Shadowing Practice: LET HER LEAVE - Motivational Speech (Andrew Tate) - Learn English Speaking with Video

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It's actually very interesting, the masculine experience, because I like to believe that most men on the planet have lived a semi -similar timeline.
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All of us as men experience a very similar human paradigm, and that is that most men are born and you're not important,
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and then you go to school and you fall in love with some girl in school and she fucks someone else,
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and then you realize that all the 19 year olds you want
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when you're 19 are with older dudes because they have cars or whatever, whatever.
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And you go through this experience of getting your heart broken and losing your girlfriend, et cetera, et cetera.
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And many men latch on to some average bitch or accept they're going to have their heart broken forever.
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But some men decide to become so big and important and strong and irreplaceable.
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They never have to suffer heartbreak again because every man deals with heartbreak and deals with sadness.
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But how you use that energy is the differentiation, the differentiator between humans, right?
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You are feeling the same pain that many men have felt.
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Every man out there has had his heart broken and understands how difficult it is as a man. But
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the difference between me and you
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and perhaps some of the other men out there is
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that certain men take that anguish and take that sadness and understand that energy cannot be destroyed.
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It can only be converted
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and use it to build themselves into a man of absolute standing
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and power as opposed to sitting around jerking off like you just told me you do.
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You are a waste.
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You are wasting your energy.
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Heartbreak is unlimited motivation.
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If I was heartbroken, it's been a very long time, but if I was heartbroken, I'd be in the gym every morning.
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I'd be a beast.
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I'd be running.
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I'd be working.
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I couldn't sleep.
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I'd be an absolute animal
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and you're heartbroken what are you doing jerking off like a fucking dumbass the difference is as a man
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you must build yourself into a man of credibility
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which means to build yourself into a man of standing
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we all start in a very fairly similar position
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i became me through tedious arduous difficult never -ending work
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you are wasting your time you know why god made your girl leave you
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because he wanted to show you that you ain't he wanted to show you
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that you are human and you're fallible and that
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You're very replaceable.
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So he decided to make you fall in love with a girl,
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and he decided to make her leave you to show you that you are a dickhead.
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Now, it is your job to look at the board, understand what's happened, say, I understand, God.
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I deserve that.
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I'm glad she left me, and I'm sad because I am a dickhead.
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And do something about it, because if you refuse, if you ignore God's message, next time you fall in love with a bitch,
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guess what he's gonna do?
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He's gonna make her leave you to remind you once again that you are a dickhead.
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Every single man out here, if you're upset that your girl's leaving you, God is reminding you that you aren't worth shit.
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You need to get up and work so hard that even in the eyes of God, he is proud of you.
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God loves his creations which show him their true potential and beauty.
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By getting up and trying your absolute best and becoming a man of moral standing, he will reward you and bless you.
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If you continue to be a dickhead, God will remind you you're a dickhead.
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So God just broke your heart on purpose to show you
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that the way you're living your life and the man you are simply are not good enough.
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What have you changed since?
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Nothing.
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Fucking nothing.
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You think God's gonna forgive you for no reason?
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You think God's gonna go, it's fine.
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He hasn't learned his lesson.
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He hasn't changed.
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He isn't even trying very hard.
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He's not up early in the gym.
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He ain't doing nothing.
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It's fine.
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Let's just let him fall in love and let's make sure the girl doesn't fuck someone else on OnlyFans this time.
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No, sir!
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This is gonna repeat endlessly.
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It's a cycle that will not fucking change until you take the message from God
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and become the man you're supposed to be.
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You must stop being a dickhead.
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You deserve what's happened to you.
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You deserve how you feel.
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All of it.
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When I was 20, me and my girlfriend broke up.
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I was with her for four years.
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I couldn't sleep.
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I couldn't.
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And this is before social media.
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You couldn't just chase a bitch.
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Like, that was it.
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She's gone now.
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She moved.
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I didn't know where she lived.
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That was it.
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And I couldn't sleep.
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Now, it wasn't like I was crying my eyes out, but I was just, where's my hoe at?
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I couldn't sleep.
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Need something else to do.
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Need something else to do.
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So I thought, fuck, I'll hit the gym at 6 a .m., hit the gym at 3 p .m., hit the gym at 8 p .m.
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I had nothing else to do but fighting.
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So I took all that trauma all that heartbreak
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and i molded it into becoming a world level combatant right
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what did we talk earlier about how trauma can mold
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you trauma can be a fantastic thing heartbreak depression sadness these are all fantastic motivators
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i'm telling you why they're a fantastic motivator
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you go to a guy who's heartbroken
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he has all the motivation in the world to send 300 dex messages
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he has the motivation he's putting it in the wrong place
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that's 300 cold emails you can be sending to someone a bit of a lot of money
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you could have made yeah i'll tell you right
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now some of the greatest accomplishments in my life have come after a heartbreak.
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Absolutely.
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It's that fuck, I call it fuck you energy.
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Take that and you're like, I, cause some guys will get butthurt about that and they'll sit there and they'll wallow in self pity.
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I've always thought the correct application of that energy is, okay, prove that she made a shitty mistake.
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Go out and become a fucking millionaire.
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Go out and become a kickboxer.
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Go out and become a porn star or whatever.
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And then she's gonna look around when she's 50 pounds heavier in a year's time.
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You're like, mother fucker.
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I left him.
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I let him go. And internally, my ego could be like I got ya
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life's gonna hurt you and how you use
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that pain is completely not really up to you you can use
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that pain to galvanize yourself as a man
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and become a better man you've ever been I'm not saying that I'm only successful because of some chick.
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I'm saying that every single time that I was heartbroken, I never wasted a second.
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I was never wallowing.
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Especially as a young man.
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We talked about this on the show.
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You're going to get your heart broken as a young man.
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I've had it happen to me.
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We've all had it happen to us.
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And it's not even about anger towards a girl.
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Me and Tristan talked about this on the podcast that we did together, Gentleman Gang.
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It's seven years later because as a man, you're going to get your value later.
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So if you use that energy to put all that work in, these girls, they come back around and I love to see them come back.
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Not because I'm in love again, just because it's like, You know, I told you so.
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No, I said this like anybody who tries to get revenge on a woman.
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Oh, on a woman.
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It's a urine.
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That's incel energy.
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That's that's a wrong way of looking at it.
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The only revenge you can get on a woman who breaks your heart is success.
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Success is the best revenge.
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Just level up slowly.
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When she messages you, you got two choices.
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You got to say, sorry, baby, not my type anymore.
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Boom, you win.
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So that's the answer to the question.
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Put a plan together for the heartbreak if it comes and make sure that plan is constructed.
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Everything we've been saying on this podcast is true.
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Trauma is going to come.
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Pain is going to come.
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We have to use it.
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Women, I didn't want to lose them and they weren't listening.
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So I walked away and they didn't chase me.
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I lost them. But that's.

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This speaking lesson is built on the video “LET HER LEAVE - Motivational Speech”. The speaker keeps coming back to these words: heartbreak, energy, dickhead. This video has 147 sentences and 1449 words to shadow. The speech runs for 6:01. The speaker talks fast, about 241 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 84% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English; the rest is worth studying before you start.

Key vocabulary in this video

15 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
trauma noun/ˈtɹɔm.ə/Any injury to the body of a living thing.
remind verb/ɹəˈmaɪnd/To cause one to experience a memory (of someone or something); to bring to the notice or consideration (of a person).
revenge noun/ɹəˈvɛnd͡ʒ/Any form of personal, retaliatory action against an individual, institution, or group for some alleged or perceived harm or injustice.
motivation noun/ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/Willingness of action especially in behavior.
sadness noun/ˈsædnəs/The state or emotion of being sad.
chase verb/t͡ʃeɪs/To follow at speed.
podcast noun/ˈpɑdˌkæst/A program, especially an audio program, produced on a regular basis, delivered over the Internet in a compressed digital format and designed for playback on…
mold noun/moʊld/A natural substance in the form of a furry or woolly growth of tiny fungi that appears when organic material lies for a long time exposed to (usually warm and…
ignore verb/ɪɡˈnɔː/To deliberately not listen or pay attention to.
lesson noun/ˈlɛs.ən/A section of learning or teaching into which a wider learning content is divided.
moral adjective/ˈmoɹəl/Of or relating to principles of right and wrong in behaviour, especially conforming to principles of rectitude.
suffer verb/ˈsʌfɚ/To undergo hardship.
anger noun/ˈæŋɡə/A strong and unpleasant feeling of displeasure, hostility, or antagonism, usually combined with an urge to yell, curse, damage or destroy things, or harm…
refuse verb/ɹɪˈfjuːz/To decline (a request or demand).
boom verb/bum/To make a loud, hollow, resonant sound.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordMeaning
go out verbTo leave, especially a building.
come back verbTo return to a place.
get up verbTo move in an upward direction; to ascend or climb.
break up verbTo break or separate into pieces.
go through verbTo travel from one end of something to the other.
look around verbTo inspect a building or area.
sit around verbTo spend time sitting idly, not doing anything important.
walk away verbTo withdraw from a problematic situation.

Sentences worth repeating

Short, complete lines from the video that you can reuse in everyday conversation:

  • What have you changed since?
  • You deserve what's happened to you.
  • I didn't know where she lived.
  • I've had it happen to me.
  • We've all had it happen to us.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Conditional sentences if + clause, will/would + verb — a condition and its resultif I was heartbroken, I'd be
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowhave lived · have felt · has had
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itare born · cannot be destroyed · be converted
Relative clauses who / which + clause — extra information about a person or thinganybody who tries · woman who breaks

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 61 contractions and reduced forms, such as you're, gonna, I'm. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, accomplishment /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ.mənt/, anguish /ˈæŋ.ɡwɪʃ/, differentiation /dɪf.əˌɹɛn.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/, differentiator /dɪf.əˈɹɛn.ʃi.eɪ.tə/
  • Long words — get the stress right: motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, unlimited /ʌnˈlɪm.ɪ.tɪd/, credibility /kɹɛd.əˈbɪ.ɫɪ.ti/, internally /ɪnˈtɜːnəli/, millionaire /ˌmɪl.i.əˈnɛə(ɹ)/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like trauma, remind, revenge.

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