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Hi everyone!
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So this is episode number four for Pillow Talk with special guest, Karen!
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Hi!
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Do you guys remember Karen from Summer Goals?
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She was the really cute girl.
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The one that did this and probably a lot of this.
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Topics are how to deal with failure, rejection, sacrifice, and living by your parents' standards.
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Let's go.
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I can't go.
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Okay, okay.
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Go first.
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Alright, this is by Relax2Nature.
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When we hear the word rejection, it usually means something unpleasant.
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But is there a positive side of rejection?
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Sometimes we tend to feel like rejection is a bad or negative connotation because that's what society displaces on us.
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However, I always had this belief in this mantra that rejection is a blessing in disguise.
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Rejection is just one way of directing you to the right place that you need to be.
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Everything happens for a reason, so if this doesn't happen right now, then something else is meant to happen.
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I heard this one saying that really resonated with me and hopefully it resonates with you guys.
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God or the universe always has three answers to any of your questions or concerns.
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It's always yes, not yet, or I have something better.
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Oh yeah.
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So Lisa Chan asked, how would you tell your parents about wanting to live your own life
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and not something they would expect from you?
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I think a lot of times we feel like our parents don't understand us, don't communicate with them what we want, they really won't understand us.
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It's true.
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I know my parents were immigrants, so I knew like they went through so much and they didn't want us to go through the same hardships.
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When I graduated from college, I was told that I needed a nine to five job.
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Imagine trying to explain to your parents like, hey, mom and dad, I'm gonna quit my job now and make YouTube videos.
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I think for them to really understand why this means so much to me is that I
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I showed consistency in the things that I want.
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I'm not just saying, "Hey mom, dad, I want to become a YouTuber or I want to become a painter." But instead, I show them that I'm doing it.
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That dedication shows maturity and once you show maturity to your parents, that's when they can start believing in you.
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Yeah, they trust you.
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It's so true.
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So Roshika, she asked, "How do I deal with failure?
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It's depressing when I can't live up to my own standards."
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I guess an example that I can give from myself is When I first started my YouTube channel, I had this expectation in my mind,
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like how I want my videos to turn out.
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but If I kept having that expectation, then I would not keep uploading things because I would just be disappointed every single time.
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practicing and practicing and practicing.
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In each practice you can You know, give yourself a pat on the back, like, "Wow, I did it !" You know, like, I...
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I stepped out of my comfort zone to achieve something that I couldn't before.
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So instead of thinking of it as a failure, think of it as mini -accomplishments to get you to that final goal.
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Yes, yes.
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Pat on the bag, mini accomplishments!
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All the time.
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You gotta keep doing that to keep you going.
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Failure invites change.
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That's how I see it.
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And change could be a good thing.
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AJ asks, "I'm scared about going to college and realizing I don't like my major or career decision.
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Please help." It's okay.
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Like seriously, it's okay if you don't know what you want to do even up until the point you graduate.
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It takes time.
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I mean, for some people it takes them a lifetime to find their passion.
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College should be like an introduction to a new world for you to explore.
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being on your own, being a responsible adult, being responsible for your time.
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I feel like college teaches you a lot about time management.
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Like if you have a class at 8am, you have to wake yourself up.
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You're not going to have your parents there waking you up.
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I know for a fact that right before I went to college, I thought that it was going to be a lot harder than high school, but it's actually a lot easier.
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It is easier.
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Because you don't have to go to six classes in one day.
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You might be going to two to three different classes.
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Yeah.
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And you end up having a lot of time in your life day
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and you can pick your teachers yeah you get to go on teachers enjoy this moment
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because you're not gonna be around this many creative like -minded people in college because
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when you go out into the real world it's really different
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it's actually harder I feel they know like people actually say oh the real world's really hard
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and I never really understood it until I had to go into it So enjoy it, please.
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Tutus are sweeter asks, how do you pursue a career in art while being recognized for your intellect?
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Love your advice.
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I think society often discredits or doesn't give enough credit for creative people.
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And if you just look around your, like everything around you, look at the magazines or like clothes or packaging, right?
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Everything.
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This room.
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Yeah, there's someone that thought about how to put all the things in the world all that together.
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Whenever there's design, there's a sense of intelligence behind it.
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But it's another form of intelligence that's not about words or writing or books or science.
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It's visual or it's sound, it's audio or it's taste.
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If you want to pursue a career in art, there's so many different paths you can take.
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You don't just have to be a painter.
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You can be a social media manager that focuses on the creativity of the social media, creative director.
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You could also be a stylist.
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I mean, there's so many different facets of creativity.
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Don't just limit yourself to one.
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Final question is from Eleanor Foy.
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She asked, Michelle, how do you deal with feeling isolated and lonely at school?
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Love you.
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Love you too.
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There's nothing wrong with learning how to be comfortable by yourself and your own thoughts.
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Good people will attract good people.
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I think feeling isolated is only temporary because you'll eventually be attracted or you'll find good people If anything,
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I think it's a blessing in disguise because You filter out.
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the not so good people out of your life.
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And so you only have like a handful of good people in your life.
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And those are the only people that you do want in your life anyway.
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If you want to find people, if you want change in your life, you have to invite that change.
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And sometimes that change can be scary, but you need to have that challenge to push you into a different direction for your personal development.
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So that's pretty much it guys.
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These were all the questions.
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Thank you so much for asking these great questions.
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We hope you guys enjoyed the video and hopefully they were helpful.
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You guys are so sweet!
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I read the comments on the summer goals video and you guys are so sweet.
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Thank you. And...
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- We love you.
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- Yes.
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Subscribe to Karen's channel.
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I will add the link here.
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and Instagram here.
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There.
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There.
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Bye everyone!
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Best of luck with everything!
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We love you!
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Bye!

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Глагол + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — глаголы, после которых идёт форма на -ingstart believing · kept having
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