تدريب Shadowing: How to Say NO! - تعلم التحدث بالإنجليزية عبر الفيديو

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When you have to say no, sometimes you want to add nuance.
عندما تضطر إلى قول "لا"، قد ترغب أحيانًا في إضافة لمسة من الدقة والتفصيل.
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How can you say no without being rude?
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Also, what do
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Americans really mean when they say, I don't think so?
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Do they mean no?
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There are lots of ways you can say no while being kind and showing appreciation.
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When I was living in Germany, I was frustrated that I didn't have any phrases to use in these kinds of situations.
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I wished I had various ways to say no or to turn down an invitation.
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Today, we're going to go over lots of ways to say no in English, in various situations.
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Situation 1.
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You're out to eat, and you've eaten, and your server asks if you'd like dessert, or if you'd like to see a dessert menu,
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or if there's anything else you'd like to order.
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You could say a simple, no thank you, or no thanks, or I don't think so.
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We use I don't think to mean we're not sure.
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Rachel, do they sell diapers at the corner store?
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I don't think so, but I'm not sure.
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Are they open late?
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I don't think so.
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Again, that means probably not, but I'm not 100 % sure.
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So if we're asked if we know something, and we're not sure, we can say I don't think so.
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But if we're asked if we want something, I don't think so means no. Do you want to try this on in another size?
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I don't think so.
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Do you want dessert?
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I don't think so.
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Do you want to super -size that order?
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I don't think so.
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Situation two.
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Someone asks you to do something you don't want to do or can't do.
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This could be a colleague at work asking you to do work on a project, or someone, say, at church, asking if you can do something.
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Can you help plan the retreat this year?
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This is, someone asks you to do something extra, to take on an extra task or extra work.
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Not something social, we'll get to that in a minute.
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Here are some phrases you could use to turn down something like this.
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Sorry, I've got too much going on already.
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Sorry, I can't take on any extra work.
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Sorry, I can't take on any extra work.
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Take on a phrasal verb.
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Sorry, I can't take on any extra work.
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Sorry, I don't have time.
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Sorry, I don't have time.
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That one is nice and simple.
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Sorry, I don't have time.
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Unfortunately, I'm not going to have time to do that.
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Unfortunately, I can't take that on.
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Using the word unfortunately shows that you have some level of disappointment.
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It's something you'd like to do, or you can see that it would be good for you to do,
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Or you can see that you're disappointing someone by saying no. Unfortunately, I can't.
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You could also say, I'd like to, but I've got too much on my plate to take that on.
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Too much on my plate.
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That's an idiom that means you're busy.
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And last week, I did a video that went over 16 different ways to say you're busy.
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Often when you decline something, you add that you're busy or what your plans are.
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So check out that video if you haven't already you'll learn some great phrases to use when you need to decline something.
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You could say, I don't think I can make that work.
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I don't think I can make that work.
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Again, we're using I don't think here to mean no.
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It's sort of a softer way than just saying a flat no. Rachel, can you help set up for the event on Monday?
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I don't think I can make that work.
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Sorry.
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Hey, can you stay tonight for a client phone call?
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I don't think I can make that work.
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I have to pick up my kid at 6.
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You could say, not this time, if it's something you're interested in in the future.
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You could even say something like, not this time, but please ask me again.
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I'd like to try to do that next time.
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You could also try showing your appreciation.
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For example, thanks for thinking of me, but I can't.
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Or, I'm honored, but I can't.
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Or, I'd really like to, but I can't make it work this time.
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These all have but.
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This kind of statement plus but, is something we would use a lot in social situations with friends, too.
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That brings us to situation three.
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A friend asks you to do something social, but you can't.
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Maybe you're too busy, or you've already got plans.
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You could say, I wish I could but, and your excuse.
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I wish I could but we have guests in town then.
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Or, I wish I could but I'm busy tonight.
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So, I wish I could plus your excuse.
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I could replace I wish I could with I'd love to.
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Or, that sounds lovely.
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That sounds lovely but I'll be out of town.
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Or, I already have plans.
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Or, but I'm helping my friend move that day.
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You could also say, I'd like to.
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I'd like to, but I'm not free tonight.
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I'd like to, but I'm not free tonight.
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Oh, it's out of tune.
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I'd like to, but I really can't make it work this time.
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Or, what about this one?
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Shoot, that sounds fun.
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Sorry I can't make it.
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Or, sorry I can't come.
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You get the idea.
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Situation 4.
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You get a phone call, a sales call, someone wants to talk to you about switching phone companies,
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or you're walking down the street and someone wants to sell you something, or have you give money to their charity.
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You can be brief.
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You can simply say, sorry, or not today, or I'm not interested, thanks.
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There are lots of different ways to express no.
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Memorizing some of these phrases will make it easier for you to decline an invitation, or not to do something you're asked to do.
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It feels nice to have creative ways to express yourself other than a blunt NO, doesn't it?
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Here's last week's video on ways to say you're busy.
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Lots of really useful phrases and idioms there.
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If you've already seen that one, then check out another Rachel's English video in the suggested videos.
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And don't forget to subscribe if you haven't already.
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What other situations do you need English phrases for?
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Let me know in the comments below.
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That's it and thanks so much for using Rachel's English.

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كل ما تحتاجه للتحدث بطلاقة

تقييم النطق بالذكاء الاصطناعيتقييم كل جملة
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نفس القناة

FOR YOU

فيديو موصى به

المفردات وملاحظات التحدث لهذا الدرس

هذا الدرس في المحادثة مبني على الفيديو “How to Say NO!”. أكثر الكلمات تكرارًا في الفيديو: situation, phrases, busy, extra, wish. يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 108 جملة و1088 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 6:28. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة طبيعية، نحو 168 كلمة في الدقيقة، قريبة من المحادثة اليومية. 87% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، فالمفردات سهلة المتابعة.

أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو

15 كلمة من الفيديو تستحق التعلّم، مع النطق والمعنى:

الكلمةالنطقالمعنى
phrase اسم/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/جُمْلَة, تَعْبِير
dessert اسم/dɪˈzɝt/حَلْوَى, حَلْوَيَات
invitation اسم/ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/دَعْوَة, عزيمة
appreciation اسم/əˌpɹiː.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/تَقْدِير
server اسم/ˈsɝvɚ/خَادُوم m or خَادِم, مُلَقِّم
charity اسم/ˈtʃæɹɪti/مُنَظَّمَة خَيْرِيَّة
tune اسم/tjuːn/لَحْن
menu اسم/ˈmɛn.juː/قَائِمَة, قَائِمَةُ الطَّعَام
rude صفة/ɹuːd/فَظّ
retreat اسم/ɹɪˈtɹiːt/تَرَاجُع, اِنْسِحَاب
subscribe فعل/səbˈskɹaɪb/اِشْتَرَكَ
disappointment اسم/ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/خَيْبَة أَمَل
colleague اسم/ˈkɒliːɡ/شَرِيك, شَرِيكَة
blunt صفة/blʌnt/كَلِيل
verb اسم/vɝb/فِعْل

الأفعال المركبة التي ستسمعها

الكلمةالمعنى
pick up فعلقَطَفَ

جمل تستحق التكرار

جمل قصيرة وكاملة من الفيديو يمكنك استخدامها في الحديث اليومي:

  • How can you say no without being rude?
  • Americans really mean when they say, I don't think so?
  • I don't think so, but I'm not sure.
  • Do you want to super -size that order?
  • Can you help plan the retreat this year?

القواعد في هذا الفيديو

أكثر التراكيب التي يستخدمها المتحدث، مع العبارات نفسها من الفيديو:

التركيبفي الفيديو
الجمل الشرطية if + جملة، will/would + فعل — شرط ونتيجتهif there's anything else you'd like · if you haven't already you'll learn
المضارع التام have/has + اسم المفعول — حدث ماضٍ ما زال له أثر الآنyou've eaten · you've already seen
المستقبل بـ “will” will + فعل — قرار أو وعد أو توقعwe'll get · you'll learn · I'll be
المضارع المستمر am/is/are + -ing — شيء يحدث الآن أو في هذه الفترةwe're using · I'm helping · you're walking

نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه

يستخدم المتحدث 82 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل don't, can't, you're. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.

  • أصوات “sh” و“zh”: invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, appreciation /əˌpɹiː.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/
  • الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, appreciation /əˌpɹiː.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/

أصوات يجدها متحدثو العربية صعبة:

  • /p/ — ليس /b/: انطقه مع نفخة هواء: appreciation /əˌpɹiː.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/, disappoint /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnt/
  • /v/ — ليس /f/: مع اهتزاز الأوتار الصوتية: invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, server /ˈsɝvɚ/, verb /vɝb/
  • تتابع الصوامت — لا تضف حركة بينها: phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, tune /tjuːn/, subscribe /səbˈskɹaɪb/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/, blunt /blʌnt/

كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو

  1. استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
  2. ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
  3. سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل phrase, dessert, invitation.

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