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Should your customers pay more simply because you can't run an efficient team?
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Should your shareholders earn lower returns because you can't bring yourself to set a high standard for performance?
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Should the communities you operate in suffer the impacts of your poorly run business
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because you don't hold people to account for results?
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Empathy is critical if you want to connect with your people and build trust, but you can't allow your empathy to turn into sympathy.
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In the checklist of desirable leadership attributes, empathy is right up there with integrity, humility, and authenticity.
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Empathy is just understanding another person's feelings, being able to put yourself in their shoes and see the world through their eyes.
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But the word empathy has been hijacked in recent years, and now it seems to be virtually interchangeable with the word sympathy.
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Now this is dangerous, because sympathy goes way beyond understanding.
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Sympathy is about feeling sorry for someone.
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So instead of just recognising their feelings, you jump down in the hole with them and try to help them.
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This might be the appropriate response for family and friends, but as a leader, you can't allow empathy to morph into sympathy.
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If you do, you're going to start making concessions for certain people.
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You'll treat them differently.
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lower the standard.
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You'll put their individual wants and needs ahead of the team or the organisation.
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The difference between empathy and sympathy might seem subtle, but when it comes to performance, it's everything.
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Everyone has a life outside of work.
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Everyone goes through difficult times.
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And yes, everyone deserves your compassion and your understanding.
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But if that stops you from making the right decisions, decisions that are in the best interest of the wider team, then that's a problem.
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And it's becoming increasingly hard to avoid the sympathy spiral.
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The whole people before profits movement has skewed our thinking.
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The people that that bumper stick and slogan refers to are of course your employees.
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Now that translates into, put your employees' interests ahead of the company's interests.
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Sounds noble right?
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But it's simply an excuse for weak leaders to avoid accountability under the pretense of caring.
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The people get what they want and you get to feel good about yourself.
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But what about the other people that you're there to serve?
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Should your customers pay more simply because you can't run an efficient team?
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Should your shareholders earn lower returns because you can't bring yourself to set a high standard for performance?
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Should the communities you operate in suffer the impacts of your poorly run business
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because you don't hold people to account for results?
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Empathy is critical if you want to connect with your people and build trust, but you You can't allow your empathy to turn into sympathy.
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This is the difference between strong leaders and weak leaders.
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A strong leader with high empathy is incredibly effective for both the company and the individuals they lead.
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They have understanding, compassion and connection.
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But it doesn't stop them from making tough decisions, holding a line on the standard and producing results.
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A weak leader with high empathy is disastrous.
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Their compassion turns into capitulation.
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The best leaders have boundless empathy, but they're also strong enough to hold the lines that they need to hold because they're important not to cross.
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If you want to go deeper on how to stop empathy from becoming sympathy, have a listen to episode 135 of the No Bullshit Leadership podcast, When Empathy Becomes Sympathy.
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We'll leave a link in the show notes.
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I really hope you enjoyed this moment and that gives you that extra little spark to be a no bullshit leader.

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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları

Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “Empathy vs sympathy: the line strong leaders hold” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: empathy, sympathy, leader, understanding, standard. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 44 cümle ve 614 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 4:07 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 149 kelimelik dengeli bir hızla konuşuyor; gölgeleme için rahat bir tempo. Kelimelerin %85’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var. 44 cümlenin 8 tanesi soru; soru tonlaması ve kısa cevaplar için iyi bir alıştırma.

Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler

Videodaki en ileri düzey 14 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:

KelimeTelaffuzAnlam
empathy isim/ˈɛmpəθi/empati
sympathy isim/ˈsɪm.pəθ.i/sempati
compassion isim/kəmˈpæʃ.ən/şefkat
shareholder isim/ˈʃɛəˌhəʊl.də(ɹ)/aksiyoner, hissedar
boundless sıfat/ˈbaʊndləs/sınırsız, sonsuz
checklist isim/ˈt͡ʃɛklɪst/doğrulama listesi, kontrol listesi
humility isim/hjuːˈmɪlɪti/tevazu
disastrous sıfat/dɪˈzæs.tɹəs/feci
slogan isim/ˈsloʊɡən/şiar
spiral isim/ˈspaɪɹəl/spiral
desirable sıfat/dɪˈzaɪəɹəbəl/tatminkar
translate fiil/tɹænzˈleɪt/tercüme etmek, terceme
spark isim/ˈspɑɹk/kıvılcım, şerare
podcast isim/ˈpɑdˌkæst/podcast

Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar

Konuşmacı can't, don't, they're gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 17 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.

  • “th” sesleri: empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/, sympathy /ˈsɪm.pəθ.i/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/
  • “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, shareholder /ˈʃɛəˌhəʊl.də(ɹ)/, concession /kənˈsɛʃən/
  • Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: interchangeable /ɪntɚˈt͡ʃeɪnd͡ʒəbl̩/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, desirable /dɪˈzaɪəɹəbəl/, accountability /əˌkaʊn.təˈbɪl.ə.ti/

Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:

  • Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: pretense /ˈpɹiːtɛns/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, slogan /ˈsloʊɡən/, spiral /ˈspaɪɹəl/, translate /tɹænzˈleɪt/
  • /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, hijack /ˈhaɪ.d͡ʒæk/, disastrous /dɪˈzæs.tɹəs/, attribute /ˈæt.ɹɪˌbjut/, translate /tɹænzˈleɪt/

Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır

  1. Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
  2. Normal hızda cümle cümle tekrar edin; ritminiz konuşmacıyla aynı olana kadar her cümleyi yineleyin.
  3. Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; empathy, sympathy, compassion gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.

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