Практика Shadowing: How To Detach & Love Being Alone - Изучайте разговорный английский с YouTube

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Before we get into today's video,

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So I'm literally staying in the middle of nowhere.

I'm going to insert some clips.

So you guys are probably thinking,

what are you doing in the middle of nowhere in a cabin?

My friend and I wanted to get the hell away from everything for a little bit.

I feel like I've been needing this.

We've been talking about it.

It's this little cabin called Unyoked.

It's like a little tiny home, like a tiny cabin.

And I just thought it would be nice for us to get away we love this kind of shit anyway

and this video is basically a pep talk on how to

be comfortable being alone i thought what better time to film this than

when i'm away at a cabin in the middle of nowhere

except i'm not actually alone alone i am with my friend

but still we both individually live alone

so we're having a really great talk about you know what it means to be alone how to be alone

and how to actually be happy being alone this is a skill

that not many people really master i feel like i am somebody

that genuinely in my everyday life not even just on YouTube in my everyday life is really comfortable being on my own.

And so I wrote some notes down and I'm going to talk about it.

Honestly, even though I've been so on the go,

my mental health has never been better.

Like I have never felt so good.

Maybe this is just the way I am because

when I was young I lived in Dubai and I've moved countries

and I've moved cities and schools

and houses I've never really lived in a house for longer than three years

which if you think about it is a lot of moving

and I'm starting to understand myself a bit better and understand

that I feel like I need change I don't think I'm

running away from things I feel like I can understand why

people in my life see it as like luma you're going

away again like you're running away from things i just think

that i crave change i love being out of my comfort

zone i'm comfortable being alone you know i just crave being away like right now i feel great it feels

so good to be away from all the bullshit i feel detached from things

when i'm away like this so my mental health has been really amazing

and i like filming videos like this when i'm feeling good

because the last thing i want to be on my channel is fake.

I like to be genuine.

I feel like that's who I am and yeah I've just been feeling really good right now.

I've been feeling really independent,

really good, really comfortable on my own.

I'm not coming to you from a place of like you need to get better,

you need to get like me.

I too was once in that space where I wasn't comfortable being alone

so much to the point where I wouldn't even go eat on my own.

Like the thought of eating on my own

or going to the movies on my own was just like why would anybody do that?

I didn't think it was in me to be the type of person

that would ever live alone or be comfortable traveling alone

or just I just didn't think

that was a part of who I would be I understand

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that fear of being alone and the fear of letting go of somebody

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or letting go of something because you're afraid of the alternative

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which is being alone in this world

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which is having your own back not having anybody there for you

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when I went through a really public breakup

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that a lot of you guys have watched and know about

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or if you haven't there's a video on my channel where I'm going through a breakup

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and a lot of my videos now are based around finding confidence,

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being alone, being independent and that is because

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that experience was the biggest wake-up call of my life because I relied heavily on living with somebody and being with somebody.

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I was never really alone.

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I never really needed to be alone but going through that

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and now living alone and being very picky with who I give my energy to,

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who I am friends with,

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everything has taught me so much about life it's been the biggest lesson for me

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and i'm so thankful that i've gone through this

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because i cannot imagine my life moving forward always relying on somebody i've traveled

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so many places i've moved cities things will just continue to get better

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and better

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because i now understand the importance of being alone look i'm not perfect okay i just want to say

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that i feel like the downfall of being alone all the time is

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that you kind of get in your head

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and no one is really there to pull you out of it

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and to say snap out of it you're really overthinking this

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now i feel like i've started to introduce you know friends into my life

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and just kind of like doing things a lot more with people

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but it was really like me on my own for a

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minute there i spent almost a year just kind of like

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most of the time being alone like i would go weeks on end just facetiming friends

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and everything but sitting alone in my house

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and running errands doing everything on my own does this mean

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because i am good at being alone

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that i'm better than everybody else no does this mean

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that i don't feel emotional or anxious or depressed no not at all

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but i have a good thing going i think where i

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understand my emotions i welcome them i know how to go

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through the waves of life better i feel like living alone has taught me

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that i sort of stopped chasing things i got to the

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point in my life where i was like i'm done chasing

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things i've done chasing people relationships friends i'm done chasing things

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that might not even really be that good for me but i'm chasing it and i'm grabbing because what's the alternative?

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Being alone.

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And I don't want to be alone,

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so I would rather settle for these relationships that I shouldn't even be entertaining,

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but I would do it because I didn't want to be alone.

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I decided to stop all of that.

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You need to stop worrying.

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You need to stop chasing.

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Let's affirm something together.

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Okay.

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When I say let's affirm something together,

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it means I'm going to say something.

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I want you to feel it.

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I want you to believe it.

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You can even say it with me if you want.

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Things come to me with ease.

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My life is incredible and it's only going to get better

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and rough patches teach me things my growth will lead me to greater things

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let's affirm that together real quick i know a lot of you may be clicking on this video

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because you want to learn to perhaps detach from a specific person right maybe you got out of a relationship

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and you want to detach from that or maybe you're just feeling really lost

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and you want to let go of things

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and just sort of like live life the way

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that we're supposed to live it

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which is in the moment you know riding the wave

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and you're just gonna have to accept that and be okay with it.

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Maybe you've come here and you're sitting with me right now listening to this video

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because things aren't really the way that you would like them to be

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and you feel lost and you feel stressed

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and you feel like you're not comfortable with how things are going and that's okay to be like that.

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You know how I just mentioned that I moved cities?

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I'm going to open up to you about something.

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I'm going to insert this picture here.

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This is my first night sleeping alone moving cities.

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I was so uncomfortable

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and I was really like upset with myself as well for a little bit then

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because I thought I should be comfortable I was anticipating this I knew it would be different I knew

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that I would have growing pains moving cities even though I was sad even though I was crying

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and I was having a whole panic attack

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and I didn't want to be alone and I felt stressed

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that I had moved cities I still sort of even in

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the thick of it knew this is gonna pass this too shall pass

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because everything always gets better and these are just growing pains

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and I'm gonna be okay I don't think that you can just switch to being okay on your own straight away.

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It's not just like a thing that happens within a week.

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There's a transition phase, sort of like growing pains like I talked about.

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This phase is uncomfortable but everything that is uncomfortable,

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everything that is on the other side of our comfort zone,

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on the other side of fear, is worth having.

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When I think about me,

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Luma, and everything that sets me apart from other people like my YouTube channel,

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these are all things that are on the other side of my comfort zone.

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I wouldn't have anything that I'm proud of today without stepping out of my comfort zone

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that doesn't mean that it's easy for me to do

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that doesn't mean

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that i want to do it i'm in the same exact position as you guys you know there's still

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so many things i want to do i feel like i'm at the very beginning of my career

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and of my life and there's just so much

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that i want to do but it's

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so much better to put yourself out there and try things

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and be on your own

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and do new things travel move out by yourself whatever it may be

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because you're one step closer to achieving something great in

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that new experience and if you don't do any of

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that then it is just your loss it's like the same

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thing as okay example i don't really like roller coasters

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but i go on them

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and i'll explain to you why this is usually you meet people

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and they're like i love roller coasters then there's those people

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that don't really like that stuff and i am one of those people

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but i always go on the roller coasters

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because i think okay i could just sit here and and be comfortable or I could do it,

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it might not be that bad.

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And I have that great experience that I've just shared with my friends and I've stepped out of my comfort zone.

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I've done something different.

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And it's just little things like that that I do,

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I apply towards everything in my life because just like I got on the roller coaster,

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I also decide to book flights that I'm scared to book or do things that I'm scared to do.

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Start a YouTube channel, start a brand.

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You know, it's like a snowball effect.

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Once you start doing little things like that,

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you get better at it.

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You know, once you start doing things on your own

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that you used to do with one person that you were once dating or living with or whatever or best friends with,

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you start doing them on your own,

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you can start doing so many other things on your own.

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And so many other opportunities and people will come into your life when you put yourself out there like that.

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Some people force themselves to hang out with people that they don't really like because they're terrified of being alone.

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Some people force themselves to date people that aren't meant for them

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because they are afraid to be alone but you don't know

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that you don't need it until you've lived your life without it

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and that's why when people are so heartbroken

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and they come to me for advice and they're like do you believe

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that i could ever get back with this person how do

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i get this person back in my head i'm thinking you

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know there is such thing as people getting back together

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but baby this is not happening to you it's happening for you

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because whether you get back together with this person

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or you find somebody even greater which i'm sure is going to happen right?

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Because the universe always has a plan for you.

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You know, getting over your addiction of having that comfort,

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it's so much easier said than done,

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but that is going to set you free.

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And that's what sets you apart.

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And that is going to be the beginning of the best phase of your life.

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There's actually this quote that my friend Mesker shot to you, Mesker.

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There's this quote that he told me earlier,

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a ship in a harbor is safe,

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but a ship wasn't built to sit in a harbor.

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We as humans are built to withstand change.

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You are built to withstand change.

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Believe it.

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If you are uncomfortable with change,

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then you are going to be uncomfortable for the rest of your life.

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So this might feel right now like you are going through such a uncomfortable period.

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You don't know where life is going.

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That's okay.

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When I moved to Australia,

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because I used to live in Dubai and I've moved around a lot,

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a lot of my schoolmates and everything would be like,

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you just move around a lot.

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Like, do you hate that you don't have one specific home?

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And for a while I did.

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I think it's beautiful to have a home and like a base

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but i don't know i sort of accepted it everybody's different

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and i feel like this is my life guess i just wasn't meant to have

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that but i kind of love that

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because i'm not attached to anything you are supposed to change

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and grow and like i always say you guys have heard this a million times

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if you watch me a lot the world is an all-you-can-eat buffet there's

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so much out there for you

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if you sit here in comfort holding on to things

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and you don't trust the universe is going to bring you better things you will never expand

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and that's why you need to let go.

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Being on your own gives you the silence to learn about yourself.

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Those people that never take the time to figure themselves out will have other people tell them who they are.

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You know what I mean?

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You know yourself.

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You have a calling in your soul.

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You know what you're supposed to do in this life.

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If you sit there and you listen to it

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and you trust your gut and you trust that you can do this on your own,

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you can do everything on your own,

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you will become so strong and you'll actually be able to weed out people

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that don't serve you really easily

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because it's like I feel more comfortable being alone than i feel

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when i'm with you

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so why would i invite you to be a part of

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my life there are going to be phases in your life where you're going through change

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and you are going through difficult times

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and just transitional phases where things might be just crazy

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and life just feels like it's taking a really unexpected turn

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and in those phases what's going to get you through it is it your boyfriend

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or your girlfriend your family your friends maybe they might help a bit

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but ultimately it is you you are the one who is going to make the change

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and who has the key to everything to you living your

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best life it is you being comfortable being alone you've got

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this okay i love you guys i hope you liked my

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little pep talk in this cabin it's getting dark now

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so i'm gonna go hang out with my friend

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but yeah i hope you guys like this pep talk

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and i will be back very soon next week with another video i love you guys

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