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Most people think improving their communication is about learning how to articulate their thoughts more clearly and confidently.
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But after 15 years as a communication coach, I've learned that how you think you sound and how you actually sound to others are two very different things.
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And there are 10 speaking habits that are creating this gap.
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And I'm going to walk you through all 10 in order of how much they cost you professionally.
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And I'm going to show you the exact behavior you should replace those bad ones with
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so you can close the gap between how you Think you sound versus how you actually sound and come across.
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So let's start with number 10 and It's still blurry
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because I'm not gonna reveal it just yet I want you to see
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if you can actually spot what number 10 is through this example um
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Andy I got a um Cup of coffee like you know like um like um Um, do you want it?
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Did you manage to work it out?
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Number 10 is using non-words and filler words.
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When you see someone who talks like this, their speech littered with non-words and filler words, what are some words that come to your mind?
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What do you perceive about them?
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You're going to think they're shy.
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You're going to think they're awkward.
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Low levels of confidence.
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They're not competent.
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Can you see how much this simple non-functional behavior is costing you?
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This is one of the first things I get our students to minimize immediately when they join us in our stage programs.
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When you speak like this, it sounds like you're all over the place.
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It seems like you're a scatterbrain.
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And there's no clarity in your speech.
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To reduce the non-words and filler words, well, what do you replace it with?
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What I just did.
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A pause.
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That's it.
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That's what you replace it with.
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Every time you feel the urge to say, um, ah, just pause.
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Let me show you how powerful this one changes with one of my students.
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Have a look at this.
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So, throughout medical school I've always wanted to be a physician, so, you know, looking after your heart,
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lungs, and, you know, I just went to the wards and...
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You're feeling a lot of the silence with the ums, ahs and a so.
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No so's, ahs or ums.
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And very conscious of replacing the ums and the ahs and the so's with silence.
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I went into medical school thinking that I've always wanted to just help humanity,
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save lives, do big changes.
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Little did I know that it's not all about saving lives, that life and death, it's about changing quality of life.
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Big round of applause.
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How much better did she sound?
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Full of confidence and authority.
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Now, next, number nine.
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Trailing off at the end of your sentences.
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This is when you start your sentences strong like this, But then after you continue to talk for a
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while your voice starts to lose its energy and you become really croaky
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And then by the end of it you start to sound
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like a villain who is trying to take over the world Do you hear that drop?
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That's called vocal fry
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and it's more common than you think Your brain doesn't even register you're doing it
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because most people don't think about how they're speaking They only focus on what they're saying
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So what do you replace this bad habit with, Vin?
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You give every single word in the sentence the same amount of breath
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and energy that you give to the very first word.
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Same fuel from start to finish.
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You start your sentences strong like this and as you continue,
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make sure every single word has the same amount of breath and energy right to the very last word.
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Did you notice the difference?
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Did you feel the difference?
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Did you hear the difference?
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that's the line between a communicator who holds your attention all the way through the thought
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and the one who loses you halfway without even realizing.
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Now the next habit, this one is the equivalent of handing someone a beautifully wrapped gift
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and then whispering it's probably not what you wanted and it's probably shit right before they open the gift.
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Number eight apologizing for your own ideas.
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I see this in almost every single person who's early in their career.
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They devalue their own ideas before the other person has the chance to hear it with a phrase like, sorry just a quick question,
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it's probably a bad idea but I want to say I might be wrong about this
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but um and what you've done without realizing is you've told the listener that you don't truly fully believe in yourself.
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You've given them permission to just dismiss you before you've even shared the idea.
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These verbal flinches are called softeners and they show up most when we feel like we haven't earned the right to speak.
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The problem is the softener becomes the first thing the listener hears so your ideas walk into the room already limping.
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The replacement it's simple get rid of the apology remove the I think
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and if the idea is worth saying say it clean.
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Direct statements no softeners.
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Have a look at the difference um I might be wrong about this
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but I think maybe we should kind of try to post more content on social media
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because you know it will help the world become better communicators.
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I don't know what do you think?
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My suggestion is we need to post more content across our social media because it will help the world become better communicators.
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I'd love to hear your thoughts.
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Vin on the left sounds weak, unsure, whereas Vin on the right sounded more assertive and firm.
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Which one do you think is more influential.
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Pretty obvious, right?
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On to number seven.
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Rushing when you get nervous.
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This happens to all of us.
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We speak in front of people, we get nervous, and because of this, we unconsciously talk faster.
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Because we just want to get it over and done with.
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And in this moment, you think speeding up will make everything better, but in actual reality, it does the opposite.
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It makes you sound worse.
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Let me play you something that will just drive this point home.
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Oh my goodness, that sounds so bad.
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It sounds like a car crash.
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What you just heard was one of the most beautiful piano pieces ever written by Chopin.
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Played at two times speed, three times speed.
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Every note was correct, but your brain registered it as a bloody car crash.
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Now here's what the piece sounds like when it's given room to breathe. So much nicer.
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It's the same notes but a completely different experience.
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And the difference is exactly what rushing does to your communication when you're nervous.
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Everything you actually wanted the listener to feel gets lost in the speed.
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You might be saying all the right things but they are going to receive it in the wrong way.
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The fix, it's counterintuitive.
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When you get nervous your body's going to naturally want to speed up.
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So in that moment when you notice it happen, you have to go against it by slowing down.
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And when you do this, it gives your brain more time to think clearly.
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Take some more deep breaths and give your words more space.
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Add more pauses.
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And suddenly it signals to your nervous system that you're safe, which calms you down.
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The moment I just did it, don't you immediately feel more calm too?
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So the benefit of doing this is that it calms you and it calms everybody else in your environment.
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And I really want you to pay attention to how you feel
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when someone else is speaking fast versus when they slow down and get nervous.
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Let me show you a real example with one of my students.
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Check this out.
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What I should be trying to do is try to make the a better place.
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I don't have to be a law intern at PwC or Asher or whatever you know.
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When we're nervous the first thing we do is we increase our rate of speech
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and we speak quickly because we just want this to be over
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and done with so then we keep talking
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and we just keep pacing through and then I'm going to move on to the next thing that I did.
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So my parents they grew up in China
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and it became a real way of thinking that was fully focused on academic performance and exterior perceptions of success.
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Pause.
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Big round of applause for that.
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Good.
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Now, when you went slower, did you feel a bit more relaxed?
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100%.
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Ah, okay.
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So a slow rate of speech not only makes other people relaxed, it relaxes you.
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Pretty crazy difference, right?
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Now, if we want to zoom out and ask why does your body speed up in the first place, the answer leads straight into the next one, which is number six.
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And number six is you make it all about you instead of making it all about the audience.
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This one is a psychological habit that all humans have.
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So don't feel bad if you do this.
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Say, for example, you're called to give a pitch as an entrepreneur.
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You are called upon by your team to share one of your ideas.
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Or you are asked to do a speech at a wedding, a best man, a maid of honor.
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Or maybe you get invited to speak at a company conference or even the TEDx stage.
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What happens immediately at that point?
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You start to immediately think, oh my God, what if the pitch goes bad?
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Oh my god, what if I forget what I'm going to say?
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What if I make a fool of myself and embarrass the bride and the groom?
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What if they don't like my talk?
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What if my speech doesn't get any views?
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What if they leave mean comments about me?
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It's me me me all the time You are stuck in
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a psychological loop thinking about yourself non-stop The more self-obsessed you are the more self-conscious you become
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and the more you put the focus on you the worse speech you're going to give
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because you're no longer present you are now stuck in your own head
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which means what which means you're going to deliver poorly
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because there's no cognitive capacity left for delivery I remember back in 2019 I was in Florida
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and I was coaching a CEO to deliver a speech to two
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and a half thousand people in his organization
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and right before his presentation I'm backstage with him
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and he's feeling really nervous he's saying to me oh I
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don't think I'm ready for this I feel my my suit doesn't even look good on me today.
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I don't think I can do it.
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What if I say the wrong thing?
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What if I forget my lines?
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I don't think I'm creating the right impression with what I'm wearing then.
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And he was freaking out.
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I had to stop him right there and then.
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And I said to him, mate, it's not about you.
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It's about the two and a half thousand people you are about to serve.
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Get out of your damn head.
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Otherwise, I'm going to slap you.
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It's not about you.
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You're here to serve the audience.
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And I was pretty sure he was going to fire me after that, but he liked that I being a little bit spicy with him
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and you know what that snapped him out of it
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and he went out there and he crushed it
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so the next time you notice this pattern starting to happen this loop reverse it
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and become more audience conscious think to yourself
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if this message gets through just the one person I'm going to change the trajectory of their career their life
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and their level of happiness
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and think today's not about me it's all about those beautiful souls I'm about to speak to
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and the best thing is once you become audience conscious there's no cognitive capacity left for you to be self-conscious
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which means there's an automatic reduction in nervousness anxiety and self-doubt.
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On to number five unblur speaking your thoughts out loud most people
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when they're put under the spotlight and they're asked a question
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that they don't know the answer to they default to speaking their thinking process
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and a lot of the times it's messy
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and it's all over the place it's raw it's confusing
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because the listener doesn't know if you're trying to make a point or you're still building one in your head.
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Now I just want to flag something really quickly here
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if you actually want people to see your thinking
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and hear your thinking process in real time that's okay you
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just need to make sure you frame it first by saying
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something like let me just think out loud for a second
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and just by saying and
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that it gives you permission to ramble a little as you're finding your point and you're finding what you want to say.
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But what I'm going to suggest is don't think out loud.
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Structure your thinking first with communication frameworks, then speak.
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Watch this.
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Peter, my head of content, is about to ask me a question about the green screen and watch me answer this without a communication framework.
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Hey Vin, I'm just wondering why did you get a cloth green screen instead of a paper one?
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Paper just feels a little bit risky, Peter.
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I mean sorry, not risky.
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I mean, like annoying.
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You know, like the paper, the one that we use before, it ends up looking kind of like trashed, you know?
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And like, it doesn't get weirdly stuck on specific green, different types of green colors, the inconsistency in paper that exists, because what probably is unnecessary...
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Yeah.
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Did you notice how annoyed Peter seemed?
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Did you feel your brain trying to keep up?
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That's what it's like being on the receiving end of unstructured thoughts.
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Every idea leaves your mouth in the order your brain produced it, which is almost never the order your listener needs to hear it in.
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Most people communicate like this their entire lives because nobody ever taught them how to turn their thoughts into words with structure.
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It's like ordering something online and instead of it arriving in a box, it turns up on your doorstep in a pile of loose parts, things all over the place with a note that says,
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good luck mate, all the parts are there, but the listener now has to assemble it in real time with some pages missing from the manual.
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Now I want you to watch me talk to Peter now using a communication framework called Para.
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Hey Vin, I'm just wondering why did you get a cloth green screen instead of a paper one?
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Well, point.
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I went with cloth because it just makes more sense for us.
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Action.
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I've done hours of research, Peter, and I've discovered that cloth is just way more durable.
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Result.
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And the result is what you see right in front of you here, Peter.
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I got it also in the gecko green
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because this is way easier to key in post in post
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and then finally ask
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so peter do you want to take this for a test drive later how much better was
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that i said we'll do the test later why am i
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floating in space this is ridiculous all right fine i guess
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we're doing this in space at least i got a helmet
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on let's round out my thoughts on this do you see
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how using frameworks makes you easier to understand para is just one of many frameworks
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that help you structure your thinking
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and i've recorded a full two-hour training on the top three communication frameworks
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that will help you turn your thoughts into words faster in personal and professional settings.
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Scan the QR code, it's floating around in space with me, or you can click the link that's in the description and you can access that training immediately.
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Okay Peter, you can- oh oh oh look oh okay Peter, I see what's going on, we're starting to go down, yeah!
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Whoa Peter, Peter, Peter this is going too fast!
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Peter not too fast!
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Peter!
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No!
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No!
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Oh, wow, that was dramatic, Peter, but thank you.
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You made that extremely engaging for the listener.
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Peter surely deserves a like and subscribe for that one, right?
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Otherwise, seriously, one of these days I will fire him.
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Let's stay locked in.
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Number four!
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Yeah, I'm leaving it blurry.
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Because I've got a little scene here, a little example, that is an example of Vin pre-2015.
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And I want you to watch this, to see if you can spot what number four is and what I'm doing wrong.
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Have you finished writing the Weekly V newsletter yet?
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Or actually, just when can you get it to me?
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Oh man, yeah, no worries now.
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I mean, like, before we get into that, I've got to tell you why it's called Weekly V.
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I mean, do you know why it's called Weekly V?
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Because there's actually a backstory behind it.
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Because if you look at the V and the G, the V stands for Vin, which is spelled V-I-N-H.
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Sometimes people spell it without the H, it drives me crazy because it's not Vin, it's Vin with a silent H, it's so obvious.
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And then the G is for the Jiang, which is again spelled G-I-N-G.
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And then Weekly V because he gets a weekly email from Vin.
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Do you see what I mean?
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That's the backstory which is rather critical as to the branding behind the whole thing.
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Did you spot it?
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Number four is all backstory and no point.
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I wasn't listening to Dan.
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Dan asked me a simple specific question and instead of answering it directly, I rambled a backstory about why I call my emails Weekly V,
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which he's never actually asked for.
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The question was gone.
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And here's what I want you to notice.
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What's really happening beneath the surface here is that you're worried
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that the other person you're speaking to won't have enough context with a simple answer.
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So you overload them with the details, which does exactly that.
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It overwhelms the listener with everything you think they need instead of what they actually wanted in the first place.
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And when this happens too often, you become that person who everyone thinks says a lot without saying much at all.
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And trust me, you don't want to be that person.
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So the fix is a small physical habit that retrains the whole pattern.
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When someone speaks to you, before you answer, repeat the core question back to them.
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Ah, the ETA for the emails?
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Yeah, I'm finishing them right now and I'll have them to you by 5 p.m today at the latest.
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Notice that?
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one short sentence and what it does is it tells the speaker that they've been heard.
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It gives your brain a beat to actually process what was asked, which gets you out of your head and into the present moment.
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If they want the backstory or more context, they will ask you for it.
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Or you can just add a question at the end of the response like this.
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Did you have any questions?
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Did you need any more context or clarity?
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Is there anything else that I can add to make things more clear?
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now you're presenting the opportunity for them to ask you
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if they need more details as opposed to you front loading
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when in a lot of cases is just not needed nor
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wanted all right these are the final three the most important the ones
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that cost you the most in your career
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if you're doing them habit number three interrupting people before they're finished talking oh man i'm so guilty this one.
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I still do this quite often and my wife hates it.
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If you're like me and sometimes you've got a million things running in your head at once
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and you're in a conversation with a friend and they're talking to you, do you sometimes finish their sentences?
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And you do this because you're trying to be helpful
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and you're trying to show the other person look how well I know you
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but they feel like you're just trying to rush them to the finish line
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that you don't have the patience to listen to them
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and you know what's even worse often
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when you try to do this you're often wrong
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which is even more annoying for them
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because they now have this go no no no no no
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that's what i'm trying that's not what i'm trying to say
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let me show you what i mean i just did this the other day with one of my team members
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and this is how it went hey then i've been meaning to talk about your future here here with us
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yeah that's right because lately i've been a little bit concerned about team morale say no more No Vin,
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I'm talking about the folder on the- The folder that contains footage, surveillance footage of you 2007,
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February 14th The one that the police office want from us
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but you won't release the files Is that the one you're talking about?
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No!
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Right, right, yeah, I didn't think it was that I didn't think it was that Look, I was talking about the folder on my computer
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that says May Giveaway It's something you wanted to talk about to the YouTube audience Oh yeah, yeah, sorry, totally forgot, sorry, forgot you were here Listen,
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this entire May, we're doing giveaways into the online course, into my virtual stage programs, and into my in-person workshops that's happening this August.
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And if you want to join the giveaway, just click the link below, and if you win, all the expenses will be paid for.
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So hopefully you join.
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Thank you, Peter.
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I almost forgot about that.
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That was such a good segue, man.
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And it wasn't jarring, was it?
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No, I was...
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Can you stop trying to finish my...
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Sentences!
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Finish your sentences!
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No, can you stop trying to eat my...
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Sandwiches!
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Sandwiches!
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No!
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Oh man, how annoying is that?
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Oh damn it Vin, you're an annoying bastard.
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I know, I talk to myself, it's a sign of intelligence and insanity.
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Now, if you've just watched that and thought to yourself, hang on, that might be me.
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Stick with me for a moment, because I want to give you a way out.
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The deeper reason as to why this happens is usually because you're uncomfortable with silence.
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You've trained yourself to fill the gap in every conversation.
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So when someone's thinking about what to say next, You just jump in with what you think they're going to say and you're not listening anymore.
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Stop.
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Learn to be more comfortable with the silence.
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So here's the fix and it's two behaviors working side by side.
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Note these down.
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Behavior number one.
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When you feel that urge to jump in, don't wait until they've finished talking.
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Let them complete their thought on their own.
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They're a grown adult.
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They can do it.
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And even once they've finished, don't reply yet either.
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hold space sit in the silence for a full two seconds
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and count it out in your head don't say a single word it's going to feel
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so strange at first especially if you're someone who butts in all the time
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but just do it anyway because here's what's going to surprise you
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when you hold space for someone like
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that most of the time they keep talking they'll tell you more about their day
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or what they're experiencing or what they're feeling they'll go deeper than they were planning to
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because the silence gave them permission to.
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Most people never get that much room in a conversation.
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So when they get it, they're going to use it.
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Behavior number two, if they don't go deeper on their own
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and you want them to go deeper and you want to go deeper together, hold the same two second pause and this time ask five words.
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Tell me more about that.
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And then go quiet again.
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Don't say anything.
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Shut up.
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Don't fill the space.
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Let them fill it.
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those are the two behaviors wait two seconds before they reply
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and if you want them to go deeper
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because they didn't do it themselves pause for a little bit
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longer then ask for the depth by asking them the five words I said before do those two things consistently
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and the interrupting habit dies on its own habit number two
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main character syndrome for seven solid years between the ages of 21 and 28,
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I tried way too hard to be interesting and to make everything about me in every conversation.
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My weekend, my latest business, my gym routine, my relationship drama, my childhood trauma, my next big idea.
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Every topic became a doorway back into my own life.
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And I know you've got someone like this in your life, we all do, it's super annoying and if you don't know anyone it means it's most likely you.
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Because in this day and age, main character syndrome is the most common communication disease on earth.
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But here's the tragedy, when you have main character syndrome it feels like you're the life of the party, you're the storyteller, you're the funny one right?
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You're the person with the big opinions and the wild weekends.
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Meanwhile your relationships are slowly deteriorating one by one
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and you don't even notice
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because the people who love you the most they're the ones who are likely to stay silent about it
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and not say anything because who wants to sit across from a friend
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and say hey man you talk too much about yourself it's really exhausting and I actually don't like you.
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Nobody wants to have that conversation because they don't want to hurt their friends
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and then slowly and surely they just start pulling away
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and they stop opening up around you
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because well you create no space for them to open up anyway
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but what I can tell you based on experience is
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that in a few years they begin to notice their friendships feeling hollow their relationships feeling more cold
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and they just don't understand why
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and I want you to pause for a second just a moment
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and really ask yourself the hard question could this be me
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because outside of this video almost nobody has the courage to
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tell you your partner doesn't want to hurt you your closest
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friend is worrying it's going to damage the friendship your family will just put up with it
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which means the only person who could diagnose main character syndrome is me
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and you right now and you've got to be really honest with yourself whether this is you
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or it's someone you know let me tell you what i did to secure this.
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One afternoon I was reading a book by Dale Carnegie.
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It was his classic book, How to Win Friends and Influence People.
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And while I was reading the book, I did this, right?
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I did this.
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So I read it.
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I read this really powerful line.
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I closed it and I went...
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And to me, that's how I know I just read something epic when I actually stopped reading, closed the book and ponder on the very thing that I read.
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And this was the sentence that stopped me.
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The most interesting people in any room are the people most interested in everyone else.
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my entire life.
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I thought the path to being interesting was to be the best storyteller in the group,
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to make sure my version of my weekend always sounded more wild than anybody else on the table.
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Every dinner was a competition and I had to be the winner.
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That one line from the book changed the way I thought about this completely.
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Think about the last person you walked away from and thought, wow, that person's amazing.
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nine times out of ten they barely spoke about themselves they asked about your life
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and they listened like they had all the time in the
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world weeks later they could still recall the things you were
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talking about the cure is a ratio for every story
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that you tell about yourself ask three questions to the person
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in front of you three for one don't be the person
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that just keeps talking about themselves I've made
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that very very clear be the person who asks the other
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people questions a first question then a second question then a third question
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if people leave a conversation feeling seen feeling heard
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and feeling understood they'll remember you as more interesting than anyone else they've ever met
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and this now leads me to the final bad speaking habit
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that you need to get rid of before it defines you
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bad habit number one is sounding the same your your whole damn life.
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Yep, sounding the same your whole damn life.
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Most people get stuck in a default way of communication
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and they become attached to this one way of speaking because they think, this is how I speak normally.
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So in order for me to be authentic, this is how I should speak for the rest of my life.
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No, no, no, no. Do you know what the problem with this is?
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If this is how I normally talk in every situation in my life right now, how do you think people would define me?
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What would they think of my personality?
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Yeah, they'll think I'm pretty boring and disinterested, right?
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Because the truth is, your voice is your personality.
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People perceive your personality through the way you use your voice.
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And if you use your voice in just one way, that version of you is the reputation people create for you.
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I really want you to understand what I'm about to say here.
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There isn't just one version of you.
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You are a multi-dimensional human being.
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There are infinite versions of you.
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You use your voice differently in different contexts, in front of different people, and in different environments.
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You're different in all of those different situations.
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For example, when I talk to you through a camera lens, this is how I need to communicate in order to effectively
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get my point across to engage you on the other side of the screen.
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But when I stop recording and I go to have lunch with my team, I back off a little bit.
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I'm a little more playful.
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And I talk in a much more light-hearted way.
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And when I get home to play with my kids you better bet your ass I get even more high-pitched
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and really be playful with my voice Because they love it
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when dad does this and dad gets all silly They have a really good time
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But then when I'm halfway through playing with my kids
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and I get a call from Peter all of a sudden
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He's really upset now about how much I keep interrupting him
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Then I might go into a more serious tone and then when he starts crying
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then I might be a little more apologetic and say sorry Peter I didn't know you were so soft.
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Did you get the point that I'm trying to make here?
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I use my voice differently depending on the situation that I'm in
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and so should you and does that make us fake if we do this?
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No it doesn't.
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I can tell you right now most people never change the way they communicate
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because they're afraid of sounding fake and phony
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but I'm gonna share with you a metaphor now that's gonna break this false belief
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and get you unstuck your voice is an instrument it's like a piano with 88 keys imagine
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that right most people spend their entire lives only playing with five keys on their piano
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and they don't realize
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that the goal is you've got to learn how to play
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with all 88 keys learn how to play the whole damn instrument to me this is authenticity inauthenticity is
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when you're just playing like this to me this is inauthentic.
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Authenticity is when you're able to express your full self
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because once you truly understand this you're no longer gonna feel trapped
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when you play those new keys you don't start to think they're fake
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and phony you just go oh right right right right right
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I'm just really familiar with these five keys these other keys I'm playing with over here
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and these other keys I'm playing with over here they are just unfamiliar
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and the moment you think they're unfamiliar as opposed to fake
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and phony Now you've freed yourself to explore your whole darn instrument, the one you've been carrying your entire life
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Which allows you then to not be
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so attached to who you are in the present
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So you can give the future version of you a chance and
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when you can learn how to use your voice in the
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most effective way In the right situations you become truly influential
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So tell me which habits do you need to change and work on?
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Leave me a comment below and click this video
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if you want to dive deeper down the rabbit hole of mastering your communication skills See you in the next video
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição
Esta aula de conversação de nível B2 usa o vídeo “How To Stop Sounding Unprofessional At Work”. Este vídeo tem 482 frases e 5664 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 29:45. O falante fala rápido, cerca de 190 palavras por minuto, então espere sons ligados e reduzidos. 87% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês, por isso o vocabulário é fácil de acompanhar.
Vocabulário principal deste vídeo
As 15 palavras mais avançadas do vídeo, com pronúncia e significado:
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| listener substantivo | /ˈlɪs(ə)nɚ/ | ouvinte |
| annoy verbo | /əˈnoɪ̯/ | aborrecer, irritar |
| pause substantivo | /pɔːz/ | pausa |
| backstory substantivo | /ˈbækˌstɔɹi/ | história de fundo |
| conscious adjetivo | /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/ | consciente |
| cloth substantivo | /klɒθ/ | pano, tecido |
| phony adjetivo | /ˈfoʊni/ | falso, de araque |
| interrupt verbo | /ˌɪntəˈɹʌpt/ | interromper |
| folder substantivo | /ˈfoʊldɚ/ | pasta |
| blurry adjetivo | /ˈblɜːɹi/ | borrado, desfocado |
| softener substantivo | /ˈsɔfənər/ | suavizante |
| storyteller substantivo | narrador, contador de histórias | |
| playful adjetivo | /ˈpleɪfl̩/ | brincalhão |
| authenticity substantivo | /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/ | autenticidade |
| perceive verbo | /pɚˈsiv/ | perceber, entender |
Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| slow down verbo | desacelerar | |
| back off verbo | recuar, retroceder | |
| end up verbo | terminar, acabar | |
| go down verbo | descer | |
| go out verbo | sair | |
| keep up verbo | manter | |
| put up with verbo | aguentar, suportar | |
| shut up | /ʃʌt ʌp/ | cala a boca, cale-se |
Frases que vale a pena repetir
Frases curtas e completas do vídeo que você pode usar na conversa do dia a dia:
- Did you manage to work it out?
- What do you perceive about them?
- I don't know what do you think?
- What if they don't like my talk?
- What if my speech doesn't get any views?
Gramática neste vídeo
As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:
| Estrutura | No vídeo |
|---|---|
| Frases condicionais if + oração, will/would + verbo — uma condição e seu resultado | if you win, all the expenses will be |
| Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agora | I've learned · I've always wanted · you've done |
| Orações relativas who / which + oração — informação extra sobre uma pessoa ou coisa | someone who talks · one who loses · one, which is |
| Voz passiva be + particípio passado — o foco está no que acontece, não em quem faz | are called · are asked · is spelled |
Pronúncia para ficar de olho
O falante usa 177 contrações e formas reduzidas, como you're, I'm, don't. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.
- Os sons de “th”: cloth /klɒθ/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, authentic /ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/
- Os sons de “sh” e “zh”: conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/, influential /ɪnflʊˈɛnʃəl/, dimensional /daɪˈmɛn.ʃə.nəl/, workshop /ˈwɝk.ʃɑp/, crush /kɹʌʃ/
- Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: communicator /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪtə/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, unfamiliar /ˌʌnfəˈmɪli.ə(ɹ)/, influential /ɪnflʊˈɛnʃəl/, beautifully /ˈbju.tɪ.fə.li/
Sons difíceis para falantes de português:
- Consoante final — sem acrescentar um “i” depois: interrupt /ˌɪntəˈɹʌpt/, float /fləʊt/, maid /meɪd/, spotlight /ˈspɒtˌlaɪt/, competent /ˈkɒmpətənt/
- /l/ final — a língua toca o céu da boca, não vira “u”: influential /ɪnflʊˈɛnʃəl/, verbal /ˈvɜː.bəl/, dimensional /daɪˈmɛn.ʃə.nəl/, pile /paɪl/, vocal /ˈvoʊ̯.kəl/
- /h/ — um sopro suave, diferente do “r”: halfway /ˌhæfˈweɪ/, hollow /ˈhɑloʊ/, helmet /ˈhɛlmɪt/
Como praticar com este vídeo
- Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
- Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
- Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como listener, annoy, pause.
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.