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We tend to be generous towards people who can't get over someone.

It sounds romantic, if a little sad.

The love affair happened a year ago but still the ex's thought remain loyal to every detail of the story.

Maybe they've moved to another country.

Perhaps they've married someone else.

Maybe, they're dead. None of it matters.

The most famous fictional love affair of the 18th century Goethe's Sorrows of Young Werther is a hugely sympathetic study of this kind of romantic fixation.

The hero, Werther, an ardent young student falls passionately in love with a charming and beautiful woman named Charlotte.

She likes him but doesn't love him back in part because she's married to someone else.

There are plenty of other nice women who single, attractive, and interested in Werther.

But, he has no time for them.

The only one he cares for is Charlotte.

The one who doesn't care for him.

Eventually, unable to have Charlotte's love Werther decides to kill himself.

The novel proved hugely charming to its original audiences.

Who praised it for its deep and pure understanding of love This sort of unrequited passion so often celebrated in literature and society more generally may sound generous, and in that sense, loving, but, a devotion to an unrequited situation is in truth, a clever way of ensuring that we won't end up in a relationship at all.

That we won't ever need to suffer the realities of love.

Fixation on an absent other allows us to be publicly committed to love while privately sheltered from any of its more arduous demands.

The fear of love maybe motivated by a range of factors A squeamishness around hope, a self-hatred which makes someone else's love feel eerie, or a fear of self revelation which breeds a reluctance to let anyone into the secret part of ourselves.

The fears are serious and deserve sympathy.

But they are generally not the issues that the romanticly fixated person ever wants to discuss.

They prefer to keep the spotlight on the unresponsive ex, rather than on their motives for continuing to dwell on them.

The way to unfixate is not to tell ourselves that we never like the person.

It's to get very serious and specific about what the attraction was based on.

And then to come to see that the qualities we had admired in the ex must necessarily exist in the other people who don't have the set of problems that make the original relationship impossible.

The careful investigation of the character of one person, paradoxically but very liberatingly shows that we could in fact, also love someone else.

This is not an exercise in getting us to give up on what we really want.

The liberating move is to see that what we want has to exist in places beyond the pain enducing character we originally identified it in.

We should gently recognize that being dissapointed and abandoned has its curious satisfactions.

It is in an emotional sense, a very safe position to be in indeed.

Yet true love isn't to be acquitted with pining for an absent figure.

It means daring to engage with a truely frightening prospect.

A person who is available and thinks despite our strong background supposition to the contrary that we're really rather nice.

That is perhaps, the only sort of challenge that properly deserve the lyrical and grand word ROMANTIC.

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這節 C1 級別的口語課以影片“How to Get Over Someone”為素材。影片中反覆出現的詞有：Werther, romantic, fear。這段影片共有 34 個句子、569 個單詞可供跟讀。講話部分時長為 3:34。說話人語速自然，每分鐘約 160 個詞，接近日常對話。只有 81% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞，詞彙難度較高。

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中最難的 15 個單詞，附發音和釋義：

單詞	發音	釋義
unrequited 形容詞	/ˌʌn.ɹɪˈkwaɪ.tɪd/	無報答的 /無報答的, 單相思 /單相思
hugely 副詞	/ˈhjuːd͡ʒli/	大大
absent 形容詞	/ˈæb.sn̩t/	缺席
ardent 形容詞	/ˈɑɹdənt/	熱烈 /熱烈, 熱心 /熱心
arduous 形容詞	/ˈɑɹ.d͡ʒu.əs/	艱苦 /艱苦, 艱巨 /艱鉅
fixate 動詞	/ˈfɪkseɪt/	固定, 使穩定 /使穩定
frighten 動詞	/ˈfɹaɪ.tən/	嚇唬 /嚇唬, 嚇 /嚇
liberate 動詞	/ˈlɪbəˌɹeɪt/	解放
reluctance 名詞	/ɹɪˈlʌktəns/	勉強
supposition 名詞	/ˌsʌpəˈzɪʃən/	假定, 設想 /設想
dwell 動詞	/dwɛl/	居住, 住
motivate 動詞	/ˈmoʊ.tɪ.veɪt/	激發
devotion 名詞	/dɪˈvoʊʃən/	奉獻 /奉獻
sympathetic 形容詞	/ˌsɪm.pəˈθɛt.ɪk/	同情的
spotlight 名詞	/ˈspɒtˌlaɪt/	聚光燈 /聚光燈

影片中的語法

說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：

結構	影片中的用法
定語從句 who / which + 從句 — 補充說明人或事物	people who can · women who single · one who doesn
被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的	was based · being dissapointed · be acquitted
現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事	they've moved · they've married

需要注意的發音

說話人用了 11 次縮略和弱讀形式，例如 doesn't, they've, won't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。

“th” 音: sympathetic /ˌsɪm.pəˈθɛt.ɪk/, sympathy /ˈsɪm.pəθ.i/
“sh” 和 “zh” 音: fixation /fɪksˈeɪʃən/, passionately /ˈpæʃənətli/, supposition /ˌsʌpəˈzɪʃən/, devotion /dɪˈvoʊʃən/, fictional /ˈfɪkʃənəl/
長單詞——注意重音位置: unrequited /ˌʌn.ɹɪˈkwaɪ.tɪd/, paradoxically /ˌpɛɹəˈdɑksɪkli/, passionately /ˈpæʃənətli/, supposition /ˌsʌpəˈzɪʃən/, sympathetic /ˌsɪm.pəˈθɛt.ɪk/

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先完整聽一遍影片，不要開口，記下不認識的單詞。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟讀，熟練之後再回到正常速度。
錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比，特別注意 unrequited, hugely, absent 這類單詞。

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