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This is you.

You have all the knowledge in your mind.

Now you are presenting to people who in your mind,

in your mind, they are senior and they potentially have more knowledge than you

and they have some sort of authority or leverage over you.

What do I mean?

If you do a bad job, if you give a bad explanation, you are going to embarrass yourself in front of them.

They will think you're not that smart.

They will not trust you as much anymore.

They decide your career, whether you get promoted, whether you get a pay raise.

So you have a lot hanging in the air.

So in your mind, what you start to do is you start to question yourself.

why do you do this you're thinking I know my stuff

but these people are more senior than me what

if they know something that I don't know what

if I think I know the right answer but

when I say it it's actually not the right answer

and I'm going to make a fool of myself

so now in your mind what you're doing is you're trying to manage risk

if I say something will I say the right thing

Will they find out that it's not actually the right thing?

What if I think this is the right thing, but it's not?

So you're trying to, you're looking for some sort of safety in this situation.

So you're scared.

I think I know my stuff, but if I say it out loud, they don't like me.

All of a sudden, they think I'm stupid and I might lose status.

This fear of being wrong, this fear of people will find out that I don't actually know, it holds you back.

So then you have the words, but all of a sudden when they come out, you start hedging the words like,

yeah, so maybe we could try this.

Like I had a little bit of a look on this thing and maybe, you know, one of the things we could try.

Notice the language tends to soften.

What I'm doing is I'm not committing to my words.

So instead of saying, I've looked at the data.

This is what we should do.

This is me committing.

I have looked at the data.

This is what I think we should do.

I have high conviction in what I'm saying.

But if I had the same knowledge, but I'm afraid I might be wrong, then the words come out differently.

Yeah, so maybe this is one thing we could consider.

Of course, if you have other plans, that's okay.

So I look into the data, and I'm thinking, what if we try to do it like this?

Can you see the difference?

So what am I trying to do?

I'm trying to soften the impact of what I'm saying.

Because if I don't, if I'm not committing to what I'm saying too much, then you might not think I'm stupid.

You might think, oh, well, it was just an idea Yasser was sharing.

He wasn't going all in on it.

So even if he's wrong, whatever, it's okay.

But if you go all in on the idea, all in on the thought, you say something with high conviction, and you tend to be wrong,

then people will think, well, this was a terrible idea that Yasser came up with.

We can't trust him for anything ever again.

So that's why people don't commit when they speak.

And when they don't commit, they hold back, they shrivel, and it doesn't come out with certainty, okay?

So this is my first theory, that you are speaking to superiors, and you keep second -guessing that whatever you're saying might not be right,

or these people are the judge of the information.

They know better than me, so I just need to give enough information to appease them.

Like, is this right?

Is this right?

Am I saying this the right way?

You're trying to put out a fire before you even know there's a fire.

A lot of us do this.

When we go into a job interview, we're very defensive.

When you go into a pitch, we're very defensive.

So two things you can do about this.

One is realize some things you know about more than the other people.

They want you to speak because they weren't there.

So if you were a project manager, you were leading a project, they want to know, hey, what's happening with this project?

They have no knowledge of it.

So they're relying on you.

So take that as a privilege that, hey, they're asking for my opinion.

I want to share that with them.

Number two is you want to ask yourself, why does your mind believe that there is a risk in you opening your mouth?

Now, this might very well be the case

because maybe your boss is the type of person who you open your mouth

and all of a sudden you say something to them and they don't like it and they publicly berate you.

Now you're afraid of embarrassment so you don't open your mouth anymore.

Maybe there's no psychological safety built in there.

So maybe there's a real consequence of opening your mouth.

For a lot of people, what also happens is this, talking to superiors, there's something called authority anxiety,

which is you have an anxiety of people who are superior than you in the social hierarchy.

So this could be your parents, this could be your teacher, this could be your boss.

You're just afraid of disappointing people who have higher authority because if they don't like you,

it might affect your place in society and you might not have a job, you might get fired, you might get embarrassed, right?

For a lot of people, this develops early in their childhood.

early in their childhood.

So maybe your parents were, hey, do this, or I'm not going to love you,

or get good grades, or you're not going to get my approval, whatever it might be.

So now, as a kid, we have learned, I must bow down to my parents.

I know for me, in my culture, your parents can never be wrong.

Even if they are wrong, you cannot say it because it's you speaking up to authority.

So your parents are always right.

Your teachers are always right.

Your boss is always right.

Whoever's the eldest, most superior, they're always right.

What does this train you to do?

It trains you to always appease to superiors.

So now whenever I'm opening my mouth, I'm second guessing it all the time.

So superiors, ask yourself why this is happening.

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Why is it that you feel all frozen up and your conviction goes out the window, even though you know your material?

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And that's one reason.

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The second reason could be a more technical reason.

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This could be, maybe you have no fear of superiors.

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Maybe you have no issue around authority.

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Maybe it's the tone with which you say it.

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Maybe it's the tone with which you say it.

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It's simply, you just don't know what certainty sounds like.

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So, for example, if I said,

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I am wearing a black shirt today.

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let's say this is what i'm this is a sentence

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that i want to say

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if i were to say it with 100 conviction how would i say as

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if i know for a fact

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that my shirt is black i would say

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i am wearing a black shirt today did you sense any hesitation in my voice did you sense

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that i'm trying to appease you in any way did you sense that i'm scared about my opinion hopefully not

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I'm wearing a black shirt today.

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But what if I said, I'm wearing a black shirt today.

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I am wearing a black shirt today.

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Almost sounds like a question and I'm telling you something.

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So you can tell me if I said it right and I can say all the right things.

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But if I say it like this,

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then it sounds like I'm asking a question and I'm not sure myself and I want you to tell me.

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So can you see how the tone affects how much conviction you speak with?

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So number one, superiors.

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Number two, your tone.

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Do you sound like you believe in what you're saying?

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And number three, I'm just going to leave this last one in there.

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Your face.

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Now, you might think, what do you mean, Yasser?

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You want me to get plastic surgery just so I can have more conviction?

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Maybe.

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I don't know.

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No, don't do that.

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Your face, the face that you make can affect how much conviction you speak with.

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So for example, if I were to say, let's say the same phrase.

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If I were to say, I'm wearing a black shirt.

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If I just make my face, I give myself a giant grin before I speak like this.

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I look like a psychopath, but go with me.

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You're like this.

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And then I say, I am wearing a black shirt.

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Notice how the words just came out with high energy, with high excitement.

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If I look like this, I'm wearing a black shirt.

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Notice how I didn't purposely try to lower my volume.

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It just followed my face.

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Whatever my face did, my volume and my body followed.

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So for a lot of people, when they speak with conviction, if someone's asked, if they're asked a question,

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hey, tell me about this presentation or tell me about this project,

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And immediately, yeah, so they lead with the face so the other person can just read their face right away.

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All the conviction goes out the window.

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So one of the first things you want to do if you want to speak with high conviction is, this is very strange, don't move.

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Especially in a job interview, right?

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When you're asked a question, some people have this deer in headlights look where it looks like they were just shocked by the question.

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So I'm in a job interview and I'm just sitting and the interview asks, so why should we hire you opposed to the other five candidates?

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Well, you know, there's many reasons that you should, can you just see it on my face?

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How am I going to speak with conviction when I'm making that face?

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So the first thing you do is, why should we hire you?

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That's a good question.

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There are three reasons that I believe that I can do X, Y, Z.

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Notice how slow and controlled the movement is.

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I'm not frazzled by your question.

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So these are three things that you can look into that will affect the conviction with which you speak,

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your relationship with superiors and people of authority, the tone with which you speak, and the face you make when you're speaking.

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Aditya hope that answered your question.

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If you're in a leadership role and you struggle to speak up in meetings and presentations and be perceived as a leader, this is for you.

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Because knowing is not the same as doing.

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Этот урок разговорной практики построен на видео «Employees Who Speak Like This Become Executives Fast». Чаще всего повторяются слова: speak, conviction, superior, shirt, wearing. В этом видео 174 предложений и 2013 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 10:57. Говорящий говорит быстро, около 184 слов в минуту, поэтому звуки часто сливаются и сокращаются. 87% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка, поэтому лексика простая.

Ключевая лексика этого видео

15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

Слово	Произношение	Значение
conviction существительное	/kənˈvɪkʃən/	убеждённость, убежде́ние
superior прилагательное	/sʊˈpɪɹ.i.ɚ/	вышестоя́щий, вы́сший
tone существительное	/ˈtəʊn/	тон
commit глагол	/kəˈmɪt/	вверя́ть
sudden прилагательное	/ˈsʌd.ən/	неожи́данный, внеза́пный
anxiety существительное	/æŋˈzaɪ.əti/	беспоко́йство, трево́га
hire глагол	/ˈhaɪɹ/	брать напрока́т, взять напрока́т
defensive прилагательное	/dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/	оборони́тельный, защи́тный
presentation существительное	/ˌpɹɛzn̩ˈteɪʃn̩/	представле́ние, презента́ция
freeze глагол	/ˈfɹiːz/	замерза́ть, замёрзнуть
scare глагол	/skɛɚ/	пуга́ть, испуга́ть
transform глагол	/tɹænsˈfɔɹm/	преобража́ть, преобрази́ть
certainty существительное	/ˈsɝtn̩ti/	уве́ренность
shock существительное	/ʃɔk/	уда́р
explanation существительное	/ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/	объясне́ние, разъясне́ние

Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите

Слово	Произношение	Значение
come out глагол	/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/	выходи́ть, вы́йти
find out глагол		узнава́ть, узна́ть
go out глагол		выходи́ть, вы́йти
check out глагол		проверя́ть, прове́рить
come up with глагол		придумывать, приходить в голову
hold back глагол		сде́рживать, сде́рживаться
put out глагол		выкла́дывать, вы́ложить

Фразы, которые стоит повторять

Короткие законченные фразы из видео, которые пригодятся в повседневном разговоре:

What if I think this is the right thing, but it's not?
Can you see the difference?
Am I saying this the right way?
What does this train you to do?
Do you sound like you believe in what you're saying?

Грамматика в этом видео

Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

Конструкция	В видео
Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас	I've looked · have looked · have learned
Придаточные определительные who / which + предложение — уточнение о человеке или предмете	people who in · person who you · people who are
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делает	were just shocked · be perceived

Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание

Говорящий использует 73 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например I'm, you're, don't. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.

Звуки «sh» и «zh»: conviction /kənˈvɪkʃən/, presentation /ˌpɹɛzn̩ˈteɪʃn̩/, shock /ʃɔk/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/
Длинные слова — следите за ударением: superior /sʊˈpɪɹ.i.ɚ/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/

Звуки, трудные для русскоязычных:

/h/ — лёгкий выдох, а не русское «х»: hire /ˈhaɪɹ/, hierarchy /ˈhaɪ.ə.ɹɑː(ɹ).ki/, hedge /ˈhɛd͡ʒ/, hesitation /ˌhɛzɪˈteɪʃən/
Звонкие согласные в конце слова — не оглушайте их: defensive /dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/, freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, privilege /ˈpɹɪv.(ɪ.)lɪd͡ʒ/, oppose /əˈpoʊz/

Как заниматься с этим видео

Прослушайте всё видео один раз молча и выпишите незнакомые слова.
Начните со скорости 0,75×, повторяйте предложение за предложением и вернитесь к обычной скорости, когда станет легко.
Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как conviction, superior, tone.

Что такое техника Shadowing?

Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.

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