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There is a tendency that I'm seeing more often in my work as a counselor.

It's concerning.

It's this tendency of having very, very little tolerance for how long people are willing to suck at something.

You know, a very low tolerance for how long they're willing to kind of struggle

and toil and fail in their attempt to attain a certain goal.

so i make this video because it's it's such a concerning uh predicament

because i want to talk about what i think they're losing

when they forego that experience of the toil and struggle

and failure but also too i want to talk about why i think it's

so easy to perpetuate and why i so fully understand

and empathize with where they're coming from

so first let's start

there like looking at looking at this situation like trying to picture myself as a 15 year old

or something being told hey read catcher in the rye

and i want you to write

this five paragraph essay on it i certainly can understand being

like uh no guy why do i want to sit there

and read this book words on a page boring the piss out of me

and then try to sit here in front of a blank page

and write five pages worth of material about what I thought on it.

Yeah.

Kick rocks.

Chachi BT's got me.

AI exists.

Get away from me.

I get it.

I understand where they're coming from, right?

Same thing with sports.

Like why would I want to join this team?

Everybody else is already close -knit.

They're friends.

They've been on this team for two years.

They're looking at me like, who's this guy and and i suck i'm throwing the ball like an absolute idiot

and everybody's looking at me

and i don't like how this makes me feel why would i do this

when i could just go play video games it's much more fun why am i going to go talk to

that girl and try to get a girlfriend

when i've got a simulated version of that right here in my pocket

and that'll take care of what i'm looking for at least for now at least for this moment

and that's kind of the issue

we are sacrificing a piece of ourselves on the altar of convenience every time

we take the counterfeit version right i'm going to take counterfeit version

i'm going to take counterfeit version that's going to satiate this feeling right now

and there's major issue with that because we're not even realizing uh

that we're on a steady diet of this counterfeit bullshit

because we don't have enough time away from our phones in

general to have intentionality to have deep insightful thought in our own lives

you know um contemplating what am i doing am i is

this how i want to do things not having any perspective on ourselves or our lives because we're just in it

piece by piece moment by moment eating the counterfeit

um and so that's kind of the why i'm saying i understand why this is

so concerning and social media exacerbates and kind of facilitates this environment of the perceived of the aesthetic of

just do the surface level just shine

that surface just make it presentable boom just fix it quick fix all about the looks

that is why i get the concern and i empathize with it

but i don't think we put

so much thought into how deeply uh detrimental it is to us

i don't have a good word for our understanding of exactly what it is we're leaving behind maybe

you do what we're leaving behind when we forgo that that time of toil and struggle but it's like

when you read that book and you're bored and you don't know

if you can get to it you're learning something about discipline

and how you how you push yourself and what does motivate you

and what do you really want out of this life

and then you're sitting there with the blank page

and you're thinking about the book and you're actually being honest

and earnest in your attempt to to pull something from who you are

and what you understand what you make of this place

and the words uh that were written on the page

and you're kind of coming up with something brand new with the synergy of those two those two concepts

and you're making something new all your own your fresh own ideas on the page there's something

so beautiful and transcendent and

improving about that that they're just leaving on the table

it's like there's this whole garden in you that can grow

and you can be this incredibly enriched person

but the soil the enriched soil that is needed for

that kind of internal garden only comes from

that time under tension

it only comes from being the new guy in the boxing gym who doesn't know how to throw a punch

and is embarrassed as the guy next to him makes the bag sound like it's a war zone

you know what i mean there's something in that that you learn

and i don't mean just oh i'm learning the skill of boxing and now i'm a better boxer i mean

Why am I insecure?

Oh, I'm learning about brotherhood.

I'm learning about camaraderie.

There's these internal things that will happen to these,

these things that will happen to you that pull on all of these existential questions left, right and center.

And you're going to go, wow, I know myself so much better.

But what in the world is AI going to teach you about yourself?

What in the world is the video game going to teach you about yourself?

And maybe that one has a little bit more merit than I'm giving.

I'm not a video game person, but there's probably more merits in the video games.

But with the videos on your phone, what is that going to help you with?

What's it going to give you like, you know, that's true here?

I don't know.

I don't think a whole lot.

And I worry about that tendency for kids,

younger individuals, and even older individuals and even myself to just give up more of who we could be

and just handing it over to convenience for the perception,

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for the aesthetic, for the sheen on top to just get us to the next hit.

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I guess that's just a life dictated by dopamine or something, you know?

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And it's not a life I want to live.

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So I'm trying to break out of it for myself and do more that pushes me out of my comfort zone,

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that teaches me more about myself.

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I don't do enough of it.

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And I'm trying to help with these clients to understand the benefit of that toil.

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Anyway, what do you guys think about that?

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And what are we leaving behind when we say, I'm just going to hit the convenient button?

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That was easy.

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You know, what are we giving up?

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I'm curious.

112

Okay, turn off.

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영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
tendency 명사	/ˈtɛn.dən.si/	경향, 추세
soil 명사	/sɔɪl/	흙, 토양
suck 동사	/sʌk/	빨다
merit 명사	/ˈmɛɹɪt/	장점
aesthetic 형용사	/ɛsˈθɛ.tɪk/	미적
earn 동사	/ɝn/	벌다
pocket 명사	/ˈpɑ.kɪt/	호주머니, 포켓
curious 형용사	/ˈkjʊɹ.i.əs/	호기심이 많은, 궁금하다
deeply 부사	/ˈdi(ː)pli/	깊이
skill 명사	/skɪl/	기술, 스킬
punch 명사	/pʌnt͡ʃ/	펀치
sacrifice 명사	/ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/	희생
discipline 명사	/ˈdɪsəplɪn/	규율
essay 명사	/ˈɛs.eɪ/	수필, 에세이
tension 명사	/ˈtɛnʃən/	긴장, 불안

영상에 나오는 구동사

단어	뜻
give up 동사	항복하다
turn off 동사	끄다, 턴오프하다

따라 말해 볼 만한 문장

영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

I understand where they're coming from, right?
Why am I insecure?
What's it going to give you like, you know, that's true here?
Anyway, what do you guys think about that?
You know, what are we giving up?

주의할 발음

화자는 I'm, don't, you're 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 50번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“th” 소리: aesthetic /ɛsˈθɛ.tɪk/, brotherhood /ˈbɹʌðɚˌhʊd/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/
“sh”와 “zh” 소리: tension /ˈtɛnʃən/, perception /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/, shine /ʃaɪn/, existential /ˌɛɡzɪˈstɛnʃl̩/, satiate /ˈseɪʃɪeɪt/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, facilitate /fəˈsɪlɪteɪt/, detrimental /ˌdɛtɹɪˈmɛntəl/, camaraderie /ˌkɑm(ə)ˈɹɑdəɹi/, exacerbate /ɪɡˈzæsɚˌbeɪt/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: comfort /ˈkʌm.fət/, sacrifice /ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/, paragraph /ˈpæɹəɡɹæf/, facilitate /fəˈsɪlɪteɪt/, counterfeit /ˈkaʊn.tɚˌfɪt/
/v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: convenience /kənˈvinjəns/, convenient /kənˈviː.niənt/, perceive /pɚˈsiv/, motivate /ˈmoʊ.tɪ.veɪt/
/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/, exacerbate /ɪɡˈzæsɚˌbeɪt/, existential /ˌɛɡzɪˈstɛnʃl̩/, presentable /pɹəˈzɛntəbəl/

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자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, tendency, soil, suck 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.

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