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One of the hardest parts about leadership is giving people hard news.
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I've been a CEO, I know.
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Sometimes you have to say that your job isn't here anymore.
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Sometimes you have to tell whole organizations that there's going to be a new structure to things.
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And hard news is, well, it's hard.
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It's very important that leaders understand that that is not a good argument for avoiding hard things.
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now one of the biggest problems that we have is is misunderstanding empathy
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and compassion they're not the same thing empathy is to feel somebody else's pain
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and when you're motivated entirely by empathy it becomes a really hard thing to do to do these difficult things
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and and you might even be handcuffed and unable to do them
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and you'll wait too long when it gets even more damaging to other people compassion is different the greatest leaders are compassionate
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Compassion has four parts to it.
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Understanding a problem, feeling enough of the pain such that you can actually be in the place of the person affected,
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being able to be rational about what needs to be done, and then having the courage to do it.
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That's what it comes down to.
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Being a truly compassionate leader is what people need.
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Their greatest bosses are compassionate, not empathetic.
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And why are they compassionate?
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Because they love people enough to do what actually needs to get done.
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You know what that is?
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That's just leadership at the end of the day.
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Let's say you're in a situation where you need to downsize your employee base by about 20%.
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And that means a bunch of people, including people that you've worked with for years, are actually going to lose their jobs.
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If the only tool in your arsenal is empathy,
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that's going to be overwhelmingly hard and maybe something you're going to put off and that's going to make things worse.
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Compassion is one in which you understand exactly why this needs to be done.
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You put yourself in the place of other people such
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that you can understand what they're going through You have a plan for how you're going to transmit this information
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And actually what you're going to suggest to people who are affected
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And you have the courage to get it done quickly because that's in everybody's interests
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That's fundamentally superior in every way
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Now one quick aside on this
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How do you grease the skids a little bit?
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The Buddhists talk about having a loving -kindness meditation
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I'm a religious person and one of the things
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that I've done is I pray for people before I have to do a hard thing.
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I pray for the people that I'm actually going to affect in this particular way, and I pray for the courage.
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And so whatever your technique is, meditation, visualization, prayer, I would recommend doing that actually before you have the interactions with people as well.
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So don't misunderstand what I've said here.
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I'm not saying not to have empathy.
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I'm saying not to have unaccompanied empathy.
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Empathy is only step number two of four steps.
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And when you shear it off from an understanding of the problem, an understanding of what needs to be done and the courage to do it,
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then it becomes problematic because it's on its own.
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It's an unaccompanied virtue, and as a virtue, it can quickly turn into a vice.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu konuşma dersi “Deliver Hard News with Compassion” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: empathy, compassionate, compassion, courage, pray. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 45 cümle ve 570 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 2:58 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 192 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %85’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 12 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| empathy isim | /ˈɛmpəθi/ | empati |
| courage isim | /ˈkʌ.ɹɪd͡ʒ/ | cesaret, yüreklilik |
| compassion isim | /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ | şefkat |
| pray fiil | /pɹeɪ/ | dua etmek, Hüda'ya dua etmek |
| technique isim | /tɛkˈniːk/ | teknik |
| superior sıfat | /sʊˈpɪɹ.i.ɚ/ | üstün |
| prayer isim | /pɹɛɚ/ | dua, namaz |
| kindness isim | /ˈkaɪnd.nəs/ | incelik, kibarlık |
| grease isim | /ɡɹis/ | yağ |
| misunderstand fiil | /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/ | yanlış anlamak |
| handcuff fiil | /ˈhændˌkʌf/ | kelepçelemek |
| shear fiil | /ʃɪɚ/ | kırkmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- You know what that is?
- How do you grease the skids a little bit?
- I'm not saying not to have empathy.
- I'm saying not to have unaccompanied empathy.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | be handcuffed · be done · are affected |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | I've been · you've worked · I've done |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, I'm, I've gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 18 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/, empathetic /ˌɛmpəˈθɛtɪk/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, compassionate /kəmˈpæʃənət/, meditation /mɛdɪˈteɪʃn̩/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, rational /ˈɹæʃ(ə)nəl/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: compassionate /kəmˈpæʃənət/, superior /sʊˈpɪɹ.i.ɚ/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, problematic /ˌpɹɑ.bləˈmæt.ɪk/, overwhelmingly /ˌəʊ.vəˈwɛl.mɪŋ.lɪ/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: pray /pɹeɪ/, prayer /pɹɛɚ/, problematic /ˌpɹɑ.bləˈmæt.ɪk/, grease /ɡɹis/, transmit /tɹænsˈmɪt/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, compassionate /kəmˈpæʃənət/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, rational /ˈɹæʃ(ə)nəl/, problematic /ˌpɹɑ.bləˈmæt.ɪk/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; empathy, courage, compassion gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.