跟读练习: How to Love Your Work - 通过视频学习英语口语
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In a perfect world, when it came to choosing an occupation, we would have only two priorities in mind: Firstly, to find a job that we enjoyed.
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and secondly to find a job that paid us enough to cover reasonable material needs.
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But in order to think so freely, we would have to be emotionally balanced in a way that few of us actually are.
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In reality, when it comes to choosing an occupation, we tend to be haunted by three additional priorities: we need to find a job
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that will pay not just enough to cover reasonable material expenses, but a lot more besides: enough to impress other people,
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even other people we don't like very much.
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We also crave to find a job that will allow us not to be at the mercy of other people, whom we may deep down fear and distrust.
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And, we hope for a job that will make us known.
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esteemed, honoured and perhaps famous, so that we will never again have to feel small or neglected.
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Needless to say, these three additional requirements make working life hugely more complicated
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and unhappy than it would otherwise have needed to be.
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No wonder we may get stuck choosing what to do.
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Rather than being able to focus on the jobs that we are passionate about and that we would intrinsically enjoy, we have to twist our natures to appease extrinsic imperatives.
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There is no way that we could, for example, work as a kindergarten teacher, a psychotherapist, a carpenter or a cook.
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Our psychological drive to impress, to have power over others and to be known to strangers, preclude such relatively modest choices from the outset.
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The state of our psyches means that we have to aim for far more stellar careers, even in fields we don't really much like,
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and we may have to work much harder than is good for our health or our families.
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We are prone to be constantly panicked because the bar for failing is so much higher.
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A slight wind of disapproval from the public might be experienced as appalling.
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A bit less money than the astronomical sum we made last year will register as fateful Under pressure, we may make unwise and hasty moves.
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We might cut corners, involve ourselves in risky schemes, and not give our work the time and calm it needs.
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What would enable us to make the right career choices is something that seems, on the face of it, to have nothing to do with work at all.
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Love a profound experience of love in both childhood and adulthood.
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A child who is properly loved is a creature who doesn't need to prove itself in any significant way.
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It doesn't have to excel at school, dazzle acquaintances or shore up a parent's fragile sense of esteem.
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It may do well at school anyway, but because it enjoys the work, not because it has to boost a parent.
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It can find its way to its own pleasures.
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It doesn't need to amaze because it's special enough just by existing.
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It may end up working extremely hard, but it will do so because it is passionate, not because it craves applause.
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It can concentrate on doing a job very well, while unimpeded by any worries as to whether it will be known in a hundred years or to people in another city.
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It can potter away in obscurity, deriving gratification from the business at hand.
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An experience of adult love further enhances the sense of security we need.
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When someone properly loves us, their patience, concern and tenderness make us feel rooted and welcome on the earth.
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It doesn't really matter if no one knows who we are
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and if there's very little left over at the end of the month.
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"Two people who are in love will be happy to sleep on a park bench," wrote DH Lawrence.
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an idea which may not be literally true, but which conveys well enough what room for manoeuvre love gives us in relation to our material priorities.
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It follows that when people crave power, fortune and fame, it isn't greed that's driving them, but an anguished feeling of being unloved,
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for which we can feel enormous compassion.
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They may look like winners ; they are in reality unhappy victims.
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Excessive achievements are the legacy of an emotionally damaged sense that it isn't enough just to be.
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It may have become second nature to us to try to fix emotional wounds through our career choices and exploits.
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We may not even realise what we're up to.
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We should dare to ask: what might I have done with my life if I had felt properly loved from the start?
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And we may have to acknowledge, with tears in our eyes, how different our path would have been,
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how many genuine ambitions we sacrificed in the name of shoring up a sense of acceptability we should have had from infancy.
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The most astonishing career achievements will never compensate anyone for the lack of love they've suffered.
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Work cannot fix a deficit of love.
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we should enjoy work on its own terms, and in another part of our lives,
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mourn and seek redemptive substitutes for the love we originally lacked.
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How to Get On with Your Colleagues provides a guide to the most difficult aspect of the workplace: creating harmonious working relationships.
为什么要通过这个视频练习口语？
在选择职业时，我们常常面临着多重压力，这在视频中得到了深刻的分析。理解这些压力不仅对职业选择至关重要，还能帮助我们更好地表达自己的感受。通过模仿视频中的语句，学习者可以改善他们的英语口语表达，增强自信心，并找到自己真正热爱的工作。此外，此视频也提供了一个英语影子跟读的绝佳机会，让学习者在真实的对话情境中练习口语技巧。
语法与表达在语境中的应用
- “需要找到一份能支付合理物质需求的工作” - 这里的“需要”表达了强烈的必要性，适用于讨论期望与职责。
- “例如，作为幼儿园老师、心理治疗师等” - 此句展示了多重选择的可能性，学习者可模仿该结构来讨论自己的梦想职业。
- “缺乏爱所导致的情感创伤” - 使用“所导致的”与“情感创伤”这样的组合，帮助学习者理解复杂的情感状态，这在抒情表达时非常有效。
常见发音陷阱
视频中有几个词语发音较为复杂，容易导致学习者发音不准确。例如：“职业（occupation）”的正确发音是（ˌɑː.kjʊˈpeɪ.ʃən），而很多人可能会将其简化。另一个常见的词是“赞美（applause）”，其发音为（əˈplɔːz），注意元音部分的发音。此外，这段视频涉及的不同情感表达也可以帮助学习者提高英语发音，从而在雅思口语练习中表现得更加自如。
通过shadowing site的练习，学习者可以不断地调整自身的语调和发音，专注于更自然的口语表达。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。