Pratique du Shadowing: the 1-step guide to finally loving yourself. - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo
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What if I told you that the cause of much of your suffering, confusion, anxiety, shame, indecisiveness, bad decision-making, regret, lack of discipline, of confidence,
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of motivation, might be because you simply don't love yourself enough.
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Now, I know it's a bit of a buzzword.
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I know it's vague self-love.
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What the hell is that?
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And why should you care?
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Self-love, self-respect, self-esteem, they're all intertwined.
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And in my view, it's simply about treating yourself like someone you care deeply about.
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Someone you're rooting for.
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It's being your own biggest fan.
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It is knowing deeply and fully that you are deserving of love, respect, of good treatment, of a good life, of happiness.
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It is believing that you can be anything, do anything, overcome anything.
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And it has nothing to do with what you have, where you live, what you look like,
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but everything to do with what you are. In here.
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And up here, I guess.
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And about what you do to make sure that what you feel actually aligns with your actions.
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Now, self-love is not something that you accomplish.
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There is no finish line.
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It is a lifelong commitment, just like with any relationship.
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But it's the relationship that you have with yourself, which we tend to focus a little on,
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strangely enough, considering it is the longest relationship we will ever have.
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It's from the moment we're conceived until our very last breath.
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And no one else will be with you for that long, so I hope that answers the question as to why you should care.
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But now, let's get to the how.
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Define your moral compass and let it guide you through life.
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Your moral compass basically tells you what's right and what's wrong.
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How you should be treated and how you should treat others.
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It's your rulebook for life.
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Now, how do you decide what to put in your rulebook?
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Where do you even start?
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The overlapping question here is what do I stand for and what do I not stand for?
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And you figure that out by asking yourself a ton of questions, by reading, by educating yourself,
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but also honestly by learning through real life experience,
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by going through things and analyzing how it made you feel and what you would to do with that information moving forward.
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Let's take an example.
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Let's say person X did not take no for an answer
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and continued to pressure you for a good 5-10 minutes until they finally gave up.
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Let's say it's a friend who really wants you to go out with them and party and stay out late.
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And then you ask yourself, how did that situation make me feel?
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And how would I like to act should a situation like that occur again?
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Once you have been able to answer that question, put the answer in your rulebook for life.
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Either physically, write it down, or take a mental note in all caps.
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And so you might decide that the actions that you are going to take if a similar situation occurs is action one,
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I will immediately tell them that they are pressuring me and it's making me feel uncomfortable.
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Action 2.
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If they continue, I will remove myself from that situation.
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I will not care about how that makes them feel.
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I will not stay just to make them happy or to avoid making it awkward.
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No. I will tell them how I feel and if they disregard that, I am out.
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You do not abandon yourself to satisfy someone else.
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Okay, let's say that again because it's so important.
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I don't abandon myself to satisfy someone else.
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And that, my friends, is the act of self-love.
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It is defining situations that make you feel a certain way, whether that is someone else doing something or you doing something to yourself,
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and taking the necessary action to make sure that you feel comfortable, fulfilled, whatever the situation is.
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Because remember, you care about yourself so very deeply and you only want what's best for you.
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And now let's take another everyday example that is more about what you do
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and that does not involve what someone else says or does.
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So personally, I don't litter.
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I know, gold and sar.
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Not even a tiny issue, not even if no one else is around and no will ever know.
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Because side note, when no one is around and no one will ever know, that's when your true character shows.
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So pay close attention to how you act when you're by yourself.
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You know, your moral compass should not only apply when you're being watched.
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That implies, in my opinion, weak character.
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But that's a different topic.
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And now because I know that I don't want to litter, I know that, hmm, okay, if I go on a picnic,
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for example, I need to bring some sort of a container that I can throw the trash in.
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I set myself up for success.
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I live in alignment with what I believe to be right, and that is the act of self-love.
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Don't give yourself or people discounts.
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Could you walk into any store and tell them, hey, I'm special, so you're going to give me a 25% discount?
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No, you can't.
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The prices are set, and if you can't afford it, leave.
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It's not negotiable.
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The same applies for your rulebook.
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Because you are your own store, your own house, and the cost of entry is the rules
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that you have for yourself and for others who would like to enter and who would like to stay.
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So another example, let's say that your rulebook says, I don't want to be yelled at.
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In my book, literally, that applies across the board.
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I don't want my sister to yell at me, I wouldn't want a partner to yell at me,
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and I wouldn't want a boss to yell at me.
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And I also wouldn't want to yell at myself.
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I'm no exception.
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I don't give myself discounts either.
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Now, all of those relationships that I mentioned are,
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of course, different, and we might handle it differently depending on the person and the situation and act accordingly.
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But the fact remains that I am not okay with it.
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I am protecting little me, and little me will not put up with being yelled at.
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It is the action that matters.
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Now, it's not enough to say that you will or won't do something or that you will not tolerate XYZ.
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The defining moment is, is, what do you do when it happens?
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Do you love yourself enough to change?
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To walk away?
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To let go?
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How deep is this love that you have for yourself?
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Well, the depth is measured in the actions that you take.
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Don't expect a 100% success rate.
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Now look, we all do things that we look back on and feel stupid about, that we regret, that might feel out of character,
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things that, in hindsight, we can't really stand behind.
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You know, there are so many circumstances that can affect our actions, that make our actions not always align with this compass,
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with our rulebook, and what we believe to be true and to be right.
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So, I think the goal of making the right decisions 10 out of 10 times isn't attainable
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because we're human beings and we say dumb things, we do dumb things, and we make mistakes.
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You know, I too do things where I look back
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and I feel like that was out of character or that was unlike me or it's something that, given the chance, I might have done differently.
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But those moments are becoming less and less the more
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that I love myself because I do believe so strongly in the values
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and principles that I have set and that I let guide me through life.
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But it takes practice.
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For some people, walking away or saying no or changing the direction in your life can be very difficult.
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And the more you do it, the easier it'll become to look after yourself.
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And any other alternative will be off the table.
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette leçon d’expression orale s’appuie sur la vidéo « the 1-step guide to finally loving yourself ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : situation, self, Action, yell, rule. Cette vidéo contient 79 phrases et 1055 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 6:42. Le locuteur parle à un rythme naturel d’environ 157 mots par minute, proche d’une conversation courante. 86 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais ; le reste mérite d’être vu avant de commencer. 14 de ses 79 phrases sont des questions : un bon entraînement pour l’intonation interrogative et les réponses courtes.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
15 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| yell verbe | /jɛl/ | hurler, gueuler |
| moral adjectif | /ˈmoɹəl/ | moral |
| deeply adverbe | /ˈdi(ː)pli/ | profondément |
| define verbe | /dɪˈfaɪn/ | déterminer |
| compass nom | /ˈkʌmpəs/ | boussole |
| occur verbe | /əˈkɜː/ | se produire, avoir lieu |
| discount nom | /ˈdɪskaʊnt/ | rabais, discompte |
| abandon verbe | /əˈbæn.dən/ | abandonner |
| satisfy verbe | /ˈsætɪsfaɪ/ | satisfaire |
| litter nom | /ˈlɪt.ɚ/ | litière |
| topic nom | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | sujet, thème |
| everyday adjectif | /ˈɛvɹiˌdeɪ/ | usuel |
| anxiety nom | /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/ | anxiété, inquiétude |
| suffer verbe | /ˈsʌfɚ/ | souffrir |
| happiness nom | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | bonheur |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Sens |
|---|---|
| give up verbe | se rendre |
| go through verbe | traverser |
Des phrases à répéter
Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :
- I know it’s a bit of a buzzword.
- Why would you care?
- Where do you even start?
- What do I not stand for?
- Do you love yourself enough to change?
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Phrases conditionnelles if + proposition, will/would + verbe — une condition et son résultat | If they continue, I will remove |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | should be treated · being watched · are set |
| Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant | have been · have set |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 39 contractions et formes réduites, comme don't, I'm, won't. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Les sons « sh » et « zh »: trash /tɹæʃ/, exception /əkˈsɛpʃən/, tissue /ˈtɪʃ.(j)u/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, accordingly /əˈkɔɹ.dɪŋ.li/
Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :
- /tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: educate /ˈɛd͡ʒ.əˌkeɪt/, strangely /ˈstɹeɪnd͡ʒli/
- /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: moral /ˈmoɹəl/, everyday /ˈɛvɹiˌdeɪ/, trash /tɹæʃ/, regret /ɹɪˈɡɹɛt/, breathe /bɹiːð/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme yell, moral, deeply.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.