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Having the emotion, to me, is different than acting on the emotion.
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Aha.
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Lincoln famously would get upset, as all leaders do.
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And he would write these letters, but then he would put the letters in a drawer and not send them.
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Right?
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You can be angry.
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You don't have to hit send.
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So 15 books you've written about this.
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What is stoicism, and how do you explain it?
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Well, I think the stereotype you mentioned is a good place to start.
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People think stoic means has no emotions, invulnerable.
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That's what we would call lowercase stoic.
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That's what the word means.
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And it was just like Epicurean means loves food, but it's actually also a 2 ,500 -year -old ancient philosophy.
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And so I sort of define stoicism as this idea that we don't control what happens, but we control how we respond to what happens.
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And the Stoics believed that everything was an opportunity to practice virtue.
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And those four virtues for the Stoics were courage, temperance or self -discipline, justice, and wisdom.
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And so the idea is that life can throw a lot at you, but it can't prevent you from acting with virtue.
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That's something you could do in prison.
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You could also do as the emperor of Rome.
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And so Stoicism then is this sort of toolkit for dealing with a world where the vast majority...
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So it's not a religion.
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I don't think so.
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It's a way of living.
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And there have been the Stoics lived in a world of the gods and there have been Stoics since, you know, God.
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It's, I think, perfectly compatible with a variety of different faiths, but it's mostly a way of living, a set of ideas.
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Now, when I read Obstacle is the Way, I was struck by how simple the idea is
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And yet how radical it also becomes when you actually try to live it, that the very thing, y 'all,
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blocking your path might actually be the path.
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So Marcus Aurelius, emperor of Rome around the year 170, wrote, what stands in the way becomes the way.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I had not come across that as a philosophy.
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How does what's standing in the way become the way, Ryan?
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I think what he's specifically talking about makes it very clear.
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So the obstacle he's referring to, because he's writing in meditations, which is just his private thoughts.
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So he's not saying it to us.
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He's saying it to himself.
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And he's talking about difficult and annoying people.
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He's saying difficult and annoying people can get in our way.
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They can cause problems for us, right?
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Our opponents, our competitors, anyone can cause problems for us but they can't prevent us from moving forward
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because they're actually presenting us a new way to move forward, whether it's patience, whether it's forgiveness, whether it's creativity or perseverance.
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So for the Stoics, when they say the obstacle is the way, sometimes you can transform what you're dealing with into some huge opportunity to move forward in a professional capacity.
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But always in a personal capacity,
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we're being challenged and tested we're given an opportunity to practice some kind of excellence,
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some reach for us that maybe we wouldn't have done under ordinary circumstances, but this circumstance we're in gives us the chance to do that.
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That's what he means.
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So you write about persistent, directed action, and you say action is the solution and cure to our predicaments.
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How do people take action when they're stuck, when they don't know what to do.
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Most people don't take action because they're stuck.
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One of the Stoic philosophers, Seneca, he said that the one thing all fools have in common is that they're always getting ready to start.
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So we say we're going to do it later.
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We say we're going to do it tomorrow.
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We say we're going to do it when things go back to normal.
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All fools have this in common.
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I was thinking, okay, I'm in that fool category.
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Me too.
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I'm getting ready.
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I'm getting ready.
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Yeah, we're working ourselves up to it.
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Yeah.
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And really we gotta get started.
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We gotta, what's the smallest thing?
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What's the next right thing that we can do?
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Yeah.
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One of my favorite writing rules is just a couple crappy pages a day.
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Yeah.
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You know, just get started.
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Don't overthink it.
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Don't let perfection be a form of paralysis.
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Yeah.
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But what can you do right now that at least makes a small positive difference?
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Yeah, so even if you're tired, even if you're discouraged, you still take action no matter what.
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Well, that's what discipline is, right?
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Doing it when you don't want to do it
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or you don't have to do it or you have a good excuse to not do it.
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Yeah.
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Well, one of the sentences, the first sentences that stood out for me is, it doesn't matter what happens to us.
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It can be for the best if we use it to be better for ourselves and others.
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I think that's true.
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Sounds crazy, but also really challenging to apply.
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And in order to make it real, you organize the book around the three principles, perception, action, and will.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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That's how the Stoics try to approach every situation they're in.
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First, how do we think about this?
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What's the story I'm telling myself about it?
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What's my view on it?
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The Stoics remind themselves that, you know, it's not things that are the problem.
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It's our opinion about those things, right?
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The story we tell ourselves about it, You know, this was unfair.
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This was cruel.
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I was humiliated.
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These are all subjective interpretations of an objective event.
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So first, how do we see this?
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That's really, really essential.
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Well, that's so interesting because since reading so many of your books and other people's books about stoicism, I now ask people, I used to say,
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oh, say, tell me what happened.
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I've now caught myself saying, what's the story you're telling yourself about this?
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Do you know what my therapist said to me once.
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I said, you know, I gave some interpretation of an event and she corrected me and she said, no, no, no. What you make up about this is.
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Yes.
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Right.
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It is.
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And then what I make up about it is my interpretation.
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That's right.
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So what is the story you have made up about what is actually happening?
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Yes.
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Yes.
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And so stoicism is training to be able to see things as objectively, as dispassionately as possible, not in the sway of our initial impression
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or our emotions or our bias or whatever pattern we have followed our whole life.
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Okay, could you give me an example using perception?
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Yeah.
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Okay, first and foremost, something happens and then we say, this is bad.
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Yeah.
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Or this is unrecoverable from, you know, my reputation has been damaged.
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That interpretation and stepping back and going, no, no, no, no. Somebody else might see this totally different.
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Or had I not known that this happened, had someone said that rude remark to you and you just didn't hear it, or your phone deleted the email, would your life be ruined?
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No, it's just that you know about it and then you have an opinion about it that is the problem.
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So trying to step back and see the thing first and foremost objectively.
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And then I think what we can get better at is going, hey, if I have the power to tell myself a negative story about this, I also have the power to tell myself a positive story about this.
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And that's where, when we say the obstacle is the way, what we mean is, hey, this is a chance for me to do something that I couldn't do under ordinary circumstances.
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So how do we, Ryan, train ourselves to see clearly when emotions are running high?
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How do you, so in every situation, you first do the assessment.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And you sort of step back and you don't shut down your emotions or do you shut down your emotions?
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I don't think you shut them down.
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I think the stereotype...
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You repress your emotion.
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What do you do?
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Having the emotion to me is different than acting on the emotion.
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Uh -huh.
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Lincoln famously would get upset as all leaders do.
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And he would write these letters, but then he would put the letters in a drawer and not send them.
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Right.
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You can be angry.
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You don't you don't have to hit send because you can take a minute to think about it.
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So to me, Stoicism is that reflection, that pause after the initial impression.
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The Stoics are talking about taking every interpretation, every view, every instinct, every impulse, and putting it to the test, going, hey, how am I gonna feel about this later?
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Am I sure I'm not gonna regret this?
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Is this actually making it better or worse?
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So the Stoic philosophy is not to act, not to react emotionally, is to take a moment, take the whole thing in,
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and see, try to look at it from the perspective of what is actually happening here, and not just the story I'm telling myself about what's happening here.
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Yeah, it's that pause between the stimulus and the thing you do.
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Thank you.
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| obstacle isim | /ˈɑbstəkəl/ | engel, ket |
| circumstance isim | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | durum, hâl |
| ordinary sıfat | /ˈɔɹdɪnɛɹi/ | sıradan, olağan |
| impression isim | /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/ | intiba, tesir |
| emperor isim | /ˈɛmp(ə)ɹə/ | imparator, ilhan |
| discipline isim | /ˈdɪsəplɪn/ | disiplin |
| pause isim | /pɔːz/ | mola, teneffüs |
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| reputation isim | /ˌɹɛpjʊˈteɪʃən/ | ün, şöhret |
| refer fiil | /ɹɪˈfɜː/ | zikretmek |
| regret fiil | /ɹɪˈɡɹɛt/ | pişman olmak |
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