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I thought I had learned my lessons.

I thought I would have known better by now.

But when I got thrown into it again, I still fell hard.

The part of me that I've been desperately running away from has finally made his way back.

But this time, It's here to stay.

When you were 11, what did you think you would be doing now?

Okay you - - you

I guess it's not uncommon for people to want to do things differently after losing someone.

Some people start going to the gym or taking on new hobbies.

Some decide to prioritize their friendships.

while some put themselves on a self -discovery journey to find inner peace and independence.

You can't deny that pain really is one of the best fuels for change.

Thank you.

Three years ago, confronted by the confusion of my identity, I made a promise that I would never find myself in a similar situation ever again.

The pain of not knowing who I am was so great that I was hungry for change and growth.

I consciously spent a lot of time introspecting, consumed only information I could learn from, and put myself through uncomfortable situations.

I did everything just to shake off the old me and become someone better.

It has been a truly confronting process and I thought...

By this point, nothing would affect me in any way.

you As cliche as it might sound,

But life would keep putting you through the same test over and over again until you've truly learned your lessons.

The winter here in England must have gotten to me.

I started dating again after a long break.

All the time I spend working on myself has given me so much confidence.

I met someone, and it was all chilled and relaxed at the beginning, until I found myself slowly getting anxious,

slowly losing control as I began to crave more and more from the other person.

It was terrifying to watch my confidence crumbling before my eyes.

Then without warning, everything fell apart.

I was overwhelmed with self -doubt and frustration, and all of these made me feel very small.

I was aware of it all.

All those videos I watched and podcasts I've listened to have taught me that acknowledgement is the first step to change.

So I thought if I was self -aware and honest enough about how I feel, I could get out of the rut faster.

Everything that I was experiencing felt like a betrayal of the progress I've made over the years.

I hate to see myself being out of control.

drowning in negativity and self -pity, and feeling like I'm not enough.

So I subconsciously rushed to be on the other side, just so that I could feel happy in myself again.

Thank you.

And that had only made things worse.

the more I try to resist the pain, the more it persists.

I couldn't understand why it cut me so deep until I began to uncover what was really hidden beneath the surface.

Thank you.

- Thank you.

If there's anything I'm good at, it would be my ability to be extremely honest with myself.

The reason why I was so upset was not really because of losing this person.

but it was more of an attack on the persona I have built up over the years.

The strength and confidence I worked so hard to cultivate, turned out to be far more delicate than I imagined. for so long.

I had convinced myself that I had overcome my insecurities and fears, that I had become immune to rejection and disappointment.

But in reality, I just buried those feelings beneath a thin layer of self -assurance.

no matter how much I try to change or escape from it.

At my core, I'm still a child who desires to be loved and validated.

who is still healing from the wounds left by those who never intended to hurt me years and years ago.

Thank you.

All this time seeking approval and acceptance from others was my attempt to compensate for the lack in my younger self.

but no amount of external validation could ever fill the void, unless I start to offer myself the unconditional love I crave.

as I took time to reflect, I realized I don't love myself enough.

I have been selectively loving only the parts of me that I'm proud of.

The moments of confidence, the accomplishments, and the times when I met or exceeded my own expectations.

but I secretly rescind or even feel ashamed of the part that I'm not.

the part that struggles and falls short.

the part that desires approvals and validation As much as I'm aware of her presence, I had never listened to or truly accepted her.

being excessively self -critical in the name of perfectionism and self -improvement, invalidating my emotions and masking them with toxic positivity because I'm scared

that if I give in to these negative feelings and show my insecurities to the world, I also be admitting that I'm weak and incompetent.

Bye.

- Okay.

- If only I could give myself the same love and kindness and compassion I have for others.

I probably wouldn't struggle as much.

I used to think self -love was just about taking care of ourselves.

or the ability to withstand loneliness and establish independence.

But then I've slowly come to understand that self -love means so much more than warm baths, long walks, or solo dates.

is not just the awareness but the full acceptance of our incompleteness and imperfectness.

Thank you.

just like love and joy and happiness.

Sadness, frustration, fear, doubt and shame are all part of what it is to be a human being.

And to truly love ourselves is to allow space for them without judgement or rushing to the emotional exit.

to hold ourselves with immense warmth and acceptance, and to trust the ability to overcome obstacles and grow from our experiences even when it's not easy.

Instead of feeling ashamed, I'm starting to make peace with my insecurities and embrace them with open arms.

Yes, I want people to like me.

But each day, I'm learning to let go of the need for external validation.

shifting the focus back to myself, prioritizing my needs and setting boundaries.

At times, I still fail or feel anxious and nervous, but that's okay.

I don't have to keep a perfect record.

As long as I keep showing up, that's all that matters.

Bye.

While self -love begins with our internal dialogue

and recognizing our self -worth is nurtured and reinforced through our connections with those around us.

As contradictory as it might sound, We don't learn to fully love ourselves in isolation.

because we don't exist in isolation.

After all, we are inherently social beings, wired for connection and belonging.

Okay.

True self -love isn't about self -reliance or self -sufficiency.

It's about recognizing our interconnectedness with others and allowing ourselves to be vulnerable in their presence.

Knowing that we are not on this journey alone, we learn to extend the same compassion, understanding, and forgiveness for others to ourselves.

And by showing up as our authentic selves with flaws and imperfections, we open up space for supportive and meaningful relationships that uplift and inspire us.

Thank you.

you Loving yourself is a process that requires patience and understanding.

There are going to be days when you feel like you've made tremendous progress.

and others when you find yourself slipping back into old patterns of self -doubt and criticism.

But just like all the good things in life, growth takes time.

There's no need to rush.

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You are already doing great as you are.

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And the world keeps spinning round.

102

I'll be spinning you round.

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call.

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Not a smile, not a smile. while in Paris.

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本課程概述

在這堂課中，您將透過分析一段影片的內容來加強您的英語口說能力。本文將專注於情感詞彙的理解與應用，並幫助您提升影子跟讀技巧。透過模仿這段影片中的語速和語調，您將能更自信地交流自己的感受，並理解在不同情境中的表達方式。

關鍵詞彙與短語

自我反省 (introspection)
變化 (change)
長期休息後再次約會 (dating again after a long break)
自我懷疑 (self-doubt)
未能控制 (losing control)
克服不安全感 (overcome insecurities)
渴望被愛 (desire to be loved)
真誠地面對自己 (being honest with oneself)

練習技巧

為了在這堂課中獲得最佳效果，建議您使用影子跟讀技術，這在英語影子跟讀社群中非常受歡迎。選擇一段長約30秒到1分鐘的影片，並仔細觀察說話者的語速、語調和情感表達。在開始跟讀之前，您可以先聽一遍，熟悉其內容和情感。然後隨著影片聲音的播放，逐句模仿說話者的發音與語調。

特別注意如何用語氣來表達情緒，例如在提到“自我懷疑”時，您可以適當地放慢語速，並在句子結尾時加重語氣，讓聽者感受到您的情感。這種方法不僅提高您的語言能力，還能增強您的情感表達。

記住，影子跟讀不是簡單的重複，而是深入理解和內化所學的內容。您可以在適合的 shadowing site 上練習，或與朋友一起進行 shadowspeaks，這將有助於提高您的聽力和口語能力。透過不斷練習，您將能更自在地分享自己的情感與故事。

影片中的語法

說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：

結構	影片中的用法
現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事	I've been · has been · has given
被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的	was really hidden · be loved · is nurtured

什麼是跟讀法？

跟讀法 (Shadowing) 是一種有科學依據的語言學習技巧，最初開發用於專業口譯員的培訓，並由多語言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。這個方法簡單而強大：您在聽英語母語原聲的同時立即大聲重複——就像是一個延遲1-2秒緊跟說話者的影子。與被動聽力或語法練習不同，跟讀法強迫您的大腦和口腔肌肉同時處理並模模擬實的講話模式。研究表明它能顯著提高發音準確性，語調，節奏，連讀，聽力理解和口語流利度——使其成為雅思口語備考和真實英語交流最有效的方法之一。

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