Pratique du Shadowing: Trust issues are driving us crazy - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo
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Today, I want to talk about trust issues, why they make you so tired,
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and also a few things that have helped me let go a little.
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First of all, living with trust issues is honestly exhausting.
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From the outside, it doesn't look like much.
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You seem a bit quiet, a bit careful, but on the inside,
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the noise in your head never really stops every word every look
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and even every pause in a conversation you think about it again
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and again and
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when someone is nice to you instead of just enjoying it you start wondering what they really want from you
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so now i think the hardest part is that it doesn't come from nowhere.
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Most people with trust issues weren't born this way.
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At some point, someone they trusted hurt them, maybe more than once.
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As a result, their brain learned a lesson.
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Don't get too comfortable or you'll get hurt again.
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So in a way, all
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that overthinking it just your mind trying to protect you the thing is it doesn't know
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when to stop and that's where the real problem starts
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when your guard is always up it keeps the good people out to you know for example
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when someone is kind and you immediately think they're hiding something you never really get to enjoy
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that kindness you know in the end you keep everyone at the same distance both the people who hurt you
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and the people who never would personally i think that's why it feels
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so suffocating sure you're safe but at the same time you're kind of alone in there
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i'm being honest so what has actually helped to be clear i am definitely not fully healed yet
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but a few small things have really made a difference for me the first one is telling facts apart from stories.
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Let's say a friend replies late.
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The fact is simple.
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She replied late.
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Everything else, like she's mad, she's bored of me, she's hiding something.
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It's just a story my brain made up in about two seconds, you know?
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Once I notice that, the panic gets a little smaller
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and second i try to ask instead of guessing something as simple as hey are we good
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of course it feels outward especially the first few times however one clear answer is
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so much easier to carry than a hundred what ifs you know
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and third i let trust grow slowly one small step at a time after all
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you don't have to give someone your whole heart on day one
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you know instead let them show up in small ways maybe
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they keep a little promise maybe they remember something you said weeks ago over time those moments add up
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and your brain slowly learns that not everyone is out to hurt you
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that being said having your guard up isn't always a bad thing
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in fact boundaries are healthy
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and being careful about who you let in is quite smart to me
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it's really about balance you still protect yourself
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but you also stop pushing away the people who never did anything wrong you know on top of
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that if it ever feels like too much to handle on your own talking to someone you trust
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or even a professional can really help and there's nothing weak about
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that you know so yeah living with trust issues is exhausting believe me i know
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that feeling really well but
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if you saw yourself in this video i hope you hear this part the way you feel makes sense
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and little by little with the right people it's okay to let
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that guard down even if it's just for a moment
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so i hope you like this video hope to see you next week goodbye
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette leçon d’expression orale s’appuie sur la vidéo « Trust issues are driving us crazy ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : trust, hurt, issues, guard, brain. Cette vidéo contient 51 phrases et 633 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 4:36. Le locuteur parle à un rythme régulier d’environ 138 mots par minute, confortable pour le shadowing. 90 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
13 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| exhaust verbe | /ɪɡˈzɔst/ | épuiser |
| lesson nom | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | leçon |
| nowhere adverbe | /ˈnoʊ.(h)wɛɹ/ | nulle part |
| goodbye | /ɡʊdˈbaɪ/ | bon vent, au revoir |
| panic nom | /ˈpænɪk/ | panique |
| boundary nom | /ˈbaʊndɹi/ | frontière, limite |
| heal verbe | /ˈhiːl/ | guérir, assainir |
| kindness nom | /ˈkaɪnd.nəs/ | bonté |
| pause nom | /pɔːz/ | pause |
| bore verbe | /boɹ/ | ennuyer, barber |
| outward adjectif | /ˈaʊt.wɚd/ | externe |
| overthink verbe | surpenser, surréfléchir | |
| suffocate verbe | /ˈsʌfəkeɪt/ | suffoquer, étouffer |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Sens |
|---|---|
| add up verbe | additionner |
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant | have helped · has actually helped · have really made |
| Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chose | people who hurt · people who never |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | weren't born · being said |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 12 contractions et formes réduites, comme doesn't, don't, you're. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :
- /h/ — il se souffle, il n’est pas muet: nowhere /ˈnoʊ.(h)wɛɹ/, heal /ˈhiːl/
- /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: nowhere /ˈnoʊ.(h)wɛɹ/, boundary /ˈbaʊndɹi/, bore /boɹ/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Répétez phrase par phrase à vitesse normale, en reprenant chacune jusqu’à ce que votre rythme corresponde à celui du locuteur.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme exhaust, lesson, nowhere.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.