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happiness has tons of unhappiness in it to be happy is to be fully alive
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that's what it comes down to is to be is to
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have a is to enjoy your life not pleasure enjoyment
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which has people and meaning and it manages your pleasures
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which means foregoing a lot of your pleasures
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it means a self a self -managing individual is one who has true enjoyment not just pleasure it means satisfaction
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which is the joy of accomplishments with struggle
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that's what you're talking about without the struggle there's no sweetness
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there's no satisfaction it's just accomplishments like being born with daddy's money
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there's no satisfaction from being born rich the satisfaction comes from the struggle
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that it comes to get rich and then the rich part is almost beside the point
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and last but not least is the meaning
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and i could ask you about the moments of greatest meaning in your life where you find your resilience
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and your will to live and you're gonna tell me something something painful about your mother almost dying or,
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you know, a true loss that you've had in your life.
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You're not going to talk about that week at the beach at Editha.
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That's not what you're going to tell me about.
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You're going to tell me about hard things.
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The truth of the matter is that if you try to avoid suffering in any way, you will avoid your happiness.
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That's the truth of the matter.
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And so Alex Hormozzi says that happiness is a scam.
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That's because he thinks of happiness as a, Alex Hormozzi's great, but doesn't mean he's a happiness scientist
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and he things of happiness as a feeling feelings are just evidence of happiness don't chase a feeling
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that's insane that's like the smell of my turkey is my
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thanksgiving dinner no the smell of the turkey is evidence of your thanksgiving dinner look for the protein carbohydrates
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and fat and strive to get the macronutrients and balance
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and abundance with a delicious recipe then you'll actually be then you'll have a nutritious meal
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that will build your body and give you what you actually need
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and that you'll actually enjoy and find satisfying
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and even meaningful assuming you get your thanksgiving dinner with the people
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that you love that's really what it comes down to there's nothing at odds with these ideas of pain
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and suffering and the best possible life that's full of happiness
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and that's what we need to understand
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and that's one of the things by the way
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that your generation's been lied to that that if you're sad
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and anxious there's something wrong with you
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and you got to fix it no are you kidding me i mean this is life if you're not sad and anxious.
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You need therapy, man.
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Something's wrong.
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Now it can be maladapted.
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You know, clinical depression, generalized anxiety are real diagnosable disorders, and everybody should take their meds if they're taking meds, right?
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But the truth of the matter is I want it all, man.
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Bring it on.
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I want the pain.
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I want the trouble.
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I want the challenge.
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I want the tragedy.
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I want the grief i want all of it
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because i want to be happy i think the key thing there is
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that oftentimes depression
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which i would say is more of a metaphor for being in a depressed state yeah
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it's actually just a normal reaction to an abnormal set of circumstances
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that are incongruent with or a normal set of circumstances normal i mean the truth is
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that it's very normal for you to have adversity and setbacks
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and if you didn't have them you wouldn't learn and grow
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but you have natural emotions
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which are the proper functioning in the limbic system of your brain saying
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that these are things that are a threat and
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that you should work to avoid or manage that's normal fear anger disgust
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and sadness are the four negative emotions and
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and you literally have different parts of your limbic system
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that were developed to process each one of these emotions
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and they've evolved and persisted
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because these are are good for you not bad for you you're supposed to feel sadness
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when you lose someone or something that you love.
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And the reason that sadness is incredibly uncomfortable is because you need to have an incentive to avoid these losses.
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But when these losses are inevitable, you understand your life better when you process that emotion.
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That's the paradox of being fully alive.
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There's a great early Christian saint named Saint Irenaeus in the second century.
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And his greatest quote is
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that the glory of God is a person fully alive the glory of god
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so in other words to be in god's image is to be fully alive
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guess what that means lots of misery that means trouble is what
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that actually means
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and that's an important understanding of life right
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i don't want to walk around with a smiley face all the time
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i want the full experience i want to bring
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it on man the full monty every single day that's what i want
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu konuşma dersi “Stop Avoiding Discomfort If You Want Real Happiness” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: happiness, normal, satisfaction, emotion, pleasure. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 78 cümle ve 867 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 4:30 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 193 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %84’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| happiness isim | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | mutluluk, saadet |
| emotion isim | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | duygu, his |
| satisfaction isim | /sætɪsˈfækʃən/ | tatmin |
| sadness isim | /ˈsædnəs/ | üzgünlük, üzüntü |
| suffer fiil | /ˈsʌfɚ/ | çekmek, acı çekmek |
| glory isim | /ˈɡlɔːɹi/ | görkem |
| anxious sıfat | /ˈæŋkʃəs/ | endişeli, kaygılı |
| circumstance isim | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | durum, hâl |
| meal isim | /ˈmiːl/ | yemek, aş |
| anxiety isim | /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/ | kaygı, endişe |
| chase fiil | /t͡ʃeɪs/ | kovalamak, peşinden koşmak |
| anger isim | /ˈæŋɡə/ | öfke, kızgınlık |
| insane sıfat | /ɪnˈseɪn/ | deli |
| delicious sıfat | /dɪˈlɪ.ʃəs/ | lezzetli, tatlı |
| disorder isim | /dɪsˈɔɹdɚ/ | teşevvüş |
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | being born · been lied · can be maladapted |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | you've had · generation's been lied · they've evolved |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, you'll, don't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 20 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/, anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/, accomplishment /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ.mənt/, delicious /dɪˈlɪ.ʃəs/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/, accomplishment /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ.mənt/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: glory /ˈɡlɔːɹi/, tragedy /ˈtɹæd͡ʒ.ɪ.di/, grief /ɡɹiːf/, scam /ˈskæm/, strive /ˈstɹaɪv/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: happiness /ˈhæpinɪs/, satisfaction /sætɪsˈfækʃən/, thanksgiving /ˌθæŋksˈɡɪv.ɪŋ/, sadness /ˈsædnəs/, anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/
- /ŋ/ — sondaki /g/ okunmaz: thanksgiving /ˌθæŋksˈɡɪv.ɪŋ/, foregoing /fɔɹˈɡoʊɪŋ/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; happiness, emotion, satisfaction gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.