəli/, inclusive /ɪnˈkluːsɪv/
- /f/ — 「フ」ではなく、上の歯と下唇で出す: facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, forearm /ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/, flirt /flɚt/, philosopher /fəˈlɑsəfɚ/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/
この動画での練習方法
- まず声を出さずに動画を最後まで聞き、知らない単語をメモします。
- まず0.75倍速で一文ずつシャドーイングし、慣れてきたら通常の速度に戻します。
- 自分の声を録音して元の音声と比べます。crush, humour, researcherなどの単語に特に注意しましょう。
シャドーイングとは？英語上達に効果的な理由
シャドーイング（Shadowing）は、もともとプロの通訳者養成プログラムで開発された言語学習法で、多言語習得者として知られるDr. Alexander Arguelles によって広く普及されました。方法はシンプルですが非常に効果的：ネイティブスピーカーの英語を聞きながら、1〜2秒の遅延で声に出してすぐに繰り返す——まるで「影（shadow）」のように話者を追いかけます。文法ドリルや受動的なリスニングと異なり、シャドーイングは脳と口の筋肉が同時にリアルタイムで英語を処理・再現することを強制します。研究により、発音精度、抑揚、リズム、連音、リスニング力、そして会話の流暢さが大幅に向上することが確認されています。IELTSスピーキング対策や自然な英語コミュニケーションを目指す方に特におすすめです。