Shadowing Practice: The Single Biggest Financial Decision | Mel Robbins #shorts - Learn English Speaking with Video

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What is the single biggest financial decision you make in your life?
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Kind of a hot take here, but I think it's who your spouse is.
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We talk a lot about saving and budgeting and spending and investing,
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but your spouse is the person that you are going to spend the vast majority of your life, hopefully, with.
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Why would you not make sure that the two of you are on the same financial page.
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It is crazy to me because the top two reasons why couples fight, sex and money.
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What if I told you, if you had the conversation early, if you opened up a blank slate, if you opened the doorway,
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if you didn't argue, but instead sat down and laid it all bare and figured out a plan forward together, you could avoid 50 % of those really hot button topics.
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Wouldn't you naturally assume it would make your relationship stronger?
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You would fight less and just be happier.
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Something that I have seen in both genders
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but sometimes you know often from women is
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that they are looking for traits in a partner that they do not personally possess and that really bothers me.
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What do you mean?
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I need to date a man who makes over half a million dollars.
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Do you make over half a million dollars?
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I need a man who's very generous and willing to buy me gifts.
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Are you a generous person?
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Do you buy the people in your life gifts?
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We oftentimes times expect the world, but aren't willing to give it ourselves.
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And so I just encourage anybody, especially with a partner, is like they don't necessarily need to match your income, but you need to match each other's effort.
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And if you don't, it's not going to work.
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In terms of effort, it can look very different though.
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It could be one person being the breadwinner and the other person taking care of the home.
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It could be both people going out and working and splitting the household unpaid labor,
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but you have to be very clear about what the defined roles in your relationship are.
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I love that you come down to roles and values because roles and values come down to conversations, knowing yourself and skills you can build, not gender assignment.
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No, never.
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That gives you control and really define what do you want and what do you value in life?
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And does this person give you that and
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if they don't we're out of here but
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if they do maybe it isn't the financial thing maybe it's something money can't buy

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This video has 32 sentences and 436 words to shadow. The speech runs for 2:24. The speaker talks fast, about 182 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 87% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English, so the vocabulary is easy to follow.

Key vocabulary in this video

15 less common words from the video, with pronunciation and meaning:

  • define /dɪˈfaɪn/ (verb) — To determine with precision; to mark out with distinctness; to ascertain or exhibit clearly.
  • generous /ˈd͡ʒɛn(ə)ɹəs/ (adjective) — Noble in behaviour or actions; principled, not petty; kind, magnanimous.
  • spouse /spaʊ̯s/ (noun) — A person in a marriage or marital relationship.
  • topic /ˈtɑpɪk/ (noun) — A subject; a theme; a category or general area of interest.
  • vast /væst/ (adjective) — Very large or wide (literally or figuratively).
  • naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/ (adverb) — In a natural manner.
  • necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ (adverb) — Inevitably; of necessity.
  • household /ˈhaʊshoʊld/ (adjective) — Belonging to the same house and family.
  • argue /ˈɑɹ.ɡju/ (verb) — To show grounds for concluding (that); to indicate, imply.
  • encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/ (verb) — To mentally support; to motivate, give courage, hope or spirit.
  • skill /skɪl/ (noun) — A capacity to do something well; a technique, an ability, usually acquired or learned, as opposed to abilities that are regarded as innate.
  • bother /ˈbɑðɚ/ (verb) — To annoy, to disturb, to irritate; to be troublesome to, to make trouble for.
  • invest /ɪnˈvɛst/ (verb) — To spend money, time, or energy on something, especially for some benefit or purpose; used with in.
  • assignment /əˈsaɪn.mənt/ (noun) — The act of assigning; the allocation of a job or a set of tasks.
  • blank /ˈblæŋk/ (noun) — The white spot in the centre of a target; hence (figuratively) the object to which anything is directed or aimed, the range of such aim.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

  • come down to (verb) — To reach by moving down or reducing.
  • make over (verb) — To renovate or to convert to a different use, particularly houses, offices, or rooms within them.
  • figure out (verb) — To come to understand; to discover or find a solution; to deduce.
  • go out (verb) — To leave, especially a building.
  • look for (verb) — To seek.
  • open up (verb) — To open.
  • see in (verb) — To show (someone) in: to introduce (someone) to the inside of a place.
  • sit down (verb) — To assume a sitting position from a standing position.

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 9 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, aren't, can't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • Long words — get the stress right: naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like define, generous, spouse.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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