Pratica di Shadowing: How to Make People Feel HEARD - Impara a parlare inglese con i video
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the best businesses, leaders will, on a semi-irregular basis, depending on the size of the business, it could be once a year,
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but you go out to the field or you call people up and say, how are you?
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Just checking in, wanted to see how you're doing.
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Or, I want to learn about your career ambitions.
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How did you find yourself in this profession?
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Where do you want to go?
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What are your ambitions?
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Do you have kids?
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Do you have a family?
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Tell me something about you?
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Do you like working here?
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What is something that we can do better?
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What's something that I'm not seeing?
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And some of it might be helpful and some of it might not be helpful, but the point is you'll get information that you ordinarily wouldn't get,
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and most important, they've probably never been asked before ever.
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And so simply showing up to listen or take them out for lunch and get their input about the business,
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they're on the front line.
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So they actually have a lot of customer information that you don't have.
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And so talking to them about what they're hearing, what they're seeing, what other business opportunities they think there are.
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Listening is a big thing.
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Listening is active, and listening is very difficult.
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You should be, at the end of the day of listening, you should be exhausted, right?
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Because you're not listening for words, you're listening for meaning.
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And the goal of listening is not to prove that you heard.
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The goal of listening is that they feel heard, right?
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And so you don't have to agree with everything and you don't have to like everything.
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You have to take it in.
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You can ask clarifying questions.
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But remember, they're going to take a risk to tell you something and if you receive it graciously,
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they'll tell you more and more and more and you'll develop a relationship where honesty and truth becomes the currency.
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If you're defensive or you attempt to correct or dismiss what they say,
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they'll shut down and they'll tell you what you want to hear or tell you nothing because that's the condition you created.
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And so good listening sounds like this.
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Can you tell me are there things in this business that you think that we can do better?
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And it doesn't matter if they're right or wrong.
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It's their experience.
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And you don't have to agree.
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We always say that if you have an emotional response, if it makes you angry or upset, it's probably true.
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If you feel nothing about what they said, then maybe they misunderstood, but you can still take it all in, write it down and say,
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tell me more, go on, go on, what else?
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And that's basically your entire job.
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What else go on?
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And you'll walk away the list and you'll be like, I knew these things were ready, these things I didn't know, these things, it's just a bit of a bitch fest, that's okay, everybody has that.
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You'll walk away with some information, but most importantly, they feel heard.
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Vocabolario e note di pronuncia per questa lezione
Questo video contiene 44 frasi e 520 parole da ripetere con lo shadowing. Il parlato dura 2:48. Chi parla va veloce, circa 186 parole al minuto: aspettati suoni legati e ridotti. Il 93% delle parole rientra nelle 3.000 più comuni dell’inglese, quindi il lessico è facile da seguire.
Vocaboli chiave di questo video
11 parole del video che vale la pena imparare, con pronuncia e significato:
| Parola | Pronuncia | Significato |
|---|---|---|
| helpful aggettivo | /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/ | disponibile, utile |
| defensive aggettivo | /dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/ | difensivo, difendente |
| currency sostantivo | /ˈkʌɹ.ən.si/ | valuta |
| input sostantivo | /ˈɪnpʊt/ | immissione |
| depend verbo | /dɪˈpɛnd/ | dipendere |
| honesty sostantivo | /ˈɑ.nɪ.sti/ | onestà, lealtà |
| clarify verbo | /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.faɪ/ | purificare, chiarificare |
| dismiss verbo | /dɪsˈmɪs/ | licenziare, congedare |
| fest sostantivo | /fɛst/ | fiera, sagra |
| irregular aggettivo | /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/ | irregolare |
| misunderstand verbo | /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/ | fraintendere, equivocare |
I phrasal verb che sentirai
| Parola | Significato |
|---|---|
| shut down verbo | spegnere |
Pronuncia a cui fare attenzione
Chi parla usa 26 contrazioni e forme ridotte, come they're, you'll, don't. Pronunciale nella forma breve, così come le senti.
- I suoni “sh” e “zh”: ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/, profession /pɹəˈfɛʃ.ən/, graciously /ˈɡɹeɪʃəsli/
- Parole lunghe — attenzione all’accento: importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/, irregular /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, ordinarily /ɔɹdɪˈnɛɹɪli/
Come esercitarsi con questo video
- Ascolta tutto il video una volta senza parlare e annota le parole che non conosci.
- Inizia a velocità 0,75×, fai shadowing frase per frase e torna alla velocità normale quando diventa facile.
- Registrati e confronta con l’originale, facendo attenzione a parole come helpful, defensive, currency.
Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?
Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.