Shadowing Practice: How to Love without fear - Learn English Speaking with Video
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What is the most difficult in love?
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We regularly get into difficulties in love
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because we refuse to accept how much reassurance and stroking we need from the person we love.
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We imagine we're grown up.
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We don't want to countenance how fragile and easily wounded we might be.
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We don't want to see the always susceptible and sensitive child beneath the impressive adult.
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And so, in the face of so-called small things that have undeniably hurt us – a missing warm comment here,
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a lack of touch there – we go numb instead.
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We silently and swiftly pull up the drawbridge.
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We unconsciously prepare to recriminate.
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We tell ourselves that we have a lot of work to do and should spend more time by ourselves.
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The last thing we can acknowledge is that we might be sad, confused and secretly furious.
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It would help a lot if we could recognise with grace
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that when it comes to relationships we are all without a skin.
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We feel everything, whether we choose to register the fact or not.
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We are alive to every nuance in our partner's behaviour towards us.
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We notice and are pained by every piece of distance, every movement of incomprehension and every minor slight.
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It is obviously profoundly tempting to deny such exposure.
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Who wants to be constantly reminded
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that they have in effect forfeited their independence to the moods and inclinations of a wholly autonomous fellow human?
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How much more comforting to subsist under the illusion
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that we might be immune to minor slights and that our spirits remain substantially in our own hands.
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And yet, it would be fairer and a good deal cleaner to accept that once we are in love,
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we have no option but to feel everything that goes on between ourselves and a partner.
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We have to know on a daily, even hourly basis that we continue to matter to them.
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It's no use pretending to be made of rock, of attempting to be recklessly and eventually angrily and coldly brave.
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We need to put in place measures to preserve love in the face of our ongoing vulnerability.
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We need regularly to check in with one another and ask, Have I hurt you?
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And then as regularly say, I do still love you.
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It's no sign of being infantile to approach love with immense, almost implausible sensitivity.
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It is a sign that we have at last accepted what a grown-up is and needs.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “How to Love without fear” videosuna dayanıyor. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 31 cümle ve 412 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 2:39 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 156 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %82’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 13 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| countenance isim | /ˈkaʊn.tə.nəns/ | çehre, yüz |
| infantile sıfat | /ˈɪnfəntaɪl/ | çocuksal |
| nuance isim | /ˈnjuː.ɑːns/ | nükte |
| numb sıfat | /nʌm/ | uyuşuk |
| silently zarf | /ˈsaɪləntli/ | sessizce |
| susceptible sıfat | [səˈsɛptɪbl̩] | duyarlı, elverişli |
| vulnerability isim | /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/ | yaralanabilirlik |
| autonomous sıfat | /ɔˈtɑnəməs/ | otonom |
| fragile sıfat | /ˈfɹæd͡ʒəl/ | kırılgan, narin |
| immense sıfat | /ɪˈmɛns/ | kocaman |
| substantially zarf | büyük ölçüde, ciddi anlamda | |
| furious sıfat | /ˈfjʊəɹi.əs/ | kızgın, öfkeli |
| preserve fiil | /pɹəˈzɝv/ | korumak, muhafaza etmek |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| grow up fiil | büyümek, yetişmek |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı don't, we're gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 3 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: inclination /ˌɪn.klɪˈneɪ.ʃən/, unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/, illusion /ɪˈl(j)uːʒ(ə)n/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: inclination /ˌɪn.klɪˈneɪ.ʃən/, recriminate /ɹɪˈkɹɪmɪneɪt/, unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/, vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, autonomous /ɔˈtɑnəməs/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: drawbridge /ˈdɹɔːbɹɪd͡ʒ/, nuance /ˈnjuː.ɑːns/, profoundly /pɹəˈfaʊndli/, swiftly /ˈswɪftli/, fragile /ˈfɹæd͡ʒəl/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: angrily /ˈæŋ.ɡɹə.li/, fragile /ˈfɹæd͡ʒəl/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; countenance, infantile, nuance gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.