Shadowing Practice: 2 Boundaries That Change Everything: Let Them, Let Me | Know Thyself #shorts - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Here's how it works.
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It's very, very, very simple.
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At any moment during the day when you just feel a flood of emotions, you're frustrated, you're annoyed, you're hurt, just say, let them.
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It's a boundary.
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You're not allowing anybody to do anything.
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You're forcing yourself to recognize that the situation or person who's pissing me off right now, I can't control.
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Therefore, why would I waste my time and energy stressing myself out by trying to?
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Let them.
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You're practicing radical acceptance, and then you say the second boundary, which is let me.
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Let me walk away.
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Let me lean in with compassion.
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Let me choose what I do or don't do.
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You will feel so powerful when you can look at the world
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that way and all kinds of crazy change happens because you've changed.
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It's bringing people together.

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This speaking lesson is built on the video “2 Boundaries That Change Everything: Let Them, Let Me”. This video has 15 sentences and 141 words to shadow. The speech runs for 0:45. The speaker talks fast, about 186 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds.

Key vocabulary in this video

15 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
boundary noun/ˈbaʊndɹi/The dividing line or location between two areas.
flood noun/flʌd/An overflow of a large amount of water (usually disastrous) from a lake or other body of water due to excessive rainfall or other input of water.
radical noun/ˈɹædɪkəl/A root (of a number or quantity).
emotion noun/ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/A person's internal state of being and involuntary physiological response to an object or a situation, based on or tied to physical state and sensory data.
acceptance noun/əkˈsɛp.təns/The act of accepting; the receiving of something offered, with acquiescence, approbation, or satisfaction; especially, favourable reception; approval.
lean verb/ˈliːn/To incline, deviate, or bend, from a vertical position; to be in a position thus inclining or deviating.
compassion noun/kəmˈpæʃ.ən/Deep awareness of the suffering of others that people have to the point of them being motivated to relieve such states.
annoy verb/əˈnoɪ̯/To disturb or irritate, especially by continued or repeated acts; to bother with unpleasant deeds.
frustrate verb/ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/To disappoint or defeat; to vex by depriving of something expected or desired.
anybody/ˈɛn.i.bə.di/Any one out of an indefinite number of persons; anyone; any person.
recognize verb/ˈɹɛk.əɡ.naɪz/To match (something or someone which one currently perceives) to a memory of some previous encounter with the same person or thing.
hurt verb/hɝt/To cause (a person or animal) physical pain and/or injury.
choose verb/t͡ʃuːz/To pick; to make the choice of; to select.
therefore adverb/ˈðɛɹ.fɔɹ/Consequently, by or in consequence of that or this cause; referring to something previously stated.
powerful adjective/ˈpaʊɚfl̩/Having, or capable of exerting, power or influence.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordMeaning
walk away verbTo withdraw from a problematic situation.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowyou've changed
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itis let
Relative clauses who / which + clause — extra information about a person or thingboundary, which is

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 9 contractions and reduced forms, such as you're, can't, don't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like boundary, flood, radical.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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