शैडोइंग अभ्यास: British People Never Say "I Like you" - They Do This Instead - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें

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someone british once said to me god you're so annoying

and i said thank you

because i knew exactly what they meant in the uk there

is a whole secret language running underneath what we actually say

and if you don't know that language you will misread us and misunderstand us constantly.

You'll think we hate you when we like you.

You'll think we like you when we are furious with you.

And you will spend years being baffled by a nation who apologize to items of furniture that they bump into,

but who will absolutely never tell you they enjoy your company.

Unless perhaps they are drunk but that's a video for another day.

Today I am going to teach you the subtext of British communication.

The real signs that someone British likes you and I promise you some of these will surprise you.

Don't forget to check out the free pdfs that I offer.

Links are in the description below.

The first sign that someone British actually likes you, they start teasing you.

Let me give you an example.

Imagine this.

You've been working somewhere for a few weeks, maybe a month or two.

You walk into the office one morning and a colleague says, oh good, you're here.

Now we can all collectively lower our standards together.

The wrong reaction would be to take offense.

The right reaction would be relief.

Because this colleague has just told you in the most british way possible

that they are comfortable with you we don't tease anybody we don't tease complete strangers

that would be mortifying we tease people we've quietly decided

that we like

because it lets us show warmth without having to say anything

as horrifying as i enjoy your company a good way to see it is as affection

with plausible deniability and the key once again you probably know what i am going to say it's

that word i always use yes the key is the tone

if it is gentle a little absurd playful there is no real sting to it

if it makes you both laugh you're in the second sign that someone british likes you they start complaining to you.

Not about you.

Again, that's different.

Complaining to you.

Complaining in the UK is intimacy.

With strangers, we complain about safe things.

The weather, train delays, the fact that there are now 17 types of oat milk and none of them froth properly.

But when someone starts properly venting to you, that's a good word, vent.

We often say, sorry for the vent.

They start venting properly to you about their commute, their manager, their partner, anything, anything personal.

That signals trust.

They trust you enough to do that.

They have decided that you will understand and that you will nod

and look horrified in the right places you might even contribute your own grievances and indeed

if someone starts venting to you you should it shows mutual

trust you will spend a companionable 10 minutes getting quietly outraged together in short

if someone is bringing you their problems even their petty ones they like you.

The third sign is that the politeness starts to drop.

When British people first meet you the politeness can almost be aggressive.

Oh so sorry no sorry after you you go first.

I'm so sorry could I trouble you for a pen?

But the thing is very often that level of politeness is actually a form of distance.

It's what we do with people we don't yet know how to be around.

It's why also our voice our intonation goes up

so much we talk really highly

when we're being polite sorry would you mind possibly why I don't know we just do

so when someone stops saying to you sorry would you mind

or could you possibly

and instead say something direct like can you move this they

haven't become ruder they've become more comfortable with you you have

moved from a person I must perform for to a person I can just talk to.

And that is a promotion.

Again, it means they like you.

I will say this doesn't apply if someone is just rude from the beginning, that means they are just rude.

The videos that I do are generalisations.

Not every single British person is incredibly polite and indirect.

These are general things to be aware of.

The next sign is that they trust you with humour.

British humour has a learning curve.

It is mostly irony.

Irony and sarcasm.

Saying the opposite of what do you mean in a deadpan, dry way and then watching to see if the other person gets it.

I unpack British humour more in this video if you are interested.

You could cook someone a Michelin star masterpiece meal

that has taken you hours and they might just nod and say in a deadpan way,

well, it's not completely inedible.

And that is a rave review.

When a British person starts using that type of humour with you, it means something specific.

They think you can handle it.

They're not going to have to explain themselves.

They can be slightly strange and you can be slightly strange back and that's absolutely fine.

Neither of you needs to explain.

That's a level of trust that can take some time to reach

but once you've reached it there's no better stamp of approval than

that trusting you with that kind of humor and the next signal

if you're very lucky you will get the invitation a bunch of us are going to the pub this evening

if you wanted to come we're doing a barbecue on sunday nothing fancy

but you're welcome to come if you want or the most significant one.

Shall we grab a cup of tea?

Tea in the UK is never just tea.

Tea is we sit down.

We have time for each other.

I want to hear what's going on in your life.

That is what tea means.

We will make tea for people we like.

We will definitely make tea in a moment of crisis.

And we will make tea

when we have no idea what else we can do for you

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but we want you to know

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that we are there for you we will make you tea

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if someone puts the kettle on just for you you're in there we go

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if a British person teases you complains to you stops being excessively polite around you

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and trusts you with their quirky sense of humor

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or invites you for tea

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or a pint they like you although they almost certainly won't say

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that obviously they might say yeah you're all right

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or yeah i don't mind spending time with you they might

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say nothing at all just refill your mug without you having to ask

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but they will know and now so will you

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if you are more interested in british culture make sure you

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look at this playlist where i go into more details about british culture

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and what it means here don't forget to check out your

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free pdfs links are below as well as details of online lessons

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and courses with me have a wonderful rest of your day and I will see you in the next one, hopefully.

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Bye.

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यह स्पीकिंग पाठ वीडियो “British People Never Say "I Like you" - They Do This Instead” पर आधारित है। सबसे ज़्यादा दोहराए गए शब्द ये हैं: british, tea, trust, sign। इस वीडियो में शैडोइंग के लिए 116 वाक्य और 1221 शब्द हैं। बोला गया हिस्सा 8:06 लंबा है। वक्ता लगभग 151 शब्द प्रति मिनट की स्वाभाविक गति से बोलता है, जो रोज़मर्रा की बातचीत के करीब है। 86% शब्द अंग्रेज़ी के 3,000 सबसे आम शब्दों में से हैं; बाकी शब्द अभ्यास से पहले देख लेना अच्छा रहेगा।

इस वीडियो की मुख्य शब्दावली

वीडियो के 15 सीखने लायक शब्द, उच्चारण और अर्थ के साथ:

शब्द	उच्चारण	अर्थ
complain क्रिया	/kəmˈpleɪn/	शिकायत करना
rude विशेषण	/ɹuːd/	उद्दंड, बदतमीज़
polite विशेषण	/pəˈlaɪt/	सभ्य, विनम्र
stranger संज्ञा	/ˈstɹeɪnd͡ʒɚ/	अजनबी
quietly क्रिया विशेषण	/ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/	चुपके
colleague संज्ञा	/ˈkɒliːɡ/	सहकर्मी, साथी
irony संज्ञा	/ˈaɪ.ɚ.ni/	विडम्बना, विडंबना
meal संज्ञा	/ˈmiːl/	भोजन, जेमन
lesson संज्ञा	/ˈlɛs.ən/	पाठ, सबक़
promotion संज्ञा	/pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/	पदोन्नति, तरक़्क़ी
delay संज्ञा	/dɪˈleɪ̯/	देर, विलंब
aggressive विशेषण	/əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/	आक्रमणकारक, जंगी
invite क्रिया	/ɪnˈvaɪt/	आमंत्रित करना
furniture संज्ञा	/ˈfɝ.nɪ.t͡ʃɚ/	असबाब, फ़र्नीचर
offense संज्ञा	/əˈfɛns/	वार

वीडियो में आने वाली फ़्रेज़ल वर्ब

शब्द	अर्थ
sit down क्रिया	बैठना

दोहराने लायक वाक्य

वीडियो के छोटे, पूरे वाक्य जिन्हें आप रोज़ की बातचीत में इस्तेमाल कर सकते हैं:

You'll think we hate you when we like you.
I'm so sorry could I trouble you for a pen?
Shall we grab a cup of tea?

इस वीडियो का व्याकरण

वक्ता जिन संरचनाओं का सबसे अधिक प्रयोग करता है, वीडियो के असली शब्दों के साथ:

संरचना	वीडियो में
शर्त वाले वाक्य if + उपवाक्य, will/would + क्रिया — शर्त और उसका नतीजा	if you're very lucky you will get
Present perfect have/has + past participle — बीता हुआ काम जिसका असर अभी भी है	has just told · have decided · haven't become
Passive voice be + past participle — ज़ोर इस पर कि क्या होता है, न कि कौन करता है	being baffled · are drunk

ध्यान देने योग्य उच्चारण

वक्ता 28 बार संक्षिप्त रूपों का प्रयोग करता है, जैसे don't, you're, we're। इन्हें वैसे ही छोटा बोलें जैसा आप सुनते हैं।

“th” की ध्वनियाँ: underneath /ˌʌndɚˈniθ/, warmth /wɔɹmθ/, froth /ˈfɹɒθ/
“sh” और “zh” की ध्वनियाँ: ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, promotion /pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, affection /əˈfɛk.ʃən/, intonation /ɪntəˈneɪʃən/
लंबे शब्द — बलाघात सही रखें: ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, intimacy /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/

हिंदी भाषियों के लिए मुश्किल ध्वनियाँ:

/v/ और /w/ का फ़र्क़ — /v/ में ऊपर के दाँत निचले होंठ को छूते हैं, /w/ में होंठ गोल होते हैं: vent /vɛnt/, quietly /ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/, ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, invite /ɪnˈvaɪt/
/z/ — इसे “ज” (/dʒ/) न बनाएँ: tease /tiːz/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, plausible /ˈplɑ.zɪ.bəl/, sarcasm /ˈsɑːɹˌkæzəm/
शब्द की शुरुआत में s + व्यंजन — पहले “इ” न जोड़ें: stranger /ˈstɹeɪnd͡ʒɚ/, stamp /stæmp/, sting /ˈstɪŋ/

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पहले बिना बोले पूरा वीडियो एक बार सुनें और जो शब्द नहीं आते उन्हें लिख लें।
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अपनी आवाज़ रिकॉर्ड करें और मूल से तुलना करें, ख़ासकर complain, rude, polite जैसे शब्दों पर ध्यान दें।

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