Pratica di Shadowing: British People Never Say "I Like you" - They Do This Instead - Impara a parlare inglese con i video
Creazione lezione...
1
someone british once said to me god you're so annoying
2
and i said thank you
3
because i knew exactly what they meant in the uk there
4
is a whole secret language running underneath what we actually say
5
and if you don't know that language you will misread us and misunderstand us constantly.
6
You'll think we hate you when we like you.
7
You'll think we like you when we are furious with you.
8
And you will spend years being baffled by a nation who apologize to items of furniture that they bump into,
9
but who will absolutely never tell you they enjoy your company.
10
Unless perhaps they are drunk but that's a video for another day.
11
Today I am going to teach you the subtext of British communication.
12
The real signs that someone British likes you and I promise you some of these will surprise you.
13
Don't forget to check out the free pdfs that I offer.
14
Links are in the description below.
15
The first sign that someone British actually likes you, they start teasing you.
16
Let me give you an example.
17
Imagine this.
18
You've been working somewhere for a few weeks, maybe a month or two.
19
You walk into the office one morning and a colleague says, oh good, you're here.
20
Now we can all collectively lower our standards together.
21
The wrong reaction would be to take offense.
22
The right reaction would be relief.
23
Because this colleague has just told you in the most british way possible
24
that they are comfortable with you we don't tease anybody we don't tease complete strangers
25
that would be mortifying we tease people we've quietly decided
26
that we like
27
because it lets us show warmth without having to say anything
28
as horrifying as i enjoy your company a good way to see it is as affection
29
with plausible deniability and the key once again you probably know what i am going to say it's
30
that word i always use yes the key is the tone
31
if it is gentle a little absurd playful there is no real sting to it
32
if it makes you both laugh you're in the second sign that someone british likes you they start complaining to you.
33
Not about you.
34
Again, that's different.
35
Complaining to you.
36
Complaining in the UK is intimacy.
37
With strangers, we complain about safe things.
38
The weather, train delays, the fact that there are now 17 types of oat milk and none of them froth properly.
39
But when someone starts properly venting to you, that's a good word, vent.
40
We often say, sorry for the vent.
41
They start venting properly to you about their commute, their manager, their partner, anything, anything personal.
42
That signals trust.
43
They trust you enough to do that.
44
They have decided that you will understand and that you will nod
45
and look horrified in the right places you might even contribute your own grievances and indeed
46
if someone starts venting to you you should it shows mutual
47
trust you will spend a companionable 10 minutes getting quietly outraged together in short
48
if someone is bringing you their problems even their petty ones they like you.
49
The third sign is that the politeness starts to drop.
50
When British people first meet you the politeness can almost be aggressive.
51
Oh so sorry no sorry after you you go first.
52
I'm so sorry could I trouble you for a pen?
53
But the thing is very often that level of politeness is actually a form of distance.
54
It's what we do with people we don't yet know how to be around.
55
It's why also our voice our intonation goes up
56
so much we talk really highly
57
when we're being polite sorry would you mind possibly why I don't know we just do
58
so when someone stops saying to you sorry would you mind
59
or could you possibly
60
and instead say something direct like can you move this they
61
haven't become ruder they've become more comfortable with you you have
62
moved from a person I must perform for to a person I can just talk to.
63
And that is a promotion.
64
Again, it means they like you.
65
I will say this doesn't apply if someone is just rude from the beginning, that means they are just rude.
66
The videos that I do are generalisations.
67
Not every single British person is incredibly polite and indirect.
68
These are general things to be aware of.
69
The next sign is that they trust you with humour.
70
British humour has a learning curve.
71
It is mostly irony.
72
Irony and sarcasm.
73
Saying the opposite of what do you mean in a deadpan, dry way and then watching to see if the other person gets it.
74
I unpack British humour more in this video if you are interested.
75
You could cook someone a Michelin star masterpiece meal
76
that has taken you hours and they might just nod and say in a deadpan way,
77
well, it's not completely inedible.
78
And that is a rave review.
79
When a British person starts using that type of humour with you, it means something specific.
80
They think you can handle it.
81
They're not going to have to explain themselves.
82
They can be slightly strange and you can be slightly strange back and that's absolutely fine.
83
Neither of you needs to explain.
84
That's a level of trust that can take some time to reach
85
but once you've reached it there's no better stamp of approval than
86
that trusting you with that kind of humor and the next signal
87
if you're very lucky you will get the invitation a bunch of us are going to the pub this evening
88
if you wanted to come we're doing a barbecue on sunday nothing fancy
89
but you're welcome to come if you want or the most significant one.
90
Shall we grab a cup of tea?
91
Tea in the UK is never just tea.
92
Tea is we sit down.
93
We have time for each other.
94
I want to hear what's going on in your life.
95
That is what tea means.
96
We will make tea for people we like.
97
We will definitely make tea in a moment of crisis.
98
And we will make tea
99
when we have no idea what else we can do for you
100
but we want you to know
101
that we are there for you we will make you tea
102
if someone puts the kettle on just for you you're in there we go
103
if a British person teases you complains to you stops being excessively polite around you
104
and trusts you with their quirky sense of humor
105
or invites you for tea
106
or a pint they like you although they almost certainly won't say
107
that obviously they might say yeah you're all right
108
or yeah i don't mind spending time with you they might
109
say nothing at all just refill your mug without you having to ask
110
but they will know and now so will you
111
if you are more interested in british culture make sure you
112
look at this playlist where i go into more details about british culture
113
and what it means here don't forget to check out your
114
free pdfs links are below as well as details of online lessons
115
and courses with me have a wonderful rest of your day and I will see you in the next one, hopefully.
116
Bye.
📺 Stesso Canale
B21
What Happens to Language When AI Can Speak for Us?
British AccentDaily ConversationWorking Adults
B21
Learn Real English on a Slow Countryside Walk 🌿
British AccentTravel EnglishDaily Conversation
B2Spend a Day in the Most Beautiful English Village 🇬🇧 (Real British English)
British AccentTravel EnglishDaily Conversation
B2You’re Welcome? Here’s What We Actually Say
British AccentDaily Conversation
B21
Spend a Day With Me in the English Countryside 🇬🇧 | Learn Real English
British AccentTravel EnglishDaily Conversation
B21
Learn Everyday British English Exploring the British Seaside in Summer 🇬🇧
British AccentTravel EnglishDaily ConversationUniversity Students
B22
15 Things British People Secretly Judge You For 🇬🇧
British AccentDaily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B12
25 British Phrases Natives Say Every Day (Speak Real English) 🇬🇧
British AccentDaily ConversationHigh School StudentsUniversity Students
B21
Why Your English Still Doesn't Sound Natural...
British AccentBusiness EnglishDaily ConversationUniversity Students
B24
Real British Conversations in Bath (England’s Most Beautiful City?) 🇬🇧
British AccentTravel EnglishDaily ConversationUniversity Students
B1Fluent English Without Freezing | 🇬🇧 Shadow This British Conversation Pattern (Small Talk)
British AccentBusiness EnglishDaily ConversationHigh School Students
✨ Video consigliato
B2191 frasi
E13: British Politeness Culture — After You, No After You | English Like Locals
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B11
748 frasi
How To Tell She Likes You | Women Share The Signs Of Attraction
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B2256 frasi
Body Language: How to tell if someone is bored or interested!
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B22
88 frasi
This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Sign He's NOT SERIOUS
British AccentDaily ConversationWorking Adults
B21
12 frasi
16 British Food Insults You Need to Know
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B22
269 frasi
How Do British People Really Complain
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B21
180 frasi
16 Polite Ways To Ask People To Repeat In English
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B21
30 frasi
The One Thing That Will Make Everyone Like You
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B22
97 frasi
All About Canadian English and the Canadian English Accent! 🍁 (Compared Mostly to American English)
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B23
707 frasi
The Most Common English Questions (And Perfect Answers) | 30-Minute Real English Podcast (B1-B2)
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
B12
18 frasi
I understand ♥️
Daily ConversationWorking Adults
Vocabolario e note di pronuncia per questa lezione
Questa lezione di conversazione si basa sul video “British People Never Say "I Like you" - They Do This Instead”. Le parole che ritornano più spesso: british, tea, trust, sign. Questo video contiene 116 frasi e 1221 parole da ripetere con lo shadowing. Il parlato dura 8:06. Chi parla ha un ritmo naturale di circa 151 parole al minuto, vicino a una conversazione quotidiana. Il 86% delle parole rientra nelle 3.000 più comuni dell’inglese; conviene studiare le altre prima di iniziare.
Vocaboli chiave di questo video
15 parole del video che vale la pena imparare, con pronuncia e significato:
| Parola | Pronuncia | Significato |
|---|---|---|
| humour sostantivo | /ˈhjuːmɚ/ | humour, umorismo |
| complain verbo | /kəmˈpleɪn/ | lamentarsi, lagnarsi |
| tease verbo | /tiːz/ | cardare |
| rude aggettivo | /ɹuːd/ | rude, maleducato |
| polite aggettivo | /pəˈlaɪt/ | cortese, educato |
| vent sostantivo | /vɛnt/ | sfogo, sfiatatoio |
| stranger sostantivo | /ˈstɹeɪnd͡ʒɚ/ | sconosciuto, straniero |
| colleague sostantivo | /ˈkɒliːɡ/ | collega |
| irony sostantivo | /ˈaɪ.ɚ.ni/ | ironia, paradosso |
| ventilation sostantivo | /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/ | ventilazione |
| tone sostantivo | /ˈtəʊn/ | tono |
| meal sostantivo | /ˈmiːl/ | pasto |
| lesson sostantivo | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | lezione |
| promotion sostantivo | /pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/ | promozione, miglioramento |
| delay sostantivo | /dɪˈleɪ̯/ | ritardo |
I phrasal verb che sentirai
| Parola | Significato |
|---|---|
| check out verbo | investigare |
| go up verbo | salire |
| sit down verbo | sedersi, accomodarsi |
Frasi da ripetere
Frasi brevi e complete del video che puoi riutilizzare nella conversazione di tutti i giorni:
- You'll think we hate you when we like you.
- I'm so sorry could I trouble you for a pen?
- Shall we grab a cup of tea?
La grammatica di questo video
Le strutture che chi parla usa di più, con le parole esatte del video:
| Struttura | Nel video |
|---|---|
| Frasi condizionali if + frase, will/would + verbo — una condizione e il suo risultato | if you're very lucky you will get |
| Present perfect have/has + participio passato — un’azione passata che conta ancora adesso | has just told · have decided · haven't become |
| Forma passiva be + participio passato — conta ciò che accade, non chi lo fa | being baffled · are drunk |
Pronuncia a cui fare attenzione
Chi parla usa 28 contrazioni e forme ridotte, come don't, you're, we're. Pronunciale nella forma breve, così come le senti.
- I suoni “th”: underneath /ˌʌndɚˈniθ/, warmth /wɔɹmθ/, froth /ˈfɹɒθ/
- I suoni “sh” e “zh”: ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, promotion /pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, affection /əˈfɛk.ʃən/, intonation /ɪntəˈneɪʃən/
- Parole lunghe — attenzione all’accento: ventilation /ˌvɛntɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, intimacy /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/
I suoni difficili per chi parla italiano:
- /h/ — va soffiata, non è muta: humour /ˈhjuːmɚ/, horrify /ˈhɒɹɪfaɪ/
- Consonante finale — senza aggiungere una vocale dopo: tease /tiːz/, rude /ɹuːd/, polite /pəˈlaɪt/, vent /vɛnt/, colleague /ˈkɒliːɡ/
- /æ/ — più aperta della “e”: fancy /ˈfæn.si/, stamp /stæmp/, masterpiece /ˈmæstɚˌpis/, sarcasm /ˈsɑːɹˌkæzəm/, deadpan /ˈdɛdpæn/
Come esercitarsi con questo video
- Ascolta tutto il video una volta senza parlare e annota le parole che non conosci.
- Inizia a velocità 0,75×, fai shadowing frase per frase e torna alla velocità normale quando diventa facile.
- Registrati e confronta con l’originale, facendo attenzione a parole come humour, complain, tease.
Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?
Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.