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I want to talk about how to have the biggest jump in your life in the next 30 days.
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I'm talking about one of those shifts where everything in your life changes.
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You start thinking differently, you feel differently, you carry yourself differently, the people around you can literally feel the difference in your energy.
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Because right now, most people are unknowingly reinforcing the exact mindset and emotional states that they're trying to escape from.
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And once you finally see it, you can't unsee it.
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And so today I'm going to give you a challenge that sounds extremely simple on the surface, but it is challenging.
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But if you actually commit to it for 30 days, it will change your mind, your emotions, your nervous system, relationships, and honestly, probably the trajectory of your life.
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Okay?
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Here's the challenge.
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Do not complain at all for 30 days.
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That's it.
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Now, stay with me because this is way more in depth than it seems on the surface.
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No complaining means not out loud, not in your head, not through sarcasm, not through passive aggression, not through eye rolls,
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not through I'm just being realistic thoughts.
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I mean every single day for the next 30 days, you wake up and you make a commitment to yourself in the morning.
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And that commitment is for the next 24 hours, I will not complain.
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And every single time that you would normally complain, I want you to consciously find a way to switch your thoughts around that situation.
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And then you go to bed and you wake up the next day and you do it again.
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And you wake up the next day and you do it again.
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And the next day and you do it again for 30 days.
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And watch how your mind becomes different watch how you feel different in your body
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and watch how your life starts to actually shift
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because most people don't realize that they're not like stuck in circumstances they're stuck
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because their brain has unconsciously been trained to find problems in everything
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and finding problems will only keep you stuck because
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if you're only finding problems and your brain is only focusing on how to try to solve problems.
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But if you train your brain to constantly find what is wrong, it will.
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That's how the human brain works.
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There's actually a psychological principle that's called the negativity bias.
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It's one of the most studied concepts in neuroscience and psychology.
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It's basically this.
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Your brain is designed to find what is wrong as a way to protect you.
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Why?
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Because your brain was not designed to make you happy or successful or rich.
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Your brain was designed to keep you alive.
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Your ancestors survived because they noticed danger.
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They noticed threats.
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They predicted threats.
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They could notice what was going to go wrong.
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The human that ignored the rustling in the bushes usually got eaten by the tiger.
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And so biologically, your brain is wired to scan for problems and threats and rejection and danger.
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And now 200,000 years ago, that would be smart and it would be called being safe.
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Today, we call it finding the negative, right?
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Because we don't have to worry about tigers.
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And if you don't consciously train your brain, it will naturally drift towards the negative, quote unquote, the fear, the scarcity,
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the complaints, the fake scenarios, the imagined arguments, the fearful futures, the possible failures in the future.
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And we will be right back.
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Hey, real quick, let me interrupt you for something exciting.
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On June 10th at 7 p.m.
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Eastern, I'm doing a free live Zoom session called Break the Ceiling 2026.
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This is for anybody who knows that they're capable of more, but they just keep self-sabotaging and hitting the same ceilings no matter what they try.
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I'm going to teach you exactly why that keeps happening and how to finally change it so that your income, your relationships, your happiness, your mindset, your entire life is better.
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You can register for free by scanning that QR code right there, or by going to breaktheceiling2026.com.
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And I will see you live on that session.
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And now back to the show.
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And that's why some people can have beautiful lives
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and still be miserable because they have trained their brain to only notice what is wrong.
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One of my favorite quotes, your mind can make heaven out of hell or hell out of heaven.
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Your mind can make heaven out of hell or hell out of heaven.
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It's not your circumstances.
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It's what you think about your circumstances.
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That's why I have a tattoo right here.
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My wife and I on our left wrist have a tattoo
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and it says this is heaven because I think that we can create heaven on earth, our version of it right here in this moment by the thoughts that we have.
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Most people think their thoughts are reality.
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They think the world is bad, people suck, nothing ever works out, I'm not lucky, every day is stressful, life is exhausting.
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No, that's not reality.
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That's your thoughts, that's your conditioning, that's your reticular activating system filtering reality through negativity.
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Your reticular activating system is part of the brain
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that decides what it wants to filter in and what it wants to filter out.
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So if you constantly complain, your brain becomes a professional problem finder.
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So when you look at it this way, like what actually starts happening to you when you start training your brain to look for the good, to not complain, but to find the positive,
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you start noticing opportunities where you used to notice problems before.
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Most people are so focused on what is wrong that they completely miss what is possible.
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Their brain's constantly scanning for all of the problems, why something won't work, why life is unfair, because that's what they focus on, and that's what they see.
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But when you start consciously retraining your brain the same way
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that you would train a dog to stop complaining and to stop making yourself a victim, your mind starts to open up in a different way.
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You start seeing solutions faster.
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You start noticing opportunities that you never saw before.
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You start taking more action.
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You start to see people different.
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You start to talk to people differently.
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You start to carry yourself differently.
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You start to see opportunities where you used to see roadblocks.
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And that's huge in getting yourself out of a rut and really turning your life around quickly.
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Why is that?
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Because a negative mind closes.
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It closes.
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It doesn't allow you to see outside of the possibilities.
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An empowered mind that doesn't complain that sees opportunities, it expands.
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It's able to see more outside of what it normally does.
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A stressed brain looks at survival.
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That's all that it pays attention to.
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A grateful brain that starts to see outside of it, starts to see possibilities.
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And so this changes your life.
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It doesn't just change like, oh, I'm gonna be positive, right?
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Like that's stupid.
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No, it changes your life in many different ways.
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Emotionally, financially, relationally, every single way.
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Because opportunities are almost always hidden inside of the problems.
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So if you're only seeing problems, you're usually not training yourself to look for the opportunities in them.
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We need to train our brain to find those opportunities.
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The person complaining about their job
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misses the opportunity to learn the skills that they need to to be able to come better, right?
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The person that's complaining about being alone misses the opportunity to build themselves while they are alone.
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The person that's complaining about where they live misses the opportunity to create a plan to leave.
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Complaining blinds people and it keeps you stuck.
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actively searching for good and training your mind to find it, it sharpens your mind.
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And when you stop seeing life as something that's happening against you, and you start seeing it as something that has so many opportunities available to you,
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that's when you start getting ahead in life.
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It's not like life suddenly became easier, but your brain finally stopped looking for all of the mental roadblocks that were never there in the first place.
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Like think about it, no matter how bad you want something to be rich
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or to be happy or to build a successful business or to get into a relationship,
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if you're only seeing the roadblocks to getting to where you want to go,
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you won't even try to get to where you want to go because you're only seeing the roadblocks.
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So you have to understand, you need to see a different perspective in some sort of way if you're going to change your life.
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So much of our lives and what we complain about people would love to have.
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Do you get that?
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Like no matter where you are right now, there are millions if not billions of people who would trade with you right now.
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Like there's people in war-torn countries that would love to have your life.
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People who didn't grow up with the same circumstances you did.
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People who weren't given the opportunities that you've been given.
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And this is my opinion.
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A lot of us live in in some people on earth's version of heaven on earth
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and we sit there
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and complain about all of these my my tea wasn't hot
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enough today get your shit together right like have perspective on your life
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and how great this can actually be i'm not saying you need to be rich
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and successful and full of happiness in order to realize
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that we do have some pretty good lives let me give
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you a couple of examples of what i see with people like your kids are screaming they're freaking out and You're like, oh my God, most people will complain.
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Oh my God, these kids are driving me insane, right?
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I get it.
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But then you can take a step back and go, can I see this from a different perspective?
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Like, do you know how many people wish that they had a child like yours right now for whatever reason, right?
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Like they can't conceive or maybe they lost a child
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or maybe their children are all grown up and they miss
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when they were inside of the house and young and full of energy.
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And when we notice and we see that and we take a step back and we see our circumstances differently of like, oh man, many people love to have this moment that I'm in.
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You can look at it and go, oh my God, I am so damn grateful that I have healthy children.
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There are some people who would do anything to have what I have right now in this moment.
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I am so lucky, right?
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Another example, like you're stuck in traffic.
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You can be like, oh my God, this is unbelievable.
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I'm gonna be late.
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I hate being late.
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My day is ruined, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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Instead, you could be like, okay, I'm stuck in traffic.
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You know what?
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I've been actually needing some silence.
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I've been asking for some silence.
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I've been asking for some sort of a break.
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Maybe this is my moment to breathe.
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Maybe I should turn the music off.
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Maybe I should sit in silence for a minute.
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Maybe I should be with myself for five minutes.
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I've been asking for this.
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Maybe this is my opportunity.
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Not like, oh, boo-hoo, right?
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Your alarm goes off in the morning and you're like, oh my god, I didn't sleep very well last night Whatever.
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There was a thunderstorm.
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It woke me up.
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I don't want to get up.
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I want to sleep in You know, you could do that or you could go, you know what my alarm went off.
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I hear it.
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That means I'm alive 150,000 people died yesterday They would all want to trade places with me.
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I'm sure to have another day and I get another day Maybe I should look at it a little bit differently
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like do you understand how radically those realities like they're
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so radically different through the children through the traffic through the
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waking up like it's the same life it's a different lens
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and so it's not your life that has to change it's your lens
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that has to change first and then your life will change
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and so here's what starts happening
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when you do this type of stuff for 30 days your nervous system is going to start to change
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because complaining keeps your body in like stress mode.
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Every complaint reinforces cortisol and stress and irritation and victim mentality and helplessness.
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And so your brain starts expecting bad things.
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There's actually research on this from Stanford showing that chronic stress and repetitive negative thinking
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strengthens the neural pathways associated with anxiety and emotional reactivity.
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Meaning the more you complain, the easier it becomes to complain.
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The more negative that you are, the more automatic your negativity becomes.
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Your brain wires itself around repetition.
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Not what you want, what you do, what you think.
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That's Hebb's law in neuroscience.
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Neuroscience says neurons that fire together, wire together.
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So every inconvenience that creates negativity, you wire negativity deeper into your personality.
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But gratitude works the exact same way.
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Research at UC Davis actually shows they conducted one of the most famous gratitude studies
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that was ever done where participants who practice gratitude consistently experienced greater optimism,
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better sleep, less stress, more happiness, improved energy, and just overall improved emotional well-being.
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And the important part is this, their lives didn't necessarily change first.
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Their perception changed first, and their perception changed their behavior, and their behavior changes their identity,
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and identity will change your life.
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So that's why this challenge matters so much.
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You're not just thinking positive.
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That's what I'm trying to have you do.
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You're not just like being toxically positive.
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You're rewiring the filtering system of your mind.
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You are retraining yourself to stop unconsciously rehearsing suffering.
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Because let's be honest, some people are addicted to their negative thoughts.
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And the brain starts treating this, imagine stress that their mind comes up with,
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like real stress, and your body literally responds chemically to your thoughts.
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That's why you can think about an argument and your heart rate increases.
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That's why you can imagine embarrassment and start to feel anxious.
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It's not reality.
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It's your thoughts.
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The brain does not distinguish between vividly imagined experiences and real ones, which means that if you constantly imagine negativity,
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You biologically live inside of that negativity.
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And then people wonder why they feel stuck.
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They wonder why it's so hard to get moving.
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Because your brain cannot create expansion while constantly rehearsing fear.
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And this is why this challenge actually matters.
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For 30 days, no complaining.
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Every complaint gets interrupted with gratitude.
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Every negative thought gets redirected.
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Every inconvenience becomes an opportunity to consciously choose who you want to become.
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And eventually, if you do this, something amazing starts to happen.
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You stop being emotionally controlled by these little tiny things.
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Traffic stops ruining your day.
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People stop ruining your mood.
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Delays stop ruining your peace.
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You don't get triggered near as much as you used to.
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And your thoughts stop controlling how you feel.
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and you realize most suffering was never life itself.
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It was unconscious interpretation of life.
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Our perception of life is our problem, not our life.
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And this is important.
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I'm not saying become delusional.
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I'm not saying have toxic positivity.
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I'm not saying ignore your pain.
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I'm not saying pretend things are not hard when they're hard.
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What I'm saying is that you can either train your mind to look for darkness
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or you can train your mind to find light.
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whichever one you repeatedly choose becomes who you are.
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That's why after 30 days you won't just feel better.
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You will literally start to become a different person because repetition rewires your brain.
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You're in control of that and that repetition creates a different identity and eventually a different life.
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So this challenge is simple.
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Interrupt the pattern and decide who do I want to become from this moment forward?
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Do I want to become somebody who constantly finds what's wrong
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or someone who consciously trains themselves to see possibility and gratitude and beauty and growth and goodness even when life is imperfect?
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Because your life is always going to be imperfect
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but your mind does not have to be at war with reality all the time.
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And if you can master this, your life changes fast.
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So here's your challenge for 24 hours.
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No complaining.
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Make a commitment to yourself to start it today.
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And then you make that commitment every single morning for the next 30 days.
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Watch how your relationships change.
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Watch how your stress changes.
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Watch how your emotional baseline changes.
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Watch how much lighter your life feels.
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Because when you stop feeding negativity, you stop strengthening it.
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And when you stop strengthening it, you finally create space for peace.
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Bài luyện nói trình độ B2 này dựa trên video “Do This for 30 Days and Your Life Will Change”. Video này có 258 câu và 2943 từ để luyện shadowing. Phần lời nói dài 17:16. Người nói nói với tốc độ tự nhiên, khoảng 170 từ mỗi phút, gần với hội thoại hằng ngày. 87% số từ nằm trong 3.000 từ tiếng Anh thông dụng nhất, nên từ vựng dễ theo.
Từ vựng quan trọng trong video
15 từ khó nhất trong video, kèm phiên âm và nghĩa:
| Từ | Phiên âm | Nghĩa |
|---|---|---|
| circumstance danh từ | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | hoàn cảnh |
| gratitude danh từ | /ˈɡɹæ.tɪ.tud/ | lòng biết ơn |
| roadblock danh từ | rào chắn | |
| neuroscience danh từ | khoa học thần kinh | |
| perception danh từ | /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/ | tri giác |
| rehearse động từ | /ɹɪˈhɝs/ | tập dượt |
| mindset danh từ | /ˈmaɪn(d)ˌsɛt/ | tư duy, tư tưởng |
| tattoo danh từ | /tæˈtuː/ | xăm |
| lens danh từ | /lɛnz/ | thấu kính |
| ancestor danh từ | /ˈæn.sɛs.tɚ/ | tổ tiên |
| neuron danh từ | /ˈn(j)ʊɹɑn/ | tế bào thần kinh, nơ-ron |
| rustle danh từ | /ˈɹʌsəl/ | lao xao |
| sharpen động từ | /ˈʃɑɹpən/ | mài, vót |
| thunderstorm danh từ | /ˈθʌn.dɚˌstɔɹm/ | dông, giông |
| fearful tính từ | /ˈfɪəfəl/ | đáng sợ |
Cụm động từ bạn sẽ nghe
| Từ | Phiên âm | Nghĩa |
|---|---|---|
| wake up động từ | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | thức dậy, dậy lên |
| get up động từ | dậy |
Những câu đáng luyện lại
Các câu ngắn, trọn ý trong video mà bạn có thể dùng lại khi giao tiếp hằng ngày:
- Because we don't have to worry about tigers.
- It's what you think about your circumstances.
- That's why I have a tattoo right here.
- Do you get that?
- Another example, like you're stuck in traffic.
Ngữ pháp trong video
Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:
| Cấu trúc | Trong video |
|---|---|
| Thì hiện tại hoàn thành tiếp diễn have/has been + -ing — việc bắt đầu từ trước và vẫn đang tiếp tục | I've been asking · you've been watching |
| Câu điều kiện if + mệnh đề, will/would + động từ — điều kiện và kết quả | if not billions of people who would trade |
| “Used to” used to + động từ — thói quen hoặc tình trạng trong quá khứ nay không còn | used to notice · used to see |
| Câu bị động be + quá khứ phân từ — nhấn vào việc xảy ra, không phải người làm | been trained · is designed · was not designed |
Phát âm cần chú ý
Người nói dùng 66 dạng rút gọn, ví dụ I'm, you're, they're. Hãy nói theo dạng ngắn đúng như bạn nghe.
- Âm “th”: strengthen /ˈstɹɛŋ(k)θən/, thunderstorm /ˈθʌn.dɚˌstɔɹm/, pathway /ˈpæθˌweɪ/, algorithm /ˈælɡəɹɪðm̩/
- Âm “sh” và “zh”: repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/, perception /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/, unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, irritation /ˌɪɹ.ɪˈteɪ.ʃən/
- Từ dài — đặt trọng âm cho đúng: negativity /ˌnɛɡ.əˈtɪ.vɪ.ti/, repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/, reticular /ɹəˈtɪkjəlɚ/, unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/, inconvenience /ɪnkənˈvinjəns/
Những âm người Việt thường gặp khó:
- Cụm phụ âm cuối — đọc đủ từng âm, đừng nuốt âm cuối: circumstance /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/, interrupt /ˌɪntəˈɹʌpt/, imperfect /ɪmˈpɜː(ɹ)fɪkt/, inconvenience /ɪnkənˈvinjəns/, lens /lɛnz/
- Âm /tʃ/, /dʒ/ và /ʒ/ — tiếng Việt không có, đừng đọc thành “ch” hay “gi”: delusional /dɪˈluːʒənəl/, trajectory /tɹəˈd͡ʒɛktəɹi/, sabotage /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/, whichever /wɪt͡ʃˈɛvɚ/, rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/
- Âm /æ/ — mở miệng rộng hơn âm “e”: circumstance /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/, gratitude /ˈɡɹæ.tɪ.tud/, scan /skæn/, radically /ˈɹædɪkli/, activate /ˈæktɪˌveɪt/
Cách luyện với video này
- Nghe hết video một lần, chưa cần nói, và ghi lại những từ bạn chưa biết.
- Bắt đầu ở tốc độ 0,75×, nói đuổi từng câu, rồi quay lại tốc độ bình thường khi đã quen.
- Ghi âm giọng mình rồi so với bản gốc, chú ý các từ như circumstance, gratitude, roadblock.
Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?
Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.