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There is a tendency that I'm seeing more often in my work as a counselor.
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It's concerning.
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It's this tendency of having very, very little tolerance for how long people are willing to suck at something.
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You know, a very low tolerance for how long they're willing to kind of struggle
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and toil and fail in their attempt to attain a certain goal.
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so i make this video because it's it's such a concerning uh predicament
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because i want to talk about what i think they're losing
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when they forego that experience of the toil and struggle
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and failure but also too i want to talk about why i think it's
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so easy to perpetuate and why i so fully understand
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and empathize with where they're coming from
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so first let's start
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there like looking at looking at this situation like trying to picture myself as a 15 year old
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or something being told hey read catcher in the rye
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and i want you to write
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this five paragraph essay on it i certainly can understand being
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like uh no guy why do i want to sit there
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and read this book words on a page boring the piss out of me
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and then try to sit here in front of a blank page
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and write five pages worth of material about what I thought on it.
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Yeah.
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Kick rocks.
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Chachi BT's got me.
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AI exists.
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Get away from me.
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I get it.
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I understand where they're coming from, right?
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Same thing with sports.
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Like why would I want to join this team?
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Everybody else is already close -knit.
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They're friends.
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They've been on this team for two years.
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They're looking at me like, who's this guy and and i suck i'm throwing the ball like an absolute idiot
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and everybody's looking at me
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and i don't like how this makes me feel why would i do this
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when i could just go play video games it's much more fun why am i going to go talk to
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that girl and try to get a girlfriend
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when i've got a simulated version of that right here in my pocket
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and that'll take care of what i'm looking for at least for now at least for this moment
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and that's kind of the issue
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we are sacrificing a piece of ourselves on the altar of convenience every time
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we take the counterfeit version right i'm going to take counterfeit version
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i'm going to take counterfeit version that's going to satiate this feeling right now
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and there's major issue with that because we're not even realizing uh
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that we're on a steady diet of this counterfeit bullshit
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because we don't have enough time away from our phones in
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general to have intentionality to have deep insightful thought in our own lives
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you know um contemplating what am i doing am i is
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this how i want to do things not having any perspective on ourselves or our lives because we're just in it
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piece by piece moment by moment eating the counterfeit
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um and so that's kind of the why i'm saying i understand why this is
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so concerning and social media exacerbates and kind of facilitates this environment of the perceived of the aesthetic of
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just do the surface level just shine
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that surface just make it presentable boom just fix it quick fix all about the looks
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that is why i get the concern and i empathize with it
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but i don't think we put
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so much thought into how deeply uh detrimental it is to us
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i don't have a good word for our understanding of exactly what it is we're leaving behind maybe
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you do what we're leaving behind when we forgo that that time of toil and struggle but it's like
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when you read that book and you're bored and you don't know
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if you can get to it you're learning something about discipline
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and how you how you push yourself and what does motivate you
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and what do you really want out of this life
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and then you're sitting there with the blank page
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and you're thinking about the book and you're actually being honest
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and earnest in your attempt to to pull something from who you are
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and what you understand what you make of this place
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and the words uh that were written on the page
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and you're kind of coming up with something brand new with the synergy of those two those two concepts
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and you're making something new all your own your fresh own ideas on the page there's something
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so beautiful and transcendent and
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improving about that that they're just leaving on the table
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it's like there's this whole garden in you that can grow
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and you can be this incredibly enriched person
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but the soil the enriched soil that is needed for
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that kind of internal garden only comes from
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that time under tension
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it only comes from being the new guy in the boxing gym who doesn't know how to throw a punch
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and is embarrassed as the guy next to him makes the bag sound like it's a war zone
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you know what i mean there's something in that that you learn
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and i don't mean just oh i'm learning the skill of boxing and now i'm a better boxer i mean
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Why am I insecure?
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Oh, I'm learning about brotherhood.
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I'm learning about camaraderie.
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There's these internal things that will happen to these,
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these things that will happen to you that pull on all of these existential questions left, right and center.
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And you're going to go, wow, I know myself so much better.
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But what in the world is AI going to teach you about yourself?
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What in the world is the video game going to teach you about yourself?
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And maybe that one has a little bit more merit than I'm giving.
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I'm not a video game person, but there's probably more merits in the video games.
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But with the videos on your phone, what is that going to help you with?
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What's it going to give you like, you know, that's true here?
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I don't know.
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I don't think a whole lot.
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I don't think a whole lot.
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And I worry about that tendency for kids,
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younger individuals, and even older individuals and even myself to just give up more of who we could be
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and just handing it over to convenience for the perception,
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for the aesthetic, for the sheen on top to just get us to the next hit.
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I guess that's just a life dictated by dopamine or something, you know?
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And it's not a life I want to live.
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So I'm trying to break out of it for myself and do more that pushes me out of my comfort zone,
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that teaches me more about myself.
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I don't do enough of it.
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And I'm trying to help with these clients to understand the benefit of that toil.
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Anyway, what do you guys think about that?
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And what are we leaving behind when we say, I'm just going to hit the convenient button?
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That was easy.
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You know, what are we giving up?
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I'm curious.
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Okay, turn off.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu konuşma dersi “The Most Dangerous Mindset I See as a Therapist” videosuna dayanıyor. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 112 cümle ve 1206 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 6:51 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 176 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %84’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| tendency isim | /ˈtɛn.dən.si/ | eğilim, tandans |
| soil isim | /sɔɪl/ | toprak |
| suck fiil | /sʌk/ | emmek |
| merit isim | /ˈmɛɹɪt/ | liyakat |
| tolerance isim | /ˈtɑ.lə.ɹəns/ | tolerans |
| aesthetic sıfat | /ɛsˈθɛ.tɪk/ | estetik |
| convenience isim | /kənˈvinjəns/ | konfor |
| bore fiil | /boɹ/ | burgulamak |
| earn fiil | /ɝn/ | hak etmek |
| pocket isim | /ˈpɑ.kɪt/ | cep, yancık |
| curious sıfat | /ˈkjʊɹ.i.əs/ | meraklı |
| skill isim | /skɪl/ | beceri, maharet |
| comfort isim | /ˈkʌm.fət/ | konfor |
| punch isim | /pʌnt͡ʃ/ | yumruk |
| steady sıfat | /ˈstɪdi/ | sabit |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| turn off fiil | kapamak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- I understand where they're coming from, right?
- Why am I insecure?
- What's it going to give you like, you know, that's true here?
- Anyway, what do you guys think about that?
- You know, what are we giving up?
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı I'm, don't, you're gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 50 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: aesthetic /ɛsˈθɛ.tɪk/, brotherhood /ˈbɹʌðɚˌhʊd/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: tension /ˈtɛnʃən/, perception /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/, shine /ʃaɪn/, existential /ˌɛɡzɪˈstɛnʃl̩/, satiate /ˈseɪʃɪeɪt/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, facilitate /fəˈsɪlɪteɪt/, detrimental /ˌdɛtɹɪˈmɛntəl/, camaraderie /ˌkɑm(ə)ˈɹɑdəɹi/, exacerbate /ɪɡˈzæsɚˌbeɪt/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: blank /ˈblæŋk/, curious /ˈkjʊɹ.i.əs/, skill /skɪl/, steady /ˈstɪdi/, brotherhood /ˈbɹʌðɚˌhʊd/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: blank /ˈblæŋk/, sacrifice /ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/, embarrassed /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/, paragraph /ˈpæɹəɡɹæf/, catcher /ˈkæt͡ʃəɹ/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; tendency, soil, suck gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.