शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Self Compassion - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें

To survive in this high -pressured crazy world, most of us have to become highly adept at self -criticism.

We learn how to tell ourselves off for our failures and for not working hard or smart enough.

what we might call self -flagellation, a rather dangerous state which just ushers in depression and underperformance.

We might simply lose the will to get out of bed.

For those moments, we need a corrective.

We need to carve out time for an emotional state of which many of us are profoundly suspicious.

Self -compassion.

We're suspicious because that sounds horribly close to self -pity.

But because depression and self -hatred are serious enemies of a good life, we need to appreciate the role of self -care in a good,

ambitious and fruitful life.

To this end, we can perform what we've called a self -compassion exercise, a structured meditation lasting 15 minutes or so.

lying in bed or perhaps a bath, turn over a sequence of thoughts that interrupt and correct the flow of your worst self -accusations.

For a time, adopt an entirely kindly perspective on your setbacks.

The self -compassion exercise goes like this: We're so in love with success,

we fail to notice the scale of the challenges we routinely set ourselves.

There is nothing remotely normal about what we've tried to achieve.

We failed, but given the mountain we were trying to climb, the conclusion doesn't have to be that we're simply fools.

- We have tricky family histories, we all do.

There were things which happened to us at the hands of others, which can help to explain some of our current troubles.

We're not entirely sane or well, But none of us are.

We weren't well set up to carry out certain tasks.

It isn't wholly our fault in the here and now.

From the media, you'd think everyone was rich and famous and successful.

But in reality, undramatic, quiet failure is by a huge margin the statistical norm.

We shouldn't tear ourselves apart for not managing to beat what were, in truth, awesome odds.

Tough, self -critical people don't allow themselves the indulgence of believing in luck.

They take responsibility for everything.

They think winners make their own luck.

they don't, for the most part.

Luck is a genuine feature of existence.

We're robbing ourselves of fair consolation by believing that we're entirely in control and therefore entirely to blame when we crash.

You are not only your achievements.

Status and material success and in their best moments helped you to feel it.

Rehearse the internalized voices of all those who've been kind to you.

Bathe in the memory of a love independent of achievement.

It seems it will never end.

That's not the truth.

It's just how a crisis feels.

You need to reduce expectations to zero for a time.

Take each new hour as it comes.

And without being banal, what you need most of all is some rest.

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शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Self Compassion - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें

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