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Fans love Sherlock Holmes for his ability to notice things that most people ignore.
Người hâm mộ yêu thích Sherlock Holmes vì khả năng nhận ra những chi tiết mà hầu hết mọi người đều bỏ qua.
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I was wondering, maybe later, when you're finished.
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You weren't wearing lipstick before.
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I, uh...
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While Sherlock is a fictional character, there are ways you can learn to read people in real life to better understand what they're thinking
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and feeling without them saying a word.
và cảm nhận được mà họ không cần nói một lời nào.
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No individual read will be foolproof, but together, they can start to paint a picture for you.
Không có lần đọc riêng lẻ nào là hoàn toàn chính xác, nhưng khi kết hợp lại, chúng sẽ bắt đầu tạo ra một bức tranh tổng thể cho bạn.
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Not unlike how Sherlock deduced that John Watson had recently served overseas.
Không khác gì cách Sherlock suy luận ra rằng John Watson vừa mới phục vụ ở nước ngoài.
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Yesterday, I said Afghanistan or Iraq.
Hôm qua, tôi đã nói là Afghanistan hoặc Iraq.
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The haircut, the way you hold yourself says the military, no tan above the wrists.
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If your lips are really bad when you walk, you don't ask for a chair when you stand like you've forgotten about it.
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It's an action, suntan, Afghanistan, Norway, Iraq.
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Since the goal is to help you be more charismatic, we'll focus on reading someone's interest, comfort level, and emotions.
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We'll also go over how you can use this to improve your dating life, career, or friendships.
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While you may never match Sherlock Holmes' detective skills, you can certainly beat him in that.
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I don't have friends.
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Let's start with the easiest thing, reading other people's interest.
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The first place to focus is an obvious one, the direction of their gaze.
Điểm đầu tiên cần tập trung là một điều hiển nhiên, đó là hướng nhìn của họ.
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Most of us do this unconsciously already when we're the ones in conversation.
Hầu hết chúng ta đều đã làm điều này một cách vô thức khi chúng ta là người đang tham gia vào một cuộc trò chuyện.
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You can tell when someone's interested because they maintain eye contact, and you can tell someone is losing interest as their gaze starts to wander.
Bạn có thể nhận ra khi ai đó đang quan tâm vì họ duy trì giao tiếp bằng mắt, và bạn cũng có thể biết ai đó đang mất hứng thú khi ánh mắt của họ bắt đầu lảng đi.
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Where most people don't apply this is when they're observing other people interacting.
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For instance, let's say you're at a party or networking event, and you see someone you want to get to know.
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If you see them looking around a room while somebody talks to them, That's a good sign that they're bored or uncomfortable and would welcome it if you approach their conversation.
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For an over-the-top example from real life, watch Tom Hardy lose interest while Leo answers this interview question.
Để có một ví dụ thực tế cực kỳ ấn tượng, hãy xem Tom Hardy mất hứng thú trong khi Leo trả lời câu hỏi phỏng vấn này.
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These men actually did this and we and within the context of...
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If this were a social event, that'd be a sign that he's open to a different conversation.
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The second thing you want to get better at reading is body language.
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Specifically when it comes to interest, take note of the direction someone's feet are pointing.
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We subconsciously want to point our bodies towards people we have interest in, but most people have learned not to be obvious if they like someone, and so they resist that urge.
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Almost no one tries to consciously control the direction of their feet, which means the feet act like a compass, pointing towards people we're interested in.
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This works for people who are standing as well.
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If you're standing in a group of people, keep an eye out for where people point their feet
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and you'll get a clue as to who is more or less interested in you.
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After engaging someone in conversation, the next thing you'll want to do is read their comfort level.
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This is useful because some people are too polite to express discomfort, but if you can spot it, then you can save a conversation before it goes poorly.
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Some common signs of discomfort are crossed arms, looking down, fidgeting, or shifting your stance.
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But the sign that most often gets ignored is a rigid body.
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Here's an exaggerated example from Suits.
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I'm alive.
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While we'd all hopefully notice that one, you'd be surprised how often people ignore this sign when it's more subtle.
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So let's say you're trying to make a sale, or you've just put your arm around somebody on a first date.
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If their body language stiffens and you continue to push forward, you'll likely make a bad impression.
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But if you notice and ease off, then you still have a chance to establish trust and rapport, and potentially form a great relationship.
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The next level of reading someone is learning to read their emotions.
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Sherlock sometimes goes to unrealistic lengths to read emotions, like in this clip where he explains how he knew Irene wasn't faking her crush on him.
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Because I took your pulse.
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In real life emotions can be harder to read than interest
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or comfort level because it's the area people are most skilled at hiding
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So the question is how do you get a read on someone's emotions when they're actively trying to be unreadable?
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Three areas that give away key details are the face throat and chest
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The first thing to look for is a micro expression on the face
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That's an involuntary expression that only lasts for a moment.
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Sherlock is a master at catching these small changes Learning how to read every single micro expression would take serious training,
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but just being aware enough to look for them gives you a leg up on reading people.
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Because even if you don't catch what the emotion is, seeing a micro expression instantly tells you two things.
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One, something just triggered an emotion so strongly that it wasn't possible to repress it completely.
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Two, because the person didn't allow the emotion to be expressed, you know it's a reaction that the person wants to hide.
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For a real life example, watch Robert Downey Jr. go through a range of micro-expressions in his infamous Channel 4 interview.
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Notice how because he's promoting a movie, he keeps trying to return to a positive face, but he can't hide the other emotions from briefly appearing.
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I'd really like to ask you about a quote you gave to the New York Times.
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And I don't want to pry, so if you don't want to talk about it, that's fine.
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But what you said to the New York Times once was...
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This was a clue to the interviewer that he's entering sensitive territory.
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Unfortunately for him, he was not good at reading Robert that day, so he plowed on and started to ask about his time in prison.
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That question did not go over well and led to the following tense exchange.
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Watch for two things.
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First, Robert makes a good read about the interviewer's nervousness based on his leg.
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And second, Robert's mouth drops when the guy starts to speak again at the end of the clip.
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No, I'm not agreeing.
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Your foot's starting to jump a little bit.
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You better get to your next question.
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You, um...
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We'll come back to this interview again in a minute when we talk about the chest.
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But first, the second area that gives you information about what someone is feeling is their throat.
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Specifically, watch for a hard swallow.
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If you see someone start to swallow their spit more frequently or more noticeably, that is almost always a sign of nerve.
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This is a very reliable sign of nervousness
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and it can also be helpful when you're trying to figure out if someone is lying.
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Although not every hard swallow is a sign of dishonesty.
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The third area that can cue you into someone's feelings is their chest.
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If you see someone's breathing shift from their belly to their chest, that is a sign that they're trying to hold in a negative emotion.
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For example, watch Robert Downey Jr. at the end of this interview as he tries to hold in his anger.
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You've talked in other interviews again about your relationship with your father
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and the role of all of that in the dark periods you entered, and taking drugs and drinking and all of that.
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You can see his chest starts to rise and fall more noticeably as he gets heated.
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Unfortunately, the interviewer is so wrapped up in what he's saying
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that he doesn't read the signs until it's too late and Robert walks out mid-interview.
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So those are six things specifically you can watch for if you want to get better at reading someone's interest, comfort, and emotions.
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But there's one last thing that surprises most people.
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If your goal is to improve your charisma, then the most important person to get good at reading is yourself.
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Look at me, I'm afraid, John.
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Afraid.
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Specifically in areas like social situations or work meetings, pay attention to any time you form a strong positive or negative opinion about someone.
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For example, let's say you're in conversation and catch yourself thinking, wow, I really like this person.
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That's your cue to think back to what they just did or said in the few seconds prior, and consider if it's something you can do yourself going forward in conversation.
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That said, if you want a list of charisma best practices so you don't have to rely solely on reading yourself, I highly, highly recommend How to Win Friends and Influence People.
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The nice thing about Audible is you can listen to it while you're doing things like run errands or doing chores.
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So no matter how busy your day is, you're always able to find time to learn and grow.
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Either way, I hope that you enjoyed this video and I look forward to seeing you in the next one.
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Video Này Dành Cho Ai?
Video này phù hợp cho những người học tiếng Anh ở cấp độ từ trung bình đến nâng cao, đặc biệt là những ai muốn cải thiện khả năng giao tiếp và đọc vị người khác. Nếu bạn đang tìm kiếm những cách để hiểu được cảm xúc và sự quan tâm của người khác mà không cần họ phải nói ra, video này sẽ mang lại cho bạn những kỹ năng hữu ích. Ngoài ra, nếu bạn muốn nâng cao sự tự tin trong các cuộc trò chuyện xã hội, đây chắc chắn là một nguồn tài liệu tuyệt vời để luyện nghe nói qua video.
Các Từ và Thành Ngữ Đáng Chú Ý
- Read people: Đọc vị người khác - khả năng hiểu được tâm tư, cảm xúc của ai đó chỉ qua ngôn ngữ cơ thể và ánh mắt.
- Body language: Ngôn ngữ cơ thể - các hành động không lời mà con người thể hiện, giúp bạn hiểu được cảm xúc thực sự.
- Comfort level: Mức độ thoải mái - cảm giác của một người trong một tình huống giao tiếp nào đó.
- Eye contact: Giao tiếp bằng mắt - một yếu tố quan trọng cho thấy sự quan tâm và chú ý trong cuộc trò chuyện.
Cách Để Phát Âm Đúng
Để phát âm tiếng Anh chuẩn trong video này, bạn nên chú ý đến cách nhấn nhá và ngữ điệu của người nói. Thực hành shadow speech bằng cách lặp lại theo từng câu của video. Hãy chú ý đến những âm tiết mà người nói nhấn mạnh và cố gắng bắt chước cách họ diễn đạt cảm xúc qua giọng nói. Điều này không chỉ giúp bạn luyện nói tiếng Anh hiệu quả mà còn cải thiện khả năng nghe của bạn thông qua những tương tác tự nhiên trong cuộc hội thoại.
Hãy dành thời gian để thực hành trên một shadowing site, nơi bạn có thể nghe lại và thực hành theo các cuộc đối thoại đa dạng, từ đó phát triển khả năng giao tiếp của mình. Bằng cách này, bạn sẽ trở nên tự tin hơn trong việc giao tiếp tiếng Anh và sẵn sàng tham gia vào những cuộc trò chuyện phức tạp hơn.
Ngữ pháp trong video
Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:
| Cấu trúc | Trong video |
|---|---|
| Thì hiện tại hoàn thành have/has + quá khứ phân từ — việc đã xảy ra nhưng còn liên quan đến hiện tại | you've forgotten · have learned · you've just put |
| Câu bị động be + quá khứ phân từ — nhấn vào việc xảy ra, không phải người làm | is read · are crossed · be expressed |
| Mệnh đề quan hệ who / which + mệnh đề — thêm thông tin về người hoặc vật | feet, which means · people who are · anyone who wants |
Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?
Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.