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How do you start a conversation in English?
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Well, if you want to learn some natural English small talk so that you can start conversations easily,
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you're in the right place.
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Hello, this is Keith from the YouTube channel English Speaking Success, and I also run the website, The Keith Speaking Academy.
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And I'm here.
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Why am I here?
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Oh yes, I'm here, well, not only to help you study English,
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but also I really want to help you speak better English and become a better communicator in English.
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Yes, that's what I would like to help you with today and the days coming.
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And I think that's why small talk is important, right?
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Because when we meet people, we often talk about unimportant things, what we call trivial things,
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like the weather, And this is just a way to break the ice, or it's a conversation starter.
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It's a way to get to know the person better sometimes.
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Sometimes it's just a way of saying hello.
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Sometimes it's just one sentence and then bye -bye.
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Other times you want to get to know the person better
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and find some common ground that you can talk about and discuss.
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So I wonder, what do people in your country talk about
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when you meet somebody or you meet a new person for the first time?
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Let me know.
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Leave me a comment down below.
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So in this video, we're gonna be talking about three typical situations where you might use small talk,
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the common topics that you might talk about, and I'll show you some natural,
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easy to use phrases that you can be using and put into action well, right away.
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Also, I have a bonus at the very end of the video because, you know, I think around the world,
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by and large, people talk about the same things in small talk.
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However, it does depend sometimes on the culture and the country.
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There are certain topics that are more popular and there are certain topics which are taboo.
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Taboo just means you shouldn't talk about them.
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So the bonus is at the end of this video, I'm going to tell you some of the taboo topics for British people, right?
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The things that you shouldn't say to British people when you're engaged in small talk.
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And just before we move on, I'd like to say a big, big thank you to Cambly who are sponsoring this video.
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I'm gonna tell you more about that later in the video.
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Right now, let's get into that first situation where we may be using small talk.
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Okay, so the first scenario, if you like, is parties and social events.
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So maybe it's a birthday party or an office party, Christmas party, social events, you know, could be a wedding, could be a conference,
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a networking event, that kind of situation where you're meeting people and you want to start conversations to get to know them better.
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Now, there may be different things you can talk about.
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And I think you can talk about location, about food, about people, about travel and hobbies,
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to name a few, probably others.
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But let's have a look at each of these in turn.
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So first of all, the first one, when you're kind of wanting to break the ice,
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the location can be a good thing to talk about location can be either where you are now or where you're from.
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So for example, I mean, if you're at a conference, for example, have you been here before?
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It's a classic sentence, right?
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A classic question.
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And also, what brings you here today?
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Which is nicer than why did you come here today?
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Which sounds a bit, why did you come here today?
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Sounds a bit strong.
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What brings you here today?
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It's much softer and politer.
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And of course you can ask about where people are from.
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So where are you from?
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Where are you from?
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And just be careful with this one because sometimes people say, you know, I come from, well, for example, I come from China.
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And the other person says, oh, right.
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I met a woman once from China, a Mrs. Wang.
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Maybe you know her?
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It's like, come on, seriously?
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And I think what happens is people are so eager to find this common ground and keep the conversation going.
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They say rather silly things, right?
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It's much better sometimes just to say, well, if you've never been there, right?
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Well, oh, I've never been to China.
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What's it like?
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Absolutely.
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And that's great because then you give them the opportunity to talk about where they're from.
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People love talking about where they're from and their hometown.
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Okay, location.
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Next, food.
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If you're at an event where they have put on some food
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or they've given you some food or a dinner or a buffet or a finger buffet, of course you can say, how's the food here?
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How's the food here?
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Great.
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Or even, it's a nice spread, isn't it?
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It's a nice spread, isn't it?
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A spread is a meal because you spread the food on the table.
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That's a meal, typically like a buffet.
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It's a nice spread, isn't it?
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Isn't it is a very high level of English.
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This, we call it a question tag.
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It is a nice spread, isn't it?
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is quite difficult to use.
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And many learners of English find it very challenging to use naturally.
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If you can, great, you'll show you've got a high level.
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If not, you can just say, right.
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It's a nice spread, right?
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Next, people.
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So you can talk about the other person or you can talk about yourself or about other people at the event, okay?
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The first thing I always do when I introduce myself at parties is I keep it super simple.
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Hello, I'm Keith.
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And I say my name really slowly.
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And that's it, because people are not going to remember.
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I mean, you'll be lucky if they remember your name.
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But some people go, hello, my name's Keith.
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I'm an English teacher.
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I'm from Manchester.
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And at I'm living in Spain, and all the other person hears is and that's it,
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that's all they get.
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So keep it super simple.
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Hello, I'm, right?
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Now, if it's for example, Matthew's party or Matthew's wedding, you could say, so how do you know Matthew?
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Nice question.
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And then if you're digging deeper to get to know the person better, and what do you do?
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Even deeper?
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How did you get into that?
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How did you get into that?
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Meaning, how did you start that work or that job or that activity?
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People love to tell their life story about how they started a business or how they started working in a certain field.
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It's a great question.
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How did you get into that?
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And if things are going well and you're digging even deeper, right, you could say, and what are you working on at the moment?
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What are you working on at the moment?
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Notice the stress.
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What are you working on at the moment?
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Try.
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Yeah, that's great.
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And again, people love to tell you about the projects they're doing or what's keeping them busy at the moment.
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It's a really nice way to dig deeper into the conversation.
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Now, that's going quite deep.
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You may at times want to switch and make things lighter, a bit more lighthearted, right?
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So you You could talk about travel,
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for example, and you could say, been anywhere nice recently? Been anywhere nice recently?
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Great, good.
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So been is been, it should be, have you been anywhere nice recently or lately?
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But actually in natural spoken English, we drop the have you and just say been, been anywhere nice lately?
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Been anywhere nice lately?
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You'll see this more as we go through this video.
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Or maybe you could talk about hobbies.
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right?
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And a nice question for this is, what do you get up to when you're not working?
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What do you get up to when you're not working?
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To get up to is to do something in a relaxed way, if you like, right?
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Great question.
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Not what is your hobby, which sounds a bit bookish and formal.
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What do you get up to when you're not working?
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Try it.
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That's it.
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Lovely.
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So all of these topics can be great things to talk about when you're at a party or social event.
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Right, the next situation is not quite as serious as the first one.
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This is actually much more the kind of conversation where it's a hello, goodbye, right?
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Very, very brief, small, really small talk.
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So this may be when you bump into your neighbour.
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Bump into means to meet by chance or by accident.
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When you're maybe queuing in line or queuing in line, waiting in line or queuing, maybe at a shop, in the supermarket, at the bus stop.
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We love queuing at the bus stops in England, honestly.
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Maybe it's with a taxi driver or a shop assistant, just something very brief to be friendly, basically.
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So the classic here is to talk about weather, right?
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So you could say, nice day, isn't it?
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Nice day, isn't it?
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Remember the isn't it, you could just say, right, right?
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Nice day, right?
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And notice instead of saying, it's a nice day, we drop that and just say, nice day.
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Nice day, right?
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Nice day, right?
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Lovely day, right?
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Very simple, right?
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Or if you're in England, looks like it's going to rain.
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It looks like it's going to rain or drop the it, looks like it's going to rain.
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Very simple.
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Weather, classic, you can't go wrong with weather.
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More generally, and a very easy question to ask, but can open up simple conversations.
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How's everything?
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How's everything?
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How's everything?
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Which is better than how are you?
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Because how are you?
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People just say, fine.
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And that's it.
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How's everything?
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Maybe you're asking about the business, if they're a shop assistant, or if it's a neighbour, about things in their life,
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and maybe they want help with something.
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How's everything?
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It's just going to open up a little bit more of the conversation, if you want to. So that's it.
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That's Brief Encounters for really, really small talk.
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Let's move on.
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Right now, let's get back into some small talk and how to start conversations easily.
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Now, the final situation is actually for people that you already know.
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So this could be friends, colleagues, classmates, and I call this at the water cooler because traditionally that's the kind of the,
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it's where you go for water.
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It's where you gather around, chat, have a chit chat, bit of small talk, killing time maybe,
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but it could be down the pub or at the coffee bar.
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And sometimes you're not sure how to start a conversation or you're not sure what to talk about.
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And well, these phrases, tried and tested, guaranteed to work.
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They're very easy, easy to use.
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Try them out.
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So first one is this one.
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seen any good films lately?
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Notice instead of have you, you can just say seen any good films lately?
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Notice the intonation.
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Seen any good films lately?
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Try.
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Great.
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And that is great because most people watch films
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and would love to tell you about a film that was great
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and they recommend or a film that was terrible and they don't want you to watch.
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Similarly, you could say, read any good books lately?
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Or been to any good gigs lately?
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Been to any good gigs lately?
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A gig is just a concert, right?
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Have you been to any good concerts lately?
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Been to any good gigs lately?
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So you can see that formula.
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You can use it for magazines, books, concerts, TV series, all of that kind of stuff, okay?
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Next, talking about the weekends, classic, dead easy to do.
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What did you get up to at the weekend?
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What did you get up to at the weekend?
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Remember, get up to is when you do something in a relaxed way normally.
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So that's a nice way to ask about what they did at the weekend
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You could also ask about the future
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Got any plans for the weekend?
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Got any plans for the weekend?
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Notice I'm dropping have you got any plans for the weekend?
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Great, the weekends are really easy to talk about for most people
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Now, you could, again, you could focus the conversation on work or study.
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And again, you could say very simply, what are you working on at the moment?
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Or what are you studying at the moment?
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Easy conversations.
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People often like to tell you about the projects that they hate, but they have to do,
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or the exciting project they're doing and they really want to tell you about and spread their passion about what they're doing.
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It's a nice question to ask.
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The final or third part of these questions is all about, I was going to say gossip.
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It's not exactly gossip.
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Let's call it news, news slash gossip.
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And this is where, because people love to talk about gossip, right?
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People love to talk about what other people are doing, new places, new things.
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And there are lots of questions you can ask here.
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For example, have you been to that new Spanish bar, right?
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Or even, you can drop the have you, been to that new Spanish bar yet?
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Been to that new Spanish bar yet?
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Have you met the new sales manager yet?
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Have you seen the new product we're launching?
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So all of these questions about have you been, have you seen, have you met, have you heard, Have you read the new policy about,
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all of these are great questions because they're talking about recent news, recent events, finding out or exchanging your opinions about it.
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And it's kind of touching on gossip almost.
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I don't really like gossip, but it's a very, very easy conversation starter, right?
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Let's call it news slash gossip.
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So lots of things you can ask about.
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Great, let's move on.
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Right, and as promised, here's that bonus, all about those taboo topics, the things you shouldn't say to British people.
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Now...
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To be clear, right, this is when you don't know the people at all.
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I think these are the kind of topics and phrases you wouldn't ask or say when you're meeting complete strangers, right?
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It's just not safe.
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Of course, as you get to know people and you know them better, you could start asking these questions.
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But let's assume this is for people you don't know.
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The first kind of taboo topic or delicate topic is family, interestingly, right?
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Because you may think that's, you can ask about family, about, you know, are you married?
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Do you have any children?
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What does your wife do?
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And probably 30 years ago, these would be innocent questions.
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But I think in today's climate, in Britain, they can be delicate with strangers, right?
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So for example, are you married?
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but what if that person has just got divorced or they've had an engagement that has failed?
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And you may be touching on a delicate topic.
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Likewise, well, what does your wife do?
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But maybe they've just lost their job.
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They've been laid off.
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They're unemployed.
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And again, that's a really delicate topic you probably don't want to touch.
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And again, what does your wife do? asking me, but maybe a man is married to a man
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and they have a husband and they could feel a bit uncomfortable if you assume that they're automatically married to a woman.
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So these are things that can be delicate, I think, with complete strangers.
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I would steer away from, move away from this topic until you get to know them better.
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I think otherwise it can be a minefield
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Another topic is age, right?
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Generally, we don't talk about age.
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Women more so, but men also possibly.
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So the question, how old are you?
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Probably not appropriate, right?
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And another one around work and salary.
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In Britain, we tend not to talk about money too much.
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We're not very comfortable talking about money.
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So you certainly would not ask, how much do you earn?
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Which is an interesting question.
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I've been asked that question in a few occasions when I've traveled around the world and it's always shocked me.
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And I feel really uncomfortable talking about it.
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So be aware that in the UK, you may make people uncomfortable if you ask them, how much do you earn exactly?
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Okay.
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Another couple of topics that I would stay away from are politics and religion, right? politics.
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Sometimes you're tempted to say, oh, I can't believe what your president did the other day.
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And maybe you are shocked by what the president of that country did.
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But you don't know if the other person maybe is a big advocate of their president and they love their president.
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And by you could easily offend their culture, their country, their sense of nationalism, if you attack their president.
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And likewise in religion.
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Again, I've had several occasions on my travels where people have said, hello, my name's Tom.
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Do you believe in God?
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Well, that for me is a very personal question and one that I'm happy to discuss with people I know very well.
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But with somebody I don't know, I would find that inappropriate.
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So these are some taboo topics and questions, especially in Great Britain.
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That's it.
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Fantastic.
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You've done a great job today with your practice.
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So we've been looking at small talk, looking at parties and social events.
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Then we talked about neighbours and queuing and taxi drivers and also small talk at the water cooler with your friends, colleagues or classmates.
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And finally, of course, we were looking at taboos, kind of questions that you shouldn't ask if you're in the UK.
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I hope all of this has been useful.
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I hope it's helping you not only to learn English, but to become an English speaker.
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I'd love for you to change your mindset from being a student to becoming an English speaker
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and becoming a much more effective communicator in English.
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And I think understanding areas of small talk is a small but important step in that direction.
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Do remember, subscribe and turn on notifications to find out about upcoming videos from me.
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Do remember to go and check out Cambly if you really want to become.
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an effective communicator in English, go and find a teacher on Cambly, qualified native English speaking teachers who can really help you.
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There are lots of different plans, but you can check out a 15 minute lesson for free.
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Or if you go for any of the 12 month plans, you'll get 40 % discount.
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Go and check it out.
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Go down below and click on the links to find out more.
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In the meantime, keep practicing, stay safe, and I will see you just around the corner in the next video.
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Thank you for spending this time with me, my friend.
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See you very soon.
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Bye -bye.

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Этот урок разговорной практики построен на видео «English Small Talk: Start Conversations Easily». Чаще всего повторяются слова: English, topic, conversation. В этом видео 341 предложений и 3552 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 25:36. Говорящий держит ровный темп — около 139 слов в минуту, удобный для шедоуинга. 89% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка, поэтому лексика простая. Вопросов здесь 106 из 341 предложений, так что это хорошая тренировка вопросительной интонации и коротких ответов.

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15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

СловоПроизношениеЗначение
topic существительное/ˈtɑpɪk/те́ма, предме́т
gossip существительное/ˈɡɑsɪp/спле́тня, спле́тни
delicate прилагательное/ˈdɛl.ɪ.kət/хру́пкий, делика́тный
queue существительное/kju/о́чередь
bonus существительное/ˈbəʊ.nəs/пре́мия, бо́нус
discount существительное/ˈdɪskaʊnt/ски́дка, диско́нт
phrase существительное/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/фра́за, выраже́ние
stranger существительное/ˈstɹeɪnd͡ʒɚ/незнако́мец, незнако́мка
uncomfortable прилагательное/ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/неудо́бный, некомфорта́бельный
gig существительное/ɡɪɡ/конце́рт, музыка́льное представле́ние
hobby существительное/ˈhɑ.bi/хо́бби, увлече́ние
neighbour существительное/ˈneɪbɚ/сосе́д, сосе́дка
buffet существительное/bəˈfeɪ/буфе́т, сто́йка
earn глагол/ɝn/зараба́тывать, зарабо́тать
meal существительное/ˈmiːl/еда́, пи́ща

Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите

СловоЗначение
get up to глаголвытворя́ть, вы́творить
find out глаголузнава́ть, узна́ть
check out глаголпроверя́ть, прове́рить
go back глаголвозвраща́ться, возврати́ться
go down глаголспуска́ться, спусти́ться
lay off глаголувольнять

Фразы, которые стоит повторять

Короткие законченные фразы из видео, которые пригодятся в повседневном разговоре:

  • What brings you here today?
  • How did you get into that?
  • What are you working on at the moment?
  • What do you get up to when you're not working?
  • Have you seen the new product we're launching?

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Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

КонструкцияВ видео
Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчасyou've never been · I've never been · have put
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делаетThey've been laid · I've been asked · are shocked
Придаточные определительные who / which + предложение — уточнение о человеке или предметеtopics which are · teachers who can
Вероятность с «might / may» might/may + глагол — возможно, но не точноmight use · might talk · may be

Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание

Говорящий использует 94 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например you're, I'm, they're. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.

  • Звуки «sh» и «zh»: shock /ʃɔk/, occasion /əˈkeɪ̯ʒən/, passion /ˈpæʃən/, traditionally /tɹəˈdɪʃ.ə.nə.li/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
  • Длинные слова — следите за ударением: uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, similarly /ˈsɪm.ə.lə.li/, traditionally /tɹəˈdɪʃ.ə.nə.li/, inappropriate /ˌɪnəˈpɹoʊpɹi.ət/

Звуки, трудные для русскоязычных:

  • /w/ — губы округлены, это не /v/: qualify /ˈkwɑ.lɪ.faɪ/, likewise /ˈlaɪkˌwaɪz/
  • /h/ — лёгкий выдох, а не русское «х»: hobby /ˈhɑ.bi/, hometown /ˈhoʊmˌtaʊn/
  • Звонкие согласные в конце слова — не оглушайте их: phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, gig /ɡɪɡ/, dig /dɪɡ/, likewise /ˈlaɪkˌwaɪz/, colleague /ˈkɒliːɡ/

Как заниматься с этим видео

  1. Прослушайте всё видео один раз молча и выпишите незнакомые слова.
  2. Повторяйте предложение за предложением на обычной скорости, пока ваш ритм не совпадёт с ритмом говорящего.
  3. Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как topic, gossip, delicate.

Что такое техника Shadowing?

Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.

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