शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Why We Worry All the Time and How to Cope - YouTube के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें

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It's not an illustrious category to belong to, of course, but there are plenty of us at least.
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It's not an illustrious category to belong to, of course, but there are plenty of us at least.
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We worry about work, money, being left, illness, disappointing, over-promising, madness, disgrace, just to start the list.
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We worry in the early hours, we worry on holiday, we worry at parties, and we worry all the time while we're trying to smile and seem normal to good people who depend on us.
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Thus, it can feel pretty unbearable at moments.
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A standard approach when trying to assuage our blizzard of worries is to look at each in turn and marshal sensible arguments against their probabilities.
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But it can, at points, also be helpful not to look at the specifics of every worry and instead to consider the overall position that worry has come to occupy in our lives.
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There is a hugely fascinating sentence on the topic in an essay by the great English psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott.
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The catastrophe you fear will happen has in fact already happened.
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When we worry, we're naturally fixated on what will occur next.
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It's the future with its boundless possibilities for horror that is the natural arena for exploration by our panicked thoughts.
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But in Winnicott's unexpected thesis, something else is revealed.
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The disaster that we fear is going to unfold is actually behind us.
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There is a paradox here.
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Why do we keep expecting something to happen that's already happened?
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Why don't we better distinguish past from present?
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Winnicott's answer is that it's in the nature of traumatic events from childhood not to be properly processed and as a result, like the dead who have not been adequately buried and mourned, to start to haunt us indiscriminately in adulthood.
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For example, we may panic that we are about to be humiliated and shamed.
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There are no particularly strong grounds for this in objective reality, but we are utterly convinced nevertheless because this is precisely what happened to us when we were tiny and at the hands of a parent.
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Or we worry intensely that we are about to be abandoned in love, not Not because our partner is in any significant way disloyal, but because someone who once looked after us at a very vulnerable point definitely was.
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A benefit of understanding how much our worries owe to childhood is a new sense that it isn't so much the future we should be distressed about as the past.
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We can replace dread and apprehension with something sadder yet ultimately more redemptive.
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Mourning.
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we can feel profoundly sorry for our younger selves as an alternative to being panicked for our future selves.
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Appreciating the childhood legacy of worries, we also stand to realise that we can adapt and improve on how we respond to what alarms us.
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If we have been well-parented, we will have been bequeathed a repertoire good moves to latch onto when crises occur.
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We know how to reach out, seek help, perhaps move away and only take as much responsibility as we are due.
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We have access to a corridor through our troubles.
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But when we have lacked this kind of tutelage, we remain in significant ways in relation to our troubles like the frightened children we once were.
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We may be tall, drive a car and sound like a grown-up, but faced with concerns, we resort to our toolkit of childlike solutions.
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We overreact, we go silent, we scream, we have little sense of other options, we feel extremely limited in our powers of protest and agency, we lose all perspective.
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To which it's appropriate, and in no way patronising, to remind ourselves of what can, in our deeper psychological selves, still be an entirely implausible thought.
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we are now adults.
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In other words, in response to the kinds of terror we knew so well at the age of four or eight, we don't have to be either as afraid or as powerless as we were.
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We can mount a direct protest, we can make an eloquent case for ourselves, we can complain and defend our position, we can rebuild our lives in a new way elsewhere.
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There are two ways to mitigate risk.
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To try to remove all risk from the world or to work on one's attitude to risk.
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Knowing that many of our fears have childhood antecedents, as do our responses to them, can free us to imagine that history won't have to repeat itself exactly.
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Adult life doesn't have to be as terrifying as our childhoods once were, and our responses to our fears can have some of the greater vigour and confidence that is the natural privilege of grown-ups.
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We'll still be worried a substantial portion of the time, but perhaps with a little less fragility and fewer burning convictions of total, upcoming catastrophe.
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इस वीडियो के साथ बोलने का अभ्यास क्यों करें?

इस वीडियो में प्रस्तुत विचारों से बोलने का अभ्यास करना विशेष रूप से फायदेमंद है क्योंकि यह हमारी चिंताओं और उनके पीछे छिपे भावनात्मक कारणों को समझने में मदद करता है। जब आप shadow speak तकनीक का उपयोग करते हैं, तो आप न केवल उच्चारण में सुधार करते हैं, बल्कि अपनी भावनाओं को शब्दों में व्यक्त करने की क्षमता भी विकसित करते हैं। यह विधि आपको यथार्थवादी बातचीत की स्थिति में रखने की अनुमति देती है, जिससे आप अपनी विचारधारा के साथ-साथ अपनी बोलने की तकनीकों को भी बेहतर बना सकते हैं।

संदर्भ में व्याकरण और अभिव्यक्तियाँ

  • Will + उसके बाद का क्रिया: "The catastrophe you fear will happen..." इस प्रकार की संरचना भविष्यकाल की चिंताओं को व्यक्त करने के लिए उपयोग होती है।
  • Present Perfect Tense: "The disaster that we fear is going to unfold..." यह अतीत की एक अप्रिय स्थिति को वर्तमान के साथ जोड़ता है, जिससे चिंता की गंभीरता व्यक्त होती है।
  • Conditional Sentences: "If we have been well-parented..." इससे हम संभावनाओं और परिणामों के बीच संबंध को स्पष्ट रूप से समझ सकते हैं, जो कि बोलने में महत्त्वपूर्ण है।

इन संरचनाओं का अभ्यास करते समय ध्यान दें कि इन्हें सही तरीके से कैसे बोला जाता है, जिससे आपकी अंग्रेजी उच्चारण में सुधार हो सके।

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वीडियो में कुछ शब्दों के उच्चारण पर विशेष ध्यान देना आवश्यक है, जैसे:

  • Catastrophe - इसमें 'cat' और 'trophy' के बीच की ध्वनि को सही से जोड़ना चुनौतीपूर्ण हो सकता है।
  • Mortality - इस शब्द में 'mor' और 'tality' के बीच के तनाव को सही तरीके से बोलना सीखें।
  • Panic - इसे सही रूप से उच्चारित करने से आपकी आवाज़ में अधिक स्पष्टता आएगी।

इन शब्दों का सही उच्चारण करना आपको न केवल स्पष्टता देगा, बल्कि इससे आपकी बातों में एक ठोस आत्मविश्वास भी आएगा। Shadow speech का अभ्यास करते समय इन शब्दों को सही तरीके से बोलने पर ध्यान देने से आपकी अंग्रेजी उच्चारण में सुधार संभव है।

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