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Hi, hello.
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You guys are gonna have to bear with me here for a moment
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because I feel like I'm losing my voice because I have failed to drink water today.
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So I just chugged a whole bunch of water and I feel it lubricating my vocal cords.
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But on the other hand, I also feel like a shriveled up fish sitting on the beach dying in the sunlight.
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But I'm having a thought on relationships that I feel like someone out there needs to hear because, okay, in relationships and in the universe,
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all the love that's meant to find you will always find you whether it is through this person
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or this person because I think a lot of the times
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when it comes to relationships we think that we have found the one
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and this person this one in eight billion people is the only person
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that is ever going to exist in the history of the universe for us.
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And if this person doesn't love us back the way that we love them, then automatically the whole system is fucked.
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We're fucked.
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We're never going to be loved.
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All of this stuff.
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There are 8 billion people out there.
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There are 8 billion people out there.
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Okay.
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Obviously we have to categorize it down into, you know, people that you actually like, people that could like you, all of these different factors,
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but there is at least like a hundred thousand people out there that likes every single person.
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There are multiple matches for an individual person.
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So I was having this conversation with my friend about relationships and like things she's going through with her partner and everything.
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We were having this conversation of like, oh my God, if it's not this person, if it's not this guy,
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if it's not him, then like I don't think anyone else in the universe will ever be as loving
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and kind and caring as this person.
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Do you really discount the universe that much to think that the love that is meant for you won't find you always?
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Because, okay, when a person loves you, what even is that?
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Like, it's obviously, it's a release of brain chemicals.
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It's them finding you attractive, all of these things.
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But I like to think that love
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is almost like the universe or God places this feeling in the hearts of certain people,
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of two certain people, that they are now going to love
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and care for each other in this life the way that God and the universe cares for us every single day.
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And this feeling is placed down in our heart from the universe
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so that we can feel this special connection of oneness and unity with this one specific person at this one specific moment.
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And obviously there's things like ego and emotions
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that get in the way of that love fully expressing itself to that other person or you even fully receiving that love.
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But when it's the right person and the right time, it's effortless and it just feels incredible.
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But do you really think that the universe or God
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or Allah doesn't look down and see you with all your beauty
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and all your goodness and all your deserving and all of your wonder
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and say all this love that I feel for you my child is going to find you.
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Meaning that the love that is meant for you bounces around from person to person to person until it finds a body,
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a person, that is low in ego and stable in emotion enough to actually give that love to you.
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And then you have to be in a stable emotional place and of low ego to receive that love.
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so truth be told any two people can love each other it just comes down to similar life goals
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and it comes down to just accepting that that is your person
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and loving them with all you are and having the emotional maturity to do that so
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if you're stuck in any kind of situation where you think oh my god i've lost my person
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and that person hurt you or that person didn't know how to give you love or that person, it just didn't work out for whatever reason.
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It wasn't, how do I explain this thought that I'm having?
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The love they felt in their heart will find its way into another vessel to channel
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that same level of love into your life that you are deserving of.
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The same way, like I've had a lot of cats in my life.
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When one cat dies, the love that I had for
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that cat and the love that that cat had for me gets transferred into another body, another cat.
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And obviously this new cat has a different personality, a different way of living, a different name, a different coat, different fur.
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And obviously this new cat is different,
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but the same level of love has always found me within each cat that comes into my life.
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And they've always been this amazing, lovely experience.
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Obviously a little bit different per cat, but each time I have felt an equal or greater level of love from that creature.
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And I really do believe that each and every human being is sent an equal level of love.
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But the thing that gets in the way of us getting that love, because the love that we're meant to give out into the world is placed in each
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and every one of our hearts like a seed that's been planted.
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And the thing
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that gets in the way of us connecting to any other
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human being at such a deep level is just ego and emotional maturity.
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So the best thing you can do if you want to get into a good relationship, especially this year or this month or this week,
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is go to fucking therapy, number one.
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Number two, learn how to let go of your ego and understand multiple things that come around with that.
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But do some research into letting down your ego and regulating your emotions because the more open your heart space is,
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the more it is able to give and receive love.
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And of course, the reason why a lot of us get hurt isn't because we aren't good and loving individuals.
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It's because the love in someone else's heart is being blocked by their ego or their emotional immaturity.
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and we get caught in the crossfires of that.
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So if you've been someone who's been caught in the crossfires of the one you love being painful to you, understand that that wasn't you.
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That was just human error and misjudgment on their part
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because they did not know how to give the love
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that they felt and understand
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that all the love they felt will find its way back
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to you in the form of another person it will alchemize
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it will manifest it will reincarnate into someone else you just have to be willing
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and open to improve yourself in the meanwhile be open to
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that experience and accept love when it does come another thought
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that i've been having in relation to love in relationships is
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the phrase you can't love someone else until you love yourself
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and i want to re-emphasize this by saying
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that love is a responsibility you need to be your best self
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because okay when you get into a relationship
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when you get into a marriage when you choose to have a kid with someone.
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All of these are responsibilities and privileges.
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These are not things that should happen lightly.
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You should be in a good financial place, preferably, just because if you have a kid
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and they want to do something like soccer
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or they want to do something like hockey or they want to do something like ballet, in my case, that takes a huge financial toll on a family.
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A good financial place is a good place to be in before you have a kid, just in case the kid's super smart, wants to going to private schooling
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or they have some big crazy dream they want to chase
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or just to have basic child care like be able to buy diapers
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and buy food and not have them ever have to worry about money until they're 18
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and they're out living in the world you know
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but have them not worry about money
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while they live with you you need to be in a good emotional place
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so that you're not damaging this child or traumatizing it simply
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because of your own emotional immaturity you need to be in
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a good physical place where you take care of yourself
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and you know how to take care of yourself and your body so that you'll live long for this child, for this marriage, for this relationship.
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How I feel like we go about relationships way too casually, where we either get into a relationship because we want to experience it, which there's nothing wrong with that.
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If you want to get into a relationship just to experience what it's like
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or just to understand how to get close to a person, everyone goes through that period in their life.
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But once you get over the hump of new experiences, there's definitely a period of maturity and understanding the privilege it takes to love someone
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because obviously your partner whoever you're in a relationship with
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or in a marriage with helps you grow as an individual
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but in order to best support your partner
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and also to make the relationship nourish itself and thrive you have to be your best self because it is very frustrating
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for your partner to have to watch you struggle.
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It's very difficult for anyone to have to watch anyone struggle.
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I know that the times I've been in hospital or I've been dealing with a lot of issues on my own, how like painful it was to look in the eyes of the people
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that I love as they had to watch me go through that.
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And of course, supporting and loving someone is a part of a relationship, a family, a friendship.
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But if you are someone who perpetuates their issues and drags things on longer than they should,
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or there's just something in your life that's been nagging you for years that you can't seem to solve or fix, you bring that into the relationship.
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And in order for you to be able to nurture something so precious,
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it is required that you are the best person you can be, or at least the best person you can be in this moment.
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To not backslide on your bad habits, to have a goal and a vision of who you are going to become, to take care of yourself, to love and honor your partner,
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even when things get busy, even when things get hard.
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and I was also thinking about what a privilege it is to have a marriage and to have a kid.
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We go about it very casually.
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Of course if casual is how you want to live your life
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and how you go about having children and how you go about having marriages
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and all of this then that is perfectly fine and that's you.
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But I was thinking how serious relationships actually are but we treat them so fucking casually, it kind of pisses me off.
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Because okay, when you are loving someone or in a relationship with someone, you are saying essentially, this is the person,
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the one in 8 billion people I am going to choose to honor, respect, love, take care of,
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provide for, for the rest of their lives.
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They are my responsibility, my privilege to get to experience.
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This person
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is mine this person not only do i get to live my life i get to live their life
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and how when we choose to have a kid with
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that person we are choosing to bring a human life into
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this earth with them say we are going to raise this kid together nurture it take care of it
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and then also i was thinking about how serious a marriage actually is
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that we don't give as much merit to it because like
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when you're in a marriage you really have to be on
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your a-game you really have to be on your a-game
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because you live with this person you're around this person 24 7 this person sees the ins
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and outs of who you are they see every bad habit you carry they see every moment
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that you slack they see every moment you give up on
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yourself you they see every moment you give up on them they see everything
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and not only that but it is their job to uplift you push you motivate you
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but it starts to become a huge drag on your partner
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if you aren't your best self because it's almost like they got to drag you along for the ride.
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I don't think you have to love yourself in order to love someone else.
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Sometimes you have to learn to love yourself through being in a relationship
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or through being in a friendship and they kind of help you up and pick you up and get you going.
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There's also a point where you have to turn to yourself and pick yourself up and say
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I love this person enough to be my best self
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so they no longer have to see me struggle
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and almost through the loving of this other person they breathe life into you
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and you breathe life into them
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and I don't know those are all the complex thoughts I've been having about love recently
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so I wanted to share them because you guys seem to like it
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when I talk about relationships
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because I feel like I have a very nuanced way of viewing relationships
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because my love likes a mess um no
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but it's not it's actually great but my cats are running all over
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so if you're hearing anything that's what you're hearing
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but I just wanted to share this um I hope we're
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having a great day I hope you guys are doing well I love you all very much have a great day
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