쉐도잉 연습: British People Never Say "I Like you" - They Do This Instead - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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someone british once said to me god you're so annoying
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and i said thank you
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because i knew exactly what they meant in the uk there
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is a whole secret language running underneath what we actually say
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and if you don't know that language you will misread us and misunderstand us constantly.
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You'll think we hate you when we like you.
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You'll think we like you when we are furious with you.
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And you will spend years being baffled by a nation who apologize to items of furniture that they bump into,
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but who will absolutely never tell you they enjoy your company.
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Unless perhaps they are drunk but that's a video for another day.
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Today I am going to teach you the subtext of British communication.
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The real signs that someone British likes you and I promise you some of these will surprise you.
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Don't forget to check out the free pdfs that I offer.
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Links are in the description below.
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The first sign that someone British actually likes you, they start teasing you.
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Let me give you an example.
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Imagine this.
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You've been working somewhere for a few weeks, maybe a month or two.
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You walk into the office one morning and a colleague says, oh good, you're here.
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Now we can all collectively lower our standards together.
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The wrong reaction would be to take offense.
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The right reaction would be relief.
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Because this colleague has just told you in the most british way possible
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that they are comfortable with you we don't tease anybody we don't tease complete strangers
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that would be mortifying we tease people we've quietly decided
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that we like
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because it lets us show warmth without having to say anything
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as horrifying as i enjoy your company a good way to see it is as affection
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with plausible deniability and the key once again you probably know what i am going to say it's
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that word i always use yes the key is the tone
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if it is gentle a little absurd playful there is no real sting to it
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if it makes you both laugh you're in the second sign that someone british likes you they start complaining to you.
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Not about you.
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Again, that's different.
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Complaining to you.
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Complaining in the UK is intimacy.
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With strangers, we complain about safe things.
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The weather, train delays, the fact that there are now 17 types of oat milk and none of them froth properly.
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But when someone starts properly venting to you, that's a good word, vent.
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We often say, sorry for the vent.
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They start venting properly to you about their commute, their manager, their partner, anything, anything personal.
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That signals trust.
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They trust you enough to do that.
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They have decided that you will understand and that you will nod
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and look horrified in the right places you might even contribute your own grievances and indeed
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if someone starts venting to you you should it shows mutual
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trust you will spend a companionable 10 minutes getting quietly outraged together in short
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if someone is bringing you their problems even their petty ones they like you.
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The third sign is that the politeness starts to drop.
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When British people first meet you the politeness can almost be aggressive.
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Oh so sorry no sorry after you you go first.
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I'm so sorry could I trouble you for a pen?
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But the thing is very often that level of politeness is actually a form of distance.
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It's what we do with people we don't yet know how to be around.
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It's why also our voice our intonation goes up
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so much we talk really highly
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when we're being polite sorry would you mind possibly why I don't know we just do
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so when someone stops saying to you sorry would you mind
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or could you possibly
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and instead say something direct like can you move this they
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haven't become ruder they've become more comfortable with you you have
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moved from a person I must perform for to a person I can just talk to.
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And that is a promotion.
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Again, it means they like you.
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I will say this doesn't apply if someone is just rude from the beginning, that means they are just rude.
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The videos that I do are generalisations.
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Not every single British person is incredibly polite and indirect.
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These are general things to be aware of.
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The next sign is that they trust you with humour.
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British humour has a learning curve.
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It is mostly irony.
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Irony and sarcasm.
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Saying the opposite of what do you mean in a deadpan, dry way and then watching to see if the other person gets it.
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I unpack British humour more in this video if you are interested.
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You could cook someone a Michelin star masterpiece meal
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that has taken you hours and they might just nod and say in a deadpan way,
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well, it's not completely inedible.
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And that is a rave review.
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When a British person starts using that type of humour with you, it means something specific.
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They think you can handle it.
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They're not going to have to explain themselves.
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They can be slightly strange and you can be slightly strange back and that's absolutely fine.
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Neither of you needs to explain.
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That's a level of trust that can take some time to reach
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but once you've reached it there's no better stamp of approval than
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that trusting you with that kind of humor and the next signal
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if you're very lucky you will get the invitation a bunch of us are going to the pub this evening
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if you wanted to come we're doing a barbecue on sunday nothing fancy
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but you're welcome to come if you want or the most significant one.
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Shall we grab a cup of tea?
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Tea in the UK is never just tea.
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Tea is we sit down.
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We have time for each other.
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I want to hear what's going on in your life.
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That is what tea means.
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We will make tea for people we like.
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We will definitely make tea in a moment of crisis.
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And we will make tea
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when we have no idea what else we can do for you
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but we want you to know
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that we are there for you we will make you tea
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if someone puts the kettle on just for you you're in there we go
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if a British person teases you complains to you stops being excessively polite around you
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and trusts you with their quirky sense of humor
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or invites you for tea
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or a pint they like you although they almost certainly won't say
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that obviously they might say yeah you're all right
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or yeah i don't mind spending time with you they might
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say nothing at all just refill your mug without you having to ask
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but they will know and now so will you
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if you are more interested in british culture make sure you
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look at this playlist where i go into more details about british culture
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and what it means here don't forget to check out your
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free pdfs links are below as well as details of online lessons
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and courses with me have a wonderful rest of your day and I will see you in the next one, hopefully.
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Bye.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 말하기 레슨은 영상 “British People Never Say "I Like you" - They Do This Instead”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: british, tea, trust, sign. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 116개와 단어 1221개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 8:06입니다. 화자는 분당 약 151단어로, 일상 대화에 가까운 자연스러운 속도로 말합니다. 단어의 86%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| humour 명사 | /ˈhjuːmɚ/ | 유머, 해학 |
| complain 동사 | /kəmˈpleɪn/ | 불평(不平)하다, 불만(不滿)을 말하다 |
| rude 형용사 | /ɹuːd/ | 버릇없다, 무례하다 |
| polite 형용사 | /pəˈlaɪt/ | 공손하다 |
| stranger 명사 | /ˈstɹeɪnd͡ʒɚ/ | 낯선 사람 |
| quietly 부사 | /ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/ | 조용하게, 조용히 |
| colleague 명사 | /ˈkɒliːɡ/ | 동료, 동업자 |
| irony 명사 | /ˈaɪ.ɚ.ni/ | 반어, 풍자 |
| ventilation 명사 | /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/ | 통풍, 환기 |
| meal 명사 | /ˈmiːl/ | 끼니, 밥 |
| lesson 명사 | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | 수업, 과 |
| promotion 명사 | /pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/ | 승진, 진급 |
| delay 명사 | /dɪˈleɪ̯/ | 지연, 지체 |
| aggressive 형용사 | /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/ | 공격적인, 침략적인 |
| invite 동사 | /ɪnˈvaɪt/ | 초대하다 |
영상에 나오는 구동사
| 단어 | 뜻 |
|---|---|
| go up 동사 | 올라가다 |
| sit down 동사 | 앉다 |
따라 말해 볼 만한 문장
영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:
- You'll think we hate you when we like you.
- I'm so sorry could I trouble you for a pen?
- Shall we grab a cup of tea?
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 조건문 if + 절, will/would + 동사 — 조건과 그 결과 | if you're very lucky you will get |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | has just told · have decided · haven't become |
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | being baffled · are drunk |
주의할 발음
화자는 don't, you're, we're 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 28번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “th” 소리: underneath /ˌʌndɚˈniθ/, warmth /wɔɹmθ/, froth /ˈfɹɒθ/
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, promotion /pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, affection /əˈfɛk.ʃən/, intonation /ɪntəˈneɪʃən/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, intimacy /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: fancy /ˈfæn.si/, furniture /ˈfɝ.nɪ.t͡ʃɚ/, offense /əˈfɛns/, furious /ˈfjʊəɹi.əs/, affection /əˈfɛk.ʃən/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: vent /vɛnt/, ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, invite /ɪnˈvaɪt/, curve /kɚv/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: tease /tiːz/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, plausible /ˈplɑ.zɪ.bəl/, sarcasm /ˈsɑːɹˌkæzəm/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, humour, complain, rude 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
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