Shadowing Practice: Stop Explaining Yourself to Everyone | Mel Robbins #Shorts - Learn English Speaking with Video
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- Stop trying to make everyone else understand your choices.
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Let them misunderstand you.
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Let them think you're wrong, misguided or strange.
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Let them think it's cringy, because you're not responsible for making people understand.
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You know, like I keep telling you, there's something in life that you will never be able to control, And that's other people.
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What they think, what they do, what they believe, whether or not they understand what's going on or they're questioning you.
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That means you cannot control what another person thinks about you, about what you're doing, about what you're wearing,
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about your career moves, you will never, ever, ever, ever be able to control that, The only person your decisions need to make sense to is you.
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See, the things that you feel called to do, the changes that you want to make.
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the goals that you have.
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the things on your bucket list, They're all for you.
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They're not supposed to make sense to other people.
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Oftentimes, What I've found is that when you make changes in your life, it's the people who are closest to you that don't understand why you're changing.
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So when your family or friends are questioning you and they don't understand you, they are questioning you from their point of view.
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They're loving you from their point of view.
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They're seeing your decision through their fears, their limits, their life experiences.
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And you're going to want your partner to understand.
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You're going to want your parents to understand.
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You're going to want everybody in your life to get on board
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and be excited about your new morning routine or the fact that you want to become an influencer, that you're going to change your marriage, you're going to get divorced, or you're going to move to a different country.
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Or here's the big one.
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You choose not to have children.
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every holiday, like clockwork, somebody has to ask.
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So, um, You think you're gonna change your mind? as if I've decided not to have children is not a respectable answer.
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you can explain yourself until you're blue in the face.
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But no one will ever fully get you.
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and you can't control whether or not they ever do.
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So what does this mean?
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Whatever their assumptions and worries are about what you're doing, that's not your job to manage.
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Save your energy for living your life not defending it.
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Thank you.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “Stop Explaining Yourself to Everyone” videosuna dayanıyor. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 31 cümle ve 404 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 2:12 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 184 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %93’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığını takip etmek kolay.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 8 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| defend fiil | /dɪˈfɪnd/ | savunmak, korumak |
| divorce isim | /dɪˈvɔːs/ | boşanma |
| assumption isim | /əˈsʌm(p).ʃ(ə)n/ | varsayım |
| bucket isim | /ˈbʌkɪt/ | kova |
| respectable sıfat | [ɹɪˈspɛk.tə.bl̩] | saygıdeğer, saygın |
| influencer isim | /ˈɪnflu.ənsə(ɹ)/ | influencer |
| misguided sıfat | /ˌmɪsˈɡaɪdɪd/ | yanlış yönlendirilmiş |
| misunderstand fiil | /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/ | yanlış anlamak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- Let them think you're wrong, misguided or strange.
- They're loving you from their point of view.
- You're going to want your parents to understand.
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, they're, don't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 25 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: influencer /ˈɪnflu.ənsə(ɹ)/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: clockwork /ˈklɑkwɝk/, cringey /ˈkɹɪnd͡ʒi/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; defend, divorce, assumption gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.