Prática de Shadowing: the 1-step guide to finally loving yourself. - Aprenda a falar inglês com vídeo
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What if I told you that the cause of much of your suffering, confusion, anxiety, shame, indecisiveness, bad decision-making, regret, lack of discipline, of confidence,
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of motivation, might be because you simply don't love yourself enough.
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Now, I know it's a bit of a buzzword.
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I know it's vague self-love.
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What the hell is that?
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And why should you care?
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Self-love, self-respect, self-esteem, they're all intertwined.
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And in my view, it's simply about treating yourself like someone you care deeply about.
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Someone you're rooting for.
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It's being your own biggest fan.
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It is knowing deeply and fully that you are deserving of love, respect, of good treatment, of a good life, of happiness.
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It is believing that you can be anything, do anything, overcome anything.
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And it has nothing to do with what you have, where you live, what you look like,
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but everything to do with what you are. In here.
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And up here, I guess.
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And about what you do to make sure that what you feel actually aligns with your actions.
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Now, self-love is not something that you accomplish.
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There is no finish line.
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It is a lifelong commitment, just like with any relationship.
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But it's the relationship that you have with yourself, which we tend to focus a little on,
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strangely enough, considering it is the longest relationship we will ever have.
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It's from the moment we're conceived until our very last breath.
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And no one else will be with you for that long, so I hope that answers the question as to why you should care.
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But now, let's get to the how.
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Define your moral compass and let it guide you through life.
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Your moral compass basically tells you what's right and what's wrong.
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How you should be treated and how you should treat others.
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It's your rulebook for life.
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Now, how do you decide what to put in your rulebook?
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Where do you even start?
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The overlapping question here is what do I stand for and what do I not stand for?
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And you figure that out by asking yourself a ton of questions, by reading, by educating yourself,
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but also honestly by learning through real life experience,
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by going through things and analyzing how it made you feel and what you would to do with that information moving forward.
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Let's take an example.
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Let's say person X did not take no for an answer
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and continued to pressure you for a good 5-10 minutes until they finally gave up.
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Let's say it's a friend who really wants you to go out with them and party and stay out late.
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And then you ask yourself, how did that situation make me feel?
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And how would I like to act should a situation like that occur again?
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Once you have been able to answer that question, put the answer in your rulebook for life.
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Either physically, write it down, or take a mental note in all caps.
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And so you might decide that the actions that you are going to take if a similar situation occurs is action one,
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I will immediately tell them that they are pressuring me and it's making me feel uncomfortable.
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Action 2.
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If they continue, I will remove myself from that situation.
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I will not care about how that makes them feel.
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I will not stay just to make them happy or to avoid making it awkward.
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No. I will tell them how I feel and if they disregard that, I am out.
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You do not abandon yourself to satisfy someone else.
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Okay, let's say that again because it's so important.
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I don't abandon myself to satisfy someone else.
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And that, my friends, is the act of self-love.
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It is defining situations that make you feel a certain way, whether that is someone else doing something or you doing something to yourself,
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and taking the necessary action to make sure that you feel comfortable, fulfilled, whatever the situation is.
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Because remember, you care about yourself so very deeply and you only want what's best for you.
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And now let's take another everyday example that is more about what you do
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and that does not involve what someone else says or does.
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So personally, I don't litter.
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I know, gold and sar.
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Not even a tiny issue, not even if no one else is around and no will ever know.
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Because side note, when no one is around and no one will ever know, that's when your true character shows.
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So pay close attention to how you act when you're by yourself.
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You know, your moral compass should not only apply when you're being watched.
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That implies, in my opinion, weak character.
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But that's a different topic.
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And now because I know that I don't want to litter, I know that, hmm, okay, if I go on a picnic,
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for example, I need to bring some sort of a container that I can throw the trash in.
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I set myself up for success.
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I live in alignment with what I believe to be right, and that is the act of self-love.
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Don't give yourself or people discounts.
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Could you walk into any store and tell them, hey, I'm special, so you're going to give me a 25% discount?
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No, you can't.
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The prices are set, and if you can't afford it, leave.
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It's not negotiable.
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The same applies for your rulebook.
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Because you are your own store, your own house, and the cost of entry is the rules
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that you have for yourself and for others who would like to enter and who would like to stay.
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So another example, let's say that your rulebook says, I don't want to be yelled at.
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In my book, literally, that applies across the board.
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I don't want my sister to yell at me, I wouldn't want a partner to yell at me,
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and I wouldn't want a boss to yell at me.
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And I also wouldn't want to yell at myself.
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I'm no exception.
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I don't give myself discounts either.
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Now, all of those relationships that I mentioned are,
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of course, different, and we might handle it differently depending on the person and the situation and act accordingly.
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But the fact remains that I am not okay with it.
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I am protecting little me, and little me will not put up with being yelled at.
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It is the action that matters.
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Now, it's not enough to say that you will or won't do something or that you will not tolerate XYZ.
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The defining moment is, is, what do you do when it happens?
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Do you love yourself enough to change?
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To walk away?
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To let go?
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How deep is this love that you have for yourself?
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Well, the depth is measured in the actions that you take.
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Don't expect a 100% success rate.
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Now look, we all do things that we look back on and feel stupid about, that we regret, that might feel out of character,
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things that, in hindsight, we can't really stand behind.
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You know, there are so many circumstances that can affect our actions, that make our actions not always align with this compass,
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with our rulebook, and what we believe to be true and to be right.
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So, I think the goal of making the right decisions 10 out of 10 times isn't attainable
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because we're human beings and we say dumb things, we do dumb things, and we make mistakes.
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You know, I too do things where I look back
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and I feel like that was out of character or that was unlike me or it's something that, given the chance, I might have done differently.
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But those moments are becoming less and less the more
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that I love myself because I do believe so strongly in the values
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and principles that I have set and that I let guide me through life.
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But it takes practice.
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For some people, walking away or saying no or changing the direction in your life can be very difficult.
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And the more you do it, the easier it'll become to look after yourself.
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And any other alternative will be off the table.
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição
Esta aula de conversação usa o vídeo “the 1-step guide to finally loving yourself”. As palavras que mais se repetem: situation, self, Action, yell, rule. Este vídeo tem 79 frases e 1055 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 6:42. O falante fala em ritmo natural, cerca de 157 palavras por minuto, próximo de uma conversa do dia a dia. 86% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês; vale a pena estudar o restante antes de começar. 14 das 79 frases são perguntas, por isso é um bom treino para a entonação de perguntas e respostas curtas.
Vocabulário principal deste vídeo
15 palavras do vídeo que vale a pena aprender, com pronúncia e significado:
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| yell verbo | /jɛl/ | gritar |
| moral adjetivo | /ˈmoɹəl/ | moral |
| deeply advérbio | /ˈdi(ː)pli/ | profundamente |
| define verbo | /dɪˈfaɪn/ | definir |
| compass substantivo | /ˈkʌmpəs/ | bússola |
| occur verbo | /əˈkɜː/ | ocorrer, acontecer |
| discount substantivo | /ˈdɪskaʊnt/ | desconto, abatimento |
| abandon verbo | /əˈbæn.dən/ | abandonar, desistir |
| satisfy verbo | /ˈsætɪsfaɪ/ | satisfazer |
| litter substantivo | /ˈlɪt.ɚ/ | lixo |
| topic substantivo | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | tópico, assunto |
| everyday adjetivo | /ˈɛvɹiˌdeɪ/ | cotidiano |
| anxiety substantivo | /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/ | angústia, ansiedade |
| suffer verbo | /ˈsʌfɚ/ | sofrer |
| happiness substantivo | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | felicidade, alegria |
Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir
| Palavra | Significado |
|---|---|
| give up verbo | render-se |
| move forward verbo | adiantar |
| put up with verbo | aguentar, suportar |
Frases que vale a pena repetir
Frases curtas e completas do vídeo que você pode usar na conversa do dia a dia:
- I know it’s a bit of a buzzword.
- Why would you care?
- Where do you even start?
- What do I not stand for?
- Do you love yourself enough to change?
Gramática neste vídeo
As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:
| Estrutura | No vídeo |
|---|---|
| Frases condicionais if + oração, will/would + verbo — uma condição e seu resultado | If they continue, I will remove |
| Voz passiva be + particípio passado — o foco está no que acontece, não em quem faz | should be treated · being watched · are set |
| Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agora | have been · have set |
Pronúncia para ficar de olho
O falante usa 39 contrações e formas reduzidas, como don't, I'm, won't. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.
- Os sons de “sh” e “zh”: trash /tɹæʃ/, exception /əkˈsɛpʃən/, tissue /ˈtɪʃ.(j)u/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/
- Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, accordingly /əˈkɔɹ.dɪŋ.li/
Sons difíceis para falantes de português:
- Consoante final — sem acrescentar um “i” depois: discount /ˈdɪskaʊnt/, topic /ˈtɑpɪk/, commitment /kəˈmɪtmənt/, regret /ɹɪˈɡɹɛt/, awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/
- /l/ final — a língua toca o céu da boca, não vira “u”: yell /jɛl/, moral /ˈmoɹəl/, fulfill /fʊlˈfɪl/, negotiable /nɪˈɡoʊʃəbəl/
Como praticar com este vídeo
- Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
- Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
- Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como yell, moral, deeply.
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.