쉐도잉 연습: How To Know Yourself - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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Bye you Bye you Many of us are wandering the earth,
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accomplished in many ways, capable of fulfillment at many points,
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but with a fundamental wound that stops us from becoming who we truly might be.
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We don't quite know who we Oh.
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It isn't, of course, that we can't remember the basics of our biographies.
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We're unsure around two things in particular: Firstly, we don't have a stable sense of what we're worth.
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And secondly, we don't have a secure hold on our own values, or judgements.
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Without knowing who we are, we tend to have particular trouble coping with either denigration or adulation.
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If other people decide that we are worthless or bad, there will be nothing inside us to prevent us from swallowing their verdicts in their entirety,
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however wrongheaded, extreme or unkind these might be.
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We'll be helpless before the court of public opinion.
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We'll always be asking other people what we deserve before seeking inside for an answer.
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Lacking an independent verdict, we also stand to be unnaturally hungry for external praise.
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The clapping of an audience will matter to us far more than would ever be wise.
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We'll be prey to rushing towards whatever idea or activity the crowd happens to love.
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We'll laugh at jokes that aren't funny, uncritically accept undeserving concepts that are in vogue,
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and neglect our truer talents for easy, popular wins.
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We'll trail public opinion slavishly, constantly checking the world's whims rather than consulting an inner barometer in order to know what we should want,
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feel and value.
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We need to be kind on ourselves.
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No one is born with an independent ability to know who they are.
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We learn to have an identity because, if we're blessed, in our early years, someone else takes the trouble to study us with immense fairness,
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attention and kindness, and then plays us back to us in a way that makes sense and that we can later emulate.
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years and use as a defence against the distorting verdicts from hurried or ill -intentioned others.
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Knowing who one is, is really the legacy of having been known properly by somebody else at the start.
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This early identity building tends to unfold with apparently innocuous but life -saving small steps.
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"That must really have hurt," a parent might say in response to an upset, thereby validating an infant's own feelings.
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Or "It's okay not to feel happy on your birthday," the parent might say at another point,
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delicately upholding an infant's less typical response to certain events.
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Ideally, the child isn't just known, he or she is also interpreted as likeable.
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A good parent offers generous interpretations.
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They're on the side of the child
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and are always ready to put the best possible gloss on moments of ill temper
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or of failure which forms the basis upon which resilient self -esteem can then later emerge.
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Now, that's the ideal, but it can, of course, go very wrong and often does.
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A parent may offer mirroring that is out of sync with the reality of the child.
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"Look, who's such a happy little boy or girl?" a parent might insist, when actually the opposite is clearly the case,
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thereby badly scrambling the child's ability to connect with their own emotions.
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Or the parent might only lend the child a very harsh, punitive way of interpreting itself,
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repeatedly suggesting that the child is ill -intentioned or no good.
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Or the parent may simply not show very much interest in the child, focusing themselves elsewhere.
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so that the child grows up with a feeling that not only is it not worth cherishing, but also because it hasn't been adequately seen and mirrored,
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that it doesn't even quite exist.
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a feeling of unreality is the direct consequence of emotional neglect.
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Realizing that we lack a stable identity is a sobering realization.
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But we can, with a fair wind, start to correct the problem at any point.
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We need to seek out the help of a wise and kindly other person perhaps a good psychotherapist, someone who can study us closely,
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mirror us properly, and then validate what they see Through their eyes, we can learn to study, perhaps for the first time,
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how we really feel, and take seriously what we actually want.
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We can, by being witnessed generously,
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more often learn to take our own sides and feel increasingly solid inside trusting ourselves more than we trust the crowd,
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feeling that we might be able to say no,
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not always swaying in the wind and feeling that we are in possession of some of the ultimate important truths about us.
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having come to know ourselves like this, we will be a little less hungry for praise, a little less worried by opposition,
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and a lot more original in our thinking.
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we will have learned the vital art of both knowing and befriending who we, really are.
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Our Know Yourself cards can help us to better understand the deepest, most elusive aspects of ourselves.
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Follow the link now to learn more.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 C1 수준 말하기 레슨은 영상 “How To Know Yourself”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: parent, feeling, ourselves, learn, verdict. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 58개와 단어 843개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 5:45입니다. 화자는 분당 약 146단어의 일정한 속도로 말해서 섀도잉하기에 편한 속도입니다. 단어의 82%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| verdict 명사 | /ˈvɜː.dɪkt/ | 평결 |
| neglect 동사 | /nɪˈɡlɛkt/ | 소홀히 하다, 등한히 하다 |
| interpret 동사 | /ɪnˈtɜː.pɹɪt/ | 해석하다 |
| barometer 명사 | /bəˈɹɑ.mə.tɚ/ | 기압계 |
| unfold 동사 | /ʌnˈfoʊld/ | 펴다 |
| cherish 동사 | /ˈt͡ʃɛɹɪʃ/ | 아끼다 |
| clap 동사 | /klæp/ | 박수를 치다 |
| wander 동사 | /ˈwɑndɚ/ | 돌아다니다, 헤매다 |
| helpless 형용사 | /ˈhɛlplɪs/ | 무력하다 |
| worthless 형용사 | /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/ | 가치없는, 보잘것없는 |
| secondly 부사 | /ˈsɛk.(ə)ndli/ | 둘째로 |
| swallow 동사 | /ˈswɑ.loʊ/ | 삼키다 |
| immense 형용사 | /ɪˈmɛns/ | 거대한 |
| biography 명사 | /baɪˈɑɡɹəfi/ | 전기 |
| lend 동사 | /ˈlɛnd/ | 빌리다 |
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
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| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | is born · been known · isn't just known |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | have hurt · hasn't been · have learned |
주의할 발음
화자는 we'll, don't, we're 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 18번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “th” 소리: thereby /ðɛɹˈbaɪ/, worthless /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: adulation /ˌæd͡ʒəˈleɪʃən/, slavishly /ˈsleɪvɪʃli/, cherish /ˈt͡ʃɛɹɪʃ/, realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/, accomplish /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: adulation /ˌæd͡ʒəˈleɪʃən/, barometer /bəˈɹɑ.mə.tɚ/, delicately /ˈdɛlɪkətli/, undeserving /ˌʌndɪˈzɝvɪŋ/, unnaturally /ʌnˈnæt͡ʃ(ə)ɹəli/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: befriend /bəˈfɹɛnd/, fulfilment /fʊlˈfɪl.mənt/, unfold /ʌnˈfoʊld/, fairness /ˈfɛɚ.nəs/, biography /baɪˈɑɡɹəfi/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: verdict /ˈvɜː.dɪkt/, validate /ˈvæl.ɪ.deɪt/, elusive /ɪˈl(j)u.sɪv/, punitive /ˈpju.nɪ.tɪv/, slavishly /ˈsleɪvɪʃli/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: resilient /ɹɪˈzɪl.jənt/, undeserving /ˌʌndɪˈzɝvɪŋ/, realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 보통 속도로 한 문장씩 섀도잉하고, 화자의 리듬과 맞을 때까지 반복합니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, verdict, neglect, interpret 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법
쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.