Pratica di Shadowing: Why Extraordinary is Overrated - Impara a parlare inglese con i video

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I have this alarm on my phone which says, today I welcome harmony and clarity, and some days it just doesn't arrive.
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You know, some days it does.
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Sometimes I think my life is very ordinary, and sometimes I think, what would an extraordinary life be?
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To some people, maybe my life would be extraordinary.
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I don't know.
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To say it's more important to be extraordinary than ordinary, it's just faulty.
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It's faulty because then what I'm trying to do is live up to somebody else's idea of what extraordinary is.
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And I don't think I want to do that.
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If there was anything extraordinary I was going to do, it would be the small little moments that touch someone else's life.
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For example, I want to share my poems with the world.
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And one of the ways I can do that is by writing a blog.
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And writing a blog is pretty scary because I'm putting myself out there
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and I don't know what's going to come back at me.
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But then on the other hand, a poem can have a life in my book, but it gets another life when it's read by somebody else.
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So I decided I was going to start blogging, and I decided to introduce the blog with a poem called An Encouragement.
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Can I read it to you?
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My first poem.
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Walk.
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Set out now.
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Take a step.
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The beginning is easy, but the beginning is the hardest part.
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Close the door behind you.
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Walk through the shadow of the pines.
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Walk in the great sea of eucalyptus.
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Listen as it sings the song of waves and water.
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Hear the trees groan in the wind.
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Walk higher still into the sunlight.
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Smell the feinbos, see the flowers, and walk.
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Walk to the end of the path where the river flows down, where the waterfalls are, to the pool in the rocks.
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Leave your clothes over there, walk into that water and float.
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For me, as someone who's quite introverted, silence is super important.
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I really need it for my mental health, for my well-being.
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I've never really felt a need to fill spaces with spoken words.
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But I have some pretty nasty voices in my head, some really critical ones.
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They're not my best friends, that's for sure.
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But one thing I do know about those voices
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and those scary things that can arise is that they have a finite life, you know.
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I've been on a couple of retreats where part of the retreat has been, let us be silent for a day or for half a day.
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Which for me is like, yay!
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I don't have to talk to anybody.
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I could just be quiet and I could just watch the world go on around me.
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But then on the other hand, I observed how some people really needed to go off into corners
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and whisper to each other because it was hard for them to be quiet.
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So I wrote this poem specially for those people.
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Listen. Be silent.
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Hold your words.
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They will not tear you open.
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You will not die of silence.
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Are you afraid?
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Listen.
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Do you hear the river?
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She flows, she flows, over the rapids and down to the sea.
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Hold your words.
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Let them become ripe, heavy, sweeter than honey.
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Then swallow them.
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See if you can live listening. Be silent.
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Can you hold this moment in your throat?
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Can you die now without speaking? Can you hear?
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I know that my parents loved me.
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Let me start off by saying that.
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I know they loved me.
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I also know that I was a very difficult child for them.
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They found me tricky and I was very determined to be independent.
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So I was kind of unprepared for the fact that when my mom died, I would feel her loss so acutely.
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After she died, there was this shock of going, I'm actually an orphan now,
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even though I'm 60-something, I'm now motherless.
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And it was difficult.
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It was difficult.
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There were a lot of things that I never asked her, I never got around to asking her, because they felt too personal, or they felt too exposing,
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or that they would make her feel vulnerable or me feel vulnerable.
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So this is one of many poems that I wrote after my mother died.
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It's called Orphan Adult.
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I am unmoored, adrift, my anchor lost, uncertain where I belong, unmothered.
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My skin hurts, I can't find a way to stop this running before a wind that tears my sails.
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Salt water in my eyes.
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I can't see.
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The map is lost.
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I didn't know it would be like this.
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There are so many questions I never asked.
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We carry them inside us whether we want to or not.
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In a way, saying I love my parents feels abstract.
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It's something you should say because I didn't have a bad childhood and they did the best they could.
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But I don't think I realised how much a part of me they were until they weren't here anymore.
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And then I was like, oh, so that's another kind of love, the kind of love where someone is so familiar and so comfortable.
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And, um, someone who understands you and knows you that well is,
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you don't come across it often.
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Somebody asked me not that long ago, her mom died at the end of last year, and she said to me, Corinne, how long am I going to feel this grief?
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And can I expect it to go away?
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And I really asked myself the question, is this just not going to be part of my being until the day I die?
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One of the gifts that the idea of impermanence has given to me is that each moment has its own perfection,
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but it will not last.
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So it might feel like, this might feel like it's,
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you know, it's solid, it's real, it's got my tea in it,
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but actually one day it will be broken.
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and both of those things exist side by side.
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So the reality of this moment and the reality of it being broken, in other words, it's not permanent.
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And my mother is dead, but she sits here talking to me, and she does.
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She talks to me over my shoulder now and then, you know.
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I look at myself in the mirror and I see my mother.
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So she's not here, but she is here.
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I cannot control what is to come.
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I can't control the fact that somebody will drop that cup one day or that my mother will die.
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But what I can do is I can be here with my teacup,
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with my mom, and this moment as it This is just perfectly right, but I can't hold on to it.
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So live it, be with it, and know that it will be God one day.
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God.
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The The
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Ram Dass said, we are all walking each other home.
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And for me that's just so lovely because whatever it is and however we do it,
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we're all here walking each other through life and home is the end of, I think for me, home is the end of our lives.
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So we're here to accompany each other in whatever way that might be.
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And it might just be in a very small way of being kind to a stranger, or it might be in a bigger way of taking someone a pot of soup because they're not well,
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or it might just be in the way of saying, I see you and I see that things are tough at the moment.
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To walk someone home means to allow them to be what they are and to support them in their being.
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So if someone was going to walk me home, it would be by saying, hey, it's okay to be you.
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Families know each other.
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Whether they're always kind to each other is another thing,
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but there's a huge comfort in being known for who you are and not having to be somebody else.
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I have a little ancestor altar that's next to my desk.
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I don't know if you saw it.
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And my ancestor, Alta, has got my parents as a young and very happy couple.
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And for me, that's the way I like to remember them.
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So I guess that's, yeah, they are walking me home.
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Il contesto: una conversazione su ordinary e extraordinary

Il video racconta una riflessione intima su vita ordinaria e straordinaria, con esempi concreti come l'uso di un allarme motivazionale, la scrittura di un blog e la creazione di poesie. La lingua è colloquiale ma ricca di espressioni naturali, perfetta per esercitarsi nella comprensione e nella riproduzione di discorsi reali. Attraverso questo contesto, gli apprendenti possono familiarizzarsi con frasi che trattano di emozioni, decisioni e momenti quotidiani, elementi chiave per migliorare la pronuncia inglese e la fluidità.

Frasi e collocazioni utili da memorizzare

  • "Live up to somebody else's idea": corrisponde a "soddisfare l'idea di qualcun altro". Un collocazione frequente per esprimere la pressione a conformarsi.
  • "Put myself out there": significa "mettersi in gioco". Utile per parlare di situazioni intimidanti, come condividere il proprio lavoro.
  • "Nasty voices in my head": "voci brutte nella testa". Una metafora comune per i pensieri critici verso se stessi.
  • "Finite life": "vita finita". Usata per dire che qualcosa non dura per sempre, come i sentimenti negativi.
  • "Fill spaces with spoken words": "riempire gli spazi con parole pronunciate". Esprime l'urgenza di parlare per evitare il silenzio.

La tua sfida: shadowing in inglese

Per esercitarti con il shadow speak (o shadowing), segui questi passaggi: 1. Ascolta un frammento del video di 10-15 secondi (ad esempio, la parte sulla poesia "An Encouragement"). 2. Ripeti immediatamente dopo, cercando di imitare l'intonazione, la velocità e la pronuncia. 3. Ripeti il processo 3-4 volte finché non senti che la tua riproduzione è fluida. Questo metodo aiuta a migliorare la pronuncia inglese e a internalizzare le strutture linguistiche in modo naturale. Prova con la frase: "Walk. Set out now, take a step. The beginning is easy. But the beginning is the hardest part" – nota come la pausa tra le parole e l'accento su "hardest" danno ritmo al discorso. Con la pratica regolare, il shadowspeak diventerà un tool fondamentale per la tua fluency.

Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?

Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.